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Post by annabella on Oct 23, 2015 20:17:22 GMT
A daughter of a pastor waited until marriage to sleep with her husband. No problem with that. What I find weird and creepy is her parents parading this all over social media talking about their daughter's sex life. link |
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Post by peano on Oct 23, 2015 20:21:18 GMT
Yes.
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Post by MorningPerson on Oct 23, 2015 20:21:26 GMT
Weird, gross, and inappropriate.
Gag.
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Post by smartypants71 on Oct 23, 2015 20:22:27 GMT
Yes it is weird and creepy. Why don't we just hang the marital bed sheets off the balcony like in the olden days.  |
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Post by scorpeao on Oct 23, 2015 20:24:09 GMT
very weird
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Post by bc2ca on Oct 23, 2015 20:25:49 GMT
yes, yes, yes - creepy & weird
I saw this on GMA this morning and was speechless. I'm having a hard time putting into words how weird this story was to me.
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Post by anxiousmom on Oct 23, 2015 20:27:47 GMT
I am not going to say weird. I will agree to pretty antiquated thinking (the certificate part) but if it works for their family and they are all happy, I am going to have to sit on my own bench and worry about my own little slice of the world.
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Post by KikiPea on Oct 23, 2015 20:28:57 GMT
Yes, I do.
i was a virgin when I got married, but the only person that was 100% sure that I was was me.
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Post by janeliz on Oct 23, 2015 20:30:16 GMT
Creeps me out. Very weird.
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Post by RiverIsis on Oct 23, 2015 20:33:17 GMT
Yes it is weird and creepy. Why don't we just hang the marital bed sheets off the balcony like in the olden days.  |
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Post by RiverIsis on Oct 23, 2015 20:34:40 GMT
I hate that a woman's value is being tied to her virginity.
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Post by mallie on Oct 23, 2015 20:34:28 GMT
It's always weird in a creepy way to me when parents are invested in their adult kid's sexuality. Freud would have a field day with their heads.
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Post by annabella on Oct 23, 2015 20:35:57 GMT
Yeah so she's never written a horse in her life? or another activity along that line.
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Post by lesley on Oct 23, 2015 20:38:01 GMT
If I were the daughter, I would never speak to my parents again.
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Post by rainangel on Oct 23, 2015 20:40:20 GMT
Was her husband a virgin when they married too? Was it equally important that HE was pure?
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Post by mallie on Oct 23, 2015 20:40:17 GMT
Yeah so she's never written a horse in her life? or another activity along that line. I had a friend in college from South Korea and her parents insisted that every year, she go to a gyn and have written confirmation that her hymen was still intact. She was forbidden from riding horses and bikes in case that might stretch her hymen and her eventual husband (arranged marriage to a man old enough to be her grandfather) would "send her back as damaged goods." I will never forget that. |
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Post by scrappersue on Oct 23, 2015 20:42:43 GMT
Wow. Not sure what else to say. There are lots of people who wait until their are married, but don't find the need publicize to it. Wow.
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Post by RiverIsis on Oct 23, 2015 20:43:43 GMT
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Oct 23, 2015 20:44:39 GMT
Definitely creepy. The local news asked whether it was sweet or creepy and most people who posted didn't have a problem with it. I wouldn't find it as creepy if she were giving the certificate to her husband, but I would still find it a little creepy.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2015 20:49:48 GMT
I was reared in a fairly strict Christian home, but I never promised my dad anything about my sexual activity. That was between me and God.
There are other better ways to talk about abstinence than this.
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Post by lumo on Oct 23, 2015 20:56:31 GMT
Beyond weird.
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Post by marimoose on Oct 23, 2015 20:58:17 GMT
I didn't see the story and will say to each his own. I don't know (or care) if the daughter were upset because I don't know their lifestyle and beliefs growing up and this may be a belief they still cling strongly too. Not everyone will agree. It is odd to me but I have heard odder things and this isn't much different than the Duggers lifestyle. Like anxiousmom said, i will worry about my "own slice of the world". |
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Oct 23, 2015 20:58:56 GMT
Well, different strokes for different folks and all that... but I'm still going to judge this one as inappropriate in the world according to me.
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Post by mollycoddle on Oct 23, 2015 20:59:21 GMT
Yep!
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Post by Deleted on Oct 23, 2015 20:59:36 GMT
Yes I find it weird. I have never discussed my virginity or sex life with my Dad, it's just not his business.
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Oct 23, 2015 21:04:58 GMT
I find it antiquated and odd that there is no mention of her husband's virginity.
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Post by myshelly on Oct 23, 2015 21:11:02 GMT
If I were the daughter, I would never speak to my parents again. ?? The daughter is the one who got the exam and surprised her dad with the certificate. She is the one who had the pic taken and she is the one who originally posted it on social media. |
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Post by marianne on Oct 23, 2015 21:15:07 GMT
Yeah, weird and tasteless. Not everything we do (or don't do) has to be broadcast to the world, not to mention the untold numbers of us who really don't care about her intactness.
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Post by pierkiss on Oct 23, 2015 21:39:14 GMT
Ew yes that's weird! Privacy people! His is not something you put on facebook!
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Post by Zee on Oct 23, 2015 21:45:13 GMT
All for attention. I don't care about this twat or her twat. Glad she's happy with her choice, but I can think of about 85233 things more important to bring to a marriage than an intact hymen.
And for all we know, she was blowing him nightly. LOL
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