Post by Delta Dawn on Apr 8, 2016 4:43:22 GMT
Hi I don't need this now but I want some random information. I used a spermicide cream (as recommended by my OB) many years ago and I will say I never, ever willingly used it again. The pain. Worse than a jellyfish sting.
I have tried to use lubricated condoms, too, unsuccessfully. That means monogamous sex for ______ years with no protection. (He had a vasectomy).
So in theory how do I know if I will be able to tolerate condoms with a spermicide in them if in the past they have given me such discomfort? Do they make condoms without spericide? What would I need to buy if I wanted to buy condoms?
The reason I am asking is I went for a hike today with a friend and we were talking about her exciting love life. She has dated a few new guys and told me about their relationships and where they were going in them... she then told me about the sex, which is cool. Ok.
Then I thought OMG I haven't had sex with anyone except exSO forever. If I ever wanted to get into a relationship (or not) but wanted to have sex, what do I do? I don't want to get pregnant and with 2 periods a month I don't know when I am ovulating but this can't be good. And I also don't want to get an STI or anything like that. What do middle-aged women who can't take hormonal birth control do?
I have tried to use lubricated condoms, too, unsuccessfully. That means monogamous sex for ______ years with no protection. (He had a vasectomy).
So in theory how do I know if I will be able to tolerate condoms with a spermicide in them if in the past they have given me such discomfort? Do they make condoms without spericide? What would I need to buy if I wanted to buy condoms?
The reason I am asking is I went for a hike today with a friend and we were talking about her exciting love life. She has dated a few new guys and told me about their relationships and where they were going in them... she then told me about the sex, which is cool. Ok.
Then I thought OMG I haven't had sex with anyone except exSO forever. If I ever wanted to get into a relationship (or not) but wanted to have sex, what do I do? I don't want to get pregnant and with 2 periods a month I don't know when I am ovulating but this can't be good. And I also don't want to get an STI or anything like that. What do middle-aged women who can't take hormonal birth control do?
