Country Ham
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 3,313
Jun 25, 2014 19:32:08 GMT
|
Post by Country Ham on Apr 12, 2016 0:53:20 GMT
Because people are hypocrites Many people on that affair thread are probably christians too and I'm sure there's a story with Jesus and the adulterous woman In 2016 you don't stone them, you just give them the cold shoulder at the game Using this analogy though, Christ did send her away with the instructions to sin no more. He didn't say it was OK to continue on in an adulterous relationship. The closest to what the OP brings up I have been involved with is finding out after the fact a friend cheated on their spouse. Friend did end the relationship and I continued to love her. Had she continued with the relationship I can't answer because I just don't know. I imagine it would be difficult. It's hard to be around anyone actively involved in self destructive behaviors though, even though you try it's often changed on the parts of all the parties involved.
|
|
used2scrap
Drama Llama
Posts: 6,036
Jan 29, 2016 3:02:55 GMT
|
Post by used2scrap on Apr 12, 2016 0:57:52 GMT
I can't say how I will deal with a person until I'm in that situation. As someone who has been cheated on I find it is very hurtful behavior. BUT my relationships to others don't exist in vacuums so while I'd be hurt, dissapointed my reaction in a friendship would depend in many many other factors. As for politicians all I can say ( especially now ) is that all information I have goes into what has become a complicated process of determining whom I Can live with voting for. And at the moment a random affair is pretty low on my list. ( I judged Bill Clinton harshly because of the age /power difference and the fact that he took advantage of that and any other random ceo would have been charged with sexual harassment for similar actions. ALSO I do not like how she was villainized and destroyed in public. That to me said a whole lot more about the clintons than it did about Monica Lewinsky. So Hillary Clinton was supposed to celebrate and elevate the woman who knowingly committed sex acts with her married husband? Just don't understand lumping the Cheater with his wife as "the Clintons". Which one broke a commandment?
|
|
Deleted
Posts: 0
May 7, 2024 16:09:20 GMT
|
Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 17:54:30 GMT
I can't say how I will deal with a person until I'm in that situation. As someone who has been cheated on I find it is very hurtful behavior. BUT my relationships to others don't exist in vacuums so while I'd be hurt, dissapointed my reaction in a friendship would depend in many many other factors. As for politicians all I can say ( especially now ) is that all information I have goes into what has become a complicated process of determining whom I Can live with voting for. And at the moment a random affair is pretty low on my list. ( I judged Bill Clinton harshly because of the age /power difference and the fact that he took advantage of that and any other random ceo would have been charged with sexual harassment for similar actions. ALSO I do not like how she was villainized and destroyed in public. That to me said a whole lot more about the clintons than it did about Monica Lewinsky. So Hillary Clinton was supposed to celebrate and elevate the woman who knowingly committed sex acts with her married husband? Just don't understand lumping the Cheater with his wife as "the Clintons". Which one broke a commandment? There's something in between celebrating the woman and publicly humiliating and destroying her. Not to mention that Hillary claims all sexual assault victims should be believed, but when given the chance to live that truth, she publicly humiliated and victimized them all over again. She's the hypocrite standing up there telling everyone what to do and doing something entirely different herself. As usual. Several people in this thread have stated they can forgive an affair. What they can't forgive is a political figure who tells everyone how they should think or behave and does the exact opposite themselves. That's Hillary in a nutshell.
|
|
|
Post by lucyg on Apr 12, 2016 18:17:49 GMT
So Hillary Clinton was supposed to celebrate and elevate the woman who knowingly committed sex acts with her married husband? Just don't understand lumping the Cheater with his wife as "the Clintons". Which one broke a commandment? There's something in between celebrating the woman and publicly humiliating and destroying her. Not to mention that Hillary claims all sexual assault victims should be believed, but when given the chance to live that truth, she publicly humiliated and victimized them all over again. She's the hypocrite standing up there telling everyone what to do and doing something entirely different herself. As usual. Several people in this thread have stated they can forgive an affair. What they can't forgive is a political figure who tells everyone how they should think or behave and does the exact opposite themselves. That's Hillary in a nutshell. In other words, Hillary learned the hard way ... the way many women learn it ... that her man was cheating on her and lying to her. But in her case, it was totally public, doubling, tripling, quadrupling her humiliation. She believed him (at first) and stood by him, and look where it got her. When it happens to other women, sympathy abounds. When it happens to Hillary, hatred abounds. Nice work.
|
|
Deleted
Posts: 0
May 7, 2024 16:09:20 GMT
|
Post by Deleted on Apr 12, 2016 18:32:01 GMT
There's something in between celebrating the woman and publicly humiliating and destroying her. Not to mention that Hillary claims all sexual assault victims should be believed, but when given the chance to live that truth, she publicly humiliated and victimized them all over again. She's the hypocrite standing up there telling everyone what to do and doing something entirely different herself. As usual. Several people in this thread have stated they can forgive an affair. What they can't forgive is a political figure who tells everyone how they should think or behave and does the exact opposite themselves. That's Hillary in a nutshell. In other words, Hillary learned the hard way ... the way many women learn it ... that her man was cheating on her and lying to her. But in her case, it was totally public, doubling, tripling, quadrupling her humiliation. She believed him (at first) and stood by him, and look where it got her. When it happens to other women, sympathy abounds. When it happens to Hillary, hatred abounds. Nice work. No, not in other words. In the original words. She claims sexual abuse victims should be believed. She didn't believe any of them and took it even further to trash them publicly. If she later learned better, I don't recall her apology to any of the victims she trashed and destroyed.
|
|
|
Post by lucyg on Apr 12, 2016 21:53:06 GMT
In other words, Hillary learned the hard way ... the way many women learn it ... that her man was cheating on her and lying to her. But in her case, it was totally public, doubling, tripling, quadrupling her humiliation. She believed him (at first) and stood by him, and look where it got her. When it happens to other women, sympathy abounds. When it happens to Hillary, hatred abounds. Nice work. No, not in other words. In the original words. She claims sexual abuse victims should be believed. She didn't believe any of them and took it even further to trash them publicly. If she later learned better, I don't recall her apology to any of the victims she trashed and destroyed. Jeez. I didn't even notice it was you I was responding to. Sorry.
|
|