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Post by trollie on May 27, 2016 3:08:47 GMT
When your judgy pants are feeling a bit too tight... Maybe just be thankful.
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luckyexwife
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Post by luckyexwife on May 27, 2016 3:21:27 GMT
Well said.
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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2016 4:24:42 GMT
Amen
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Post by flute4peace on May 27, 2016 4:59:40 GMT
AMEN
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Post by Deleted on May 27, 2016 7:53:49 GMT
I say this a lot.
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Post by michellegb on May 27, 2016 8:58:46 GMT
A great reminder and something I say often...
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Post by ohiodianna on May 27, 2016 11:40:26 GMT
A statement I try to remember in many situations.
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Post by anxiousmom on May 27, 2016 11:52:39 GMT
I admit, I got my judgement on yesterday in a big way. My judgey pants weren't just tight, they were Ross Geller leather pants on a hot Florida summer day tight. It was totally about me of course, and personal issues I am having reflecting on to someone else and I am not very proud of myself for it.  |
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Post by alissa103 on May 27, 2016 12:30:01 GMT
I admit, I got my judgement on yesterday in a big way. My judgey pants weren't just tight, they were Ross Geller leather pants on a hot Florida summer day tight. It was totally about me of course, and personal issues I am having reflecting on to someone else and I am not very proud of myself for it. I have no idea what this is about, but just wanted to tell you that it's ok. You recognized it, are admitting it and I think that's half the battle. Your posts are always thoughtful and honest here and I find myself agreeing with you A LOT. also, I had a good chuckle at the Ross Geller pants reference  |
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 27, 2016 13:06:20 GMT
This is such a good phrase to remember. I have found that I try to keep my focus on empathy. When I am tempted to judge, I try to put myself in someone else's shoes and see if I can understand where they're coming from.
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Post by anonrefugee on May 27, 2016 13:45:11 GMT
I admit, I got my judgement on yesterday in a big way. My judgey pants weren't just tight, they were Ross Geller leather pants on a hot Florida summer day tight. It was totally about me of course, and personal issues I am having reflecting on to someone else and I am not very proud of myself for it. I have no idea what this is about, but just wanted to tell you that it's ok. You recognized it, are admitting it and I think that's half the battle. Your posts are always thoughtful and honest here and I find myself agreeing with you A LOT. also, I had a good chuckle at the Ross Geller pants reference Agreed!! I don't know what this OP is about, maybe something off board? But if we're honest, don't we each have a judgey moment every now and then? And then, hopefully, get a grip on it? |
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Post by caro on May 27, 2016 13:51:55 GMT
I try to live by that statement!
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Post by trollie on May 27, 2016 14:06:41 GMT
I admit, I got my judgement on yesterday in a big way. My judgey pants weren't just tight, they were Ross Geller leather pants on a hot Florida summer day tight. It was totally about me of course, and personal issues I am having reflecting on to someone else and I am not very proud of myself for it. We have all done it. |
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Post by trollie on May 27, 2016 14:08:11 GMT
I have no idea what this is about, but just wanted to tell you that it's ok. You recognized it, are admitting it and I think that's half the battle. Your posts are always thoughtful and honest here and I find myself agreeing with you A LOT. also, I had a good chuckle at the Ross Geller pants reference Agreed!! I don't know what this OP is about, maybe something off board? But if we're honest, don't we each have a judgey moment every now and then? And then, hopefully, get a grip on it? Yes. The OP is just a reminder. A reminder to myself really. I figured others might like it too. |
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Post by malibou on May 27, 2016 14:27:36 GMT
A really good reminder.
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Post by bearmom on May 27, 2016 14:40:32 GMT
I have been consiously working on this lately, trying to be nicer in general. But I will admit, the airport was trying yesterday.
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Post by bearmom on May 27, 2016 14:48:55 GMT
I have been consiously working on this lately, trying to be nicer in general. But I will admit, the airport was trying yesterday.
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Post by lisacharlotte on May 27, 2016 14:50:33 GMT
I fall far, far short of this. Thanks for the reminder!
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Post by anonrefugee on May 27, 2016 14:53:37 GMT
I appreciate it trollie , didn't mean to imply otherwise. I've got a friend fighting an extraordinary problem and find myself saying it for that reason too. |
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Post by tara on May 27, 2016 14:58:31 GMT
Yep. What changed me is getting sick. It takes more energy to be hateful and judgmental.
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Post by monklady123 on May 27, 2016 15:01:07 GMT
I have been consiously working on this lately, trying to be nicer in general. But I will admit, the airport was trying yesterday. Anyone who has had to pass through a major airport recently gets a pass on all but the worst rudeness.  |
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