caro
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Post by caro on Oct 10, 2016 13:30:33 GMT
I am so sorry. Big hugs.
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hannahruth
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Post by hannahruth on Oct 10, 2016 13:31:31 GMT
I'm sorry to hear this news, but think positive and if it had to be found rather sooner than later.
I have no no experience with this other than two friends diagnosed some years ago. My only thoughts are that as others have suggested take a note book but if possible take someone with you so that if you miss the Discussion then hopefully they can help recall it for you.
Hope your journey is uneventful and you get good news quickly. Hugs to you.
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scrappinghappy
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Post by scrappinghappy on Oct 10, 2016 13:42:02 GMT
I've no advice but will pray for you and a speedy recovery.
ETA. No one suggested it yet but some kind of audio recording could help with the notes. My iPhone can record audio. Just confirm with the Drs that it's ok to use.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 10, 2016 13:48:34 GMT
Such hard news to get! The advice to take someone with you to your appointments is good -- have someone help take notes and ask questions. All the best to you.
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janeliz
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Post by janeliz on Oct 10, 2016 13:49:52 GMT
(((Hugs)))
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 10, 2016 13:53:44 GMT
Sending you good thoughts and prayers. Hugs!
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Post by anonrefugee on Oct 10, 2016 14:05:29 GMT
What a lucky find, although it doesn't feel like that now. My friend and neighbor received this news with her first mammogram. The first week was a blur as news, plans and decisions were made.
She's almost ten years past it now! Good thoughts to you!
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 10, 2016 14:24:55 GMT
I am so sorry!
I don't have experience with breast cancer, but when DH was diagnosed with cancer, we saw the surgeon first.
You are in a good place here, on this board. The Peas know all and will support you here.
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Post by malibou on Oct 10, 2016 14:28:55 GMT
Man oh man, cancer fucking sucks.
I am so sorry cancer has entered your personal space.
J
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Post by straggler on Oct 10, 2016 14:46:27 GMT
Saying prayers for you for strength and healing! (((Hugs)))!
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Post by scrapmaven on Oct 10, 2016 14:51:59 GMT
We've had way too many breast cancer diagnosis lately. From my understanding it's hard at the beginning when you're up in the air about treatment and in shock from the diagnosis. Once you have a treatment plan then you can process,plan and get rid of the cancer. You will fight this and kick cancer's butt. Prayers for you and all of our peas fighting breast cancer.
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TheOtherMeg
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Post by TheOtherMeg on Oct 10, 2016 14:57:47 GMT
More hugs and positive vibes being sent your way, nopeaq. I'm glad you're a pea so we can be here for you!
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Post by vronn on Oct 10, 2016 14:58:53 GMT
I was also recently diagnosed and I can attest to how horrible the waiting game is. I had a breast reduction at the beginning of September, and the dr found cancer. Unexpected and unwanted. I also had no signs or symptoms. I see the oncologist this coming Thursday. I was asked to bring someone for support and to help remember all the new information I will be given.
I think what's most difficult, is the not knowing. What kind is it? How big was it? What treatment will I get? How much is this going to affect my life as I know it? What about my daughters, will they inherit this? My sister? I'm looking forward to getting answers on Thursday, because I'm driving myself crazy with the what ifs. I will be thinking of you, and hope you get some answers soon too.
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Post by elaine on Oct 10, 2016 15:07:54 GMT
(((Hugs)))
I don't have any good advice, but others here have given you quite a bit. I just wanted to let you know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Peamac
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Post by Peamac on Oct 10, 2016 15:10:12 GMT
(((Hugs))) and prayers for you!
My mom found out she had breast cancer at a routine mammogram- the techs thought it was just a smudge on the film, but turns out it was a little bit of cancer that probably would have taken a couple years to grow into something she'd be able to feel as a lump in a breast exam. Mom had surgery and a month or two of radiation and hasn't had any more issues (20 plus years later).
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Post by melissak on Oct 10, 2016 16:13:35 GMT
Hugs! So glad you got the exam!
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Post by onescrappygirl on Oct 10, 2016 16:18:57 GMT
Sending prayers to you as you start this journey. Please keep us informed on how you are doing.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Oct 10, 2016 16:21:20 GMT
I want to send hugs and prayers for you. Please keep us updated and we will do our best to send you all the good vibes we can.
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valleyview
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Post by valleyview on Oct 10, 2016 16:24:00 GMT
My cancer was also found by mammogram. The radiologist told me that there was no quest about what he saw. He was correct.
Get a notebook and a folder for keeping all of the cards and numbers together. Get someone to go to office visits with you as second ears. Also, get an impartial set of ears to learn along with you. If you tell (teach) someone as you go through this, the info is better retained by you.
Find a hospital with a breast center. They will have nurse navigators who help you through the process. Mine helped me get post-surgery camisoles, and provided lots of reassurance.
You may consider interviewing the oncologist. I had been told to do this, but did not. I do not like mine, and wish I had found one instead of being assigned one.
Get some soft, comfortable clothes with front openings and some really good moisturizer for hands and chest.
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Post by mom on Oct 10, 2016 16:28:28 GMT
I am so sorry! I have never experienced this so I have no answers. The Peas are a great community and will help support you if you'd like. Check back in with us and let us know how it goes!
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Post by 2peaornot2pea on Oct 10, 2016 16:32:31 GMT
I'm sure hearing this news was a shock. I know when I go in for routine screenings I always expect to hear routine results and would be blown away to hear otherwise. But, your experience highlights why they are important. I'm hoping the cancer was caught early and your prognosis is the best possible. {{{ hugs to you }}} You have the power of peas on your side.
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flute4peace
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Post by flute4peace on Oct 10, 2016 17:37:32 GMT
My Mom is also one who's routine mammo found her cancer. I think she was 50 or 51 at the time, and is now 75!
Please come here whenever you feel down, scared, or just in need of some distraction. We'll be here for you!!!
You and your family will be in my prayers.
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hanushka
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Post by hanushka on Oct 10, 2016 17:42:43 GMT
I'm so sorry...(((hugs)))
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Mystie
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Post by Mystie on Oct 10, 2016 17:46:54 GMT
Ugh, I am really sorry. It's just like a punch in the face, isn't it? I think it's good to take a notepad and maybe a friend or family member with you to your appointments. They throw a lot of info at you and it's often hard to absorb it all when you're in a bit of shock. Ask lots of questions and don't be afraid to speak up about anything and everything. Big hugs to you, and keep us updated, please.
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Post by crimsoncat05 on Oct 10, 2016 17:52:40 GMT
wow, I'm sorry you were blindsided by this news like that, too! But good for you for going to get the mammogram, so that you get early treatment!!
I haven't read the entire thread yet, so this might be a repeat, but- Take someone with you to your doctor appointments, so you have another set of ears for listening / asking questions / taking notes.
And write your questions down as you think of them, then take that list with you to the appointment. When I went to the oncologist, there were things I knew I wanted to make sure I asked about, but I couldn't remember them during the appointment- I'd remember them afterward.
And don't think that ANY question you have is too small to ask about- that's what the oncologist and your entire treatment team is there for, to make sure you know everything you need to, and to treat you as a whole person, not just your individual body part(s).
(((BIG HUGS))) to you as you navigate through the process of handling your diagnosis and treatment plan. (depending on how you handle stress, I would also recommend making sure you do things to try and relax & take care of yourself, too- bubble bath, massage, etc. I did a lot of written and art journaling. Honestly, I have quite a few pages in my journal from that time that are full of scribbled black crayon and scribbled doodling- it helped me to feel better while I was doing it.)
ETA: the idea of having everything collected in a folder is a good one. That way if you have to call the insurance company, any doctors, etc. you'll have all the information and explanation of benefits in one place.
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marianne
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Post by marianne on Oct 10, 2016 17:56:38 GMT
I have no advice but do send you lots of (((hugs))) and good wishes.
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valincal
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Post by valincal on Oct 10, 2016 17:58:34 GMT
Big hugs...sending positive thoughts your way. Please keep us posted on your progress. All the best.
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scrapngranny
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Post by scrapngranny on Oct 10, 2016 18:03:03 GMT
I'm so sorry you received such startling news. Hopefully, the surgeon will give you a reassuring prognosis. Prayers for strength and comfort.
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Post by anniefb on Oct 10, 2016 18:12:21 GMT
No advice but sending hugs. One of my good friends is a breast cancer survivor - 3 yrs now - also picked up through a routine mammogram. She had a lumpectomy and radiation but no chemo. I can imagine the waiting is hard and am sending prayers and positive thoughts.
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Post by papersilly on Oct 10, 2016 18:15:58 GMT
the good thing is that it was detected. mammograms miss sometimes so it's great that yours did not miss it.
good luck with your consult. don't be shy about asking questions. take care~
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