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Post by nancydrew on Oct 28, 2016 19:46:13 GMT
I have a frustration that only you fellow scrapbookers would understand. For my husband's 50th birthday I am making him a scrapbook of his childhood. Since his parents are no longer living,I asked his sister for his childhood photos. There are exactly 30 photos of him from birth till we met when he was 20... I have commented to several family members (mine not his) and friends and they were not surprised. They just said not every one is a picture taker. I understand that but only 30 photos seems so sad... I guess that reinforces why it is so important for me to take as many photos as I do and scrapbook them.
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Post by amom23 on Oct 28, 2016 20:20:48 GMT
That is sad. You don't have to be a scrapbooker to be a photo taker. Some of us merge the 2, but I have lots of family who don't scrapbook. They do take lots of photos though.
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Post by myboysnme on Oct 28, 2016 21:16:53 GMT
My cousin's husband is one of 10 children. There is exactly ONE photo of him until he met her at age 17. It is a cub scout photo at about age 8. His parents couldn't afford to buy his school pictures. They did not have a camera and did not take photos. It is hard to believe that no relative took any photos at family gatherings but no one says they have any photos.
30 photos isn't bad. I think I have about 15 or 20 of my husband and most of those are baby photos or graduation photos.
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Post by carolynhasacat on Oct 28, 2016 21:20:13 GMT
I think about this sometimes and wonder if future generations will say the same about videos. They're becoming so common now, and coming technology will allow all of us to wear cameras all the time and record any/all the moments of our days. I have just a handful of DS. I wonder if his children will wonder where all the videos are!?
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Post by 950nancy on Oct 28, 2016 22:15:04 GMT
I am about his age and I have a photo album of my childhood. I was child #3 and we each have a book. It is full, but only one book. There have to be several hundred pics in there.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 28, 2016 22:41:22 GMT
My husband would be hard pressed to find 30 photos of his childhood.
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Post by nancydrew on Oct 28, 2016 23:26:18 GMT
My cousin's husband is one of 10 children. There is exactly ONE photo of him until he met her at age 17. It is a cub scout photo at about age 8. His parents couldn't afford to buy his school pictures. They did not have a camera and did not take photos. It is hard to believe that no relative took any photos at family gatherings but no one says they have any photos. 30 photos isn't bad. I think I have about 15 or 20 of my husband and most of those are baby photos or graduation photos. I think about this sometimes and wonder if future generations will say the same about videos. They're becoming so common now, and coming technology will allow all of us to wear cameras all the time and record any/all the moments of our days. I have just a handful of DS. I wonder if his children will wonder where all the videos are!? I wonder about videos about too. I have even less than you do. And wow only 1 photo. That is sad. I guess I am very lucky to have 30.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Oct 29, 2016 0:04:24 GMT
I'm 50 and that sounds about right for how many childhood photos I have also. It wasn't something all families took or could afford. I'm sure there are families today that don't take a million photos.
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Post by mom on Oct 29, 2016 0:07:49 GMT
I am the youngest of 5 and a twin.
I bet I have less than 10 photos from birth - 18.
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Post by hutchfan on Oct 29, 2016 0:16:54 GMT
My husband who is 52 has 2 photos as a baby and only 1 as a child. He is the youngest of 7 and he was a late in life child. But his mother has books upon photo books of pictures of her doing a little bit of everything but very few of her children. I scrapbook and am the family photo taker. I am working on trying to get myself in some of the pictures. And i was lucky my mom took lots of photos.
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Post by Peamac on Oct 29, 2016 2:39:29 GMT
Other than school pictures of me, I don't think there are even 30 pics of my childhood, either (I'll be 50yo in the spring). In a generation when photo development was somewhat expensive, pictures were often only taken at birthdays and Christmas, if that. So glad we can take and print photos so much easier these days!
I don't have any of DH, but I know his dad has some slides of DH and his siblings as kids. I need to borrow the slides sometime and use the slide scanner at the library to save them on a disc and get some printed off.
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Post by pas2 on Oct 29, 2016 10:28:27 GMT
That's me, there are maybe a dozen photos up until I was 5 then nothing until 9th grade. My family was going through a difficult time, money was tight and they couldn't afford to develop the film. Then the camera broke, so that was that. My siblings pooled their money to buy them a new camera for Christmas, but they had so gotten out of the habit of taking photos that there are very few until my sister got married. That is why I went photo crazy when my kids were younger. I only have 5 photos of my father ranging from between 1st grade and graduation.
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Post by mikklynn on Oct 29, 2016 13:19:25 GMT
I probably have fewer than 30 photos of myself other than school photos and baby portraits. My parents lived with my grandma when I was born and she went a little crazy with professional baby portraits my first year. I probably have 20!
I'd be thrilled if I had 30 of DH. I have two from his childhood and maybe 2 school photos. I've mentioned here before that his mother didn't keep, or else didn't buy, his military photo in uniform. I'd give nearly anything to have that.
I scrapbook because my two grandchildren's parents don't ever print a photo. They don't use the cameras I have given them, only their cell phones. And they don't back those photos up anywhere, much less print them. If I didn't do this, they would have virtually no photos when they grow up.
I started because I have a whole album from my dad's mother with no labels. Fortunately, his older cousin helped me a lot with identifying who and where. I'd love to have some why?
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Post by eescrap on Oct 29, 2016 13:45:24 GMT
Well...makes you really treasure those 30 photos I'm sure! My dad is in his 70s and has absolutely zero of his childhood. When I was growing up oddly enough my dad always had a camera. But they weren't cheap back then. Now mind you 20 year difference between my dad and your husband but still cameras weren't an every one owns one type thing. Not like today's standards.
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Post by kitbop on Oct 29, 2016 14:42:48 GMT
Last night was my son's high school convocation. DH went up to take photos as DS crossed the stage to get his diploma. The camera acted funny and all the photos were unusable...blurry...just not meaningful in any way.
I wanted to cry. I felt a huge "world has ended, I'll never get that moment again in his life" sob inside me. I felt anger at DH for screwing up (it probably wasn't him, but I had to blame somebody)
Now, neither DH nor I have a picture of our convocation, and we lived, and didn't even miss it.
But that memory keeper side of me is in mourning.
So yeah, I get what you are saying!
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Post by myboysnme on Oct 29, 2016 17:42:26 GMT
Last night was my son's high school convocation. DH went up to take photos as DS crossed the stage to get his diploma. The camera acted funny and all the photos were unusable...blurry...just not meaningful in any way. I wanted to cry. I felt a huge "world has ended, I'll never get that moment again in his life" sob inside me. I felt anger at DH for screwing up (it probably wasn't him, but I had to blame somebody) Now, neither DH nor I have a picture of our convocation, and we lived, and didn't even miss it. But that memory keeper side of me is in mourning. So yeah, I get what you are saying! When my oldest son was born my husband was supposed to take some photos. Well he couldn't get the camera off zoom so I have two totally zoomed up facial shots of son and that's it. I showed him a bazillion times how to take pics with that camera - a point and shoot. When DS 2 came along I wanted it videod. I set up the camera and said to DH, just turn it on when the baby is coming. Did he? No. and not because he forgot in the excitement. He just didn't want to. He pushed the button after the baby was born but I had it directed toward the end of the bed so all you hear is voices. If I had been in charge of filming it would be a whole different story. But I was busy having HIS child.
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Post by LisaDV on Oct 29, 2016 18:59:14 GMT
My family wasn't that into taking photos. I think it was a cost thing. I only have 4-5 non-school related photos until 13. My oldest sister had her first child then and she documented the first few years greatly, so I was in quite a few of those. DH's family did slides instead of photos. But we have no way to view those slides now. I really need to convert them back to photos.
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Post by grammadee on Oct 29, 2016 20:32:05 GMT
Can you get him to write about, or tell you about his memories of growing up? In the end it is the memories in the scrapbook that really make the difference.
When my kids were small, I had a film camera and not a lot of time. After photos taken each month of the first year for each child, I took photos at Christmas and on birthdays, and not all of them turned out. There are a couple of years, right after we moved and I had an extra couple of hours added onto each work day for travel that I seem to have very few photos.
I wonder about all the photos that are taken today and "posted" somewhere, yet never printed. As technology changes, the new platforms make it difficult or impossible to read the older files, so I am not confident that electronically saved photos will always be available.
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Post by garcia5050 on Oct 29, 2016 22:23:36 GMT
My dad is 84 and I have no idea what he looked like as a child. Dirt poor families in Mexico just didn't have resources for that stuff. I've only seen two pictures of my mom as a child. Different part of Mexico, but still dirt poor.
My mom only has a couple dozen pictures of me from age 1 to 12. She didn't always buy my school pictures. I have to admit, I don't know if I would take so many pictures if it wasn't so convenient with these awesome camera phones.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2016 22:51:06 GMT
My husbands mother was/is a documenter. Now he's the firstborn so naturally everything was documented! She took Polaroids every week and write EXACT ages, his and then later his brother and sister. So he appreciates my scrapbooking.
One of our dear friends had some sort of virus in her brain a few years ago that caused her to lose a lot of her memories, permanently. She's completely healed now but the lost memories won't be recovered. She gets my obsessive need to document. One of my fears in life besides a kid getting hurt is Alzheimer's or some sort of memory loss. So yeah I date everything and even if it's obvious which child is in the picture, I still write it down. What if I die and they can't figure out who is who? (They all 3 look freakishly alike).
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Post by Deleted on Oct 29, 2016 22:52:33 GMT
My dad is 84 and I have no idea what he looked like as a child. Dirt poor families in Mexico just didn't have resources for that stuff. I've only seen two pictures of my mom as a child. Different part of Mexico, but still dirt poor. My mom only has a couple dozen pictures of me from age 1 to 12. She didn't always buy my school pictures. I have to admit, I don't know if I would take so many pictures if it wasn't so convenient with these awesome camera phones. I have no shame in my iPhone picture game. At least I'm taking pictures and printing them! If I only had my dslr to use for photos, I'm certain I wouldn't drag it out often.
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Post by nancydrew on Oct 29, 2016 23:32:06 GMT
Can you get him to write about, or tell you about his memories of growing up? In the end it is the memories in the scrapbook that really make the difference. When my kids were small, I had a film camera and not a lot of time. After photos taken each month of the first year for each child, I took photos at Christmas and on birthdays, and not all of them turned out. There are a couple of years, right after we moved and I had an extra couple of hours added onto each work day for travel that I seem to have very few photos. I wonder about all the photos that are taken today and "posted" somewhere, yet never printed. As technology changes, the new platforms make it difficult or impossible to read the older files, so I am not confident that electronically saved photos will always be available. Grandmadee, I worry about all the photos on digital memory as well. Most of my family and friends only use their phones for taking photos and do not print any. My daughter actually "lost " all her photos from about 5 years on her phone, none were printed. She did end up getting them all recovered thankfully but it was expensive.And the album I'm making is a gift for my husband but I'm leaving space for him to help with the journaling.
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Post by nancydrew on Oct 29, 2016 23:34:36 GMT
My husbands mother was/is a documenter. Now he's the firstborn so naturally everything was documented! She took Polaroids every week and write EXACT ages, his and then later his brother and sister. So he appreciates my scrapbooking. One of our dear friends had some sort of virus in her brain a few years ago that caused her to lose a lot of her memories, permanently. She's completely healed now but the lost memories won't be recovered. She gets my obsessive need to document. One of my fears in life besides a kid getting hurt is Alzheimer's or some sort of memory loss. So yeah I date everything and even if it's obvious which child is in the picture, I still write it down. What if I die and they can't figure out who is who? (They all 3 look freakishly alike). juliehenry4 that is my greatest fear as well. That is one of the reasons I am so passionate about memory keeping
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Post by terri on Oct 30, 2016 0:16:21 GMT
I am 50, was the first child, and there are less than 20 pictures of me as a kid. Makes me kind of sad too.
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Post by GiantsFan on Oct 30, 2016 0:55:31 GMT
I'm almost 50, and there isn't very many photos of my childhood either. My family was low-middle class. The money just wasn't there for camera, film and developing. Especially since some (or most) the photos came out blurry.
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Post by Linda on Oct 30, 2016 2:23:56 GMT
My dad was born in 1925 and grew up poor in England. I have TWO photos of him prior to his marriage to my mum in 1969...one from 1944 in his military kilt during the war and one from 1965 - a snapshot of him on his 40th birthday. That's it. No childhood photos at all. I doubt his family had a camera and I know they couldn't afford to have professional photos taken.
My mother was born in 1936 and grew up middle class in the States. There aren't a ton of photos of her childhood but there are some and she had a camera by the mid-1950s (late high school or early college)and there are lots of photos of MY childhood (b. 1970) because she made a point of taking pictures - the first few years are mostly black and white because it was cheaper. By the time my sister came along (b. 1974) they are all colour.
I've never seen a photo of my older sister (b. 1950) as a child though - I don't know if there weren't any or if Dad just didn't ever get any of them (her mum and our dad separated when she was 5). The oldest photo I have of her/have seen of her is from her wedding when I was a toddler.
DH has some photos from his childhood - 30 doesn't sound like an unlikely number and that'll include school photos. He was the youngest of 7 and his parents separated when he was a toddler so he was raised by his mum. Every now and then one of his (close-in-age) nieces or nephews will unearth a photo that he's in - when one niece's grandma on the other side died, a couple of photos she had were of DH.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 30, 2016 4:20:35 GMT
My husband would be hard pressed to find 30 photos of his childhood. This is me too. And that's after getting the box of my mom's photos after she died. I was the 7th of 8 kids and by that time there wasn't the time, energy or money to take and develop photos of us younger kids. It has absolutely affected how much money and effort I have put into getting nice photos of (and for) my own kid.
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Post by refugeepea on Oct 30, 2016 17:18:51 GMT
My dad was one of 16 kids and I can think of few photos of him as a child. I don't think there are any baby photos. The older I've got, I do take less photos though. Life gets in the way. I have a kid with special needs and making sure he's safe is the first priority. I constantly have a hand on him for his safety. Also the teen kids who hate photos taken. I have stolen some awesome ones from Facebook! I think it's good to have a balance. I got carried away when my oldest kids were younger. There were times I wasn't really present because I was behind the camera. Now my motto is good enough.
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