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Post by scrapaddie on Dec 17, 2016 21:20:11 GMT
I think it is. I have been told that I'm racist because I don't like Obama . No, when I first heard him speak, I was very impressed. I think he has a beautiful family. But as I got to know more about his policies, I found that I did not agree with him. and I do think that he and Michelle have done a great job of representing our country.
There are some peas that throw up the racist card frequently. And I don't see it that's always called for. They could be right, or that cannot be right, but isn't it racist to assume Racial motivation?
Just a philosophical question.
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Post by peasapie on Dec 17, 2016 21:23:29 GMT
Racism is when you think people of a certain race are inherently different. So people who say they don't like Obama based on actions or politics would not be considered racist. If they didn't like him because he is black and therefore think he is unsuitable to be POTUS, that would be different.
I think the term for what you are describing is a generalization.I think you are saying that people are generalizing that, because someone doesn't like Obama, they must be racist.
And yes, I do think people make generalizations like assuming someone thinks a certain way because of another person's race. But I wouldn't call it racist to do so.
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Post by delilahtwo on Dec 17, 2016 21:24:59 GMT
As a Canadian, Barack and Michelle Obama have done a fantastic job of representing your country to the rest of the world. They are classy, seem kind, mild mannered, nice, even tempered, etc. So I don't assume you don't like them because they are black, I assume you don't like them because they are Democrats. George W didn't represent your country well, most thought he was a less than intelligent buffoon. Your president elect represents the worst stereotypes that the rest of the world holds about Americans.
Does that answer your question at all?
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Post by jenis40 on Dec 17, 2016 21:41:01 GMT
Do I think there are some people who dislike Obama because he is black and therefore think they are racist? Yes I do. Do I assume that you (general you) are racist because you say you don't like Obama's policies? No I don't. And I hate this generalization. If you aren't racist, then we (general we) aren't talking about you (general you).
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Post by lesley on Dec 17, 2016 21:41:20 GMT
As a Canadian, Barack and Michelle Obama have done a fantastic job of representing your country to the rest of the world. They are classy, seem kind, mild mannered, nice, even tempered, etc. So I don't assume you don't like them because they are black, I assume you don't like them because they are Democrats. George W didn't represent your country well, most thought he was a less than intelligent buffoon. Your president elect represents the worst stereotypes that the rest of the world holds about Americans. Does that answer your question at all? ![:yeahthat:](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/yrGoHMAelQz8f2Qt0sjb.jpg) I agree completely with your analysis of all three leaders.
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Post by scrapaddie on Dec 17, 2016 21:48:46 GMT
As a Canadian, Barack and Michelle Obama have done a fantastic job of representing your country to the rest of the world. They are classy, seem kind, mild mannered, nice, even tempered, etc. So I don't assume you don't like them because they are black, I assume you don't like them because they are Democrats. George W didn't represent your country well, most thought he was a less than intelligent buffoon. Your president elect represents the worst stereotypes that the rest of the world holds about Americans. Does that answer your question at all? I do think the press did a good job of making George w out to be a buffoon. I am a republican, but did not vote for Trump.... I am afraidof how he will represent us. We need someone with diplomatic sense, not a spoiled child demanding his way.
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Post by melanell on Dec 17, 2016 21:57:33 GMT
but isn't it racist to assume Racial motivation? No. That doesn't even make logical sense to me. Say I'm white, and Janie is white, and Janie does something that seems racially motivated to me. How in the world could I be racist towards Janie for thinking that way?? Or here, where I don't even know the race of many people posting---how could I possibly be behaving in a racist manner by questioning their words or behavior? But even if you & I were different races and you said you didn't like Obama based on his policies, and I, for some reason felt you were being racist, that doesn't mean that I am being racist. It just apparently means that I'm wrong about you. Save
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Dec 17, 2016 23:02:26 GMT
Racism is when you think people of a certain race are inherently different. So people who say they don't like Obama based on actions or politics would not be considered racist. If they didn't like him because he is black and therefore think he is unsuitable to be POTUS, that would be different. I think the term for what you are describing is a generalization.I think you are saying that people are generalizing that, because someone doesn't like Obama, they must be racist. And yes, I do think people make generalizations like assuming someone thinks a certain way because of another person's race. But I wouldn't call it racist to do so.
The bolded part is pretty much the definition of racism. the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races. prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior.
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Post by peasapie on Dec 18, 2016 0:40:09 GMT
Racism is when you think people of a certain race are inherently different. So people who say they don't like Obama based on actions or politics would not be considered racist. If they didn't like him because he is black and therefore think he is unsuitable to be POTUS, that would be different. I think the term for what you are describing is a generalization.I think you are saying that people are generalizing that, because someone doesn't like Obama, they must be racist. And yes, I do think people make generalizations like assuming someone thinks a certain way because of another person's race. But I wouldn't call it racist to do so.
The bolded part is pretty much the definition of racism. the belief that all members of each race possess characteristics or abilities specific to that race, especially so as to distinguish it as inferior or superior to another race or races. prejudice, discrimination, or antagonism directed against someone of a different race based on the belief that one's own race is superior. Well I'm grappling with your response right now. You might be right. But I'm not sure. Still thinking it over - but interesting to ponder, for sure.
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Post by scrapngranny on Dec 18, 2016 1:04:24 GMT
If you say you don't like Obama because of his policies, that is not racism. If you say you don't like Obama because of his policies and in reality you don't like his policies because he is black, that is racism.
In order to not to make race a factor, I would probably say something on the order of I don't agree with Obama's policies instead of making it personal saying I don't like Obama. You can like someone without having to agree with them.
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Post by lucyg on Dec 18, 2016 1:14:54 GMT
If you say you disagree with Obama's policies, that alone won't make me think you're racist.
If you insist against all actual evidence to the contrary that Barack Obama was born in Kenya or is a Muslim, or if you refer to Michelle Obama as an ape in high heels, then yes, I'm going to call you a racist.
Not "you," of course, but the people I've seen say these things in the news or even here on occasion (not the ape thing, that was the public official in WV).
ETA I'm not sure about the answer to your question about whether it's racist to call someone racist unfairly. It's kind of dirty politics is what it is, even at a very small, local level like 2peas.
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Post by lurkingsince2001 on Dec 18, 2016 1:20:08 GMT
But sometimes you can't even get your foot in the door to explain to people that it's not the person's color but something else entirely because you've already been written off as a racist. Anything you say after that is taken as trying to prove that you aren't racist. You can't win then because "they" assume you must be racist and ignore nay valid points you make. So even though you aren't considering race in your evaluation, they are. I think the OP is asking if that makes them the racists ones instead.
I can't tell you how many times I've seen this happen. Someone makes an observation, relates an experience, or tells a fact and people jump on them because the "subject" is a person of a different race/ethnicity. They overlook important facts for the sake of playing the racist card when sometimes it really isn't the case.
Sometimes you have to use race as a descriptor, say to the 911 operator. That doesn't make you racist to do so. But in relating the story to someone else, they may latch onto the fact the perp was a certain race. Now it doesn't matter to me if the perp is black, green, or purple polkadotted when calling the cops or telling the story. By the other person focusing on the race factor, or assuming that I suspected the person solely on their race, does that then make them the one making assumptions based on race? My race? Is assuming someone is racist because of their race also a type of racism?
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Post by janeliz on Dec 18, 2016 1:33:16 GMT
No, it is not racist to accuse someone else of racism. As someone else said, it may be a faulty generalization but it is not racism.
Racism, in the simplest terms, is the belief that one race is superior to another. Racism takes on many forms, and one doesn't have to be a skinhead or klansmen to be guilty of racism. It can be in your face and it can reveal itself in more subtle ways
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Post by inkedup on Dec 18, 2016 1:35:45 GMT
I think that people of all races are capable of making assumptions about one another. I think we are all capable of faulty judgment at times.
I have personally been accused of being quick to cry racism here, but that's not how I see the situation. I think that there are people who use language to describe large swaths of people that they know and have been told is racially charged, and yet they continue to use that language. When called on it, the response is generally to cry reverse racism ("I can't say anything because I'm white") and/or oppression by the PC left.
What makes that racist (or at least, racially insensitive), IMO, is the fact that that behavior has been repeatedly pointed out as being by hurtful and seemingly racist, and yet there is this insistence on continuing to use that language. So, if someone says "I feel that calling black protesters "thugs" is racist", and your response is, "I don't care; a thug is a thug..."
I think some people who use this language are genuinely surprised and contrite when confronted with the fact their actions/words may be perceived as hurtful and/or racist. There are others who dig their heels in and say "this isn't racist because I said it isn't." I definitely question the motivation in those cases.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Dec 18, 2016 2:29:38 GMT
I think it is. I have been told that I'm racist because I don't like Obama . No, when I first heard him speak, I was very impressed. I think he has a beautiful family. But as I got to know more about his policies, I found that I did not agree with him. and I do think that he and Michelle have done a great job of representing our country. There are some peas that throw up the racist card frequently. And I don't see it that's always called for. They could be right, or that cannot be right, but isn't it racist to assume Racial motivation? Just a philosophical question. I've been lumped into the racist category here before because I don't support illegal immigration. Since my grandfather was a migrant worker that came up and worked in Iowa and then went back to Mexico, I really don't feel like I'm racist against my own heritage. Of course this is the only place I've ever been called or inferred that I'm racist so I really don't hold much respect for the people that say that. This is the only place I feel like I should list my lineage and family structure in my signature ![:P](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/OrTI4SBmZ2ZYSFv6ag4f.jpg) But I'm sure those that like to throw the racism label at people they don't know would just come up with some other excuse on why I fit their definition. And we all know you must never say you have friends of other colors, religions or nationalities because then you are accused of just saying you have token friends of another color
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Post by AnotherPea on Dec 18, 2016 3:27:36 GMT
I think it is ignorant and simply sad when people throw out the race card. If someone said white people hate Obama, then that would be racist. To call me a racist because I don't like him, is ignorant.
I have a coworker that is convinced that people didn't vote for Obama because he is biracial. She thinks anyone that refers to him as biracial instead of black, is racist. She even believes that people who voted for him once but not the second time, are racist. Couldn't be that they didn't like his choices during his first term, it must be because they didn't see pictures of him the first time he ran? I don't know. But it is all stupid.
Sure, there are people that didn't vote for Obama because he is biracial. Just like there are people that voted FOR Hillary because she is a woman.
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Post by lucyg on Dec 18, 2016 3:39:09 GMT
I think it is simply sad when people use the term "race card," laced as it is with smug insularity, instead of making an effort to understand the pain behind the centuries of institutionalized racism in this country.
Same goes for woman card, LGBTQ card, and all the rest of those easy Republican retorts. No need to actually think about the problem if you can just refer to it as a "card."
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Post by ktdoesntscrap on Dec 18, 2016 3:52:29 GMT
I think it is ignorant and simply sad when people throw out the race card. If someone said white people hate Obama, then that would be racist. To call me a racist because I don't like him, is ignorant. I have a coworker that is convinced that people didn't vote for Obama because he is biracial. She thinks anyone that refers to him as biracial instead of black, is racist. She even believes that people who voted for him once but not the second time, are racist. Couldn't be that they didn't like his choices during his first term, it must be because they didn't see pictures of him the first time he ran? I don't know. But it is all stupid. Sure, there are people that didn't vote for Obama because he is biracial. Just like there are people that voted FOR Hillary because she is a woman. I think it is ignorant and sad to pretend that race doesn't play a major part in how people react to President Obama. People who say they are color blind are not actually. If you think race doesn't matter in this country you are either completely ignorant to how the real world works, or you are racist. Many people live every day with such deeply ingrained beliefs about other people, that they can not see their own racism. Unless you are really willing to look at your own bias and prejudices and call yourself out for them, you probably are a little racist. I think we all have some work to do in this department.
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Post by AnotherPea on Dec 18, 2016 4:06:48 GMT
I think it is simply sad when people use the term "race card," laced as it is with smug insularity, instead of making an effort to understand the pain behind the centuries of institutionalized racism in this country. Same goes for woman card, LGBTQ card, and all the rest of those easy Republican retorts. No need to actually think about the problem if you can just refer to it as a "card." Or maybe, just maybe, people could actually think before they speak? People could see that maybe their favorite candidate isn't perfect and others might actually have a reason to dislike something he has done? To assume that someone dislikes another just because of their skin color is pitiful. And it doesn't say much about their own ability to think with logic and reason. Those people are the ones that are lacking understanding. Making an assumption that a disagreement is based solely on race is definitely pulling the race card.
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Post by peasapie on Dec 18, 2016 4:29:24 GMT
I think it is ignorant and simply sad when people throw out the race card. If someone said white people hate Obama, then that would be racist. To call me a racist because I don't like him, is ignorant. I have a coworker that is convinced that people didn't vote for Obama because he is biracial. She thinks anyone that refers to him as biracial instead of black, is racist. She even believes that people who voted for him once but not the second time, are racist. Couldn't be that they didn't like his choices during his first term, it must be because they didn't see pictures of him the first time he ran? I don't know. But it is all stupid. Sure, there are people that didn't vote for Obama because he is biracial. Just like there are people that voted FOR Hillary because she is a woman. I think it is ignorant and sad to pretend that race doesn't play a major part in how people react to President Obama. People who say they are color blind are not actually. If you think race doesn't matter in this country you are either completely ignorant to how the real world works, or you are racist. Many people live every day with such deeply ingrained beliefs about other people, that they can not see their own racism. Unless you are really willing to look at your own bias and prejudices and call yourself out for them, you probably are a little racist. I think we all have some work to do in this department. I agree with you. And beyond race, there is culture and ethnicity as well. As an American with Italian immigrant grandparents, I can tell you that I am uncomfortable with the ignorant stereotypes portrayed on shows like the Sopranos. No we aren't all "connected" or go around killing people. Go even further back, to Lucille Ball stomping grapes barefoot or laughing at the dumb Italian guy with the accent in old movies. These kinds of stereotypes are so ingrained in our culture that even many Italians accept them. The same is true of gender, culture, ethnicity - and race. It's so hard to sort out prejudices. I think the word "race card" implies a very reflexive response to such a complicated problem.
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Post by msbtastic on Dec 18, 2016 4:49:22 GMT
I would really like us as a nation to stop using the term "racist" for every little thing. It is not racist to assume racism in others and throwing this term around so freely and using it incorrectly is causing it to lose its power. Accusing someone of being racist, when they have actually demonstrated prejudice or bigotry does not help Us in fixing problems if actual racism. It also leads to people tuning others out when referencing racism issues. Prejudice is a pre-conceived view of a group based on lack of real experience with that group. For instance, I had a manager with some prejudices against blacks because she came from a very small town of only whites and had only seen us depicted in the media- especially Jerry Springer. Though she said some crazy stuff to me, she never treated me any differently than the rest of the staff. The shit she said was prejudiced because it was ideas based on my race with no experiences with my culture. Racism is prejudice with power behind it- you would have to have the ability to affect someone's life (not their feelings) based on your prejudiced views. For instance- I took a diversity class with only 5 minorities, this includes the black teacher. We sat together(not with the teacher), worked together, were some of the only ones with good report with the teacher, and also had the only A's in the class. A group of about 15 people took that to the college of education and claimed that the teacher was racist. Had they been right, she would have been guilty of racism because she was in a position of power and would have used a prejudice against whites to effect their grades. The manager at my job would also have been racist if she used these negative views of me based on being black to effect my schedule or other parts of the work environment. She did not, therefore it was not racism, she was actually one of the nicest people I've ever known. Anyone can be racist, as long as they/the system has some sort of power to negatively impact your life (not emotionally). I keep hearing and reading people of the majority racial group say that there is a racial divide in the country since Obama took office (I don't believe it's true in my opinion), and if we want to fix that perceived divide, it would be best for us to use correct terminology so that we don't push others away- no one wants to be called a damned racist when they aren't. Having prejudiced views is normal and not horrible enough to be saddled with that heavy, horrible term. It's easy to fix prejudice- but not if we make them tune us out by calling them a racist.
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Post by lucyg on Dec 18, 2016 5:01:15 GMT
I think it is simply sad when people use the term "race card," laced as it is with smug insularity, instead of making an effort to understand the pain behind the centuries of institutionalized racism in this country. Same goes for woman card, LGBTQ card, and all the rest of those easy Republican retorts. No need to actually think about the problem if you can just refer to it as a "card." Or maybe, just maybe, people could actually think before they speak? People could see that maybe their favorite candidate isn't perfect and others might actually have a reason to dislike something he has done? To assume that someone dislikes another just because of their skin color is pitiful. And it doesn't say much about their own ability to think with logic and reason. Those people are the ones that are lacking understanding. Making an assumption that a disagreement is based solely on race is definitely pulling the race card. I have already posted that I don't think just disagreeing with Pres. Obama makes anyone a racist. However, I do think that someone who throws around the term "race card" freely and then accuses another poster of assuming she "dislikes another just because of their skin color" is skirting a very fine line. You are doing pretty much exactly what you're accusing me (without foundation) of doing, actually.
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Post by katieanna on Dec 18, 2016 5:18:31 GMT
I, for one, blame the press for how a lot of things are misrepresented in our country. I also place the blame for the stark divisions in our country squarely at the feet of the media.
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Post by inkedup on Dec 18, 2016 5:39:51 GMT
I think it is simply sad when people use the term "race card," laced as it is with smug insularity, instead of making an effort to understand the pain behind the centuries of institutionalized racism in this country. Same goes for woman card, LGBTQ card, and all the rest of those easy Republican retorts. No need to actually think about the problem if you can just refer to it as a "card." Or maybe, just maybe, people could actually think before they speak? People could see that maybe their favorite candidate isn't perfect and others might actually have a reason to dislike something he has done? To assume that someone dislikes another just because of their skin color is pitiful. And it doesn't say much about their own ability to think with logic and reason. Those people are the ones that are lacking understanding. Making an assumption that a disagreement is based solely on race is definitely pulling the race card. I have heard many people provide intelligent criticism of President Obama and his administration. I have many criticisms of my own . I think it's pitiful and ignorant when people assume that President Obama's supporters are blind and assume he is perfect. If the criticism is based on his policies or failures as President, I am willing to listen. But when the "criticism" is that he's a Muslim apologist, or that he isn't American, of course it smacks of racism and xenophobia. I really don't see anyone in my real life who cries racism over criticism of the President unless it falls into the categories I mentioned.
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Post by anniebygaslight on Dec 18, 2016 6:21:54 GMT
As a Canadian, Barack and Michelle Obama have done a fantastic job of representing your country to the rest of the world. They are classy, seem kind, mild mannered, nice, even tempered, etc. So I don't assume you don't like them because they are black, I assume you don't like them because they are Democrats. George W didn't represent your country well, most thought he was a less than intelligent buffoon. Your president elect represents the worst stereotypes that the rest of the world holds about Americans. Does that answer your question at all? ![:yeahthat:](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/yrGoHMAelQz8f2Qt0sjb.jpg) exactly, except that I am English.
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Post by Judy26 on Dec 18, 2016 9:51:02 GMT
I would really like us as a nation to stop using the term "racist" for every little thing. It is not racist to assume racism in others and throwing this term around so freely and using it incorrectly is causing it to lose its power. Accusing someone of being racist, when they have actually demonstrated prejudice or bigotry does not help Us in fixing problems if actual racism. It also leads to people tuning others out when referencing racism issues. Prejudice is a pre-conceived view of a group based on lack of real experience with that group. For instance, I had a manager with some prejudices against blacks because she came from a very small town of only whites and had only seen us depicted in the media- especially Jerry Springer. Though she said some crazy stuff to me, she never treated me any differently than the rest of the staff. The shit she said was prejudiced because it was ideas based on my race with no experiences with my culture. Racism is prejudice with power behind it- you would have to have the ability to affect someone's life (not their feelings) based on your prejudiced views. For instance- I took a diversity class with only 5 minorities, this includes the black teacher. We sat together(not with the teacher), worked together, were some of the only ones with good report with the teacher, and also had the only A's in the class. A group of about 15 people took that to the college of education and claimed that the teacher was racist. Had they been right, she would have been guilty of racism because she was in a position of power and would have used a prejudice against whites to effect their grades. The manager at my job would also have been racist if she used these negative views of me based on being black to effect my schedule or other parts of the work environment. She did not, therefore it was not racism, she was actually one of the nicest people I've ever known. Anyone can be racist, as long as they/the system has some sort of power to negatively impact your life (not emotionally). I keep hearing and reading people of the majority racial group say that there is a racial divide in the country since Obama took office (I don't believe it's true in my opinion), and if we want to fix that perceived divide, it would be best for us to use correct terminology so that we don't push others away- no one wants to be called a damned racist when they aren't. Having prejudiced views is normal and not horrible enough to be saddled with that heavy, horrible term. It's easy to fix prejudice- but not if we make them tune us out by calling them a racist. This is an excellent post and explains clearly the definition of racism as I see it. I see you have a low post count. Are you a new or returning Pea? Either way, welcome and keep posting!
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Post by leftturnonly on Dec 18, 2016 10:28:00 GMT
It certainly can be.
I've been called all kinds of names and told I have all kinds of assumptions because of the color of my skin.
I've been told that it's impossible for the people who said/believed/did that to be racist themselves because of the color of their skin.
Sorry, but no. They are racists and they demonstrate just how racist they are by assuming anything about me based on the color of my skin.
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Post by scrapaddie on Dec 18, 2016 21:40:19 GMT
I think it is. I have been told that I'm racist because I don't like Obama . No, when I first heard him speak, I was very impressed. I think he has a beautiful family. But as I got to know more about his policies, I found that I did not agree with him. and I do think that he and Michelle have done a great job of representing our country. There are some peas that throw up the racist card frequently. And I don't see it that's always called for. They could be right, or that cannot be right, but isn't it racist to assume Racial motivation? Just a philosophical question. I've been lumped into the racist category here before because I don't support illegal immigration. Since my grandfather was a migrant worker that came up and worked in Iowa and then went back to Mexico, I really don't feel like I'm racist against my own heritage. Of course this is the only place I've ever been called or inferred that I'm racist so I really don't hold much respect for the people that say that. This is the only place I feel like I should list my lineage and family structure in my signature ![:P](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/OrTI4SBmZ2ZYSFv6ag4f.jpg) But I'm sure those that like to throw the racism label at people they don't know would just come up with some other excuse on why I fit their definition. And we all know you must never say you have friends of other colors, religions or nationalities because then you are accused of just saying you have token friends of another color That's why I don't mention my family very often.. which has been pretty diverse for the last 50+ years that I am aware. I don't want to be accused of having token cousins, nieces and nephews, etc! And the fact that I have done several (5) Habitat trips to third world countries in the past three years probably doesn't speak well for me, either. I am just surprised when others see racism where I do not.
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Post by scrapaddie on Dec 18, 2016 21:51:44 GMT
but isn't it racist to assume Racial motivation? No. That doesn't even make logical sense to me. Say I'm white, and Janie is white, and Janie does something that seems racially motivated to me. How in the world could I be racist towards Janie for thinking that way?? Or here, where I don't even know the race of many people posting---how could I possibly be behaving in a racist manner by questioning their words or behavior? But even if you & I were different races and you said you didn't like Obama based on his policies, and I, for some reason felt you were being racist, that doesn't mean that I am being racist. It just apparently means that I'm wrong about you. SaveBut there are people who assume that if I don't like Obama, it must be because he is black and I am not. And yes, i do believe thAt some one can have a racist attitude or behave in a racially motivated way towards people of their own race. I also believe that accusing someone of being racist can be a racist act. Racism is sad. I remember working on playgrounds when I was in college. I spent two Summers on a playground where white was the minority . it was sad and a bit heartbreaking to come back a second summer and find kids I had played happily with one summer now viewed me the WHITE playground leader.... fortunately there was a new crop of youngsters and eventually many of the older kids eventually seemed to forget.
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