Mystie
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Post by Mystie on Feb 5, 2017 23:07:11 GMT
There is a gentleman (R) at my church who I am so fond of. He lost his wife to cancer in the early fall of 2015--they'd been married 40 years. She was an absolute gem and I was sad for myself to lose her as a friend and so sad for him, of course. He is a brilliant man, an impassioned liberal, a worker for climate change and peace issues, and so kind. Last fall I went out to lunch after church with a big group of people and ended up sitting next to a woman (C) who had just started coming to our church. She is a widow, lost her husband right around the same time R lost his wife, in fact. Early 60s, tall, pretty, brilliant, funny...and I talked to her for a long time and thought, "This woman could be perfect for R." I didn't think too much more about it...I saw them chatting after an evening Christmas service and thought about it...and then I've been absent from church since Christmas due to traveling and being sick. Today I was there and we had communion and I saw her standing behind him in the line to receive and thought about it again. So I had a meeting after church and the ladies were buzzing about R and C. I said, "Wait, is this really a thing?" thinking they were just gossiping or making much ado about nothing, but apparently they really are seeing each other! They cleared it with their grown kids and everything. I am just completely tickled pink, been smiling about it all day, which feels so good because there just hasn't been much to smile about lately. It makes me so happy when the people I care about are happy! Thought I'd share in case you need a smile, too.
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lesley
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Post by lesley on Feb 5, 2017 23:19:33 GMT
That's wonderful. I'm always so happy to hear about people getting together after losing their spouses. Each understands the other's pain, realise they are not "replacements", and seem to approach the new relationship with real happiness and gratitude. Thank you for sharing!
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Post by Zee on Feb 5, 2017 23:19:42 GMT
That's cute Yay for them!
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Post by gar on Feb 5, 2017 23:21:19 GMT
Aww, that's lovely:smile:
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Post by Lexica on Feb 5, 2017 23:35:47 GMT
I love stories like this. Especially at their stage of live, having shared it with a spouse that sounds like they were so in love for so very long, the idea of finding someone new must seem daunting. Heck, it is for me and I've been alone for ages and ages. To have them come into each others lives like this is just beautiful. Just maybe your thoughts about them went out into the universe and somehow helped spark the process.
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J u l e e
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Jun 28, 2014 2:50:47 GMT
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Post by J u l e e on Feb 5, 2017 23:38:31 GMT
Sweet story! I was thinking you were gping to set them up. And they beat you to it!
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Post by refugeepea on Feb 5, 2017 23:44:15 GMT
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Post by AussieMeg on Feb 5, 2017 23:45:57 GMT
It makes me so happy when the people I care about are happy! That's a sweet story, and I agree with your comment above. When my aunt was widowed after more than 50 years of marriage she was so lonely. After a few years she met a wonderful man who treated her so well, and she said that she’d never been happier. He took her dancing and to the movies (things she never did with her husband when he was alive) and he even introduced her to wine after her being a teetotaler for 75 years! Sadly he got sick and passed away about 2 years later. I was glad my aunt got to experience the joy that she did with Jack, I just wish it was longer.
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flute4peace
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Post by flute4peace on Feb 5, 2017 23:54:39 GMT
Awwwe this makes my day too!
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Post by KelleeM on Feb 6, 2017 0:07:35 GMT
It's posts like this that make me really want a ❤️ button! Great story.
There's a woman at my Dad's church who seems to really like him. They both lost their spouses but even after almost 5 years my Dad won't even go for coffee with another woman.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Feb 6, 2017 0:30:28 GMT
Very sweet!!!! What a cute story!
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jayfab
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Post by jayfab on Feb 6, 2017 1:33:25 GMT
Awww, that's sweet. Good for them. So glad to hear a feel good story today.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Feb 6, 2017 2:24:55 GMT
Very sweet
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Post by scrappintoee on Feb 6, 2017 10:58:54 GMT
Awww !!! This makes my heart SO happy! I have worked/ volunteered with MANY elderly widows and widowers, and it is heartbreaking, especially the ones who are so incredibly sad and have told me they are anxious to die and get to Heaven just so they can be with their spouse again. My sweet grandmother also felt the same way----it was heartbreaking!
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momto4kiddos
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Post by momto4kiddos on Feb 6, 2017 11:27:37 GMT
That is so sweet!
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scrappert
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Post by scrappert on Feb 6, 2017 14:22:09 GMT
So very sweet. Brought tears to my eyes.
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Post by auntkelly on Feb 6, 2017 14:34:35 GMT
That is a sweet story.
I am happy the adult kids are on board. Not that the couple needs their kids' permission to date, but I've seen spoiled adult kids ruin their parent's relationships.
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Post by lemondrop on Feb 6, 2017 14:42:27 GMT
A lovely story - TFS!
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pudgygroundhog
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Feb 6, 2017 14:51:03 GMT
Love when things work out like that.
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Post by bc2ca on Feb 6, 2017 14:58:32 GMT
This really did put a smile on my face this morning. We had a friend widowed after his wife fought a long battle with cancer. He remarried a few years later and it took a couple more years for some of our other friends to get onboard with the new relationship. Thanks for sharing.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 6, 2017 15:02:00 GMT
Aw that's lovely for them both and especially that their children are supportive too.
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