azredhead
Drama Llama
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Jun 25, 2014 22:49:18 GMT
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Post by azredhead on Feb 16, 2017 18:17:50 GMT
ahh HUGS!! Don't be so hard yourself. I know it's super easy too, but it's harder not to do it when there are trying circumsntance. I flew back in town yesterday after my mom's services, We didn't even have to do much physically (we had a lot of help and I'll be forever greatful) between that and my dog, I came home and all I've wanted to do is sleep. I know what you mean when you say the 'beat up' feeling. I think it's normally anytime there's a lot of stressful things going on. We're hardest on ourselfves. Have a good cry but then treat yourself to something to. Those struggles are real and lean to those who can help. Don't be afraid to ask for it. Even if it's just venting. Whatever it takes to get you through it. You can do it. But don't be so hard on yourself.. it will all work out.
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Post by leslie132 on Feb 16, 2017 18:55:07 GMT
ahh HUGS!! Don't be so hard yourself. I know it's super easy too, but it's harder not to do it when there are trying circumsntance. I flew back in town yesterday after my mom's services, We didn't even have to do much physically (we had a lot of help and I'll be forever greatful) between that and my dog, I came home and all I've wanted to do is sleep. I know what you mean when you say the 'beat up' feeling. I think it's normally anytime there's a lot of stressful things going on. We're hardest on ourselfves. Have a good cry but then treat yourself to something to. Those struggles are real and lean to those who can help. Don't be afraid to ask for it. Even if it's just venting. Whatever it takes to get you through it. You can do it. But don't be so hard on yourself.. it will all work out. Oh my gosh...... I have nothing on you. I want to say thank you for taking time out of your life and replying to me. I read your post and it broke my heart. So much all at once.....it is hard to cope. 6.5 years ago I had a situation that was all consuming. Shit.....it devastated my life at the time....I had delivered a little girl after a perfect pregnancy and complications happened. She passed away within 6 hours. A couple weeks after Kennedy died I was diagnosed with blood clots (3) that I found because my husband called my OB-GYN for advice. It was Halloween. I remember them trying to get me admitted and I was screaming that I wouldn't stay. I had ruined my (then) 6 year olds life, I wasn't ruining his Halloween. That night, and many before and after, I used this board as my salvation. To a lot of woman this board is a fun or crazy place to talk to strangers. To me, this board was a life line of woman who became my "friends" and basically saved me one thread after another. If you need anything please reach out. You're in my prayers!
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Post by ilikepink on Feb 16, 2017 19:06:30 GMT
Hugs.
It's never easy - but the harder it is, the greater it feels on the other side. I have a friend who took the real estate course and tested - twice - and failed both times. And then she gave up.
You've got this, girl! Take a breath, and go again!
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Post by leslie132 on Feb 16, 2017 19:11:02 GMT
Hugs. It's never easy - but the harder it is, the greater it feels on the other side. I have a friend who took the real estate course and tested - twice - and failed both times. And then she gave up. You've got this, girl! Take a breath, and go again! Giving up...... not happening here. Thank you for the reminder that it will be a great feeling when I'm at the other side!!!
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Post by leslie132 on Feb 16, 2017 19:12:40 GMT
Lots of (((HUGS))) and passing the test vibes. BTDT in several ways with my dh's career and finances. Things are good now but we had several years of hell. Right there on that bench with you. OP, didn't you post about taking the test in another thread? As I mentioned there, I have so been there, and I applaud you picking yourself back up and doing what is best for you and your family. You can do it! Yes, I mentioned it on the thread where a Mom was worried about her daughter and life's pressures. I meant it then and even more so now......stress sucks!!! Hopefully the calm is coming!
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azredhead
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,755
Jun 25, 2014 22:49:18 GMT
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Post by azredhead on Feb 16, 2017 19:14:24 GMT
ahh HUGS!! Don't be so hard yourself. I know it's super easy too, but it's harder not to do it when there are trying circumsntance. I flew back in town yesterday after my mom's services, We didn't even have to do much physically (we had a lot of help and I'll be forever greatful) between that and my dog, I came home and all I've wanted to do is sleep. I know what you mean when you say the 'beat up' feeling. I think it's normally anytime there's a lot of stressful things going on. We're hardest on ourselfves. Have a good cry but then treat yourself to something to. Those struggles are real and lean to those who can help. Don't be afraid to ask for it. Even if it's just venting. Whatever it takes to get you through it. You can do it. But don't be so hard on yourself.. it will all work out. Oh my gosh...... I have nothing on you. I want to say thank you for taking time out of your life and replying to me. I read your post and it broke my heart. So much all at once.....it is hard to cope. 6.5 years ago I had a situation that was all consuming. Shit.....it devastated my life at the time....I had delivered a little girl after a perfect pregnancy and complications happened. She passed away within 6 hours. A couple weeks after Kennedy died I was diagnosed with blood clots (3) that I found because my husband called my OB-GYN for advice. It was Halloween. I remember them trying to get me admitted and I was screaming that I wouldn't stay. I had ruined my (then) 6 year olds life, I wasn't ruining his Halloween. That night, and many before and after, I used this board as my salvation. To a lot of woman this board is a fun or crazy place to talk to strangers. To me, this board was a life line of woman who became my "friends" and basically saved me one thread after another. If you need anything please reach out. You're in my prayers! same to you my friend- you just have to ignore my spelling sometimes! LOL! I know the life line too! Just hang in there. You just have to tell your self to breath in and out!! The last two days i think I keep forgetting! LOL! There have been loads of pea tragedies at the same time but this place is such good support and longtime friends.. Feel free to talk anytime!!
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Post by anniefb on Feb 16, 2017 20:18:25 GMT
That must be incredibly frustrating. Hang in there and take the tests again when you feel ready. You're under a lot of stress at the moment, so it's totally understandable.
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Post by LisaDV on Feb 16, 2017 23:49:29 GMT
Hugs. You are awesome trying to get this for your family. Prayers for you and your family.
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my3freaks
Pearl Clutcher
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Location: NH girl living in Colorado
Jun 26, 2014 4:10:56 GMT
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Post by my3freaks on Feb 17, 2017 0:09:33 GMT
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eastcoastpea
Prolific Pea
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Jun 27, 2014 13:05:28 GMT
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Post by eastcoastpea on Feb 17, 2017 12:26:17 GMT
You are so close to your goal and determined. On your next exam you are going to knock it out of the park.
I know you're going to be a success, you're not going to settle for anything less.
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