carhoch
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Post by carhoch on May 2, 2017 18:53:30 GMT
No I don't think it's average but I think it's awesome she's creative and she loves to write maybe she will grow up to be a very famous writer.
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Post by mommaho on May 2, 2017 18:54:13 GMT
It that is what she has fun doing than it is perfectly normal! Sounds like she has an amazing imagination!
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RosieKat
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Post by RosieKat on May 2, 2017 18:58:21 GMT
I think it's totally normal in the sense that lots of kids get largely consumed by their passions, whether it be writing or Pokemon cards or a sport. This particular passion seems like a great one; I would just make sure she cultivates other interests as well, even if to a vastly lesser degree.
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Post by Sam on May 2, 2017 18:59:57 GMT
It's not 'average' given the topic, but what is average for a kid? Some of them collect bugs, some paint, some are into sports...this is her thing and unless you really think there is an underlying issue, just go with it. This is her way of expressing herself and being creative and, clearly, something she loves to do.
She does it with you (or when with you) and doesn't seclude herself, so that's a positive. At her age, I was the reader rather than the writer and that was also completely normal.
She shares that experience with you and what fun you can get from reading what she has written, asking her about where that came from and giving your perspective on it.
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Post by busy on May 2, 2017 19:03:10 GMT
I wouldn't describe it as "normal, average kid behavior" but neither would I think it's any cause for concern. She's passionate about writing and it draws her focus and keeps her engaged. I can't think of a single reason I wouldn't be thrilled about that.
There's nothing wrong with being normal and average, but neither is there anything wrong with not being either of those.
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Post by chlerbie on May 2, 2017 19:03:42 GMT
I did that--and wish I'd been able to type as it would have been a lot faster, but I have notebooks full of my early "novels."
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Post by scrapmaven on May 2, 2017 19:04:55 GMT
I used to write a lot when I was young. I wrote children's stories, poems and tried to start novels. It's a creative hobby and beats the heck out of video games.
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Post by SunnySmile on May 2, 2017 19:06:27 GMT
No I don't think it's average but I think it's awesome she's creative and she loves to write maybe she will grow up to be a very famous writer. Ditto
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Post by 950nancy on May 2, 2017 19:10:42 GMT
My almost 10 granddaughter will hang out with me at the other side of my desk and write stories literally all day. First it might be an 8-10 page civil war novel, then a book of jokes, then 10-12 pages of a spy novel. I have her set up on my google docs account and she just types away, occasionally leaving to sit on the couch or somewhere else and keep typing away the whole time. It's not all we do together, but she seems to go in spurts where writing is all she wants to do. So, I am not suggesting that she needs therapy or anything, but is this relatively common? I don't think I remember my dd doing this when she was this age. So just asking to get a feel for whether everyone does this. Ten year olds are my favorite. I taught that age for 26 years. And yes, your granddaughter is perfectly normal, but maybe not average. (If that makes sense). At this age, kids are all over the place figuring out who they are and what they love. Every year I had kids (both male and female) who loved to write or read. They would often forgo recess just to do what they loved. My last year of teaching I had a girl who wrote about 35 pages a week in her free time. I loved her writing, and she was hysterical. I bought her a journal to encourage her writing. She wrote for me all year. I would look at her spurts of writing as a great way for you two to bond. Read what she has written and take her to the library and find books on the subject (or give as gifts). There are some decent books for young writers that help them get published (if that is her thing). Just encourage that brain to be as creative as possible. I can't tell you how many book dedications I have seen that start with To my grandma...
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johnnysmom
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Post by johnnysmom on May 2, 2017 19:31:05 GMT
I too don't see anything wrong with it as long as it's not to an extreme. Being obsessive about anything isn't good so long as she's balancing it with some social and/or active activities I say good for her!
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Post by Delta Dawn on May 2, 2017 19:37:27 GMT
My almost 10 granddaughter will hang out with me at the other side of my desk and write stories literally all day. First it might be an 8-10 page civil war novel, then a book of jokes, then 10-12 pages of a spy novel. I have her set up on my google docs account and she just types away, occasionally leaving to sit on the couch or somewhere else and keep typing away the whole time. It's not all we do together, but she seems to go in spurts where writing is all she wants to do. So, I am not suggesting that she needs therapy or anything, but is this relatively common? I don't think I remember my dd doing this when she was this age. So just asking to get a feel for whether everyone does this. My classmate did this and she is now a well-known young adult author who has published at least 10 novels. Encourage it!!!
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Post by annie on May 2, 2017 19:38:36 GMT
Fantastic! One of my kids was the same. She wrote 2 novels before she was 16. And I mean full-length novels. I thought it was a great hobby!
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Post by monklady123 on May 2, 2017 19:41:30 GMT
What they all said. Plus, be sure to keep some of her writing because some day when she's a famous published author you'll have her early works.
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Post by redhead32 on May 2, 2017 19:41:44 GMT
Around that age, my son and his two super active buddies went through a writing phase where they came home after school and wrote story after story every single day. Maybe there is something developmental around age 10 where writing "clicks" for them.
I think it is really cool. Who wants to be average, anyway? :-)
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Post by mikklynn on May 2, 2017 20:06:59 GMT
She sounds amazing. How fun it would be to help her self publish something!
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on May 2, 2017 20:08:24 GMT
My DD wrote and read constantly at 10. At 14, she still writes, but she is more into music.
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on May 2, 2017 20:51:47 GMT
My niece (now 13) has always been able to spend literally all day doing whatever she is currently into. It's been paper-crafting (she still does this), hama beads, loom bands, reading, colouring, and her latest is acrylic nails. Nephew can't entertain himself for more than half an hour without needing input and reassurance from adults. I think your DGD is very lucky to be able to focus for so long.
I don't think you have anything to worry about. I don't believe there is any such thing as "normal" - all children are different and they all have their gifts.
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Post by anniebygaslight on May 2, 2017 21:07:00 GMT
Nurture her talent and her commitment. You might have a Pulitzer Prize winner on your hands.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 2, 2017 21:23:56 GMT
My DD is almost 7 and she too loves to write and draw. Not all day at this point, but pretty frequently. I think kids who are early readers tend to like to write too.
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Post by leannec on May 2, 2017 21:25:10 GMT
My now 18 year old has written a couple of long pieces for the "National Novel Writing Month" Look it up online ... I'm amazed at how much she was able to produce as well as doing regular homework It sounds like they are two peas in a pod ETA: I'm not sure which "nation" this refers to ... we're Canadian ...
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Post by eleezybeth on May 2, 2017 21:50:12 GMT
My 10 year old DD would write and write and write all day long taking a break to read some. She loves working in Google documents because if she is creating she can be on the computer. She has been writing for about 4 years and has came up with some pretty elaborate stories. I've never thought of it as a-typical behavior but more, just her favorite thing to do. And a quick scam to get screen time...
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Post by PaperAngel on May 2, 2017 21:56:32 GMT
Yes. Our child & his friends all devoted a lot of time & attention to their favorite hobby/pastime at that age. Hope you continue to enjoy your creative time together!
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Post by colleen on May 2, 2017 23:06:48 GMT
My now 18 year old has written a couple of long pieces for the "National Novel Writing Month" Look it up online ... I'm amazed at how much she was able to produce as well as doing regular homework It sounds like they are two peas in a pod ETA: I'm not sure which "nation" this refers to ... we're Canadian ... NANOWRIMO is for all of us who write -- no borders! I was like the OP's granddaughter and it worked out well for me professionally. I still think writing is fun.
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Post by laureljean on May 2, 2017 23:10:19 GMT
Yeah, I was like that. But I don't know that I was "normal". However, I did grow up to be gainfully employed and not entered the prison system.
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Post by melanell on May 3, 2017 1:48:00 GMT
I think it's fairly typical for some kids to have times when they do *something* they they really love for literally hours and hours and hours, yes. I just think the *something* is different for different kids. When I was a kid I wrote as well. But some days I would devote to a different all day endeavor instead. I worked for an entire week once on a multi-floor house plan that i cut our of cardboard so it would stand up like a model of the house. My own kids, however, draw. And draw. And draw. There are notebooks and sketch books and composition books and loose papers with drawings on them everywhere around here. On different days at different stages they have done other things for hours. My 1st grader can spend an entire day making Lego creations while the older one can spend an entire day creating elaborate things on the creative side of Minecraft. As long as they both also do other things other days (like getting up and moving around) I'm fine with them devoting some days to these type of things as well.
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Post by PLurker on May 3, 2017 1:48:05 GMT
I think she is probably on the creative side. DD did that with writing and drawing. She is now majoring in art therapy with a minor in photo-journalism. She is still "playing" and will eventually make a living (hopefully) out of it. Win, win doing what you love for a living. As long as she is not obsessed and ignoring other necessities of life, let her explore. I find it a positive. She's, as they say, "finding herself", don't squash it. Besides it's entertaining to see where their imagination takes them (and you). ETA and she may later, end up thanking you for letting her be her. DD has already thanked me more than once in different ways. It is a feeling a mom could only hope for. And I thought all I did was let her be. LOL
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Post by Linda on May 3, 2017 1:48:40 GMT
DD16was like that at 9/10 - she'll be 17 next week and is still writing...she's done NaNoWriMo for several years now.
DD10 writes also - not quite as much - she tends to illustrate her stories more
DS? At 10, I was still hoping for a complete sentence...he was 12 before he could write a paragraph...but he had dysgraphia and ASD - he writes fine now but will never be a writer
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Post by melissa on May 3, 2017 3:13:47 GMT
My dd has gone through phases like this from the time she was very small. In Pre-K, her greatest joy was to write a little book. I am not sure if it was just because she liked to write and draw, but because once you finished writing a book, you got to sit and read it to the class at circle time (she is also a ham). <Don't want to imply the books were any great work of literature, even though I saved many of them. An entire book might have read "It snowed. Mommy and Daddy helped me make a snowman." Yeah, she was precocious." She has volumes of journals that go back to age 4 (lots of stickers in those early volumes).
She still will write volumes when she has the chance. One day, maybe she will even actually finish a novel. She has had 3 in various stages of completion over the years.
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Post by 950nancy on May 3, 2017 3:18:04 GMT
This is one of my favorite dedications to Grandma. The author is from Glee. He is on his 11th book and is 26. My student loved his novels.
“To Grandma, for being my first editor and giving me the best writing advice I’ve ever received: “Christopher, I think you should wait until you’re done with elementary school before worrying about being a failed writer.”
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Post by PLurker on May 4, 2017 0:08:29 GMT
Timely to this thread: My DD just asked me to bring her up a little book she made for me when she was small and gave to me. As an art therapy student she has to develop methods to work with children. One of the processes she chose was simple book making for younger children. She said she'd probably get "brownie points" from her professor if she had one from her childhood. lol So I found it and a few more she had made to top it off and will bring when I go up for a doc appt. It also took me down a time sucking rabbit hole look at her little tub of saved art work and journals. So beachgurl you may want save a few. For yourself and her.
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