peabay
Prolific Pea
Posts: 9,599
Jun 25, 2014 19:50:41 GMT
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Post by peabay on Jun 18, 2017 12:09:24 GMT
I'm really sorry. Sending my love.
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Post by travelsoul on Jun 18, 2017 13:49:41 GMT
I wrote a very similar post to yours several years ago. I was told by several doctors to use donor eggs and the guilt and disappointment I felt was unbearable. My life choices caused me to wait too long to have children. My husband responded exactly like yours. I finally found a doctor who'd let me give it a shot. 2 years of treatments finally gave me my biological daughter. I was convinced thie 2nd round of IVF failed. I started to bleed 4 days before my blood test and the bleeding looked just like my period. It was implantation bleeding! I was pregnant. I spotted my entire first trimester. I hope your outcome is the exact same. Luck and light to you.
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Post by piebaker on Jun 18, 2017 14:16:57 GMT
Sending thoughts of support. I hope your hopes and dreams are realized.
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Post by LilyRose on Jun 18, 2017 15:58:37 GMT
I'm sorry you're going through this. Be gentle with yourself (but I understand the feelings you're experiencing.
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Post by malibou on Jun 18, 2017 16:03:39 GMT
I am so sorry you are having these struggles. And most definitely I am wishing you to be pregnant and hoping for implantation bleeding.
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scrappinmama
Pearl Clutcher
Posts: 4,866
Jun 26, 2014 12:54:09 GMT
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Post by scrappinmama on Jun 18, 2017 16:06:01 GMT
I'm sorry. It's perfectly understandable to be frustrated and angry. Hang in there.
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katybee
Drama Llama
Posts: 5,378
Jun 25, 2014 23:25:39 GMT
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Post by katybee on Jun 18, 2017 16:39:17 GMT
I've walked a very similar path. IVF is so fucking hard. Just in case... I spotted early with all three of mine. The Dr. called "implant" bleeding and said it was a "good sign." So I wish you that kind of luck!!!!!! This. Don't give up yet...hope is not a bad thing. Im sorry you're going through this. My BFF went through one failed round. On her second, she implanted both embryos she had left. She wasn't hopeful at all and had convinced herself it was a waste of time and money. I think she was just protecting herself. She started spotting and (even though the doctors told her it might happen) thought it didn't work. A year later, she has 2 very active, healthy, beautiful toddlers.
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