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Post by samncam on Jul 23, 2017 0:08:39 GMT
I am not ashamed about it and I will tell and show anyone who may seem interested. My immediate and extended family know, enjoy looking at my albums, and are glad for me to take their pictures bc they know it will only end up in my book and not social media. Besides, no one else knows how much all this stuff costs anyway besides me and DH. My DH and children enjoy looking at the albums and reading all the stories, and my DH and I have joked that we will be looking at those albums everyday when the kids go off to college. Maybe for the outsiders, they are afraid to say anything bc My face is BEAMING when I tell them that I scrapbook, lol. Like this: 😁 And then they are afraid they will hurt my feelings. I have even given my supplies away and made mini albums as gifts to non-scrapbookers who have just had babies. But no matter what, I have never cared what anyone else thought about my love for scrapbooking. Some read, some cook, some bake...most people have some sort of hobby, and this is mine. Don't be ashamed. Your attitude towards it can be affecting their response/attitude. So next time, tell them loud and proud and with the biggest grin ever. They may be shocked/silenced, but I doubt they will have the audacity to verbalize anything negative. And if they do, then they are just horrible and negative people anyway that you don't need to waste your time with (time that should be spent on scrapbooking).
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Post by katiekaty on Jul 23, 2017 0:12:22 GMT
I talk about it and my other hobbies (sewing, painting, etc. when conversation turns to those areas but I am always cautious. People seem to be judgy about it, but they have to realize that my children are grown, and I get to do this . Although, I have always made time for my craftiness. I never used to feel that way about it, but these days people seem to think crafting is odd or for people who too much time or no ambition to better themselves or something. I get a lot of that from work type friends, which is weird. Because as soon as they really realize what I can do, they always want to hit me up for something like make them a scrapbook or sew something for them or make them something they saw on Pinterest!
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Post by scrappington on Jul 23, 2017 0:48:01 GMT
No I do not. I've just started showing the cards I make to some
My friend who owned a scrapbk store at one point I told people I met her because she owned a sex shop
When a friend of mine saw my scrapbk room she just saw paints and such. She thought it was my DH's. She believed that more than me being crafty.
If I go to a retreat and work asks why I taken vaca I say girls weekend. To a cottage.
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Post by 950nancy on Jul 23, 2017 1:40:16 GMT
Where I work now knows that I scrapbook because I made a book for one of my coworkers and she talks about it. I made her the book about 10 years ago when she retired. It was a collection of thoughts from 700 kids in the school. They all gave her suggestions on what she would do as a retired principal.
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Post by scrapaddict702 on Jul 23, 2017 2:00:45 GMT
But those who like to judge or say it's a waste of time are always the first to ask you to make them something incredibly elaborate for free (or for an insulting amount of money) like it's NBD!!
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Post by KikiPea on Jul 23, 2017 2:37:38 GMT
Yep. Everyone knows I scrapbook, especially family,and anyone I am friends with on FB, or Instagram.I post every LO, or gift I make, and many of those people get either scrapped cards, or gifts from me.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jul 23, 2017 4:15:44 GMT
Yes, I do.
I love scrapbooking and always take photos. Most people know that about me. I am not one to have people over or entertain, so I don't have an opportunity to show my scrapbooks off. If I meet someone new, sooner or later, it comes up in conversation.
Personally, I don't care, what other people think. I humbly, say "If you like me wonderful....if you don't, then feel free to excuse yourself from my life". I know it sounds callous, but I don't intend it to be. It's more of a "at my age, I am done trying to please other people". People are going to judge, and for me it's "in one ear, out the other".
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Post by grammadee on Jul 23, 2017 4:29:44 GMT
I do tell people when they ask about my hobbies and interests, or if they ask about my weekend plans, etc. I just say, I love scrapbooking and I do it as often as I can. If someone doesn't know what it is I say I put my photos, memorabilia and journalling all together in albums. Anyone who knows me more than by site knows that about me if they know anything at all. People who really know me will save things for me, especially memorabilia. My mom was watching my friend and I go through our purchases from CKC and she got so overwhelmed she had to leave the room. She said, "Mow what do you do with all that?" She knows I scrapbook and she even has her entire childhood scrapbooked, but she just could not fathom how I could possibly use all I had bought. I think the only group who "gets" our need for a stockpile of possibilities is quilters.
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Post by kate on Jul 23, 2017 4:48:14 GMT
I feel the exact same way OP. That is why I never say scrapbook, I say that I do papercrafting, because really, that is what I do. That's what I do - and I leave it at that. I don't care if they think I do scherenschnitte or origami or whatever. I feel like scrapbooking had a bit of a stigma even in its heyday around here. And I hate it when people give me a condescending, "Oh, that takes too much time for me with my busy schedule!"
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Post by chendra on Jul 23, 2017 5:02:00 GMT
Two of my coworkers tried to tease me about it, but I said "Listen--*you* knit and quilt and *you* play golf and bridge. Why are you accusing *me* of having an "old lady" hobby?" I don't actually care what people think, but it doesn't really come up in conversation.
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Post by scrapnnana on Jul 23, 2017 9:59:12 GMT
It's not something that I tell people right away, but I do mention it eventually. It's one way that I made some good friends back in Virginia. I invited them to come craft with me, whether they scrapbooked or did some other craft. Most of them scrapbooked. One or two decided to take up scrapbooking. We chatted and enjoyed each other's company while we crafted together.
In September, DH and I moved halfway across the country to be closer to our married kids and grandkids. I have already met two gals here who are interested in getting together to scrapbook.
Yes, some people will be judgmental about this Hobby, but if I had kept quiet about my scrapbooking, I would have missed out on some great friendships.
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Post by SuPeaNatural on Jul 23, 2017 10:05:05 GMT
I have no problem at all telling people i scrap if it comes about in conversation, although I don't actively do it. I've never had anyone be rude about it, most think it's a nice hobby. I have had a few condescending comments though - "oh, I don't have time for that kind of thing".
My reply (in my best patronizing tone) to them goes something like - "oh that's such a shame. We should all make time for ourselves, to do something that makes us happy. I feel so sorry for you that you don't give yourself that gift".That usually shuts them up. If they think they can judge me or what I do, I'll let them know that they also are being judged.
I don't give a hoot what others think about it, or me for doing it. I don't do it for them, I do it for myself and my family and that's all I need to make me feel good about it.
Hugs to those of you who feel people look down on your hobby. Try not to let them have that much power - don't allow them to diminish what you enjoy doing.
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Post by dawnnikol on Jul 23, 2017 11:18:37 GMT
I don't walk around with a shirt that says it, but I'd totally wear one if I liked it. People do all sorts of crap, like play Candy Crush for 9 hours a day. I see no reason to feel "ashamed" or "embarrassed" about doing something that preserves my memories or history. I even ask my daughter's teacher to send me stuff home (not out of the way at all) so I can add it to her scrapbook. I also take pictures all the time and I'm happy to answer questions about either, even if I don't like talking to people in general. I don't know anybody else who does it that I can scrap with in person (although my 5 year old is starting), but my family loves it and they are the important part. I choose to think that the people who have told me they "don't have time for that" just aren't creative enough to handle it, so that's their loss.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Jul 23, 2017 12:17:20 GMT
Anyone else like me, or do I happen to be some sort of secretive odd ball? I don't tell people that I scrapbook. My kids know. There is such a stigma attached to scrapbooking. I don't get it. It's fine to spend all freaking day playing games on Facebook or on a smartphone, but sit down with paper and pictures for a couple hours a week and suddenly, "Must be nice to have all that time!" And the judgement on spending money on scrapbooking. People who blow hundreds of dollars a month on smokes, beers, and gambling will tell me it's a waste to buy paper and stickers. "Don't you know you could just keep those photos on your phone/ a computer for free?" I've heard that one before. And it's funny, because scrapbooking doesn't have to be super expensive. I've built a stash over 13 years of having this hobby. I buy tools with coupons, or at thrift stores. I once had an acquaintance scoff at me wasting "so much money" on paper. I asked her how much she spends on cigarettes a week. $65 dollars. A week. I told her I don't spend $65 a year on paper. Sort of put it in perspective for a second or two. And you know, it's funny because even people who love you might judge you. I don't talk about scrapbooking with my mother. This is a wonderful woman who can spend hours in the garden and make beautiful things prosper. But she holds no value with photos. Doesn't take them. Would just as soon toss them. The only place I talk freely about scrapbooking is here. You are all my people.
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Post by mikklynn on Jul 23, 2017 12:21:04 GMT
I do tell people, but I don't think they have an understanding about what it is. I don't care if they think it's an old lady activity. A couple of the young people I work with wanted to see a vacation album I did and I think they thought it was pretty cool.
I also hate the "Oh, I would never have time for that" comment. Well, I work hard and NEED the downtime and creative outlet.
ETA - I feel sorry for the whole generation of kids out there that won't have their childhood photos. I know many parents that use only their phones to take photos, but never print them or back them up. My own kids included! If I didn't scrapbook, my grandchildren wouldn't have these amazing photos and the stories to go with them.
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Post by gigi333 on Jul 23, 2017 13:52:50 GMT
I tell people I'm pretty sure they think it's lame and weird, but I'm also pretty sure they already thought I was weird
Doesn't bother me, I love it and I adore my albums, and when I die I've told my family I wa t all my albums left out
I've just spent 2 days in my aunties house at my Nana's wake, and her funeral yesterday, people,talking about her sharing memories etc, I know for a fact if she had scrapped people would have been fawning over her albums. People think it's stupid now but in the future they will see the value of it
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2017 13:57:11 GMT
I digital scrap and am on a few creative teams. Nobody gets what or why I do. My family loves it but I've had people say " so you make pages for this person who makes digital kits and you get nothing?" No, I get the kit for free, something I would purchase anyway.
They just don't get it and think I am being taken advantage of. No way..I get to keep my layouts and create memories..it's a win.
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Post by freeatlast on Jul 23, 2017 14:02:21 GMT
I feel the exact same way OP. That is why I never say scrapbook, I say that I do papercrafting, because really, that is what I do. I also enjoy making cards, stamping, mini albums, home decor, almost anything with pretty paper. But still I only say this to a close circle of people. I don't feel judged by them and I don't have to explain to them that I have time for this because I make time for it. Much like they make time for sitting on the couch to watch sports, or shopping at the mall. Like FurryP, my response is always that I do papercrafting. If someone shows interest and asks a follow up question, I would probably say " I make greeting cards for charitable organizations." If their eyes roll into the back of their heads at that point, it's time to move on to another discussion topic.
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Post by dasmith2 on Jul 23, 2017 14:07:48 GMT
Generally no, unless I know they are into crafting. I post my pages here, but never on my social media. I have a few old scrapping buddies on there, but most people I know don't scrapbook. My family loves that I scrapbook though, and that's what matters.
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Post by LisaDV on Jul 23, 2017 14:30:11 GMT
Our families know that I scrapbook. If the subject of hobbies were to come up with other people, I would say I like various crafts - painting, paper, sewing and leave it at that. The exception is if someone else says that they scrapbook, I would then admit to it as well. It definitely has a stigma to it, and I'm often the odd one with my views for the love of organics and sustainable farming and homeschooling that I don't need to add more fuel to the fire.
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Post by LisaDV on Jul 23, 2017 14:59:48 GMT
imsirius, which creative teams are you on? Do you mind sharing? I just say your layouts in another thread and they were gorgeous.
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Post by imsirius on Jul 23, 2017 16:12:00 GMT
imsirius , which creative teams are you on? Do you mind sharing? I just say your layouts in another thread and they were gorgeous. Thank you! I sent you a pm.
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Post by Deleted on Jul 23, 2017 17:27:33 GMT
Yes.
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Post by dasmith2 on Jul 23, 2017 18:18:15 GMT
I wish I had someone local that scrapbooks. I love talking about it and I don't have friends that I can talk to about it
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Post by refugeepea on Jul 23, 2017 18:33:04 GMT
No, because I overwhelmingly get the reply, I wish I had the time to scrapbook. If I happen to tell them or they see the stuff in my living room, I tell them I scrap what I want and don't care about preserving every memory or even telling a story on each page. They usually have a look, like, what's the point? It's not often I'm asked if I have any hobbies, but I say I have none.
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Post by pennyscraps on Jul 23, 2017 19:02:54 GMT
I don't really tell people about my hobby. I'm fairly private and most people don't grasp the joy one can find out of playing with papers and photos. After scrapping for 23 years, I have learned to just keep it my little secret.
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Post by Night Owl on Jul 23, 2017 19:41:56 GMT
I do get embarrassed of people seeing my scrappy comments or the scrapbook related sites that I hit Like to on FACEBOOK! I have thought of starting a new Facebook account just for the manufacturer and scrapbook store sites so I can sign up for contests and comment without people I know reading it and thinking I am a big dork. But my family and close friends definitely know I scrapbook. They have no idea though how much scrapbook stuff I own or how much money and time I invest in it. Then again I am the last one still scrapbooking. Though my SIL, Mom, and best friend do say they want to get back to it again.
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Post by 950nancy on Jul 23, 2017 22:18:39 GMT
I used to make the best bulletin boards for different holidays using my Cricut. Our walls (inside and out) of our classrooms were the type you could staple into. I often had parents (from other grades) stop in and ask if I scrapped or made cards or whatever. It was a nice way to meet other adults who appreciated the craft.
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Post by melanell on Jul 24, 2017 0:32:43 GMT
Sure, if the topic of hobbies or past times comes up, I'll definitely mention it. We all have a limited amount of free time in our lives---we get to fill it with whatever we like, even if others don't "get" it. Of course, I drag my kids to cemeteries and historical societies in my free time, so scrapbooking probably seems downright "normal" in comparison.
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Post by refugeepea on Jul 24, 2017 0:41:48 GMT
Another reason I don't tell people I scrap is because I don't want to share what I have made. It's my own private thing I like to do.
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