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Post by Deleted on Aug 11, 2017 5:19:55 GMT
I love Amy Sorensen! amysorensen.typepad.com/the_english_geek/2017/07/towards-a-feminist-understanding-of-scrapbooking.html"You discover this so quickly when you start digging in to family history. There are many, many of my female ancestors who are noted only as someone’s wife, without a name, and daughters listed just like that: daughter. Yet most of the sons’ names are noted. Women’s stories—all the way down to their names—are invisible... I want to know: what did Mary Elizabeth Hughes love about her childhood in Virginia? What experiences did she have during the Civil War? What experiences did she have traveling west? What did she think the first time she saw the mountains? Did she love or hate to cook? What was her favorite season? What were her daily struggles? What did she think about her son Nathan’s choice of a wife (my great-grandma Amy)? Did her Nathan have any similarities to my Nathan? Unless some previously-unknown document was discovered, I will never know any of those details, about her or about any of my female ancestors.... We lived. We breathed. We walked on this earth. Not all of us have extraordinary, history-changing lives. But all of us have been a part of human history. Almost exactly half of it. And the only way our voices, our stories will be remembered is if we tell them. Tell them, somehow. In a blog or a journal or a blank screen in the word processor of your choice. Say them out loud while you record yourself. Or, yes, even: make a scrapbook. A layout or two or five or an entire album or ten albums. Your stories are important and no one else can tell them. And this will never stop being important to me." I wish I knew her in real life, but I am grateful for her words!
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Post by nicolep on Aug 11, 2017 13:58:27 GMT
Oh my goodness, I love this. It's so true. I am an emotional person so details about how a person felt, what they thought, how they dealt with situations mean a great deal to me. Journaling is one of my favorite parts of scrapbooking. TFS!
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Post by grammadee on Aug 11, 2017 14:13:17 GMT
I believe in telling our stories: all of them: male and female.
My dad was a story teller. I knew even as a child that his stories were embellished to some degree, but I always thought of him as a hero from a fantastic tale of loss overcome with adventure and positive attitude. And his mother told her stories too, with more anger than excitement. Yet my picture of her is of a survivor, tough as nails, living out her advice: "Never forget who you ARE!"
Their stories have been written down by my older brother who was the historian of our family. And, since I am a storyteller too, I have often repeated parts of them to my children and grandkids. I don't know if the kids believe even the rudimentary details of the stories themselves, but that is okay. They need to know they come from a long line of survivors who have thrived through hard work and belief in a better world.
When I scrapbook, I focus on the NOW. When I tell the stories that accompany photos of my dgk's, I point out those qualities that will carry these kids to adulthood and beyond. I write down what I see in them that makes me proud, and I hope when they see their pages and read their journaling that they will believe that these qualities are theirs to keep.
And I hope when they remember me, they will remember the story teller who saw hope in each of them.
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 11, 2017 15:13:50 GMT
One of my dreams is to scrapbook some of my great-aunts and uncles stories. They are really interesting. My kids only knew a couple of them. There is triumph and tragedy that I want to pass along.
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Post by meridon on Aug 12, 2017 17:28:54 GMT
Awesome link! Thanks for sharing! So many make light of our hobby and don't get that it goes much deeper than just playing with pretty things. Not that playing with pretty things doesn't have value on its own, but memory keeping is actually historically significant. Someone someday needs to know more about life in this era than what social media will suggest....if those are even still around and accessible given how quickly technology changes.
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Post by hutchfan on Aug 12, 2017 17:32:52 GMT
Thanks for sharing this!
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Post by dasmith2 on Aug 12, 2017 17:38:56 GMT
Thanks for sharing this. I don't scrapbook about myself, and I have recently thought about making a mini album about me sometime soon, just need to do some brainstorming
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2017 17:47:42 GMT
I would spend many thousands if someone could magic up a scrapbook w/either of my grandmothers' or any of my great-grandmothers' thoughts, dreams, fears.
They lived hard, courageous lives and I wish I could know how they loved, worked, what they cared about.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 12, 2017 20:27:30 GMT
Made me think about a really good book I read this week: "America's First Daughter". Fiction, but used letters and biographies to make Martha, Thomas Jefferson's daughter come alive. I don't think anyone will do this for us, though, so we need to get to journalling.
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Post by refugeepea on Aug 12, 2017 22:03:31 GMT
I'm not comfortable telling my story. I did before I got married and had kids. Now, it's much too personal and I do not like the idea of future generations knowing everything about my life. I have to be honest it is not compelling. It's the story of a SAHM, married, and has kids. I'm the type of person who plays the bad things over and over in my head. Putting it on paper is not healthy for *me*. I'll tell the fun stories, give info about the day in the life of...but not get emotional about my journaling. Besides, I am terrible at story telling. If I had the capabilities of that blogger, it *might* be different the way I scrapped. I usually just give the facts. No way do I want to tell my entire life to everyone. Probably my crappy attitude has to do with my childhood. SO MUCH emphasis was put on genealogy (family history). Doing work for the dead, baptisms for the dead, temple work for the dead, indexing dead people's names, taking classes on how to do this, going to church libraries to enter this information (before it became easier)...I felt like there wasn't time for the living to truly experience and enjoy life because of all that was expected of us. Also, while I found it interesting to hear about ancestors, anything past my grandparents or great grandparents had little interest for me besides where they happen to come from and who I'm related to. Family history was much more than where you hear a cool story about your grandmother who was the only person in her family who did not contract the Spanish flu and she nursed everyone back to health. Then she went on to marry a widower who's wife had succumbed to the illness. p.s. It appears she went to the Scrap Gals retreat in May. Oh no! Time for banning! <<---- That is me joking.
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