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Post by colleen on Aug 30, 2017 16:28:39 GMT
handling this Harvey crisis well at all. I'm usually great in a crisis (can't find my keys and I lose my sh!t, but in a crisis, I'm your girl). Literally at the brink of tears all morning. That photo of the little old ladies in the flooded nursing home almost broke me. I have a tremendous urge to just get in my car, stop at Costco and load it up, and go to Texas. I fully realize this is next to useless, so I have been praying and donating $$. I found a list of Amazon Wish Lists for organizations that are helping in Texas and bought cat food and diapers.
The only time I remember feeling like this regarding something that didn't directly affect me was 9/11.
Any one else anxious?
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Post by mom on Aug 30, 2017 16:47:51 GMT
Yes, I am anxious about Harvey as I have family and friends who are in the middle of it. My heart breaks for my fellow Texans. I like the idea about the Amazon wish Lists. I have donated money to a couple of organizations and will be dropping off cleaning supplies (clorox wipes, mops, buckets, laundry detergent, etc) to a local group that is going down to help with clean up. But it just doesn't feel like its enough.
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Post by papersilly on Aug 30, 2017 16:51:28 GMT
i feel guilty because the worst we have to contend with this week in L.A. is a heat wave. i feel like all the problems i have are first world problems compared to the victims of Harvey. my heart goes out to everyone who is displaced and otherwise affected by the storm.
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Post by colleen on Aug 30, 2017 16:56:52 GMT
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Post by Montannie on Aug 30, 2017 16:59:20 GMT
colleen, I saw a follow-up picture of those ladies safe, sound and dry yesterday. But I understand where you're coming from. The elderly, infirm and the poor suffer the most in these events.
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Post by schizo319 on Aug 30, 2017 17:01:32 GMT
I was completely torn up by the nursing home picture too (Have you seen the update photo? They're all safe and dry at a nearby nursing facility now <3).
In case anyone here sews, The Linus Connection of Central Texas is distributing homemade blankets to child evacuees and are accepting donations of quilts, single layer finished fleece blankets, and yarn blankets (30x30 - 54x74. They can be mailed to:
The Linus Connection PO box 29491 Austin, TX 78755
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Post by Deleted on Aug 30, 2017 17:10:57 GMT
I have to turn the channel when any Harvey coverage comes on. We've flooded twice and the images bring back bad memories and fears of flooding again.
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Post by colleen on Aug 30, 2017 17:42:31 GMT
colleen , I saw a follow-up picture of those ladies safe, sound and dry yesterday. But I understand where you're coming from. The elderly, infirm and the poor suffer the most in these events. I just saw it too! Thank goodness. Thanks for understanding. Save
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Post by jenettycakes on Aug 30, 2017 17:49:07 GMT
i feel guilty because the worst we have to contend with this week in L.A. is a heat wave. i feel like all the problems i have are first world problems compared to the victims of Harvey. my heart goes out to everyone who is displaced and otherwise affected by the storm. I feel the same way. We are in the middle of horrible heat, today will be 112 and it's also my birthday day yet I am overwhelmed by what I have been seeing coming from Houston & surrounding areas. I remember my birthday 10 years ago and stopping in several donation drive-by spots our local news organizations setup for donations because of Katrina. Then 20 years ago after waking up from my 21st birthday celebration and learning of Princess Dianna's death. Anyhow, I agree as I am in Riverside but I will be running errands to help send supplies to Texas from a local group in our neighborhood heading out there.
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Post by RosieKat on Aug 30, 2017 17:57:33 GMT
Yes, I've been unduly anxious about all of this. I'm in Austin, so at first we weren't sure how we would be affected. (In my area, we got a lot of rain but it was nothing dangerous except during/immediately after the really intense rain.) Then I just kept worrying about my parents and uncle in Houston. We haven't heard from my uncle (though that's not at all uncommon), but my parents are safe and their house only received some rain leak damage. (They still can't get out of their neighborhood, but water is very slowly going down.) But now, I'm feeling guilty that we're having sunny, not-even-too-hot days while all this horrible stuff is still happening. A large part of my feelings are based in the facts that I've lived in Texas and S Louisiana for over 3/4 of my life, but still, I don't really have any personal impact from this. But I'm not sleeping right, and I feel that restless anxiety that makes me want to DO something. Sending money is the best thing right now, I know, but it just doesn't satisfy that anxiety.
I'm not trying to whine, I'd obviously prefer to be [anxious and perfectly safe and fine] than [anxious and losing people and property]. But I do understand what you're talking about.
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Post by J u l e e on Aug 30, 2017 18:53:36 GMT
I'm passing out hugs to everyone upthread and everyone who posts below me. My level of tears has been just below my lower eyelashes for the last several days and they spill over at various times during the day. I wish I could do more than just give money, but it has made me feel better to find places to donate that mean something to me and would lift my spirits if I were there.
I also work part time for a non profit humanitarian relief organization. I got to spend the morning working on our mobilization effort to help out in the areas affected by this storm, and it seriously helped my depression over this. So, just keep doing what you can, even if it's just spreading the word of where to help so that other people can help in he same way you have.
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Post by worrywart on Aug 31, 2017 3:00:42 GMT
I'm feeling the same. If I even think about it for a moment, I am tearing up..when I think about the kindness that has been shown by so many, some of whom have lost their homes as well, it is just overwhelming.
Everyone near me has someone who has been affected in one way or another, family, friends etc.
I think doing the donations are helpful to feel like we have something to offer. It has been so heartbreaking, but in the end I am really proud of how the state is handling it specifically people getting along and helping each other.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Aug 31, 2017 3:06:48 GMT
I tear up watching the news coverage. But I can't stop watching. And donating doesn't feel like doing enough, but I don't know what else to do.
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Post by colleen on Aug 31, 2017 17:32:35 GMT
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Post by oh yvonne on Aug 31, 2017 19:59:30 GMT
You are my people!
I lived in Dallas way back in 89-90 and still have friends in Texas, following the news and updates on FB from many of them, I'm also torn up over the suffering/rescues/heroics.
I should probably start a different thread asking about this..but aren't we NOT supposed to be donating physical goods? I read an article about how sending clothing/toys/etc is a bad thing to do because there is no way to store/sort/hand it out.
What we are supposed to do is send money, and let the locals buy the stuff they actually need.
I saw pictures of piles upon piles of rotting clothing /toys that had to be burned after other major disasters.
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Post by monklady123 on Aug 31, 2017 20:03:02 GMT
i feel guilty because the worst we have to contend with this week in L.A. is a heat wave. i feel like all the problems i have are first world problems compared to the victims of Harvey. my heart goes out to everyone who is displaced and otherwise affected by the storm. I was thinking this the other day when we had nonstop rain all day, starting the night before (this was the day Melania walked across the soggy White House lawn in her spike heels, lol). -- Anyway, we were taking care of a neighbor's dog and between going up to her house to feed her, walking my dog and that dog in the rain, twice, and going to the grocery store I felt like I'd been wet all day. Then I remembered that really I wasn't. And that I could come home and take off wet socks and wet pants and change into cozy PJs and sit in my comfy chair with a nice hot cup of tea. Yep, I have no problems at all. So awful.
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Post by monklady123 on Aug 31, 2017 20:07:49 GMT
None of those links work for me. Is there somewhere else where we could find a list?
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Post by tiffanyr on Aug 31, 2017 20:11:45 GMT
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Aug 31, 2017 20:30:20 GMT
I just read that. Tough little girl!!
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Post by TXMary on Aug 31, 2017 21:00:43 GMT
I am affected directly and indirectly. I need to cry but I haven't been able to. I just feel numb.
Mostly what I feel is gratitude because we have damage but it could have been so much worse and yet guilt because so many others have such tremendous loss. My heart breaks for those who have been severely affected.
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Post by oh yvonne on Aug 31, 2017 21:36:43 GMT
I am affected directly and indirectly. I need to cry but I haven't been able to. I just feel numb. Mostly what I feel is gratitude because we have damage but it could have been so much worse and yet guilt because so many others have such tremendous loss. My heart breaks for those who have been severely affected. oh sweet Mary, I'm so sorry you are in the line of fire with this. My prayers go out to you and your family as you deal with what now must be a painful aftermath.
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Post by colleen on Sept 1, 2017 0:11:35 GMT
I am affected directly and indirectly. I need to cry but I haven't been able to. I just feel numb. Mostly what I feel is gratitude because we have damage but it could have been so much worse and yet guilt because so many others have such tremendous loss. My heart breaks for those who have been severely affected. Mary, if you need some virtual support or a place to vent, we're here for you. I'm glad you're safe. Save
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Post by J u l e e on Sept 1, 2017 1:20:34 GMT
I am affected directly and indirectly. I need to cry but I haven't been able to. I just feel numb. Mostly what I feel is gratitude because we have damage but it could have been so much worse and yet guilt because so many others have such tremendous loss. My heart breaks for those who have been severely affected. (((HUGS)))
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Post by peasapie on Sept 1, 2017 1:28:43 GMT
Yes, I've been feeling very sad and unsettled. We lived through Sandy and it's aftermath and I know what they are facing over the next weeks, months, years. They are still lifting houses in my shore neighborhood all these years later. And this now is so much worse.
Every picture I see breaks my heart - the children, the old people, the animals...
But I'm heartened by the heroism and the bravery, the sharing and compassion people are showing. Thanks for the links.
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Post by quinlove on Sept 1, 2017 2:29:20 GMT
In the middle of this disaster of epic proportions, the amount of average people doing heroic deeds is overwhelming. This is so inspiring to me. And, apparently to most everyone. Really gives us hope when our country really needed it. Well done USA.
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Post by beebee on Sept 1, 2017 4:53:02 GMT
I agree colleen. This is hurting me.
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