Post by SweetieBsMom on Oct 21, 2017 13:20:27 GMT
I apologize, I looked for a vent thread but didn't see one.
My FIL passed away. His wake is tomorrow and funeral is Monday. My husband's family is a dumpster fire and that's putting it nicely. Seriously, if this wake isn't Jerry Springer worthy, I will be surprised. My BIL, and his family, was purposefully left out of the obit. The man wasn't dead 24 hours before everyone was fighting.
DH has a lot of anger toward his family as they've done NOTHING for him since being diagnosed with terminal cancer. He asked his Mom to make him an apple pie. She dug one out of her freezer and said "it's been in there a couple of years, it's probably still good".
We have distanced ourselves from them, more my doing because they are poison and quite frankly I don't want to be around them and don't want my DS around them.
I'm fighting with my sister because I was supposed to take my Dad to a doctor's appointment on Monday morning (and I'm taking him to one on Tuesday!) and now I can't. She wants me to reschedule it but he REALLY needs to go. I told her "you're taking him, end of discussion". I will lose my mind if she ends up blowing him off. I keep telling her I can't do it all and it doesn't seem to register with her.
So the next two days will be exhausting and if that wasn't enough, I was diagnosed with pneumonia on Thursday. Awesome! My doctor is convinced it's because I'm so run down trying to do everything for everyone.
Okay. Got that off my chest.
My FIL passed away. His wake is tomorrow and funeral is Monday. My husband's family is a dumpster fire and that's putting it nicely. Seriously, if this wake isn't Jerry Springer worthy, I will be surprised. My BIL, and his family, was purposefully left out of the obit. The man wasn't dead 24 hours before everyone was fighting.
DH has a lot of anger toward his family as they've done NOTHING for him since being diagnosed with terminal cancer. He asked his Mom to make him an apple pie. She dug one out of her freezer and said "it's been in there a couple of years, it's probably still good".
We have distanced ourselves from them, more my doing because they are poison and quite frankly I don't want to be around them and don't want my DS around them.
I'm fighting with my sister because I was supposed to take my Dad to a doctor's appointment on Monday morning (and I'm taking him to one on Tuesday!) and now I can't. She wants me to reschedule it but he REALLY needs to go. I told her "you're taking him, end of discussion". I will lose my mind if she ends up blowing him off. I keep telling her I can't do it all and it doesn't seem to register with her.
So the next two days will be exhausting and if that wasn't enough, I was diagnosed with pneumonia on Thursday. Awesome! My doctor is convinced it's because I'm so run down trying to do everything for everyone.
Okay. Got that off my chest.
