pridemom
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Post by pridemom on Nov 14, 2017 12:53:45 GMT
When you are the most mentally healthy person in a family of origin, that means the responsibilities fall to you. I've been open here about my mom's mental illness. Let's just say that it's the gift that keeps giving. Add to that fighting with insurance and pharmacy benefits manager to get my daughter's $5000/mo drug because someone screwed up paperwork and i am three states from home trying to clean out my mother's messy apartment, deal with legal stuff, and not go insane.
I want to walk away from it all but I can't.
Please get your papers in order for your family.
I will grieve later. Today I get to pick up her cremains, try to get my one sibling an ABLE account for his share of life insurance, and go visit the other brother in prison. I am grateful for good people in my life supporting me.
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Post by destined2bmom on Nov 14, 2017 12:55:53 GMT
Hugs and prayers. I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you get things straightened out soon.
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wellway
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Post by wellway on Nov 14, 2017 12:56:49 GMT
Sending you hugs ((Hugs))
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 14, 2017 13:05:00 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. I am really sorry it's compounded by being the only one to get this done. Hugs, my pea friend.
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Post by gar on Nov 14, 2017 13:05:17 GMT
I’m sorry 😐
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Nanner
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Post by Nanner on Nov 14, 2017 13:06:28 GMT
I'm so sorry. Good luck sorting everything out.
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Post by lucillebluth on Nov 14, 2017 13:06:31 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Nov 14, 2017 13:08:35 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss and all the other things you're dealing with. Please take care of yourself.
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Post by winniegirl on Nov 14, 2017 13:09:50 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Kerri W
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Post by Kerri W on Nov 14, 2017 13:12:35 GMT
I’m so sorry. (Hugs))
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Post by piebaker on Nov 14, 2017 13:13:13 GMT
I send my condolences. I hope things get settled soon.
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Post by deshacrafts on Nov 14, 2017 13:15:14 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. Hugs to you.
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Post by bessieb on Nov 14, 2017 13:15:24 GMT
So sorry for your loss . Please take some time for you when you get a chance.
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Deleted
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Post by Deleted on Nov 14, 2017 13:15:27 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. I can relate with what you're going through. Be kind to yourself through this rough patch and good advice on getting personal paperwork in order.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 14, 2017 13:19:28 GMT
Please accept my condolences. I'm sorry that you have so much burden on you as well. I hope you can get it all taken care of without too much difficulty.
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Post by miominmio on Nov 14, 2017 13:22:55 GMT
I'm so sorry!
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Post by jennrs on Nov 14, 2017 13:23:18 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hoping you find peace in the coming days.
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Post by paperaddictedpea on Nov 14, 2017 13:25:38 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss, and that you have to deal with so many responsibilities on top of that. Take care.
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Post by just PEAchy on Nov 14, 2017 13:25:41 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by bearmom on Nov 14, 2017 13:28:03 GMT
Sorry for your loss
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used2scrap
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Post by used2scrap on Nov 14, 2017 13:29:00 GMT
I'm sorry. Be extra gentle with yourself as you deal with it all.
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Post by Merge on Nov 14, 2017 13:31:04 GMT
Hugs to you. I’m so sorry for your loss and for what you’re dealing with now.
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Post by *sprout* on Nov 14, 2017 13:33:17 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. (((hugs)))
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Post by quinlove on Nov 14, 2017 13:34:14 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by mom on Nov 14, 2017 13:34:41 GMT
I am so sorry. You are in my prayers.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Nov 14, 2017 13:35:39 GMT
So sorry for your lost and that all responsibility has fallen to you. Hugs.
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hannahruth
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Post by hannahruth on Nov 14, 2017 13:38:16 GMT
Hugs to you - loosing your mum is one of life's hardest things, but with everything else you are dealing with it is a heavy burden for you.
Hopefully everything will go smoothly and you will find time for you to step back and restore strength to carry on.
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Post by LisaDV on Nov 14, 2017 13:40:00 GMT
I'm so sorry for you loss. I'm also sorry that all the responsibility has fallen upon you! Sending you hugs and strength to get through this difficult time. I hope that your dd's medicine benefits falls into place so you don't have to worry about that too.
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Post by hop2 on Nov 14, 2017 13:42:46 GMT
I’m so sorry.
Hugs
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scrappert
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Post by scrappert on Nov 14, 2017 13:43:02 GMT
Hugs, prayers and strength. I am sorry for your loss and that you have to deal with it all alone. Hoping your support system will keep you above water. Do what you have to and when it's done, take some time for yourself to grieve.
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