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Post by alexa11 on Nov 15, 2017 5:03:26 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by lucyg on Nov 15, 2017 7:21:07 GMT
I'm really sorry for your loss, and also sorry about the useless piece of crap ex. I'm unfortunately familiar with the type. Wishing peace and happy memories for you, DH, his parents and all.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2017 7:24:56 GMT
You're speaking your feelings. I don't believe there's anything wrong with honesty. I am sorry for your loss though. Reading your post made me shudder. I'm in constant, severe pain and have been taking pain meds for about 5 years now. I can barely get thru a day, much less think about what it's doing to my body. I'm 56 also (almost 57), so this hit home. I'm so sorry for your family, even if your BIL wasn't such a good person.
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Post by patin on Nov 15, 2017 8:40:09 GMT
I am so sorry. 56 is too young.
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anniebygaslight
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Post by anniebygaslight on Nov 15, 2017 8:49:58 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. Don't feel bad about your negative feelings. You are entitled to hold them. x
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michellegb
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Post by michellegb on Nov 15, 2017 10:17:24 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss and I completely understand your anger. Sending big hugs at this hard time...
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Post by miominmio on Nov 15, 2017 10:22:24 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2017 10:34:36 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. It's very hard to try and make any sense of things at times and I can understand your anger. Don't be too hard on yourself for feeling this way.
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Post by phoenixcov on Nov 15, 2017 11:26:00 GMT
Condolences for you and your family, I don`t expect that you are the only person in your family circle to be thinking about the unfairness of it all.
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peabay
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Post by peabay on Nov 15, 2017 11:49:43 GMT
Shakespeare said it many years ago, so you're not alone: "Why should a dog or horse or rat have life, but not you?" (King Lear)
When my lovely mom died 2 years ago, I couldn't get that thought out of my mind: "all these assholes still walking around..."
I'm really sorry for your loss.
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uksue
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Post by uksue on Nov 15, 2017 11:51:40 GMT
I think we all know someone who doesn't deserve their good health along with someone else who has had the worst possible health-hand given to them. You need to vent and I'm not sure if any of us - whether we are of faith or not -would feel any differently to you, tbh.
Sending your family prayers x
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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2017 11:56:34 GMT
I'm very sorry for your loss. Anger is a stage in grieving. Hugs to you.
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momto4kiddos
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Post by momto4kiddos on Nov 15, 2017 11:56:57 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss.
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Post by destined2bmom on Nov 15, 2017 12:00:25 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.
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Post by baslp on Nov 15, 2017 12:13:22 GMT
So sorry for your loss.
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Post by deshacrafts on Nov 15, 2017 12:26:31 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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julieb
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Post by julieb on Nov 15, 2017 12:59:22 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. You're not going to hell...it's human nature to wonder why someone you love is taken from you, when someone who doesn't respect life is still around.
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 15, 2017 13:02:37 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss. It's hard when life seems unfair. Being angry makes you human, not evil. Hugs, my pea friend.
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Post by Really Red on Nov 15, 2017 13:02:56 GMT
I am really sorry. It's hard not to have and understand reasons for things as we are reasoning people. Your DH and in-laws are lucky to have you.
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Post by MZF on Nov 15, 2017 13:15:03 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by coaliesquirrel on Nov 15, 2017 13:15:05 GMT
I'm so sorry for your BIL's pain and struggle, and for your loss. I hope for your eventual peace with his loss, but for now, grieve however you need to, and "scream" at us instead of the people in your life if it helps.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2017 13:21:02 GMT
I'm very sorry for the loss of your brother-in-law.
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imsirius
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Jul 12, 2014 19:59:28 GMT
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Post by imsirius on Nov 15, 2017 13:57:32 GMT
My condolences to your family.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 15, 2017 14:06:23 GMT
so very sorry for your loss(es)
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Post by LisaDV on Nov 15, 2017 14:36:10 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss. Prayers for strength and peace to your family. Extra special positive thoughts and strength to you as you also are still grieving your own dad during the holiday season and trying to be strong for your dh.
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scrappert
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Post by scrappert on Nov 15, 2017 15:11:14 GMT
I don't see you going to hell in a hand basket. There are many times we all question why someone who is nice and good dies before someone who is an asshat. Those are the questions only to be answered when it is our time.
My thoughts and prayers to you and your husband's family. Way too young. Swear, scream and cry all you want. It is ok.
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Post by jenjie on Nov 15, 2017 15:15:16 GMT
I’m so sorry.
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christinec68
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Post by christinec68 on Nov 15, 2017 15:37:53 GMT
I am very sorry about your brother in law. You all have my deepest sympathies.
And I don't think you're going to hell for feeling life is just not fair and plain ole suck sometimes.
(((hugs)))
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