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Post by DawnMcD on Apr 17, 2018 16:01:06 GMT
So many of you have been so encouraging to me during my MIL's illness. She and my FIL have lived with us about 3.5 years because of her failing health. Last year we discovered she had stage 4 non alcoholic Liver Cirrhosis. For several reasons she was not eligible for a transplant. In Nov. 2017 she went on hospice care. Early Monday morning April 16th she passed away after 2 weeks of no eating and drinking. This is by far the most difficult thing I have ever done but also very rewarding. I really appreciate so much the thoughts and support from the ladies here. I am a bit at a loss right now but I am looking forward to a craft expo on Friday with a few friends. I hope to be able to participate a bit more on the board as well.
Thank you for listening.
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Post by lisacharlotte on Apr 17, 2018 16:12:52 GMT
So sorry for your loss. The peas are a great resource during difficult times due to our breadth of experiences. I look forward to seeing your name pop up in discussions.
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Post by mikklynn on Apr 17, 2018 16:19:19 GMT
I am so sorry. Giant hugs, DawnMcD. |
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Apr 17, 2018 16:19:58 GMT
I'm sorry for your loss, I know it's tough caring for someone on hospice. Enjoy yourself on Friday and come back to tell us about it!
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Post by hutchfan on Apr 17, 2018 16:20:01 GMT
So very sorry for your loss. Have a wonderful time with your friends at the Expo!
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Post by grammadee on Apr 17, 2018 16:30:14 GMT
So many of you have been so encouraging to me during my MIL's illness. She and my FIL have lived with us about 3.5 years because of her failing health. Last year we discovered she had stage 4 non alcoholic Liver Cirrhosis. For several reasons she was not eligible for a transplant. In Nov. 2017 she went on hospice care. Early Monday morning April 16th she passed away after 2 weeks of no eating and drinking. This is by far the most difficult thing I have ever done but also very rewarding. I really appreciate so much the thoughts and support from the ladies here. I am a bit at a loss right now but I am looking forward to a craft expo on Friday with a few friends. I hope to be able to participate a bit more on the board as well. Thank you for listening. ((((HUGS)))) Dawn. You must be exhausted. What a wonderful loving thing to do for your family. Please take some time to grieve, to recover. |
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Post by karinec on Apr 17, 2018 16:38:31 GMT
I'm so sorry you had to go through this. Peace to you and your family during this time. I'm glad you've found a little something to look forward to. xoKarineC |
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Post by donna on Apr 17, 2018 16:49:29 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by nylene on Apr 17, 2018 16:55:31 GMT
Oh, Dawn, I am so sorry for all you have been through. I wish I could put my arms around you and give you a big hug.
The loss of a mother is the first sorrow grieved without her. Prayers for you, your husband,your FIL and other family members.
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Post by scrapaddict702 on Apr 17, 2018 17:15:38 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I can imagine how physically AND emotionally exhausting it must have been to be there for her in her final months. I truly hope that you are able to unwind and relax a little during the expo, it sounds like you could use a lot of positive in your life to help you through the loss and to help you recover from your time as a caregiver. My sister went through this with my Dad a few years ago as she was his go to (even before he got really sick) and it took a huge toll on her. Don't feel guilty taking time for yourself to heal whenever you feel like you need it.  |
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Post by pancakes on Apr 17, 2018 17:25:43 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss — your kindness and generosity to your in-laws is really admirable! Hope all gets easier as time passes. Enjoy yourself at the expo!
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Post by peasquared on Apr 17, 2018 17:32:13 GMT
I am so sorry to hear about your MIL. Be gentle with yourself and enjoy your day on Friday. It'll be a wonderful escape for you.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 17, 2018 17:36:39 GMT
Hugs to you and your family. Enjoy the Expo and being with friends. It is hard to get back to normal after such a tragedy.
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Post by gynergy on Apr 17, 2018 18:43:18 GMT
I’m so very sorry for you & your family’s loss. Much love to you during this difficult time. May good memories be of comfort now & in the future.
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Post by catseatcheese on Apr 17, 2018 18:47:00 GMT
That is great that you were able to help out your family. I hope you can take a little time to relax and have some fun at the expo.
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Post by msliz on Apr 17, 2018 19:06:21 GMT
I'm so sorry, Dawn.
(hugs)
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Post by kiwigirl on Apr 17, 2018 19:10:29 GMT
Awww Dawn, big hugs for you hun. I hope you're ok, sounds like a rough experience for sure. I hope you have a wonderful time with your friends on Friday xXx
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Post by purplebee on Apr 17, 2018 19:26:25 GMT
So sorry....hope you can enjoy your crafting time on Friday.
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Post by stinkerbelle on Apr 17, 2018 19:31:46 GMT
big hugs to you dawn! i hope you have a great time at the expo  |
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Post by anniefb on Apr 17, 2018 19:51:40 GMT
So sorry for your loss.
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Post by htstepper on Apr 17, 2018 20:10:10 GMT
Dawn,
Praying for peace for you and your family. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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Post by LisaDV on Apr 17, 2018 20:33:04 GMT
DawnMcD, hugs to you. Prayers and love for you and your family during this time of grief. I'm glad you have a little bright spot in the future to look forward to. I hope you enjoy yourself. Hugs,
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Post by customscrap on Apr 17, 2018 20:44:31 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Prayers to you and your family. Hope you will have a wonderful time on Friday.
Michelle
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Post by Chinagirl828 on Apr 17, 2018 20:51:10 GMT
I’m so sorry for your loss. Wishing you and your family peace in the days ahead.
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Post by Elsabelle on Apr 17, 2018 21:26:30 GMT
Dawn, I'm sorry about what you've been through. It sounds exhausting and traumatic. I hope you and your family find a way to refresh yourselves. Please join us here on the board when you can. Big hugs to you.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Apr 17, 2018 21:50:08 GMT
Wishing you and your loved ones peace, strength and healing during this time. You've been very dedicated to making the situation as bearable as possible which is more than admirable. It was a long death and it takes a special person to accompany someone (and the rest of the family) on such a journey. Now's the time to start recovering yourself. Enjoy the Expo and don't feel guilty for taking time for yourself. You not only deserve it but also require to practice some self-care now.
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Post by FurryP on Apr 17, 2018 22:30:12 GMT
So sorry for your loss. I am happy for you that you will be able to get away and spend some time for yourself to get your mind off of things.
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Post by scrapnnana on Apr 17, 2018 22:46:12 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. I am sure your loving and kind care meant all the world to your in-laws.
Sometimes after being a care giver for so long, it is hard to let go. Give yourself permission to have fun with your friends. It's time the care giver gets some care, too. Enjoy the Expo!
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Post by patin on Apr 17, 2018 23:03:09 GMT
((Hugs)) & prayers for you & your family.
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Post by refugeepea on Apr 17, 2018 23:26:13 GMT
((hugs)) Dawn. You are a strong woman.
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