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Post by Skellinton on Jun 11, 2018 12:48:35 GMT
I have a relative who very recently became widowed and although they are able to live alone they do have a risk of falling due to a physical disability. Is there anyone here that has a family member or know anyone that used Life Alert or a similar device that can recommend one? Or is there one they should avoid?
thank you!
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Post by Dixie Lou on Jun 11, 2018 14:08:37 GMT
We are also considering one for my dad so I am interested too.
Be sure to get one that doesn't have to be charged. My brother's FIL didn't charge his and ended up spending possibly 12 hours on the floor. No one knows for sure. He was finally able to crawl to a telephone and call 911.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 11, 2018 14:16:49 GMT
I used Life Station for my Mom & was very happy with the service. She wore a wrist band & never had to charge it. They would send me an email when her battery was getting low, send me a replacement & a box to ship the old one back to them.
This was 5-6 years ago & at the time, she only had a range to go out to the mailbox. I think they have cellular systems now that can go anywhere.
Life Station never failed us & Mom had to use it many times before she passed away. I highly recommend them.
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Post by lisae on Jun 11, 2018 14:36:27 GMT
I got Mobile Help for my parents. We got two wrist bands and paid extra for a fall alert button for my dad. They have been great to work with and I thought it was the best cost wise. We needed something with GPS because my dad was still mowing grass and I wanted him to have a way to contact us if he had trouble with his mower or tractor. If you don't need GPS and can use a system that just works within so many feet of a base unit, you might find something a little cheaper.
There was another thread about this a few months ago.
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Post by mikklynn on Jun 11, 2018 14:54:55 GMT
Thanks for the responses. My MIL actually wants something for when she is in AZ for the winter. She lives alone there. DH's brother lives with her when she is here for the summer.
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Post by janeinbama on Jun 11, 2018 19:10:08 GMT
My Mom uses Life Alert. She has no alarm system or internet, which really limits the choices. The Peas recommended them too.
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Post by jlynnbarth on Jun 11, 2018 19:29:43 GMT
We had one for my FIL when he was still living with us. It was through our home alarm system which was Monitronics at the time. They just got bought out by Brinks home security. It was a waterproof fob on a necklace. My FIL never left the house without one of us (he couldn't drive) so it was all we needed. The system would text me when we needed to change the battery. It was like a watch battery, the little round ones. Not a rechargeable battery. I think it would have worked well if my FIL had remembered that he had it on. When he fell he was already having memory issues, so he forgot he had it on. He fell sometime between noon and 4:00 pm when my dh got home from work.
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Post by Skellinton on Jun 11, 2018 20:39:48 GMT
Thank you for the info.
I did search,I promise, but nothing came up. I think other people have been having problems with search as well.
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Post by tkdmom on Jun 12, 2018 1:09:09 GMT
We had life alert for my mom. We could not use a cellular system because her house had aluminum siding, the signal did not pass through. She did not have internet. The system would call her if she was in one position too long or if her position indicated she might have fallen. IF she didn't respond then we were notified. She wore a fob around her neck. It worked well until her last fall. The way she fell she could not reach her neck fob, and was not prone or low enough to indicate a potential fall. Not a fault of the system just a freak fall.
For my MIL the system did not work at all. She refused to use it, would destroy the fobs, threw out the monitoring system.
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Post by threegirls on Jun 12, 2018 1:38:45 GMT
We used Bay Medical for my mom. She didn't like wearing the necklace at first but after she got used to it she forgot about it. There are different types of systems. She never had to use it so I can't really say how good it is. Bay Medical link
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Post by leeny on Jun 12, 2018 1:39:16 GMT
My mom has it. She has to have a real land line, not an internet phone line to use hers. They call her once a month through the machine to check that everything works. I understand you can get one with GPS in it, so if your loved one likes to take walks or wanders, they can be tracked and/or call away from home.
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Post by FLA SummerBaby on Jun 12, 2018 14:57:56 GMT
My mom has "Great Call" and it works well. She lives about 5 minutes from me but is alone at her house. She had a bad fall in Feb 2017 very early in the morning and fractured her pelvis in multiple places. Fortunately my mom was wearing her call box and actually used it! (She has had many falls over the past few years and while she has been good about wearing her machine, she typically would not press the button and instead would manage to get to a phone and call me to come pick her up.) Thank goodness she had the presence of mind to use it this time. Help arrived within 5 minutes and were already handling the situation by the time they called to tell me. I am so thankful that she uses it and realizes the importance.
Highly recommend them!
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Post by bwife on Jun 12, 2018 16:46:03 GMT
The key though to any Life Alert system ( or similar) is that they actually NEED to wear the band or the lanyard. I knew a few yrs ago my grandma ( who is 90) purchased life alert on her own. My dad thought it was a good idea because she refuses to only stay on 1 level of her home, She goes to the basement regularly to get stuff from the freezer and she will not let anyone move the freezer to the garage, The garage only has 3 steps VS the 15 Steep stairs to the basement. Anyway, I found out this weekend, she never wears the lanyard. My dad said it sits on the counter rolled up in a ball. So if you are going to spend the funds, make sure the person is GOING TO WEAR IT. My dad said he knows that some day he is going to walk into the house to check on her and find her at the bottom of those steps. She is so stubborn!
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Post by FLA SummerBaby on Jun 12, 2018 19:06:15 GMT
The key though to any Life Alert system ( or similar) is that they actually NEED to wear the band or the lanyard. This is so true. My mom has worn her lanyard for years but still avoided ever using the call button when she fell. She would manage to scoot across the floor until she could reach a phone and then call me instead. I am thankful when she really needed it she was wearing it and it worked! She tells me all the time about friends of hers who have a system but never wear the unit-- can't do much good if it isn't with you. My mom's is waterproof so she even wears in the shower.
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Post by FLA SummerBaby on Jun 12, 2018 20:17:10 GMT
Last thing to add that sometimes people don't think about -- it is a good idea to install a "lock box" outside the house of the person who wears this type of life alert. My mom was advised to do this by the company and it worked so well. We had installed this lock box (that we purchased at hardware store) and it has a dial/combination lock -- similar to a bike lock. And then we called both the company and the local police and added it to her info that if they needed access to her house, her spare keys were located in this lock box, where it was and how to get into it. I was quite happy to know it worked so smoothly for the first responders.
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Post by MerryMom on Jun 13, 2018 2:21:02 GMT
I got the Medical Guardian system for my mom. The devices are all basically the same, what you are paying for is the service of the call center. A good question to ask the company is where is their call center located. MANY, including ones mentioned in this thread, are overseas. Is their call center certified and by who; UL vs ETL vs IAED; know the difference. Ask about the cancellation policy. Do you need other language? Does your parent have hearing loss that would prevent them from hearing the dispatcher at the call center. You can’t test it except at home so know the return policy if your parent can’t hear the dispatcher from parts of the home. Know your parents lifestyle. For example my mom doesn’t drive anymore, so we didn’t need locator service, we didn’t need a mobile system. My moms house is 900 square feet so we didn’t need a separate base unit. Do you want a monitored system vs. unmonitored? Do you need fall detection. Also be aware of fall detection “false positives “. Good luck! www.consumerreports.org/medical-alert-systems/how-to-choose-a-medical-alert-system/
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Post by Skellinton on Jun 13, 2018 3:43:32 GMT
Thank you everyone. The main worry is falling. Relative is mentally strong, can drive, but due to a physical disability is a severe fall risk, it happened several times before they were widowed, but as there was someone else there it wasn’t as worrisome.
I appreciate all your help and suggestions, especially the one about the lock box outside. That is really a good idea!
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