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Post by buddysmom on Dec 9, 2018 3:14:31 GMT
I'm going on a cruise (YAY!!) soon and one of the beach excursions is horseback riding--about 40 minutes of a "gentle walk" through a "jungle"( I seriously doubt that it is a "jungle" ) and then onto the beach. The reviews say it is very calm/a great excursion, horses are very gentle, etc. I really want to do this but haven't been on a horse since I was about ten years old! I'm in decent shape, not athletic but no problems, etc. I really want to try different things before I get too old to do them. Has anyone done something like this after such a long time? Am I crazy that I might break bones or have something happen like what happened to Christopher Reeve?
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Post by trollie on Dec 9, 2018 3:16:52 GMT
If you fall off you might break something.... The horses they typically use for these things are usually very mild. It will most likely be fine. They will make you sign a waiver.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Dec 9, 2018 3:30:40 GMT
What country is it, and how good is the medical care there? Odds are you would most likely be fine, but there is always that chance that you won't. When approaching something like this, you should always look at both sides of the equation and consider the worse case scenario. Are you fine with the options available to you in the worse case scenario? If so, then ride the horses. Personally, it would be a hard pass for me. Then again, I have a lot of experience in third world countries and have seen what can happen in the worse case scenario.
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Post by buddysmom on Dec 9, 2018 3:33:59 GMT
It's Cozumel, Mexico. Our health insurance is valid there. I wasn't really thinking of it as an "out of the country issue" more like "am I too old for this" (no matter where it is ) issue.
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Post by eleezybeth on Dec 9, 2018 3:43:31 GMT
So there I was, Mexico, on a beach, hadn't been on a horse in 8 years. But, it's like riding a bike, right? And I was young and dumb - spring break, baby! My horse was named Blanco - that wasn't the horse's name - it was simply the name the guide told the english speaking American who so far had not impressed him with her 3 semesters of Spanish. I put my foot into the stir-up and the whole saddle slipped. I said, "Pardon, esto no es..." while I pantomimed loose. He said, "it's good, it's good, go." Not to disappoint the crowd of sweet Canadians who were also along for the ride, I climbed aboard Blanco and began an hour of nervously shifting my weight back and forth to keep the saddle centered. Oh how glorious it was to ride a horse on the beach, through the dunes, very fun. Up and to this point 9/10 - well worth the pesos. Then... we stopped. Blanco said, in English, bitch please, let me help you off (yes, he did, just believe me.) I stood into the stir-up to dismount, the saddle quickly proved how not tight it was. Blanco took off while dragging me, my big foot caught in the stir-up. This was not part of the agreement and I quickly new it was going to cost me more than originally agreed upon. For starters - I was wearing my airport jeans (a last minute decision that proved to be fortuitous) - how was I going from January in Mexico back to the frozen tundra of home wearing a skirt. One simply does not disembark a plane in the frozen tundra wearing a skirt. You have to think ahead to having to scrape your windshield! That is not a skirt task. Yet, there I went in circles with a horse "named" Blanco ruining my airport pants - but my skin was grateful. Soon a sweet Canadian gentleman grabbed Blanco's reins and we stopped. I stood up in my dirty airport pants, thanked Canadian man for my life by hugging him tightly must to the chagrin of his wife and to the amusement of his teenaged son. I glared at the guide and gave the international sign for I told you so - which in my youth looked a lot like the middle finger.
Blanco was a VERY tame horse. The horses were all quite trained to just go on the ride. We only rode for an hour so not long enough to hurt from riding. I would absolutely do it again - and shared my story because it has become legend in our house and circle of friends. White horses come along in packages as little trinkets from my friends with "humor." But please, do speak up loudly and until there is a change until you feel comfortable with the safety of the horse.
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Post by cindyupnorth on Dec 9, 2018 3:44:52 GMT
I'm 54, and about 2 yrs ago I did a horseback ride in Yellowstone. I didn't have any problem. It was for about 2 hours. I was stiff and sore later, but nothing I couldn't walk off. it was UP mountains, and down them, which was the very scary part. The horses were so well trained. They just know. I closed my eyes sometimes coming down one mountain I admit. Do it. You wont regret it
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Post by workingclassdog on Dec 9, 2018 3:46:31 GMT
I wouldn't have thought twice about it... and I am 50!! Go for it.
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Post by LuvAgoodPaddle on Dec 9, 2018 3:58:33 GMT
I wouldn’t hesitate jumping onto a horse at all! Those horses know the routes so well you don’t have to do a thing. Sounds like fun, so go and enjoy!
I’m getting ready to try skiing for the first time in over 25 years. I’m excited, but super nervous of gettting hurt or looking like an idiot. I’m taking beginner lessons hoping it will help ease my fears.
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 9, 2018 4:03:53 GMT
Horseback riding is wonderfully theraputic. Why not go? You know how to make your horse go fwd, turn left and right and come to a gentle stop. Other than that what's to know? Be respectful and gentle and know that the horse is probably very used to people riding it. Have fun.
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Post by hannahruth on Dec 9, 2018 4:15:07 GMT
goodness you are wanting to do this so do it! The horses are trained to take nervous riders Im sure they sense it!
Make the most of the trip and enjoy what you can.
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Post by 950nancy on Dec 9, 2018 4:36:21 GMT
It's Cozumel, Mexico. Our health insurance is valid there. I wasn't really thinking of it as an "out of the country issue" more like "am I too old for this" (no matter where it is ) issue. We've ridden horses in Mexico and they were very mellow. You aren't too old. You might have a harder time getting them to trot. We've also ridden camels on the beach in Mexico and that was a treat. In my experience, the places have a big staired block that you walk up to access the horse. I don't think most of their clients could get on a horse without one. Easy peasy.
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Post by GiantsFan on Dec 9, 2018 5:02:34 GMT
My story is not nearly as exciting as eleezybeth because when I rode a horse in Jamaica I checked and tightened my own cinch. Now all these years later I wonder now if I should've opted for the loose cinch and the great story. LOL! OP Go on the ride.
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Post by AussieMeg on Dec 9, 2018 5:08:13 GMT
The last time that I rode a horse, after having not ridden one for about a decade or more, I realised that it is very important to have good pelvic floor strength. Alternatively, make sure you wear some kind of stress incontinence protection!
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Post by 50offscrapper on Dec 9, 2018 5:25:42 GMT
I don't plan on getting on a horse unless it is a flat area. Years ago I had a stubborn horse who sensed my fear and he almost ran us into a tree. i looked down and would have fallen about 10 feet.
Enjoy your ride. It will be fun especially if it's flat, Don't show the horse any fear and you should be fine.
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Post by marimoose on Dec 9, 2018 5:35:26 GMT
I wouldn’t hesitate jumping onto a horse at all! Those horses know the routes so well you don’t have to do a thing. Sounds like fun, so go and enjoy! I’m getting ready to try skiing for the first time in over 25 years. I’m excited, but super nervous of gettting hurt or looking like an idiot. I’m taking beginner lessons hoping it will help ease my fears. I started skiing again 6 years ago after 25 years. I got brand new skis, boots, all the gear and even a 4x4 . I was determined and committed. I had the same fears and made my daughter and her boyfriend go down the literal kiddie bunny hill with me as I got my sea legs back. Now if anything looked odd, that was it. I didn't need to do it all. In reality I was more worried about getting on the lift and then getting off. Again, no problem. It was like riding a bike. I will tell you that I never feel more alive than when I am skiing down the slopes. I hope your first experience back skiing is just as wonderful as mine. To reply to the originally asked question about riding a horse - I would do it. I started back horseback riding occasionally the same year I started skiing again. You could get hurt anywhere and the likelihood is not any greater in a resort area than others I believe. Life is short, seize the day and enjoy it all.
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Post by ntsf on Dec 9, 2018 6:21:07 GMT
my dad taught skiing for about 50 yrs.. (I only taught 10 yrs) .. but every season, the first few runs of the year were on the beginner slope. he practiced his form, he got "his sea legs" back..
he gave up skiing last year at 91, as his balance has been giving him occasional problems. so I highly recommend a refresher lesson ( the new skis use different technique than the old days) and starting on the beginner hill..
I never rode horses til I was about 50.. only do it occasionally so go for it.
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Post by pjaye on Dec 9, 2018 6:51:46 GMT
Am I crazy that I might break bones or have something happen like what happened to Christopher Reeve? Nope not crazy, can and does happen. The problem isn't so much the horse riding at your age, the problem is that you have no experience and at 50 if you fall off, potentially you are at higher risk of serious injury. I went horse riding in my 20s...flat ground, calm horses, but I had no experience and didn't know what I was doing, so when my horse turned suddenly, I didn't know how to adjust my position and so I fell off. Injured my back and could barely walk or sit for 2 weeks. A couple of years ago I watched a documentary featuring various ERs around the world, one was in Hawaii. It started with a middle aged man being pulled out of the surf with a spinal cord injury. He was there on vacation with his wife and teenage kids. Flick to the ER doctor explaining that they had one of the highest rates of serious spinal injuries in the world...because people come to Hawaii and want to try surfing, they have no experience, but get on a board anyway, then fall badly and the next thing they know they're in a spinal unit and are paralysed. That's exactly what happened to the man in the doco - instant quadriplegic. That's the rest of his life and his family's in tatters. The issue isn't trying something new...it's trying something "cold" with no experience of the activity, no previous learning and no knowledge of how to do it safely to avoid injuries. Injuries don't happen to everyone...but there are spinal units, orthopaedic wards, and ERs etc. in hospitals full of people that it DOES happen to. Do you want to flip the coin and see which side you end up on? If you want to horse ride - great, go to a proper school and have lessons. Learn how to do it correctly, what safety equipment to use and how to sit correctly, stay on. THEN do the ride on your vacation and enjoy it. Don't have your first ever experience in 50 years be a 45 min ride in the jungle. Find a school and have a few lessons before you go. Otherwise...my vote is for 'crazy' and you are risking the potential for a serious injury.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2018 7:47:12 GMT
Check the cinch and make sure your horse isn’t holding its breath.
Your guide should adjust your stirrups before you start so you are comfortable.
These horses are train to do trail rides. For the most part you can not get them past a gentle walk, only the trail guide can get them to move faster
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Post by miominmio on Dec 9, 2018 9:23:14 GMT
If you haven't been on a horse in more than 50 years, I would recommend a few lessons before you go on the cruise. Not only to get your proverbial sea legs back so you're safer, but also because you will enjoy it more when you feel more at home on horseback.
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Post by monklady123 on Dec 9, 2018 9:37:32 GMT
I was going to suggest what pjaye suggested above.... can you take a few lessons before you go on the cruise? All you'd need are a few basic ones -- how to tighten the saddle, how to get on, how to hold the reins. how to sit, how to tell the horse to go without flapping your feet and legs, how to sit when you ask him to go or to stop, etc. If the trail ride is just walking you wouldn't even need any lessons on trotting. Honestly... I'd do a few lessons before I did some random trail ride and I rode a lot when I was younger, right up until I got pregnant. Then I gave it up because I was afraid of falling while pregnant. Of course middle-aged and older people can do all sorts of sports. But, the ones we see running marathons have trained for it. An adult who has never run before gets some advice and training beforehand. The skiers don't just strap on the skis and head down a hill, even a beginner hill... they get advice from the rental people about equipment, and they take some lessons. Horses are the same, except that with horseback riding you're adding in equipment that's alive. Yes, these trail ride horses are usually pretty tame, but being able to get on him with a tiny bit of authority could go a long way. He's going to know you're a beginner anyway, but a few pointers could definitely help. We had a horse named Lady at the stables where I used to ride. Lady was definitely a lady, and she was small, so she was one they used in beginner classes or for someone who was nervous. But every once in awhile one of the instructors or more experienced riders would get on her and make her do regular horse things so she would remember that she had to listen to the person on her back. lol. Anyway, I'd recommend a few lessons, and then have a good time! I've always wanted to ride on the beach.
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Post by Patter on Dec 9, 2018 11:49:31 GMT
Absolutely you can do it! I took lessons when I was teen in England back in the 1970s. Then I began taking lessons again in my 50s. Prior to that, I had gone on the type of ride you describe in Hawaii (REALLY large hills), Hilton Head, etc. They were gentle rides and very easy. Many people on the ride had never even ridden before. Go because you will love it.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 9, 2018 12:24:46 GMT
Take some Tylenol or your favorite drug and go for it, girl!
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Post by kate on Dec 9, 2018 17:16:36 GMT
I would do it. I did a beach ride after not having been on a horse for 15-ish years (which is admittedly not 50), and it was indeed like riding a bike. It felt great - it's surprising how the muscle memory comes back. Remember, those horses are used to taking people with NO experience. If you have any horse sense at all, you'll be more than fine... Maybe do check your tack first, though - eleezybeth's story is sobering!
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Post by Darcy Collins on Dec 10, 2018 14:48:08 GMT
I don't think it's a bad idea to take a lesson or two before going if it will make you feel more comfortable. I will agree with several previous posters that these excursions use very,very placid horses. We've done a few in a few different locations and typically have way more difficulty getting the horse to move any faster than a slow ramble than anything else. I'd say your risk of injury is higher on the car ride from the boat than on the horse.
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Post by librarylady on Dec 10, 2018 14:55:51 GMT
Tourist horses are very tame. It will/would be a rare thing for the horse to act up. I say do it.
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Post by LuvAgoodPaddle on Dec 10, 2018 15:56:37 GMT
In reality I was more worried about getting on the lift and then getting off. Again, no problem. It was like riding a bike. I will tell you that I never feel more alive than when I am skiing down the slopes. I hope your first experience back skiing is just as wonderful as mine. You are so sweet, thank you! Even in my younger days when we skied multiple times a month, I was never very good at getting off the lifts. It was not uncommon for me to get stuck because I was too slow or immediately fall because I was rushed and they would have to stop the lift to get me out of the way. I'm hoping I can just laugh it off because there's no way that is not happening, LOL! I think I'm mostly nervous that I won't be able to do it. We just moved to where we are pretty close to quite a few resorts, so it will be very disappointing if I can't get it. I told my husband this weekend (who's so darn coordinated and will pick it back up in no time) to be prepared to stand at the bottom of the hill yelling PIZZA!! FRIES!! PIZZA!! FRIES!! up at me. I know he'll be trying his hardest to get me comfortable because he knows how badly I want to do this, even though I'm anxious about it.
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Post by farmgirl on Dec 10, 2018 16:07:11 GMT
GO!
This is from someone who, @ 35, took an hour horseback ride such as you describe while leaving my eight WEEK old son in the care of his father. Ended up being the only one who knew how to ride English style, stupidly raised my hand that I could, and ended up with the biggest horse I've ever SEEN. It was AWESOME!!!
Until I had to get off....and they had people to help me. It was all good except for the cocky douchecanoe guys that were bitching about how long it was taking me to dismount (cause they had to wait), and my friend Julie piped up, "Hey, it's a lot different swinging down out of those stirrups than 8 weeks ago when you had DS, isn't it?" Annnd, they shut the hell up.
GO! And come back and tell us all about it!
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Post by peabrain on Dec 10, 2018 17:59:33 GMT
I went horseback riding and I don't remember when the last time I went was. The horse my dh was given wanted to be a leader and had a bit of pep in him. The rest could have done the route in their sleep with their eyes closed. Might even have been at times, I'm not sure. We did sort of slow gallop once though when the instructor was sure of us.
When we turned the corner on the beach and the sun was setting I cried.
The cons: I have some back issues and Bejeegeezus it was sore the next day. And I don't know a lady like way to explain this but the parts that are not toned ..all the flab in my nether regions were rubbing and hurt forever.
So yeah. I am not sure I'm going back soon.
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Post by flgirlatheart on Dec 10, 2018 18:17:42 GMT
I ride all the time ( we’ve got two horses of our own) and I can tell you that without a doubt that trail ride horses are generally super calm and forgiving....but ANY horse can have a spooky moment under the right circumstances. That said, definitely go - the chances of something happening are probably pretty slim and the experience (in my opinion) is totally worth the risk.
If you have time before you go, try to take a lesson or two just so you’re comfortable. Plus any core strengthening you can do will be beneficial - most people think it’s all about your legs but core strength helps with balance, etc.
As advised, check your girth yourself before mounting. Feel the girth - it should be snug almost to the point of not being able to slide your hand between it and the horse. Have horse take a few steps forward and check it again.
Wear a helmet - this would not be optional for me. You’ll also need closed toed shoes with a heel.
Have a great time! One of my bucket list items is to ride on the beach!
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