joelise
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Post by joelise on Dec 14, 2018 17:04:40 GMT
My niece has been trying to conceive for years, she’s 32 now, after 4 unsuccessful attempts at IVF she became pregnant naturally. She had her 12 week scan today, the baby has no heartbeat and stopped growing at 9 weeks. I’m heartbroken for her and her husband.
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Post by jenjie on Dec 14, 2018 17:13:22 GMT
I’m so sorry 😢
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2018 17:15:09 GMT
Oh, I'm so sorry  |
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Dec 14, 2018 17:16:20 GMT
Oh man. That’s the worse. I’m so sorry.
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Post by mom26 on Dec 14, 2018 17:17:46 GMT
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Post by joelise on Dec 14, 2018 17:21:39 GMT
Thanks everyone. Because she was about to start more Infertility tests we knew straight away that she was pregnant so we’ve had a while to get used to it and were starting to get hopeful this time. I just want to hug her but I don’t live near her.
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Post by PrettyInPeank on Dec 14, 2018 17:27:59 GMT
How absolutely devastating. I'm so sorry, right before Christmas, too.
Since you don't live close, can you send a holiday bouquet saying you're thinking of them? (I say them because my husband was a wreck, too, when I miscarried.)
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Post by joelise on Dec 14, 2018 17:34:33 GMT
How absolutely devastating. I'm so sorry, right before Christmas, too. Since you don't live close, can you send a holiday bouquet saying you're thinking of them? (I say them because my husband was a wreck, too, when I miscarried.) Thanks for the suggestion, I will be with them for Christmas so will be able to hug then. I’m so sorry to hear that you miscarried. |
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Post by artsydaisy on Dec 14, 2018 17:41:36 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by wellway on Dec 14, 2018 17:49:42 GMT
How incredibly sad. I'm so sorry.
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Post by lucyg on Dec 14, 2018 17:53:00 GMT
I’m sorry. So heartbreaking for them.
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Post by leftturnonly on Dec 14, 2018 17:54:12 GMT
- That's really hard news for your niece - and for you.
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Post by destined2bmom on Dec 14, 2018 18:16:05 GMT
I am so sorry for your niece and her DH. That is very sad.
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Post by anniefb on Dec 14, 2018 18:58:53 GMT
So very sorry to hear this.
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Post by blue tulip on Dec 14, 2018 19:15:29 GMT
i'm so sorry. that's just awful, especially this after so much and at this time of year. |
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Post by MZF on Dec 14, 2018 19:29:36 GMT
I so sorry....
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Post by joelise on Dec 14, 2018 19:31:28 GMT
Thanks again everyone. I’ve briefly spoken to my sister, she is on her way to visit them now. It’s good to be able to come on here and speak about it before dealing with the reality.
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Post by finaledition on Dec 14, 2018 19:44:32 GMT
Must be so heartbreaking. Can I suggest that you send a thoughtful note around the time she’s was due. Another period of mourning will occur around her due date. Trust me, it will bring her to tears that you remembered and will mean the world to her.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Dec 14, 2018 20:02:01 GMT
That is just terrible. I'm so sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2018 20:15:33 GMT
so sorry
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Post by kate on Dec 14, 2018 20:17:59 GMT
Ohhhhh, that is so sad. I'm deeply sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 14, 2018 20:20:12 GMT
I'm so sorry.  |
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Dec 14, 2018 20:21:04 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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Post by psoccer on Dec 14, 2018 20:21:28 GMT
I had the same thing happen. No heartbeat, but I had no bleeding to indicate a miscarriage so it was just surreal at the appointment. I remember my best friend's mom gave me a set of coffee mugs and a nice note. It was just nice to know she was thinking of me. On a better note, I had three more children. I wish your niece and her husband a wonderful bundle of joy in the future.
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Post by flanz on Dec 14, 2018 20:38:54 GMT
Must be so heartbreaking. Can I suggest that you send a thoughtful note around the time she’s was due. Another period of mourning will occur around her due date. Trust me, it will bring her to tears that you remembered and will mean the world to her. This is a beautiful and thoughtful suggestion. I'm so sorry for your niece... |
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Post by joelise on Dec 14, 2018 20:42:21 GMT
Must be so heartbreaking. Can I suggest that you send a thoughtful note around the time she’s was due. Another period of mourning will occur around her due date. Trust me, it will bring her to tears that you remembered and will mean the world to her. Thank you. I had wondered about whether this was appropriate. I will do it. |
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Post by joelise on Dec 14, 2018 20:45:24 GMT
I had the same thing happen. No heartbeat, but I had no bleeding to indicate a miscarriage so it was just surreal at the appointment. I remember my best friend's mom gave me a set of coffee mugs and a nice note. It was just nice to know she was thinking of me. On a better note, I had three more children. I wish your niece and her husband a wonderful bundle of joy in the future. Thank you. I’m so sorry to hear of your lose. I’ve just spoken to my sister and she’s said that my niece went to the appointment very positively and the news was a massive shock! |
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Post by crazy4scraps on Dec 14, 2018 23:34:51 GMT
I’m so sorry. That’s so sad. |
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Post by leslie132 on Dec 14, 2018 23:40:34 GMT
I’m so sorry. Infertility sucks, and a loss like that is heartbreaking. I will say some prayers for her and her husband!!
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Post by Gravity on Dec 14, 2018 23:54:34 GMT
I am so sorry.
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