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Post by teach4u on Dec 17, 2018 22:51:14 GMT
We’ve had years of having less than 2 nickels. Thankfully we’re doing well now. I don’t spend on myself. I could but just don’t. Don’t get people having rooms of sb supplies or 30 pair of shoes. Great to those who do, but anyone else that doesn’t splurge?
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Post by pilcas on Dec 17, 2018 22:55:30 GMT
I am conscious of not being wasteful in the sense that I don’t want to buy more than I can use or buy something that I will only use once or twice. That said, if I see something that I love I will treat myself even if it’s pricy. I used to shop more when aI was younger, now not so much.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 17, 2018 23:01:32 GMT
We all have choices to do what we want with the money we earn. I bought a good education and work hard so I have extra to spend on me since I did without during my childhood while my other sister go so much more. BTW - your comment "don’t get people having rooms of sb supplies or 30 pair of shoes. Great to those who do..." comes off very lofty. I only have 15 pairs of shoes and a room full of sewing supplies.  |
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Post by Darcy Collins on Dec 17, 2018 23:12:44 GMT
We've always lived well below our means to build a safety net and now financial cushion. I'm not a shopper, so that's never really been a sacrifice. We splurge on travel and other things - so am not throwing any rocks in my glass house.
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Post by Merge on Dec 17, 2018 23:39:21 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have.
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Post by mom26 on Dec 17, 2018 23:42:03 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have. Yeah, me either.  ETA: And I don't splurge. I curate. There's a difference. 
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Post by papersilly on Dec 17, 2018 23:51:32 GMT
i don't splurge anymore. i have the room full of SB supplies so no more buying there. i don't particularly enjoy clothes shopping or the chaos of malls so no love of shopping there. i much prefer to spend the money dining out with friends. that i enjoy doing. i'm dangerously close to doing more baking and i can see easily pouring money into that hobby. for now i am safe, i think.
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Post by garcia5050 on Dec 17, 2018 23:55:24 GMT
I grew up believing that I was super poor (didn't find out until I was an adult that my parents were more than OK). So for me, those old cheap habits don't die. While I sometimes splurge on myself, it took a long time to get to that point. Mostly, I replace things when they are worn out/broken. But I am getting better at buying more quality items. When DH and I first started dating, he loved my non-materialistic ways. 30 years later, not so much. He's constantly yelling at me to JUST BUY IT!!! (When I keep looking at something, whether online or in person.)
But our goal is to retire young, so my cheap ways are going to come in handy.
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Post by azredhead on Dec 17, 2018 23:58:39 GMT
Nope and even if it does happen on a rare occasion, I talk myself out of it. Sometimes we'll get extra funds from Dh's school, but it goes for bills or savings. We keep talking about a tip after all the house drama we had this year and even then it wasnt our money.. lol! We might take that trip. We'll see..
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Post by scrapmaven on Dec 18, 2018 0:33:02 GMT
My family is always on my case, because I don't splurge on myself, ever. My insurance out of pocket max is my splurge each year. Dh says that's silly, but I'm frugal and would rather spend money on my kids, dh or a family experience. As a SAHM I don't need pricey clothing or other stuff and if I do have a need I can purchase it.
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Post by MichyM on Dec 18, 2018 0:33:08 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have. Yeah, me either. ETA: And I don't splurge. I curate. There's a difference.
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Post by mikklynn on Dec 18, 2018 0:34:17 GMT
I spend less, the older I get. But, I still treat myself occasionally.
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Post by moodyblue on Dec 18, 2018 0:36:32 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have. Me too. And we won’t mention the new ones that haven’t arrived yet. |
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Post by Deleted on Dec 18, 2018 0:39:01 GMT
I go in spurts. I love fabric so I have a room full of that.
I buy a lot of shoes at Wally’s, because i am always getting them ddirty( duck poop dirty).
Things I don’t buy, clothes , jewelry or beauty products.
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Post by julie5 on Dec 18, 2018 0:45:44 GMT
I don’t get people who pay to get their hair cut or nails done. Doesn’t make those people wrong. I just put my money on things I enjoy, as everyone should.
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Post by katlady on Dec 18, 2018 0:57:43 GMT
I don’t buy as much clothes, purses or shoes as I get older, but if I see something I really like, i’ll buy it. I do buy quite a lot of books though. I know many people use the library, but I enjoy buying my own books.
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Post by Merge on Dec 18, 2018 1:16:53 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have. Me too. And we won’t mention the new ones that haven’t arrived yet. Zappos and I have a strict don't ask don't tell policy. (Seriously, though, I've put myself on a strict no-spend policy until it's time to shop for the GYPO spring challenge.) |
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Post by moodyblue on Dec 18, 2018 1:36:08 GMT
Me too. And we won’t mention the new ones that haven’t arrived yet. Zappos and I have a strict don't ask don't tell policy. (Seriously, though, I've put myself on a strict no-spend policy until it's time to shop for the GYPO spring challenge.) My weakness is Zulily - they often have brands I love, like Clark's, Sperry, Earth, Ugg, etc. And when they have them in my size (12) and for a great price, it’s hard to resist. |
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Post by basketdiva on Dec 18, 2018 1:59:22 GMT
I don’t get people who pay to get their hair cut or nails done. Doesn’t make those people wrong. I just put my money on things I enjoy, as everyone should. People to their haircut because it’s not an easy thing to do. I certainly can’t cut the back of my hair,especially since I’ve got RA. just curious- do you ever cut your hair? |
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Dec 18, 2018 2:16:19 GMT
This is so damn judgmental. I wear a Tank Française watch by Cartier, but I choose to have a basic top-load washing machine with no fancy cycles or features. Is that a "great for having" or "don't splurge?" I'm so confused.
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Post by padresfan619 on Dec 18, 2018 2:18:47 GMT
As long as the bills are paid, savings are accounted for, and there is food on the table I don’t feel the least bit guilty for splurging on myself. You can’t take it with you when you’re gone, so may as well enjoy it.
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Post by Zee on Dec 18, 2018 2:19:26 GMT
I don’t get people who pay to get their hair cut or nails done. Doesn’t make those people wrong. I just put my money on things I enjoy, as everyone should. You don't "get" paying to get your hair cut? Savage! |
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Post by Zee on Dec 18, 2018 2:23:51 GMT
I'm not really into shoes but 30 pairs is really nothing for most women. I have no idea how many shoes I have but I'm sure it's at least that and probably more like 50, though they're mostly nothing too fancy.
I have disposable income now that I didn't have when I was younger. I'm going to enjoy myself because you can't take it with you. So I'll keep buying nail polish and purses or whatever floats my boat and you do you, boo.
I hate these judgey posts, even if they're not meant that way they still come across as condescending.
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Post by busy on Dec 18, 2018 2:58:03 GMT
I don't care to judge how other people use their money or feel superior because I think my way is better. Everyone has to make choices based on their own circumstances and means. There is no one way that is right for everyone.
I work my ass off and make a good living. I use those funds in ways that make me and those I love happy and our lives better. If I'm not doing that, what the hell is the point in working that hard?
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Post by julie5 on Dec 18, 2018 3:13:10 GMT
I don’t get people who pay to get their hair cut or nails done. Doesn’t make those people wrong. I just put my money on things I enjoy, as everyone should. People to their haircut because it’s not an easy thing to do. I certainly can’t cut the back of my hair,especially since I’ve got RA. just curious- do you ever cut your hair? Yes I do every few weeks in my bathroom. Before I grew it out, I used to buzz cut my own hair. I’m very weird about my hair. |
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Post by julie5 on Dec 18, 2018 3:15:07 GMT
This is so damn judgmental. I wear a Tank Française watch by Cartier, but I choose to have a basic top-load washing machine with no fancy cycles or features. Is that a "great for having" or "don't splurge?" I'm so confused. My husband and I are in total agreement that the no frills top loading washer is the best thing ever. We have the he front loader and hate it. |
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Post by mom26 on Dec 18, 2018 3:48:13 GMT
I don’t get people who pay to get their hair cut or nails done. Doesn’t make those people wrong. I just put my money on things I enjoy, as everyone should. You don't "get" paying to get your hair cut? Savage! I will confess to HATING having my hair cut at a salon. Absolutely HATE it with a passion. So, yeah. I cut my own hair. Even the back. Have ever since I was teenager (and I'm past the half-century mark in age!)  |
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Post by NanaKate on Dec 18, 2018 3:59:18 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have. Me too. And we won’t mention the new ones that haven’t arrived yet. Or the ones in boxes I haven’t worn yet... |
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Post by NoWomanNoCry on Dec 18, 2018 4:04:16 GMT
I’m the same exact way. I grew up poor so I think that has a lot to do with it. I get serious anxiety spending money on myself even if it’s things I need..on the other hand I love spending money on other people.
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Post by mygigiscraps on Dec 18, 2018 4:20:35 GMT
Girl, you don't want to know how many pairs of shoes I have. That. I love me some boots and shoes. No matter how big my ass gets, the shoes still fit. I also have an entire craft room stuffed full, and some general craft supplies in a separate she-shed. I don't feel an inkling of guilt over any of it. |
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