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Post by workingclassdog on Dec 31, 2018 4:47:01 GMT
My sister who got divorced almost 2 years ago tried to be on good terms with her ex. I mean he was all for it as he didn't want the divorce in the first place, but she had to struggle with it but did it for the kids. She would never say anything bad about him.
She just found out a few months ago (she left him because of his addiction to porn) his 'addiction' turned out to be WAY more than just an addiction and he lied and lied about it. When she found this certain information she wrote him a letter and said in no way she was ever to have any contact unless it was regarding the kids and that would be a 'business' deal only. And that is the way it is now. Kids still don't know but do notice that she has changed the way she is around him.
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Post by aljack on Dec 31, 2018 4:57:13 GMT
My ex and I are on good terms. We knew we had to be because we have a child on the spectrum that required many co parenting experiences such as IEP meetings, doctor visits, and therapists. Often my daughter’s teachers didn’t realize we were divorced because we were cordial and sat next to each and conferred on issues. When she went to college, the president was completely floored because he met me and then his current wife as we stood next to one another. He thought I was his current wife. My ex was in town a few weeks back with his wife and I gave them help and tips on getting around the area. In response, I received a Christmas card. First time ever since our divorce from 13 years ago. It was her handwriting so I guess she’s good with me?
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