sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Jan 25, 2019 19:38:36 GMT
BF and I spent most of vacation saying "WHAT?" to each other. But this has been a growing issue for years, really.
Are you in the "I can't hear shit!" club?
I really need to do something. Mis-hearing phrases and sentences can be funny, but it's getting annoying.
I've recently stopped being bitchy about repeating things when asked to, because I ask others to repeat things so much. My same-age friends and same-ish age sister can't hear either.
Thoughts?
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Post by scrapbookwriter on Jan 25, 2019 19:47:47 GMT
I took my sweet MIL in to Costco for hearing aids. She’s needed them for years, but has resisted. I guess she thought they’d make her look old. She’s 83 Hearing test revealed she has only 7% hearing remaining in one ear, 9% in the other. She was astonished at the difference hearing aids made for her. We are all so glad we don’t have to shout anymore. Costco has the absolute best price in hearing aids and batteries. You will save thousands. They don’t even show behind your hair.
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Post by mikklynn on Jan 25, 2019 19:49:19 GMT
No, I'll get them. I have dealt with my mother's hearing loss for a decade. She missed out on so much!
She actually got them recently!
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Post by iowgirl on Jan 25, 2019 19:57:13 GMT
I think I still hear OK, but not like I did when I was younger. I recently heard (sorry, lol) that there are options other than full blown $$$$ hearing aids. Bose can now market an over the counter hearing aid. THey have "hearphones" now. But I am thinking they were coming out with an actual hearing aid type model at some point. Here are the HearphonesThey are about $500. Which is a fraction of the cost of hearing aids.
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Post by KelleeM on Jan 25, 2019 19:59:41 GMT
You know, I should stop being stubborn and look into getting a hearing aid. In my late 20s, after a couple of surgeries, I found out the loss in my right ear was around 50%. I had my hearing checked last about 12 years ago and it was at about 75%. Luckily my left ear is good. Unfortunately hearing loss is prevalent in my family. One sister has similar loss as me in one ear and our youngest brother lost all hearing in his 30s and got cochlear implants about 8 years ago.
Do you have to be a Costco member to get hearing aids there? That’s where my Dad’s are from.
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Post by Restless Spirit on Jan 25, 2019 20:03:59 GMT
I took my sweet MIL in to Costco for hearing aids. She’s needed them for years, but has resisted. I guess she thought they’d make her look old. She’s 83 Hearing test revealed she has only 7% hearing remaining in one ear, 9% in the other. She was astonished at the difference hearing aids made for her. We are all so glad we don’t have to shout anymore. Costco has the absolute best price in hearing aids and batteries. You will save thousands. They don’t even show behind your hair. May I ask the price range from Costco? A hearing test is on my “to do” list this year. I’m like sharlag. I know I’m missing a lot and it’s getting very annoying even to me to have to ask people to repeat what they said. I watch TV with the closed captioning on. Ugh. My in-laws spent $7000 a piece for their hearing aids a year or so before they died. They owed $11,000 which had to come out of their estate.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 20:22:02 GMT
DH went for a hearing test and he does need hearing aids but Medicare doesn't cover them. How stupid is that?? He's trying to get them thru the V.A., but I think there's a fee involved there as well. We're both disabled and can't afford $5, muchless $500. It should seriously be included in a Medicare plan!
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 20:24:52 GMT
BF and I spent most of vacation saying "WHAT?" to each other. But this has been a growing issue for years, really.
Are you in the "I can't hear shit!" club?
I really need to do something. Mis-hearing phrases and sentences can be funny, but it's getting annoying.
I've recently stopped being bitchy about repeating things when asked to, because I ask others to repeat things so much. My same-age friends and same-ish age sister can't hear either.
Thoughts?
I've been having trouble for the past year at least with the phone and soft spoken people. After a trip to the campus audiologist I have mild to moderate hearing loss... and have been told I would benefit from hearing aids but I've not followed up with it yet. As a side note, he also told me there is evidence that loss of hearing is related to dementia due to loss of brain stimulation that hearing provides
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Post by MissBianca on Jan 25, 2019 20:25:43 GMT
I think I still hear OK, but not like I did when I was younger. I recently heard (sorry, lol) that there are options other than full blown $$$$ hearing aids. Bose can now market an over the counter hearing aid. THey have "hearphones" now. But I am thinking they were coming out with an actual hearing aid type model at some point. Here are the HearphonesThey are about $500. Which is a fraction of the cost of hearing aids. Oh I need to look into those! My problem is not being able to hear certain tones. When my boys voices were changing it was really hard.
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Post by MissBianca on Jan 25, 2019 20:26:59 GMT
My friend has the Bluetooth hearing aides and she loves them. It comes with an app for your smart phone that you can adjust depending on the environment
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jan 25, 2019 20:35:53 GMT
I hear well. If I didn't think I did I would go check out hearing aids. I have a little problem. I cannot stand anything in my ears. No ear phones, no ear plugs, no ear anything...... But to hear I would go for it as necessary.
What is the difference? Most people have no major problems wearing glasses, what is the difference?!?! Do what can be done to improve your life!
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jan 25, 2019 20:37:54 GMT
Me. I was given them, but they began by making the high frequencies so loud that they drowned out everything else, and the two circumstances that I really needed them for (TV and in church) they were no use whatsoever. I had them adjusted so the high frequencies weren't as loud, and then they didn't actually amplify anything at all. Also, they made my ears itch unbearably. I decided that on balance, it was easier just to keep saying "what?" The best thing about being given them was that my bat-eared DH at last took my crappy hearing seriously, and stopped grumbling every time I put the subtitles on.
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Post by purplebee on Jan 25, 2019 20:44:29 GMT
DH went for a hearing test and he does need hearing aids but Medicare doesn't cover them. How stupid is that?? He's trying to get them thru the V.A., but I think there's a fee involved there as well. We're both disabled and can't afford $5, muchless $500. It should seriously be included in a Medicare plan! My Dh got really good hearing aids from the VA about four years ago and didn't have to pay much. Look into redoing your application for benefits to reflect your current income, they should work with you and he may be able to get them at no cost. Good luck! I really need to see about some this year too.
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Post by RosieKat on Jan 25, 2019 20:46:52 GMT
I have had a difficult time hearing when there is background noise for years. (I became aware of it in my late 20s or early 30s, but I know I had mild difficulty before that.) I also think one of my ears works much better than the other. I suspect I'll need them at some point. It is kind of funny, because I've never done any of the things they tell you not to do!
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Post by MichyM on Jan 25, 2019 20:52:35 GMT
I finally went in and saw an audiologist last spring. I have moderate loss, right on the cusp either way so it was left to me to decide whether I wanted to move forward at that time. We decided to have it checked again a year later, so we can determine how quickly my hearing is deteriorating. My big trouble areas are in a crowd/restaurant/soemwhere there's background noise-and all those other typically problematic situations. But....what really bothers me is that I have a very difficult time hearing younger people (like my 28 YO son). Most talk a lot more quickly than my friends and I do, and even my son's boyfriend (thank-you-very-much for backing me up) has mentioned to me that my son allows his words to bleed into one another. My ex finally got aids (after we split up...sigh). His hair is short, but still, you really have to LOOK for them. He got the really nice ones with bluetooth, and after getting used to them he's very happy with them. That said, I am not looking forward to the expense of buying them. They cost the equivalent of a couple of really nice vacations I don't think it's just Medicaid that doesn't pay for them...IIRC most insurance plans don't either.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 25, 2019 20:53:33 GMT
DH went for a hearing test and he does need hearing aids but Medicare doesn't cover them. How stupid is that?? He's trying to get them thru the V.A., but I think there's a fee involved there as well. We're both disabled and can't afford $5, muchless $500. It should seriously be included in a Medicare plan! My Dh got really good hearing aids from the VA about four years ago and didn't have to pay much. Look into redoing your application for benefits to reflect your current income, they should work with you and he may be able to get them at no cost. Good luck! I really need to see about some this year too. DH gets no benefits (as far as $$), but he has gotten a free blood pressure machine and some other things when he goes to his doctor there. I'll ask him if he can renew his info with them to see if it helps. Thank you! I hope it'll help!
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Post by patin on Jan 25, 2019 20:55:13 GMT
I have them. I was hard of hearing for years.I had a very bad fungal infection from a hot springs pool when I was 8. I have had multiple surgeries to replace & repair the eardrum . I think because I was so "used to" my hearing loss, I became a very good lip reader, so didnt really know how bad it was. I got hearing aids about 2 years ago & here's what amazes me.... Tires on the road make noise. Turning on a faucet makes a loud whooshing sound. My DH ripping a piece of paper about gave me a heart attack. Hearing the birds chirp when I sit on the porch amazes me. My DGS whispering, " I love you, Grandma " melted me. I didnt know what I missed.
GET THEM!
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sharlag
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Post by sharlag on Jan 25, 2019 21:02:32 GMT
What is the difference? Most people have no major problems wearing glasses, what is the difference?!?! The cost, from what I understand. Also, lots of younger people wear glasses/contacts, starting in grade school. There's a bit of an elderly stigma for hearing aids.
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Post by miss_lizzie on Jan 25, 2019 21:14:20 GMT
My friend has the Bluetooth hearing aides and she loves them. It comes with an app for your smart phone that you can adjust depending on the environment My DH has those too and loves them. He can also listen to music and talk on the phone with them.
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Post by annabella on Jan 25, 2019 21:17:40 GMT
Costco has the absolute best price in hearing aids and batteries. You will save thousands. They don’t even show behind your hair. My friend is an audiologist and said hearing aids from costco are crap and that's why they are so cheap because the quality is poor. We have a mutual friend who wears a hearing aid and she offered to outfit her with one for free because she was wearing a costco one. This same friend does botox in her office, so the practice must be doing well financially.
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Post by Jen in NCal on Jan 25, 2019 22:09:13 GMT
My dad is a retired ear doctor so I'm a little biased. But I would not hesitate. He has some super ones now that are Bluetooth. He can listen to music from his phone. Best part, he can listen to the tv through them also. My parents have the lovely habit of using closed captioning with the volume turned up so high I'm surprised the neighbors don't complain. And the closest neighbor is across the street!
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Post by Rainy_Day_Woman on Jan 25, 2019 22:20:23 GMT
What is the difference? Most people have no major problems wearing glasses, what is the difference?!?! The cost, from what I understand. Also, lots of younger people wear glasses/contacts, starting in grade school. There's a bit of an elderly stigma for hearing aids. Hearing aids have the worst adoption rates. No one wants them. Everyone says it is because they cost too much but they have done numerous market studies in places where hearing aids are covered by insurance or national health plans, and the rates are the same. They may say it's cost, but it is something else. I have them. I was hard of hearing for years.I had a very bad fungal infection from a hot springs pool when I was 8. I have had multiple surgeries to replace & repair the eardrum . I think because I was so "used to" my hearing loss, I became a very good lip reader, so didnt really know how bad it was. I got hearing aids about 2 years ago & here's what amazes me.... Tires on the road make noise. Turning on a faucet makes a loud whooshing sound. My DH ripping a piece of paper about gave me a heart attack. Hearing the birds chirp when I sit on the porch amazes me. My DGS whispering, " I love you, Grandma " melted me. I didnt know what I missed. GET THEM! I spend so much time counselling people because the hearing aids make so much noise. I am constantly trying to convince people that with normal hearing, I hear all that noise too Even that aside, most people tell me that they wish they had have gotten them sooner. Most hearing aid companies have flex trials available so finding an audiologist/store that allows you to do a flex trial is great. They will tune them, you can wear them for two weeks and try them out, either at no or very low cost. Me. I was given them, but they began by making the high frequencies so loud that they drowned out everything else, and the two circumstances that I really needed them for (TV and in church) they were no use whatsoever. I had them adjusted so the high frequencies weren't as loud, and then they didn't actually amplify anything at all. Also, they made my ears itch unbearably. I decided that on balance, it was easier just to keep saying "what?" The best thing about being given them was that my bat-eared DH at last took my crappy hearing seriously, and stopped grumbling every time I put the subtitles on. Did you try more than one style or make? Sometimes even just getting a larger dome or a custom tip on the end reduces the itching. As for the TV, almost all the hearing aids out there have TV streamers which stream directly to the hearing aids and really make a difference. The bluetooth ones are great- and to be honest, a lot of our manufacturer reps wear the hearing aids all the time for the connectivity, and actually have normal hearing I wouldn't give up- try someplace else maybe or ask about a different brand. Some are Siri enabled, so you just have to have your phone within Bluetooth range and you can access your phone hands free and have everything stream into your ear. Costco hearing aids are fine. The Costco brand manufactured by one of the largest hearing aid manufacturers and are quite similar. The non-Costco brands are still sold there as well, but as I understand it (I haven't worked there) they are more expensive than the kirkland/rexton ones and similar to what you would find outside. The biggest thing that you are committing to when you buy a Costco brand hearing aid is their care as they have proprietary software and should you wish to see a different audiologist, they wouldn't be able to adjust them. Costco is a fine route to try, they just don't fit everyone. All hearing aids come with a return period so you can try out a place and their service and find the right fit.
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Post by Peal on Jan 25, 2019 22:31:19 GMT
I work for an audiologist so I see the resistance on a regular basis. A lot of people don't want them because they equate hearing loss to old age and they don't want to admit to being old. But I think we will be seeing younger and younger people needing hearing aids because we all listened to loud music with earphones and damaged our hearing in our youth. For the most part, the people who do get them, really are very happy with them. Our most popular ones are the rechargeable Bluetooth ones.
Medicare does not cover hearing aids, but some of the supplemental plans will cover a portion. It's really interesting to see which insurance companies offer it as a benefit and which ones don't. I know in our community there is income assistance that will cover hearing aids. That's something that can be looked into if you can't afford them. I'm not sure what the qualifications are because we just direct people in the right direction, and don't do the application process.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jan 25, 2019 22:35:46 GMT
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Post by Lexica on Jan 25, 2019 22:36:51 GMT
I took my mother to get hearing aids at Costco. She had her hearing tested through her doctor’s office and they recommended she get the aids at Costco because of the prices. The woman wanted to retest Mom, just to make sure her results were the same as her previous test before issuing the hearing aids. While we were there, she offered to test my hearing. She said it was free, so why not. I knew I had some loss, but was shocked when my test was over and she told me my hearing was worse than my mom’s was! Mom was 90 at the time. I did not want hearing aids! That was for old people.
Costco will fit you with hearing aids and let you walk around the store for a bit to see the difference. After finishing our shopping, I was sold. Mine are very small and you cannot see them unless you move my hair and look right into my ear. I chose a pair that could be controlled by a remote that I carried in my purse. It was one of the best purchases I’ve ever made. I can turn them off when in a loud environment (store with a child screaming) and we made multiple channel settings for various situations such as a dinner table in a noisy restaurant when you don’t want to hear the noise behind you at the same volume as the people at the table talking to you. I really had no idea what I wasn’t hearing before.
I had my sister try them and she realized her hearing was as bad as mine. She bought some from Costco too. Mom had the most advanced Bluetooth pair that could play music or tv to her ears while the rest of the room didn’t hear anything. Her phone was also synced with her aids. My next pair will be a more advanced setup.
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Post by roundtwo on Jan 25, 2019 23:18:58 GMT
I agree!! I've had them for quite a while now and the new ones are definitely better than the first ones I had. I think the biggest problem for me (besides the thousands of dollars they cost) is that my brain has not learned what noises are important and which ones can be ignored. A person without hearing loss hears the same noises as someone wearing hearing aids of course, but they have learned long ago that the clock ticking or the furnace firing up can be ignored; for me, every single noise is deemed important enough to listen to so it is overwhelming. My brain is getting better but I still can't do crowded rooms or street noise without a lot of stress. I also don't care if anyone can see them and honestly most people are suprised when I say I wear them and I have shorter hair. I actually kind of wish they did notice them since it might make them a little more conscience about speaking clearly or not putting their hands in front of their mouths when they speak
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Jan 25, 2019 23:53:22 GMT
Me. I was given them, but they began by making the high frequencies so loud that they drowned out everything else, and the two circumstances that I really needed them for (TV and in church) they were no use whatsoever. I had them adjusted so the high frequencies weren't as loud, and then they didn't actually amplify anything at all. Also, they made my ears itch unbearably. I decided that on balance, it was easier just to keep saying "what?" The best thing about being given them was that my bat-eared DH at last took my crappy hearing seriously, and stopped grumbling every time I put the subtitles on. Did you try more than one style or make? Sometimes even just getting a larger dome or a custom tip on the end reduces the itching. As for the TV, almost all the hearing aids out there have TV streamers which stream directly to the hearing aids and really make a difference. The bluetooth ones are great- and to be honest, a lot of our manufacturer reps wear the hearing aids all the time for the connectivity, and actually have normal hearing I wouldn't give up- try someplace else maybe or ask about a different brand. Some are Siri enabled, so you just have to have your phone within Bluetooth range and you can access your phone hands free and have everything stream into your ear. Costco hearing aids are fine. The Costco brand manufactured by one of the largest hearing aid manufacturers and are quite similar. The non-Costco brands are still sold there as well, but as I understand it (I haven't worked there) they are more expensive than the kirkland/rexton ones and similar to what you would find outside. The biggest thing that you are committing to when you buy a Costco brand hearing aid is their care as they have proprietary software and should you wish to see a different audiologist, they wouldn't be able to adjust them. Costco is a fine route to try, they just don't fit everyone. All hearing aids come with a return period so you can try out a place and their service and find the right fit. I'm English so my hearing aids are on the NHS. I have small ear canals so only the smallest even fitted - that was all there was. Our TV is old and hasn't got the option of anything fancy. The hearing aids had 2 settings: regular or loop. Church uses the loop system but the loop itself only goes around the nave not the chancel, and I sing in the choir. All I got was a buzz. I know it works because the congregation in general is very happy with it. One day I'll have another go. Meanwhile I've got another speaker installed at church for the choir so I'm managing.
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Post by FurryP on Jan 26, 2019 2:56:59 GMT
So....on a related note. I refuse to hear music through ear pods because I do not want my hearing to go sooner than it has to.
Specifically speaking of the younger generation, I predict many will be needing hearing aids much, much earlier than older generations. Because I just know their music is probably on loud. However, I am not a doctor, and I am only speculating.
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Post by auntviv on Jan 26, 2019 3:22:01 GMT
Costco has the absolute best price in hearing aids and batteries. You will save thousands. They don’t even show behind your hair. My friend is an audiologist and said hearing aids from costco are crap and that's why they are so cheap because the quality is poor. We have a mutual friend who wears a hearing aid and she offered to outfit her with one for free because she was wearing a costco one. This same friend does botox in her office, so the practice must be doing well financially. I completely disagree with your friend, I'm on my second set from Costco. The first set lasted four years and probably could have went a couple more years but I wanted ones with blue tooth so I upgraded. They are very reasonably priced and work wonderfully. My third set will come from Costco too. The Kirkland brand hearing aid is made by Rexton which is a reputable hearing aid company.
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Post by h2ohdog on Jan 26, 2019 3:25:29 GMT
I’m new so just weighing in.
I’m 62 and have had hearing aids for about 5 years. I got them because I was starting to ask people to repeat themselves and that’s what my dad used to di to me abd it drove me crazy.
Saying “ what?” or “pardon?” or just nodding like you’ve heard something you obviously haven’t makes you seem “older” than hearing aids do, IMO. Plus hearing aids are hard to see nowadays. They are expensive, however.
My audiologist told me that the younger you are when you begin wearing hearing aids, the more compliant you’ll be about wearing them.
I’m glad I have them and hate when I forget to put them in!
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