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Post by darkangel090260 on Sept 11, 2019 13:24:26 GMT
So last few week our trash has been picked up super early. My husband has been getting up and rushing to get the trash out. So to stop his excuse for not doing it the night before was it's to loud and late after he get home. I move both empty cans to the curb so he just has to do the bags. Figured after have a talk with him at launch time about this. He would take the trash out last night before bed. Get up and it's all still sitting were I left it. Yes I round it all up and set bags in one area. ( Unless the trash one is 100% empty I don't risk opening it.🤮 Everytime)
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garcia5050
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Post by garcia5050 on Sept 11, 2019 13:30:02 GMT
I do the cans to avoid bitching at everyone. Otherwise, the cans get delivered to the curb without all the inside trash being emptied first.
My petty husband vent: he’s been bugging me to get an iwatch. I like my Fitbit and it suits my needs just fine. He got me an iwatch anyway. I keep screwing up the alarm and not waking up on time (googled this morning, so I think I’ll be ok after today). I can’t do challenges with my Fitbit friends. But if I stop wearing it, he’ll get annoyed at the fact hat I don’t want something better.
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Post by Deleted on Sept 11, 2019 14:27:32 GMT
I do the cans to avoid bitching at everyone. Otherwise, the cans get delivered to the curb without all the inside trash being emptied first. My petty husband vent: he’s been bugging me to get an iwatch. I like my Fitbit and it suits my needs just fine. He got me an iwatch anyway. I keep screwing up the alarm and not waking up on time (googled this morning, so I think I’ll be ok after today). I can’t do challenges with my Fitbit friends. But if I stop wearing it, he’ll get annoyed at the fact hat I don’t want something better. I have the opposite problem. DH complains about his sleep, acknowledges that he probably would benefit from a sleep study, but will not take the steps to fix it. I have suggested wearing a fit bit to track his sleep for a month or so so that he can show his doctor how restless he think he is. He will not do it. I think he is afraid they will tell him he needs surgery or a CPAP machine. |
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Post by Deleted on Sept 11, 2019 14:47:53 GMT
This shit show of an auction and estate crap is making my husband unpleasant to live with. Extremely unpleasant. He takes everything to the nth degree and gets angry over everything.
Hopefully by Monday he will be better
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Post by Deleted on Sept 11, 2019 14:59:52 GMT
I love him dearly, but when the man sings, it sounds like something got stuck in the vacuum cleaner.
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Post by maryland on Sept 11, 2019 15:00:30 GMT
The trash is my job (or our daughters) so I always try to get the trash down the day before, because I would hate to miss it and have double the trash the next week. So I understand why you are upset. My vent is that my husband doesn't file stuff, so it's all in piles all over the house and when we need something we can never find it. I know he works, and doesn't have a lot of free time. But I would love for him to take a few days off just to put away and organize his stuff (he has a lot of vacation).  He saves bills for years, so we have over 10 yrs. worth of statements, etc. I'm sure he has lots of vents about me too! |
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Post by ntsf on Sept 11, 2019 15:18:07 GMT
since he retired, I have asked my dh to put dirty dishes in sink, or on right of sink. he keeps putting them on the left and then gets mad when I remind him. and if he wants to put something in recycling bin and it is full, he doesn't take it out.. he creates a new bag on the floor... let alone, thinking about emptying dishwasher, or throwing a load in the dryer.. doesn't think of it and doesn't ask. his theory is that our child with autism should do it (she will do it, but with severe executive functioning problems.. has to be reminded.. can't remember to look on own).
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Post by beachbum on Sept 11, 2019 15:25:08 GMT
My DH has this compulsion to move anything I put down. If I put a cup on the counter when he walks by he'll move it. Sometimes it's only and inch or two, but sometimes he moves it to a different room. If I ask why he moved a cup he'll tell me it's so it won't fall off. Really? It wasn't on the edge but in the middle of the counter. If he moves it to another room most of the time he won't remember where he put it. Grrrrrrrr. Leave.my.stuff.alone.
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Post by gmcwife1 on Sept 11, 2019 15:38:36 GMT
My DH has this compulsion to move anything I put down. If I put a cup on the counter when he walks by he'll move it. Sometimes it's only and inch or two, but sometimes he moves it to a different room. If I ask why he moved a cup he'll tell me it's so it won't fall off. Really? It wasn't on the edge but in the middle of the counter. If he moves it to another room most of the time he won't remember where he put it. Grrrrrrrr. Leave.my.stuff.alone. Ugh, my husband does this too, all the time!! It drives me crazy that he has to relocate my stuff! |
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Post by KelleeM on Sept 11, 2019 16:22:42 GMT
Can I add an ex husband vent? Sadly, he died last week and left our kids with a mess to deal with. He still has packed boxes of stuff that I packed when I left in 1998!! And he moves this crap to a new apartment! Get rid of shit and don’t make it your kids problem. The kids (they’re adults) feel guilty because he loved his stuff. Ugh! It’s just stuff!! But they’re emotional and struggling. And to make it all worse he had no money...not $10 to go towards having him cremated.
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Post by workingclassdog on Sept 11, 2019 16:38:20 GMT
My DH has this compulsion to move anything I put down. If I put a cup on the counter when he walks by he'll move it. Sometimes it's only and inch or two, but sometimes he moves it to a different room. If I ask why he moved a cup he'll tell me it's so it won't fall off. Really? It wasn't on the edge but in the middle of the counter. If he moves it to another room most of the time he won't remember where he put it. Grrrrrrrr. Leave.my.stuff.alone. Ugh, my husband does this too, all the time!! It drives me crazy that he has to relocate my stuff! Another mover of stuff. I will have my glass of water/pop/whatever and go about my business, go back to find it gone. This happens ALL the time and his reasoning is, I thought you were finished with it. That excuse doesn't fly for everything thing else he has to move. For a long time I didn't realize how much stuff he moves and I thought I was losing my mind. I would swear I left xxx in a spot to spend 10 minutes looking for it. This whole time it was him moving it. I only found out once he started traveling... Bobby pins. I wear one or two almost everyday. Sometimes when I get home I pull them out and leave them where ever they may land. I then have a tin box that I throw them in when I am up and see them lying around. I had my little system. When DH is home he tosses them away in the trash.. cause he gets mad my little bobby pins are laying around.. uggg... lol |
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Post by nlwilkins on Sept 11, 2019 16:38:28 GMT
My darling does not like his stuff put away cause he uses it. So it all sits out on the counter so he does not have to get it out when it is needed. It is the biggest mess. I gave him a whole bottom shelf to put his meds and coffee makings and he filled that up and has the counter top under it crammed full of daily and weekly items such as his antacids, special salt, napkins, and much much more. He even has the refills there.
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Post by belgravia on Sept 11, 2019 16:49:44 GMT
My husband has received SIX speeding tickets (photo radar) this summer. So that’s an average of one every two weeks, to the tune of about $800. I know the minute I bitch about it karma will bite me in the ass and one will arrive in the mail for me, so I’m just keeping quiet but he’s well aware that I’m pissed!!
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He saves bills for years, so we have over 10 yrs. worth of statements, etc.
