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Post by leslie132 on Oct 7, 2019 14:08:13 GMT
Every year gets harder and harder to share that today is my Kennedy’s birthday. I almost feel like I can’t let my family and friends know about it because maybe they think I should be past it at this point. I don’t dwell on it, but when it comes to her actual birthday I have to talk about her. How old she would be, what would she be doing and what would our life be like if we had her still. It’s hard.
So if I can’t talk to my family and friends I talk to you ladies instead. This is the best therapy session there is! So here goes.....
My Kennedy Kay would be turning 9 today. 9 years old. I have a clip of her hair and it was so very dark. I hope she would have kept those dark locks. I’d have had a red head, a black haired, and 2 blondes. What fun is that!!! I think my girl would be funny and sweet. I think she would have been athletic and slightly chubby like her mama. Well, maybe Mama is more than slightly, but that’s a whole different thread post. Her brothers would have made her a rough and tumble kind of girl.....but I’d have tried to keep her girly!!
Most importantly I think my girl would have been kind. She would have been loved. And she really is missed!!! Truly and deeply missed!
Happy Birthday Kennedy Kay. Have an amazing day in heaven!!
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Post by gar on Oct 7, 2019 14:10:53 GMT
Happy birthday Kennedy - i’m so sorry for your pain today Mummy ❤️
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Post by MZF on Oct 7, 2019 14:11:25 GMT
Happy Birthday, Kennedy.
I'm so sorry for your loss, Leslie. (hugs)
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janeliz
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Post by janeliz on Oct 7, 2019 14:12:39 GMT
Happy Birthday to Kennedy.
((Hugs)) to you, Mom.
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Post by marmargirl on Oct 7, 2019 14:16:50 GMT
Happy birthday to your Kennedy!
I think it’s wonderful and perfectly okay to think about what could have been. It’s only a problem if you dwell on it and let it take over reality.
You sound like a terrific and proud mom!
Sending you love 💗
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Post by grate on Oct 7, 2019 14:17:53 GMT
Happy birthday Kennedy and much love to you. I totally get it.
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Post by iluvpink on Oct 7, 2019 14:17:58 GMT
Happy Birthday Kennedy! (((HUGS))).
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Post by ajsweetpea on Oct 7, 2019 14:18:41 GMT
Happy birthday to Kennedy. Sending you a lot of hugs today!
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Post by muggins on Oct 7, 2019 14:26:59 GMT
Happy Birthday Kennedy! Big hugs to your mom:)
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Post by malibou on Oct 7, 2019 14:27:16 GMT
Happy Birthday Kennedy Kay!
So very sorry for your loss. May this celebration of your beautiful daughter bring a smile to your face today.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Oct 7, 2019 14:27:25 GMT
Happy birthday Kennedy! Thinking about her on her birthday is not dwelling. Everyone grieves in their own way...some may be thinking of her today and other days but not voice that which can makes us feel we’re alone in our grief. I’m sorry you’re going through this.
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Post by cakediva on Oct 7, 2019 14:30:04 GMT
Happy birthday Kennedy Kay - hugs to all of you!!
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Post by luvnlifelady on Oct 7, 2019 14:30:28 GMT
Happy birthday to your little girl. My thoughts are with you on this day as you think about her. I’m sure there are smiles and tears but take it easy on yourself as well.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2019 14:32:34 GMT
Kennedy was real - she existed - and she matters. I'm so glad you can come here and share with us. Happy Birthday, sweet Kennedy! I will give my daughter an extra long hug today in your honor.
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Post by Julie W on Oct 7, 2019 14:34:07 GMT
Happy, happy birthday Kennedy!
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Post by MorningPerson on Oct 7, 2019 14:34:36 GMT
Sending warm thoughts to you today.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2019 14:35:50 GMT
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Post by leslie132 on Oct 7, 2019 14:45:45 GMT
Kennedy was real - she existed - and she matters. I'm so glad you can come here and share with us. Happy Birthday, sweet Kennedy! I will give my daughter an extra long hug today in your honor. One year I asked the peas to give their children extra love in her honor. Just a hug or kiss. It was one of the most rewarding threads I’ve ever read!!! Squeeze your little one once for me!!! |
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Post by compeateropeator on Oct 7, 2019 14:46:14 GMT
Happy birthday Kennedy!
leslie132, love and hugs to you and all of your family.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 7, 2019 14:47:32 GMT
Happy birthday Kennedy. I'm sure you would have grown to be just the way you're mamma imagined you to be sweetie.
Big (((( hugs)))) to you Lesley, I can only imagine how hard it must be to cope with the " what might have been" and no one should suggest to you that you should be past it, however long it has been.
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Post by PLurker on Oct 7, 2019 14:51:09 GMT
Happy birthday to Kennedy and hugs to you, mama.
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Post by nysparkle on Oct 7, 2019 14:56:40 GMT
Happy Birthday Kennedy! Hugs to you Leslie123
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Post by blue tulip on Oct 7, 2019 15:01:26 GMT
happy birthday kennedy! and sending love and light to you, leslie. please don't ever feel like you can't share your daughter with us. i'll definitely give my boys some extra love today in her honor!
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Post by smcast on Oct 7, 2019 15:08:49 GMT
Happy Heavenly birthday, Kennedy! Of course you would want to talk about her. I'd love to hear about your hopes and dreams for your daughter if she was with you on this earthly world.
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Post by mnmloveli on Oct 7, 2019 15:09:09 GMT
Happy Birthday Kennedy Kay 🎈
((HUGS)) to you Mom, on such a tough day.
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Post by craftykitten on Oct 7, 2019 15:11:32 GMT
Oh leslie132, please don't ever feel that you can't share here. It's so important to remember our loved ones! Happy birthday Kennedy Kay. |
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Post by Restless Spirit on Oct 7, 2019 15:15:44 GMT
Remembering Kennedy on her birthday. This special day will always be her birthday, she will always be your daughter, she will always be in your heart. These things are true and will never change.
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Post by bc2ca on Oct 7, 2019 15:21:44 GMT
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Oct 7, 2019 15:30:01 GMT
leslie132 May your day be filled with fond memories of you beautiful daughter. Birthdays are often the hardest, because it was once a day of great joy! Mine comes Wednesday.
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Post by crazy4scraps on Oct 7, 2019 15:31:09 GMT
Happy Birthday to your sweet girl. I’m so sorry that you’re grieving her loss today. My DD is nine and I can’t even imagine our life without her. Hugs to you on this special day!
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