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Post by ToniW on Oct 25, 2019 19:26:12 GMT
I am so sorry. Sending you prayers of comfort and strength.
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The Birdhouse Lady
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Oct 25, 2019 19:57:42 GMT
So sorry to hear this Sharla. Sending hugs to you.
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Post by needsperspective on Oct 25, 2019 19:57:47 GMT
I am so sorry. I can't imagine how hard it must have been to find him. I am think of you. Take care of yourself.
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~Susan~
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Post by ~Susan~ on Oct 25, 2019 20:03:44 GMT
Oh no...I'm so very sorry (((hugs)))
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my3freaks
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Post by my3freaks on Oct 25, 2019 20:19:47 GMT
I'm so sorry.
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CeeScraps
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Post by CeeScraps on Oct 25, 2019 20:23:16 GMT
I’m so sorry that this happened to you. Please take care of yourself.
I too am in agreement to get the storage area for his family. Possibly the other option would be to put his stuff in your garage. However if you put it in the garage they may want to enter your home.
Is there someone who could go with them to the storage unit so you get the key back? That could be an issue.
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Post by Deleted on Oct 25, 2019 20:32:28 GMT
I am so sorry that this happened to you. My thoughts are with you.
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Post by jubejubes on Oct 25, 2019 20:50:20 GMT
sharlag Please get a small storage unit. This is what I did when I moved out (separation/divorce). I put in the stuff for him to get, without having to contact me. I left a key for him where he was living for the lock at the storage unit and told him to talk out what he desired. Said that the unit was paid until xxdate and then everything would be destroyed. Told him to leave the key inside the unit. I kept the other key. Everything was gone by the date. No personal interaction. My therapist was happy that I was able to do this. PLEASE consider doing this! Many hugs to you.
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StephDRebel
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Post by StephDRebel on Oct 25, 2019 20:51:02 GMT
Oh my. I'm so sorry for your loss.
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desertgirl
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Post by desertgirl on Oct 25, 2019 21:04:33 GMT
Oh, gosh sharlag . May those memories sustain and nurture you in the tough days ahead and may they remind you of the good man that he was. I am so, so sorry.
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Post by jmd74 on Oct 25, 2019 21:04:59 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss!
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Post by hockeyfan06 on Oct 25, 2019 21:06:15 GMT
Very sorry to hear this. Please take care. Sending prayers.
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Post by chedanemi on Oct 25, 2019 21:35:12 GMT
I'm very sorry for your loss.
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uksue
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Post by uksue on Oct 25, 2019 21:39:38 GMT
I’m so sorry - what a heartbreaking thing to deal with . You are in my thoughts and prayers .
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Post by grate on Oct 25, 2019 21:41:27 GMT
so sorry for your loss and all you experienced, it must have been so very difficult to be the one to find him.
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kate
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Post by kate on Oct 25, 2019 21:47:06 GMT
I'm so sorry. God bless you and keep you as you walk this hard road, especially over the next couple of months.
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Post by Alexxussss on Oct 25, 2019 21:57:03 GMT
So sorry you are experiencing such a difficult series of events. Sending you hugs and prayers. 💕
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smcast
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Post by smcast on Oct 25, 2019 22:09:34 GMT
I'm very sorry for you. Lots to deal with.
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Post by Marina on Oct 25, 2019 22:38:49 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. Please take care of yourself in this difficult time.
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Post by kristi on Oct 25, 2019 23:27:40 GMT
I am so sorry for your loss. Take care of yourself. {HUGS}
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scrappinmama
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Post by scrappinmama on Oct 25, 2019 23:32:26 GMT
I'm so sorry for your loss. I know you say your family didn't like him. Please try to find a way to connect with someone so you can share your feelings on the loss. Even if it's here, please talk about it. We're here for you. Don't feel like you have to keep your grief to yourself.
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Post by *sprout* on Oct 25, 2019 23:33:15 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by refugeepea on Oct 25, 2019 23:33:22 GMT
I'm so sorry sharla. big ((hugs)). You've always bee one of my favorite peas.
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Mary Kay Lady
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Post by Mary Kay Lady on Oct 25, 2019 23:35:57 GMT
Oh Sharlag, I'm so sorry for your loss. (((HUGS)))
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gottapeanow
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Post by gottapeanow on Oct 26, 2019 5:26:57 GMT
I'm so very sorry. Sending prayers.
Lisa
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Post by nysparkle on Oct 26, 2019 5:35:42 GMT
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
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Post by mymindseyedpea on Oct 26, 2019 5:47:17 GMT
I'm so sorry Sharla. I'm sending you comfort during this time. Feel free to message me if you want me to share any signs with you that come from him, when you are ready.
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Post by magenta on Oct 26, 2019 6:46:51 GMT
I’m so very sorry for your loss. {{{hugs}}}
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PLurker
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Post by PLurker on Oct 26, 2019 8:15:58 GMT
I'm so, so sorry.
I can't even imagine.
Please consider the storage shed to pass all his things. You need no more avoidable stress. Give yourself that break, at least. Hygs6
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RedSquirrelUK
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Oct 26, 2019 9:53:22 GMT
I'm so very sorry. How awful for you all, and for him too. Cut yourself some slack. Big hugs.
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