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Post by monklady123 on Nov 28, 2019 21:32:07 GMT
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Post by sbartist on Nov 28, 2019 21:37:44 GMT
You are not alone. This is really the only day I cook throughout the year. We are a fend for yourself kind of family every other day of the year. There is just so much prep work of T-day festivities, all to be gobbled down in about 15 minutes. Plus I have to work tomorrow.
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Post by nlwilkins on Nov 28, 2019 22:36:05 GMT
Sitting here after two full days of cooking and prep work and realize it only took 30 minutes table time to make the biggest mess you ever saw. Hubby is still washing dishes and filling the dishwasher an hour later. (I cleaned and put leftovers away until all there was left to do was the dirty dishes.)
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Post by mom2rjcr on Nov 28, 2019 22:46:09 GMT
And that is why I made reservations for today instead. It was a much more relaxed day for me...no dishes to wash, etc. Now I can just sit and enjoy time with my family.
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Post by mrssmith on Nov 28, 2019 22:53:47 GMT
Same! I do like baking though, so I made two pies. And am crashing my sister's for dinner.
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Post by lisae on Nov 28, 2019 23:20:33 GMT
I love to cook but I hate having a prescribed meal. Every year I try to come up with something besides turkey and all that stuff I hate that will still be special. I just resent having to do that on a particular day. I swear next year I'm making cheeseburgers and opening a bag of potato chips. I'll save the fancy meal for when I'm in the mood.
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Post by refugeepea on Nov 29, 2019 0:17:20 GMT
Right there with you. Especially when it's additional people besides my family. It gives me too much anxiety. I'd rather interact with them than all that planning, prepping, timing, and cleaning up. Yuck. I could not care less if anything is store bought.
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Post by malibou on Nov 29, 2019 0:19:35 GMT
Scoot over and make room for me. I have a bottle of wine.
It's just me and dh this year. We're having a simple pasta meal.
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Post by mikklynn on Nov 29, 2019 2:31:44 GMT
I recommend buying a pre-made meal next year. Best thing ever!
This year I brought it to my parent's house 2 hours away and prepared it there for them. They were so happy not to travel. Mom did not have to spend 2 days cooking.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 30, 2019 18:48:49 GMT
I'm the opposite. I love to cook and bake. This Thanksgiving it was only going to be me, DH and DD. I couldn't commit to cooking since we just lost our beloved baby boy (cat). DH and I decided to pick up the turkey, etc., on our way home from my surgeon's office. I wasn't going to be on any timeline for cooking and if I didn't feel up to it, I would have put it off another day. I'm still restricted from my last surgery so I needed help cooking anyway...
I wound up making a 17 lb stuffed turkey, Italian stuffed/steamed artichokes, green bean dish (with orange pepper, poblano pepper, corn, cilantro, tomatoes...), cranberry sauce and cornbread. Felt good to cook, even though everything reminded me of my kitten. I stayed in sweats, but at least we had a delicious meal. I hadn't eaten for a few days so it was good.
If my heart wasn't in it, I'd never do it!!
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 30, 2019 18:50:50 GMT
We have a deal in my house. I cook for Thanksgiving but not for the week of except that meal. It's not really a deal. It's what I have decided. Tonight we are decorating the tree and having margaritas and delivered pizza.
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Post by kibblesandbits on Nov 30, 2019 19:10:27 GMT
You are not alone. This is really the only day I cook throughout the year. We are a fend for yourself kind of family every other day of the year. There is just so much prep work of T-day festivities, all to be gobbled down in about 15 minutes. Plus I have to work tomorrow. You don't cook? Like, ever? Do you all live on sandwiches and cereal? I just can't imagine this. I love cooking. Not necessarily the "performance meals" like big holidays, but every day cooking? It's my jam. My family gets healthy food, well prepared. Cooking is how I show love.
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Post by jubejubes on Nov 30, 2019 19:34:34 GMT
I enjoy cooking, especially when I had my wonderful, huge kitchen with gas stove, prior to divorce. I had lots of countertops and room to move and cook.
Now, in my small kitchen, not so much.
Cooking for 1 isn't fun. Eating out is expensive. So I am eating more "prepared, frozen" food than ever in my life. And I have to carry my groceries up 12 floors from my car, although my car is inside on a lower level. I use a wagon to pile on my groceries so that I don't have to actual carry them up.
Sometimes, I make a big homemade lasagna (the only kind I like) and will invite a friend over for dinner to share it. I sometimes make a large batch of pulled pork and then put it into containers for other meals.
I like Marie Callander frozen meals - turkey, meatloaf and roast beef. so between that, a small bit of cooking and some take-out, that is about it.
I used to help my mom cater dinners at the church. I have even done turkey dinners (turkey is so easy!) for 100 people more than 8 times, all on my own. I do ask for help to peel the potatoes, but other than that, I'm doing it all.
I love a beautiful table setting, with name tags, china, crystal glasses, stainless cutlery, flowers, etc and have put together many lovely meals for friends and family over the past 25+ years.
I like the self satisfaction when everyone is gathered around the table, the smell of the flavours melding together and that this is something that I can do very well.
I have some extended family coming over tomorrow for a brunch and have spent much time on the menu, decorations and simply enjoying doing the work because the end result will be a table surrounded with people who I care about.
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Nov 30, 2019 20:11:57 GMT
I hate cooking. If it tells you anything, I’ve never cooked a turkey. Dh likes cooking and used to like preparing everything for holidays. Once we had kids and they went through a phase where they complained about everything we put in front of them, he lost some of his love of cooking. Add that his career took off and he’s busier than he’s ever been, and now he occasionally enjoys cooking.
For holidays, we usually order our meal from a local grocery store so we can relax and enjoy the holiday.
For me, cooking is a necessary evil. I’ll cook dinner at home but it’s usually easy repetitive meals. We also eat out and carry out a lot more than we should.
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Post by lucyg on Dec 1, 2019 0:31:43 GMT
I don’t particularly love cooking, but Thanksgiving dinner is one meal I do like to cook.
Unfortunately, I usually have to go to someone else’s house for Thanksgiving.
So I’ll be roasting a turkey and making a few of the usual side dishes (not all of them!) in a few weeks. Just because I like it.
If I didn’t love making it and I needed to serve it myself on Thanksgiving, I’d get one of those complete turkey dinners from the supermarket. You could always add a few family favorites to whatever they supply.
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Post by craftykitten on Dec 1, 2019 0:34:38 GMT
I despise cooking. Fortunately DH loves it so I'm happy to let him do it all.
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