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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2020 17:15:54 GMT
I am loud and funny (per others, lol) and have learned that I am really not an extrovert. The social isolation has not affected me negatively. I actually am enjoying my "down time". I do have people that live with me so I know that makes a difference as I am not totally alone. And I feel for those who are having difficulty during this societal change. I am not missing the work peeps, I am not a hugger. I am not bored. Anyone else realize they are not social beings?
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Post by Peal on Apr 13, 2020 17:22:23 GMT
I've always known I was an introvert. This has been a dream come true for me, with the exception of the threat of sickness and possibly death when I run to the store for groceries. Besides the fact I no longer have a part time job, not much has really changed for me.
I'm trying to figure out how to maintain the 6 foot distance and ban on handshakes and hugs when it's all over.
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Post by myshelly on Apr 13, 2020 17:35:28 GMT
I don’t know what I am.
I don’t like people, but I HATE being home.
I NEED events. I need museums and live theatre and lectures and Disney World. However, if I could go to those places and be the only one there, I’d be extremely happy.
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Post by cycworker on Apr 13, 2020 17:41:26 GMT
I don’t know what I am. I don’t like people, but I HATE being home. I NEED events. I need museums and live theatre and lectures and Disney World. However, if I could go to those places and be the only one there, I’d be extremely happy. This is me. Well, I do like my core group of people. But overall I'm missing activity as much or more than people. |
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Post by katlady on Apr 13, 2020 17:41:36 GMT
I’ve always been an introvert. And as mentioned above, except for the threat of this virus, this would be my happy place. I do miss being amongst people though. Not necessarily interacting with them, but just being out there, if that makes sense. I enjoy sitting in a cafe, or going to the store. Alone but not alone. I do miss seeing my close friends though.
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Post by caangel on Apr 13, 2020 17:50:18 GMT
I've always know I'm an introvert (recharged by being alone vs with groups). But I enjoy my friends and activities, with which I typically pack my calendar (SAHM who is never home). I too, have thrived during this time we are required to be home. We are a family of 5 but a big house helps. Plus the kids can get outside most days which gives me quiet time inside.
My house has been neglected the last few years due to my self inflicted busy schedule, so I have been using this time to do tons of decluttering and projects that I have put off. We are all very content and good with being home together. We all still have to be productive each day which helps us feel more settled and normal: DH and my cousin who lives with us both are working from home, kids have school work and chores each day and then my normal mom duties plus my projects. And of course we have our bad moments and days just like everyone else.
I know that this scenario isn't a positive for many so I've hesitated saying much in social media.
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 13, 2020 17:54:15 GMT
I've always known I was an introvert. This has been a dream come true for me, with the exception of the threat of sickness and possibly death when I run to the store for groceries. Besides the fact I no longer have a part time job, not much has really changed for me. I'm trying to figure out how to maintain the 6 foot distance and ban on handshakes and hugs when it's all over.Amen! |
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Post by keithurbanlovinpea on Apr 13, 2020 17:55:32 GMT
Introvert here and WFH full time, which I LOVE. The only thing I miss is my solo outings. I occasionally like to wander the grocery store, Target or Hallmark and just visually take in the worls.
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Post by beaglemom on Apr 13, 2020 18:13:59 GMT
I'm not sure what I am. I am spending way too much time on social media, I think because I miss people. But at the same time, I love that we don't have to leave the house. I like having connections with people. But I really don't miss all the driving around and activities that come with 4 kids. I haven't quite figured out my balance yet.
I LOVE having DH working from home. I get kisses throughout the day. I enjoy (most days) getting to make him breakfast and lunch. He is helping with dinner way more than normal. The kids love having him here, we get him an extra hour or two a day since he isn't commuting. He just walks out of his office and is ready to help cook or play video games with the kids. It is going to be a hard adjustment for all of us when he has to go back into the office again. My youngest two (2 and 4) will miss him the most. They love that he will come kiss them before nap and give them a quick snuggle.
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Apr 13, 2020 18:21:41 GMT
Being an introvert has really come in handy during this quarantine. I am happy to be at home, I do wish I could go to Michael's to browse and replenish my craft stockpile but otherwise I am fine. I miss seeing my best friend but we chat on the phone and text several times a week.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2020 18:30:10 GMT
I know that this scenario isn't a positive for many so I've hesitated saying much in social media. Ditto. I hesitated to even post this. |
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Post by Darcy Collins on Apr 13, 2020 18:40:53 GMT
The opposite actually. I've always known I'm pretty middle of the road on the e/i scale, but this has definitely shown me that I am not an introvert.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on Apr 13, 2020 18:47:08 GMT
I'm enjoying working remotely, but I've always known I was an introvert. For some reason, that surprises people, I guess because I'm not a wallflower. I'm fine in social situations, and I'm even a "leader" in most situations, but I need some time alone to recharge my batteries before I can go back out there for the next event/activity.
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Post by scrapqueen01 on Apr 13, 2020 18:59:19 GMT
I've always been an introvert and homebody. I was a stay at home mom for 12 years. My job in a preschool requires me to be social which I can do. At the end of the day I am exhausted. My ears are tired of noise. By the end of the day I need peace and alone time. Dh is still working but with reduced hours. Dd is home but she's not really a problem. I'm enjoying being home. I can find plenty of things to entertain myself. I admit that I do miss school and am ready to go back.
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Post by scrapngranny on Apr 13, 2020 19:25:07 GMT
I have known I am an introvert since I retired. I did realize it when I was working, and nobody I worked would have thought I was either. I am very happy being at home. It was not unusual for me to stay home for 10-14 days in the past.
I’ve been fine since we self quarantined. I have not left the house. DH has been the one to go to the grocery store every couple of weeks.
There are a couple of places would go if the restrictions were lifted, but I’m fine waiting too.
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Post by cecilia on Apr 13, 2020 19:25:29 GMT
I don’t know what I am. I don’t like people, but I HATE being home. I NEED events. I need museums and live theatre and lectures and Disney World. However, if I could go to those places and be the only one there, I’d be extremely happy. This is me. Well, I do like my core group of people. But overall I'm missing activity as much or more than people. This is me. I need routine. |
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Post by katlady on Apr 13, 2020 20:30:19 GMT
Being an introvert/extrovert has a lot to do with how you recharge. For instance, one friend I have needs to be around people. They give her energy. Me on the other hand, I am drained after an hour at a party and ready to leave. But I do like get togethers where we are doing something, like playing a game. I don't think I could ever have a job where I must be engaged with people all the time, like a hair stylist. .
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Post by J u l e e on Apr 13, 2020 20:40:36 GMT
I have found I’m not as introverted as I thought. I miss a lot of human interaction right now, but humans of my choice. I love doing my job from home though and I don’t miss annoying coworkers. If I could continue that when this is all over I would love it.
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Post by MaryMary on Apr 13, 2020 20:50:08 GMT
I am an introvert that wants to be an extrovert. I WANT to be outgoing and social, then the minute I get to a big party I’m like, “Get me the H out of here.”.
However, I HATE being alone. So, being home with my kids all day is a breeze.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 13, 2020 20:55:47 GMT
I'm an introvert stuck in a house with people who are extroverts! LOL. And they all want mom/wife to do things with them - watch something - play a game -take a walk - just chat...apparently I am a necessity for anything to happen in this family. And the more time we spend together the more they want to do things with me! LOL. I'm trying to embrace it as my kids are 17 and 15 and will be out of the house soon enough. I try to have some time in my home office each day (DH has taken over my reading corner in our bedroom (it's so peaceful! LOL) and our living room and basement) so I can have some space, but they tend to barge in any way and look confused about why I need a mental break from the chatter. But the staying at home thing - I"m all over that!
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Post by Gennifer on Apr 13, 2020 21:01:44 GMT
Nah, you’re still an extrovert. It’s not about being home/out, it’s about being alone/with others. You’re doing fine, because you still have your family in your home, from which you draw energy.
I’m an introvert, which means I need alone time to recharge. With my family here all the time, I’m not getting it, so I am really struggling.
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Post by andreasmom on Apr 13, 2020 21:01:53 GMT
I’ve always known, yet I am on full blown cabin fever. I need to go out.
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Post by yodutchess on Apr 13, 2020 21:35:48 GMT
I wish I could be more social. I just get socially paralyzed.
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Post by 950nancy on Apr 13, 2020 22:01:11 GMT
I think I am more of a chameleon. I seem to be whatever is happening at the time. I enjoy people and events (that I choose), but I have also been pretty content to stay home (at least better than I thought I would). If I could get out for two hours a day, it would be ideal.
Just having one other person in the house is fine, but I would really enjoy it if I had a kid or two here. They entertained me for hours.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Apr 13, 2020 22:06:42 GMT
I knew already, and the mere fact that I'm perfectly happy with the whole "not seeing people other than my DH" thing just emphasises it. I'm spending more time listening to people on the phone though.
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Post by scorpeao on Apr 13, 2020 22:19:51 GMT
I have known I'm an introvert, and I am LOVING this. No more coming up with excuses for why I don't want to hang out.
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Post by mymindseyedpea on Apr 14, 2020 2:34:03 GMT
I’m an introvert. And the shell that I’m in can be found in the sea.
I’m outgoing with the ingoing.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Apr 14, 2020 4:18:36 GMT
Besides being stressed about finances and the likely loss of baseball and other events that the kids participate in, I have been fine being home. When I’m with people I talk and and sociable. But so far I’m not going stir crazy or feeling bored. I actually feel like I don’t have enough time to do all of the things I want to do at home (or going places that are outdoors).
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Post by PLurker on Apr 14, 2020 4:44:10 GMT
Yes and no.
I have been home for quite a while due to medical, loss of job etc and have lost touch from a lot of people due to circumstances and just not being around them daily or available as much. I've been basically fine and out with friends once in a while, scrapbook nights/weekends etc has kept me satisfied. until just before this all hit the fan.
I was thinking I am ready to move on, reconnect with friends, make new ones and probably move, too. And here I sit. Stuck again. I'll probably settle back in to hermit-ville and remain in place after all this. We'll see. Meanwhile, I am thankful that I didn't move because I still have a lot of room to roam all the while not leaving home.
So I guess I'm a introvert/extrovert flip-flopper.
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Post by Deleted on Apr 14, 2020 7:08:06 GMT
I am an introvert. But I don't like being so alone all the time! It is one thing to stay home when I want to, but being mandated to be alone and having to be afraid to go out for necessities is hard.
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