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Post by leannec on May 17, 2020 22:24:18 GMT
Hey everyone! I live alone and I'm The World's Worst Housekeeper so I'm bored these days ... I work from home as a teacher so that does keep me busy during the weekdays but the rest of the time is a whole lot of nothing I know many of you are super crafters and cleaners Tell me how you are coping right now ... are you bored or busy? ETA: I should have put an "I'm busy" poll answer ... use "other" for that!
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Post by freecharlie on May 17, 2020 22:27:38 GMT
I've describe teaching from home as overwhelmed and bored at the same time. It seems like they should be mutually exclusive, but they aren't. It carries over into everything because when you work from home, you are always at work and you are always at home.
Currently I am shopping online
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Post by crimsoncat05 on May 17, 2020 22:28:10 GMT
I could do lots of stuff, but I don't feel like doing any of it. So I'm bored right now. or depressed, whichever it is...
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Post by myshelly on May 17, 2020 22:34:51 GMT
I guess I don’t understand why those are the two options.
I can be busy all day cooking and cleaning and doing laundry, and still be completely bored because those things don’t fulfill me or bring me joy.
To me, the opposite of bored is entertained, not busy.
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Post by seaexplore on May 17, 2020 22:35:06 GMT
I craft and do puzzles in my "free time". I'm also do distance teaching. It sucks up so much time.
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Post by gizzy on May 17, 2020 22:38:37 GMT
I'm bored. There are a lot of different things I could be doing...scrapbooking, making cards, reading...but I don't feel like doing anything really. Each day is a struggle to get up and do something besides sit in this chair and worry.
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Post by rickmer on May 17, 2020 22:39:22 GMT
bored AND busy. trying to make the most of the time but hard because i know, i could just do this crap tomorrow.
starting work on tuesday.... that motivated me a bit to kick it up up a notch. but if i spend 2 hrs weeding and an hour cleaning my windows out front, i am gonna flake and just, ya know, be bored.
so i didn't even select anything from poll options.... lol!
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Post by tallgirl on May 17, 2020 22:39:46 GMT
Honestly, I'm both. Normally I don't have enough hours in the day to spend on my favourite hobbies, like gardening and quilting. Right now I have plenty of time for both of those, and supplies too, but I find that I'm more focused on other things that I can't do than on those things that normally give me plenty of fulfillment. I've never struggled with depression before, but I'm feeling that "doesn't find enjoyment in the usual places" symptom, big time.
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Post by gar on May 17, 2020 22:43:19 GMT
I’m not bored but not busy either. It feels like one long Sunday at the moment. We’re happily pottering about, we do some chores but not too many, we zoom family, we eat and do jigsaws and plan future holidays for when we can. That’s not to say we wouldn’t prefer to be living normally- we miss family and so on - but we’re relatively content just hanging out together 😊
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Post by cindyupnorth on May 17, 2020 22:43:34 GMT
Why is there not just a busy option in the poll? I'm just busy, not necessarily with any of those things, but many things.
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Post by ~summer~ on May 17, 2020 22:46:32 GMT
Definitely both. With all 3 kids home, working, cooking, exercising etc I’m super busy and definitely not on top or even close to organizing my house. But I’m super bored with the monotony and longing to travel and see people.
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Post by busy on May 17, 2020 22:46:34 GMT
I'm busy. Not with any of the options in the poll, but work is crazy busy and then I have normal life stuff. I'm definitely not trying to fill time with new hobbies and deep cleaning like many are; I've got more than enough to deal with.
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Post by refugeepea on May 17, 2020 22:52:03 GMT
Frustrated, exceedingly frustrated. Thank God May 20th is the last day I have to home school my child.
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Post by peano on May 17, 2020 22:53:05 GMT
I'm almost never bored, but I'm definitely not busy. Cleaning is never going to fill any need I have. What I am is depressed, and I'm trying to reset my self-care, which includes getting sugar and flour out of my diet, and limiting even further my exposure to toxic news, and not projecting into the future. It also includes lots of time sitting around aimlessly and thinking about things/daydreaming. I've changed up my routine a little bit, and instead of starting my day reading the news and emails, I read a book for 2 or 3 hours.
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Post by Linda on May 17, 2020 22:57:50 GMT
yes - both, neither...
I'm normally a SAHM and I don't drive so I'm used to be home most/all of the time. But I'm also used to having the house to myself for 9+ hours/day during the week.
The mundane chores are taking more time because there are more people home making more dishes, more laundry, more messes, eating more food. I'm spending more time with family - my two daughters and I are watching an episode of Call the Midwife together most days and DD20 and I are watching an episode of West Wing most days also. DH and I are between shows right now but we finished up The Crown and watched Chernoybl. Typically I wouldn't watch ONE episode of TV even every week never mind 2-3 in a day. And DS calls everyday to chat - which is nice but I find multi-tasking on the phone hard. I also started a walking challenge through my county extension (virtually) so I'm walking about an hour every evening with one DD or the other (not both - tried that once and it didn't go well). I'm also still working on my mum's photos - so much scanning. So all that is keeping me busy but not in an entertained way.
I'm struggling a bit with my hobbies (reading, scrapbooking, card making, sewing, genealogy) - it's hard to settle to them and my motivation/creativity keeps disappearing. My free time seems to be disappearing online instead of on the things I enjoy.
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on May 17, 2020 23:00:44 GMT
I voted "other."
i feel both, bored and busy.
Bored because I can't do the things I want to do. I feel so stuck. And I haven't been able to have a minute alone in nearly two months.
Busy because I am constantly doing housework. Monday through Friday I'm helping my kids with their e-learning. The laundry, and handwashing dishes, and making meals is never-ending.
So bored because I can't go out and do fun things for me.
Busy because I'm constantly doing non-fun housework.
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Post by Bitchy Rich on May 17, 2020 23:02:26 GMT
I am enjoying my time at home. I have coffee in the morning and go for a walk - barely anyone is out in the mornings, it's so peaceful. I have been working in the garden or cleaning out different parts of the house. I take a nap most days. Sit outside and read my book (have a big stack) if the weather is nice, or on the couch with the dogs if it isn't. At night I watch something on Netflix and embroider or knit.
Maybe one day a week I go get groceries. I have been trying new recipes, cooking and baking.
I know what is happening is a terrible thing, but I am appreciating the slower pace. It feels like I have been given the gift of time. I wake up in the morning and think I have the whole day to do whatever I want. No demands, no constraints. The day is whatever I want to make it.
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Post by Dalai Mama on May 17, 2020 23:03:30 GMT
Other - I'm busy working. Both DH and I are working considerably more hours than we did before the crap hit the fan.
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Post by Mystie on May 17, 2020 23:32:54 GMT
I'm bored. I have chemo every other week, and by the time the chemo sickness and exhaustion wears off and I start to feel interested in things again...it's time to go to chemo again. It's frustrating. I think I'd find a lot more to do if I felt better.
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Post by maryland on May 17, 2020 23:37:27 GMT
I am a sahm, so I am used to being home all day. It's hard to get things done with everyone home all day, but I am enjoying having us all together. I do miss time to myself to clean. I get much more done when I am home alone. I enjoy not having any social obligations!
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Post by mom on May 17, 2020 23:38:40 GMT
Im busy but also bored. I *have* stuff to do at home but don't want to do it. Even the fun things at home are old now.
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Post by PLurker on May 17, 2020 23:38:51 GMT
I could do lots of stuff, but I don't feel like doing any of it. So I'm bored right now. or depressed, whichever it is... pretty much that. I'm bored but I should be busy. My hearts not in much these days. Focusing is zilch. I did get some flowers and tomatoes planted. That perked me up a bit. I was in a rut before and was getting all set to move along and then bam! home-bound. Mystie ((hugs))
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Post by cmpeter on May 17, 2020 23:42:16 GMT
Busy, but with work. Things are crazy busy trying to launch a new site and new products. We had a gal on our team leave and we have a hiring freeze right now. I’ve picked up two of her teams. No time for hobbies or house stuff.
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Post by scrapmaven on May 18, 2020 0:03:17 GMT
I'm often bored, anyway. I have hobbies, but I'm usually too tired to do them.
Mystie, how are you doing overall? How much chemo do you have left? Thinking healing and cancer-free thoughts.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2020 0:03:27 GMT
I am SO slammed busy with work and housework and the kids wanting my attention. I have only two weeks left to work and I am just waiting for it. I am going to lay around like a fat lazy slug and binge watch Netflix until my eyes fall out.
I am sure that I will still have to cook and clean in between episodes, but looking forward to a pretty lazy summer.
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Post by whipea on May 18, 2020 0:04:09 GMT
Other - I'm busy working. Both DH and I are working considerably more hours than we did before the crap hit the fan. Yup, well D/H is retired so not different for him. Me, whooo, time management is a nightmare. Way more work and way less free time than when I went into work.
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Post by Mystie on May 18, 2020 0:12:20 GMT
I'm often bored, anyway. I have hobbies, but I'm usually too tired to do them.
Mystie, how are you doing overall? How much chemo do you have left? Thinking healing and cancer-free thoughts. Thanks. I have a treatment tomorrow and another in two weeks, and then chemo should be done. Then surgery, maybe at the end of July...not sure when that will be. I'm not doing great, to be honest; physically this is very hard and emotionally it's devastating. I think I could have handled it all okay if it wasn't for the pandemic. It's hard to feel like I have a future. But hopefully getting done with chemo and starting to feel physically better will help my state of mind. :-)
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Post by nlwilkins on May 18, 2020 0:12:40 GMT
ennui I have plenty of things to do that I used to love to do - sewing, painting, cardmaking and much more but cannot seem to settle into it. I have taken to the xbox and spend a lot of time on it playing a game called Conan Exiles. It causes anxiety cause I make mistakes that affect my team. But it is a form of escapism and I need to start building a life here at home. But, again, I can't seem to settle to anything.
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Post by crazy4scraps on May 18, 2020 1:23:10 GMT
I’m normally a WAHM so I’m used to being home by myself. I’m busy during the week for more hours than I’d like helping my kid stay on task with school and because she’s busy watching/listening to recorded assignments there are things I need to do but don’t want to do because it would be a distraction to my kid. I’m so glad they only have five days of “learning” left and then four days after that of just goofing around, wrap up the school year kind of things.
Once school is out, I hope it will be easier to get closer to my usual working week schedule. It will likely be a summer of video games, FaceTime and YouTube for my kid, at least while I’m trying to work and get stuff done. Thankfully she won’t mind.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on May 18, 2020 1:39:48 GMT
The auction house is closed right now so my admittedly very part-time work is not happening right now. But other than that, little else has changed about my typical day to day life. I run my Etsy, clean, cook, garden, exercise, and stay in close touch with family and friends. I miss travel terribly and I sorely miss entertaining. But I stay pleasantly busy. I'm honestly never bored.
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