kitbop
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Post by kitbop on Jul 3, 2020 0:27:59 GMT
Hello July, and welcome Divas! angel97701 , gramma , nylene , ComplicatedLady , cannmom , sleepingbooty , grammadee , schroema , azcrafty , kiki , AussieMegHave you posted your challenges?? I have to look at that thread and figure out my contributions. Got big plans for scrapping this month? Has your scrapping picked up with the winter months AussieMeg? I get so much less done scrap-wise in the summer. First, I have a real resistance to going down into my basement to scrap while the sun is up. I crave daylight. Love sunshine. And there are NO windows in my basement. Second, as much as this current heat is too much, I do love spending time outside, whether I putz in the garden or go on a walk or hike, the evenings are hard to give up to a basement! How are get togethers working in your part of the world? We are allowed a "bubble" family, another family that we can interact with as closely as we like. We've seen ours 3 times in 2 weeks. I've also allowed my Dad to creep back into our house a bit. He is lonely, so he comes over for supper - but we are eating on the patio because I feel safer about it! He's vulnerable, and we're a risky group (3 work at grocery stores; 1 works at post-office/sorting warehouse; I work in a hospital!!!) which isn't a good combination. What about summer plans? Anyone got anything going on this month? I have a week of vacation, but we have nothing official planned yet. I'm going to have to work around other people's work schedules too. I'd like to drive to the beach a few days, but it's at least 90 minutes of driving each way, and both of our vehicles have lost their AC Pop in and chat when you can!
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Post by AussieMeg on Jul 3, 2020 1:17:29 GMT
Has your scrapping picked up with the winter months AussieMeg ? Yes, I do seem to get more done in winter. I have next week off on annual leave, and it's going to be cold - the forecast for the next 7 days is between 12-14 C (53-57 F) with rain over the next 3 days, so I think I will hunker down and get some scrapping done. How are get togethers working in your part of the world? A lot of our restrictions were lifted, so I have been able to catch up with friends and family, and even went out for dinner 2 weeks ago. But the second wave has now hit my state, so they have put several suburbs on lock down, and for the rest of us we are limited to 5 visitors at a time. It's my dad's birthday on Sunday - normally we would have the whole family over, but we're going to have to do it in groups now.
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Post by grammadee on Jul 3, 2020 4:18:50 GMT
Hello Diva's! I will be bumbling along, scrapping whenever I get a chance. Have lots of cards that need making, and still have unscrapped photos. As far as organizing goes, I need to pick up the rest of dgd's pages from the printer and finish assembling her grad album, then return all of the original pages back to their original albums. Still no large gatherings here. Restaurants are allowed to serve indoors if every second table is kept unoccupied. Two of our local restaurants had been take out only, but they have now closed for the summer, rather than take on wait staff for half capacity seating. Not sure what others are doing. Our "bubble" has been ourselves and our dd and her ds. Hoping that we can get together with our son's family as well in a couple of weeks. They would be coming here. I have really missed seeing them. Even if dd & dgs are here at the same time, that would still be at the limit of ten people gatherings. Looking forward to hearing from everyone, and seeing what you create this month. If you haven't already posted your challenges, you still have one more day to do that. Other than that, summers usually mean working in the garden and (hopefully) harvesting and eating fresh produce. And when you are retired, it's hard to take a vacation from that! .
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Post by schroema on Jul 3, 2020 13:57:11 GMT
I’m here! My husband and son are off to scout camp next week so I’m hoping to spend a good bit of time scrapping. I may also plan a trip to a Tuesday morning store. There’s one about 30 miles from me but I’ve never been.
Restrictions are lifting where I am, but masks and social distancing are still encouraged. My DD has type one diabetes so she’s in a higher risk group. We are balancing being safe with also getting back to “normal”.
This is only my second month participating in the challenge but last month was a lot of fun for me. I’m also taking the sketches Facebook class so that’s keeping me creating at least one layout a week.
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Post by angel97701 on Jul 3, 2020 19:32:30 GMT
Hello Divas! Probably not scrapping to be done for some of the same reasons as kitbop . Although I have windows in my room, still many chores around a 6 acre property, and a 1,800 sq ft veggie garden. Potatoes are doing fantastic in grow bag experiment, corn is ankle high, beans have some kind of critter eating on the leaves(?), carrots, peas, lettuce, cucumbers are all on their merry way to making us food. Bible Journaling for my soul and peace of mind will be my main outlet . . . for those who don't know me, both of my boys were adopted from Russia almost 12 years ago at ages 10 and 4. They are the surviving siblings of a group of 4. Middle two children did not survive their birth home. Extreme developmental trauma that leads to depression and substance abuse for both. DS21 told me via text he was kicked out of the substance abuse program for missing meetings. It's his adult problem and we will let the pieces fall where they may, he's not hit rock bottom yet. He has been there for 10 weeks and is on their Step 4 (Think AA steps). DS14's stay at Wilderness Therapy will come to an end sometime this month. There have been some major lapses in communication of things about his therapy, etc. For example he removed the rubber bands on his lower brackets of his braces and the wire came out on JUNE 21st! I find out about it yesterday? There are a few other issues. But the hardest part is we did get his full psychological evaluation report from someone who specializes in meeting kids in WT. He is on the FAS spectrum, we always suspected, but now there it is in writing. Measured IQ of 78, in need of a great deal of therapeutic treatment. We are hiring an attorney and will attempt to get him placed in a therapeutic boarding school for next year, especially because of Covid and how SpEd kids in our state are underserved. Prayers and encouragement is appreciated!
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Post by nylene on Jul 4, 2020 2:26:10 GMT
Hello to all the Divas! I don't have any plans for July except staying home. angel97701 , you are in my prayers for strength when dealing with your boys. If your DS is on Step 4 of the AA steps, just know that it is a long and hard step if done well. Our Recovery members have often been on that step for months, but make good progress when they complete it. How is the water clean up? Are you still fighting the Insurance Co. Hugs to you. schroema , I hope you get a lot accomplished while the boys are at camp. It's nice to see your avatar popping up. AussieMeg , I have heard very little about the Covid in Australia. I was hoping it was because your area was not increasing in cases. I hope they don't go up as things become more open. That is what has happened here. Hi, kitbop and grammadee . I hope to see you both on some of the Hangouts this month. Off to do some photo organization.
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Post by kitbop on Jul 4, 2020 23:34:03 GMT
I'm hoping to join the hangout tomorrow nylene. anyone else coming to play? angel97701 - emotional news at every turn. I'm glad you are so anchored in your house/garden/DH and bible journaling! I think you're a very strong special person. How was everyone's 4th of July celebrations? AussieMeg - when is Australia Day and do you celebrate in similar fashion (barbecues, fireworks...)? My kids were lamenting that the US doesn't know when Canada Day is. I turned it back on them and asked them when Bastille Day was, when Australia Day was, etc. etc. and of course they had no clue. US culture is so dominant in Canadian media/movies that of course we know a lot about them!
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Post by grammadee on Jul 4, 2020 23:59:44 GMT
((((HUGS)))) angel97701. Hang in there. My heart hurts for what those boys have been through in their lives, and the pain everyone is experiencing now. Addictions are tough to break, but hopefully each step they take will bring them closer to health and happiness. Not sure about tomorrow's crop. We still have gardening to do, and since it has been too wet most of the week, we are just getting into it today, so not sure what dh plans for tomorrow. The good garden news is that we ate fresh lettuce and radishes out of the garden this evening, and I am planning to check for new potatoes tomorrow...
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Post by AussieMeg on Jul 5, 2020 1:41:46 GMT
AussieMeg - when is Australia Day and do you celebrate in similar fashion (barbecues, fireworks...)? Australia Day falls on 26th of January. It's a very contentious issue here. I actually did a layout about it last month, for the Black Representation challenge, using the photos from when the kids and I attended an Invasion Day rally. The date is when the First Fleet arrived in Australia, which then led to tens? hundreds? of thousands of Aboriginals being slaughtered. Australia Day is therefore also known as Invasion Day or Survival Day, and there are calls to change the date. "There's No Pride In Genocide." So no, I do not celebrate it. There are plenty of people who think Aboriginals should "get over it" and are vehemently opposed to changing the date. Hence the contentiousness and division.
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Post by kitbop on Jul 5, 2020 2:47:48 GMT
Australia Day falls on 26th of January... Thank you for educating us! Tonight I am busy researching American History (watching Hamilton...I end up googling some historical fact every 5 minutes!) but tomorrow I will have to have a closer look at Australia. I know so little about you. (The Thorn Birds and Quigley Down Under are *probably* not a great education in Australian history... and Bill Bryson's "In a Sunburnt Country" is amazing but more traveller autobiography)
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Post by kitbop on Jul 10, 2020 11:43:25 GMT
Too quiet! Too quiet! Who's around? What's up? Anyone scrapping? Anyone watched Hamilton? Anyone coming to the scrappy hang-out this weekend?
Today is my last day of work and I'm heading into a week (a week!) of vacation. We don't have plans yet and I have to give myself a firm shake and promise not to just let the days dwindle away in laziness.
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Post by angel97701 on Jul 10, 2020 14:48:45 GMT
Hello my dear Refugee sisters! Turmoil continues . . . no word from DS21 since last Friday and his removal from the program. I should call the director (I do have a ROI). The phone call with the psychologist and therapist was very pushy, HE MUST GO TO therapeutic boarding school (TBS). We also met with the leadership earlier in the day at NVW. So exhausted on Monday I actually took a nap then did sleep through the night as well with a little Rx help. We are researching TBS, and so far 2 no's and a maybe. Our first choice said no, but it was highly recommended by our Envoy representation. This whole industry is seeped in "I'll pat your back, if you pat mine" and "that is not in my wheelhouse to recommended the next steps treatment". It is recommended we hire and Educational Consultant for another $8K-$13K to interview us and then find the "best fit for DS14". We set the date of 7/15 for DS to transition out, but JUST yesterday the therapist told us "no, the clinical director says she must be there". We have known for 3 weeks she will be on vacation, but this is the first that they've used this as a reason to not bring him out. My thoughts are to have them give a much reduced discount and keep him until 7/22, but DH wants him out now. He's been on safety protocol 2 for we don't know how long (think burrito--He is in his sleeping bag not his one man tent, they place a tarp over him and a field staff sleeps on either side of the tarp to keep him from running. It is for his safety, and he has to earn his way out of safety level 2. Apparently he just got his tent back yesterday. The lack of real information in our 1 hour therapist call is underwhelming! OH, and after I threw a royal hissy fit about not know for almost 2 weeks his braces had been compromised they did get him in to the orthodontist on Wednesday, so at least that is fixed! We have our first consult with the attorney today. Somehow the therapist thought we would get everything figured out in that call . . . she has NO idea how IEP's and how slow SD are to respond. We may actually end up suing the SD, which of course will be so much fun . DH and I have worked on a tentative plan for his IEP vs having him go to TBS. TBS runs $12K-$16 per month.
On the house front, flooring shipping was delayed and work may start next week. Water heater can be replaced, but they don't have time in the schedule until next week. Just another reason in my thoughts to leave DS until the 22nd . . . . ugh!
I must get going and sorry to just be venting. Bible journaling is helping! Doggy walk, move the line, check the garden next.
Thanks for the thoughts and prayers, it is one step at a time and sometimes one step forward two back it seems!
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Post by kitbop on Jul 10, 2020 21:27:08 GMT
That sounds nightmareish angel97701! You must keep waiting to wake up from the dream... I'm rather on your DH's side - get him home, I don't trust people who tell me a kid needs to be treated like that... While I know extensive therapy is a good idea, how will he feel about continuing to be separated from you if you find a TBS? That would stress my kid (on the spectrum) out to no end. But everyone's neuroanatomy is so different in wiring and needs. I'm sorry you haven't heard from DS21
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Post by schroema on Jul 10, 2020 22:05:27 GMT
kitbop My daughter and I watched Hamilton earlier in the week. We both really enjoyed it! angel97701 I am sorry to hear what you are going thru. Thoughts and prayers for a good solution. I haven’t been around much yet this month. My grandma passed away this week ( not really unexpected) so just kinda laying low and seeing what the plans are for that. I’ve got a page partly done on my desk I may work on some this evening.
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Post by AussieMeg on Jul 15, 2020 12:17:44 GMT
I'm sorry to hear about your grandma, schroema . Have you found out yet what the plans are yet for her funeral? And angel97701 I'm sorry about the issues with your boys too. That's a lot for all of you to go through.
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Post by angel97701 on Jul 16, 2020 3:12:11 GMT
Just as hard of decision to enroll DS14 in WT was when to take him out. He is HOME! We've had a wonderful afternoon thus far, dinner with the grandparents and some verbal agreements about going forward. He is excited about the friend that we have reached to include in big yard chores and experiences. He has agreed to Sylvan, continued therapy, etc and then he has time for really cool Legos. Please pray that we navigate this time wisely and we use what he has learned and not regress!
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Post by kitbop on Jul 16, 2020 13:09:44 GMT
So glad you had a positive day yesterday angel97701! Your choices are very difficult and I hope you find the guidance you need in making them. schroema - I hope you had a good send off for your grandma. It's a hard time to be trying to find comfort with family/friends. I know my family has postponed a celebration of life until the late fall, hoping to be able to more safely get a large group together. However, who knows what that will even look like?
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Post by grammadee on Jul 16, 2020 16:19:11 GMT
Good morning, Diva's. I have not done any scrapping or card making for awhile, but I have some great photos to scrap, and plans for bd cards and pages for next week. You will be happy to know, gramma, that I have even cut a few things on my Silhouette in prep for when I have time to scrap again. Dd is here with dgs and we have been busy in the garden the last few days. I think I will keep her: she is a WAY better weeder than I am. I think it is her attention to detail. I am kind of a "better than it was" kind of gardener. We have eaten new potatoes, radishes, onions and lettuce and I think tonight we will have peas in the pod fresh off the vine as well. ((((HUGS))))), @shroema, on the loss of your grandmother. Even when it is not unexpected, it is still sad. Especially when everyone can't get together to share their grief. Sending you strength, angel97701. You have had way more to endure this summer than seems fair, at all. Glad the younger ds is home now and that it sounds like he is really enjoying his time with you. Keeping busy in the yard with a friend and having interesting LEGO to build sounds like awesome activities for him. My soon to be 21 year old dgs requested LEGO for his birthday this year. Tough to get a negative diagnosis like the one you received for him, but hopefully it will help with future plans. ((((HUGS)))) to you, too. And the home repairs: ugh!!! Twelve summers ago, our home was in complete disruption due to water damage. It was like the contractor had no interest at all in finishing the reno job once they had torn out all the flooring. There was delay after delay, including that the contractor forgot to submit his estimate in to the insurance company. He was also rude and dismissive. I still feel my teeth clenching when I think about that jerk. Okay. Must get busy doing something useful. Grampa took the little guy on a road trip around the community, so I am soaking up the quiet. TTYL.
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Post by schroema on Jul 18, 2020 13:06:13 GMT
Thanks all for the thoughts about my grandma. We had a small service this week.
I’m having a hard time getting my scrapping groove back. I’m a preschool aide at an elementary school and there is so much question as to what this year will look like and I’m really dreading going back(in whatever form that is) I’m trying to just enjoy this last month of summer break.
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Post by kitbop on Jul 18, 2020 13:33:33 GMT
My soon to be 21 year old dgs requested LEGO for his birthday this year. Tough to get a negative diagnosis like the one you received for him We have kept our lego from when my boys were young for future use. My middle boy loved lego until he was 15, and I'm sure he'd still love it if a) it weren't so expensive for the sets he'd like and b) it were more "cool" for his age group. Having none of the "cool" factor left myself, I will admit that I LOVE lego, and would happily buy the big expensive sets from Star Wars and Harry Potter etc. They are like puzzles. I love them. But what to do with them once complete? And seriously, boy howdy expensive for a toy. Regarding negative diagnoses angel97701: it was hard to push for an "autism spectrum" diagnosis on middle DS. He was 11 before we got one (he didn't measure up to several key indicators when evaluated at 5 and at 9) and while I really hated to have a "label" for my "quirky" boy, it was important in getting him help and programming. grammadee - does this mean we won't see you tonight in the google hangout? Sounds like you have other commitments! schroema - I've had a week off work and I am so dreading returning. Things are normal/not normal, and the not normal makes everything slower and busier and harder and more uncomfortable... We had a lovely beach day yesterday and all came home burnt in different places! Just where we missed with the sunscreen, or where we were pasty white to start Today we may go to the gym later when DS gets home from work - they reopened yesterday - I'm simultaneously pleased and dismayed. It's like having that break from work...
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Post by grammadee on Jul 18, 2020 15:15:37 GMT
grammadee - does this mean we won't see you tonight in the google hangout? Sounds like you have other commitments! Can't join you this evening to scrap. Might drop in to chat after dgs goes to bed, but that will be after 9:00PM your time. Have no energy left by end of day, and since I haven't scrapped for awhile, it takes just a bit more drive to get started. Dd plans to leave on Monday, and I hope to start playing with paper by Tuesday. I have a couple of cards and a page planned, and I need to create a bd card for ds and a bunch of anniversary cards for July 31st to August 4th: apparently, the August long weekend was a popular one for weddings in our family. Glad you had a fun sunny day, even with the resulting sunburns. Dd and I plan to get out to the lake tomorrow. It will be pretty relaxing for me: they will kayak and I can find a shady spot to sit and wait for them. Dh plans to drop off the kayaks and leave us there, then come back for a wiener roast later in the afternoon.
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Post by ComplicatedLady on Jul 19, 2020 4:02:30 GMT
I’ve been on my Queen and Company kick. Last weekend, I made several cards that came with my class kit. They were so easy and fun—so of course I bought more kits. Today, I used one of the new kits to start Christmas/holiday cards. I used the All Bundled Up kit and made one card with each type of shaker. I need to stamp out the sentiments, but the cards and shakers were fun to make. In addition to the toppings that came with the kit, I found some sequins in my stash and got creative. Here’s the All Bundled Up kit for those wondering. queenandcompany.com/collections/speciality-kits/products/all-bundled-up-kitI promise I have no affiliation with this company! I hope that everyone who is going through struggles finds some time to relax this weekend and finds at least a moment of calm.
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Post by schroema on Jul 21, 2020 13:08:25 GMT
Well, we finally heard our school plans so my kids are sorted out. I’m a preschool aide in their district so I should be the same, but our preschool is run by the county within our districts building so there are always little quirks. What will be will be and I need to let it go. DD takes her driving test tomorrow so any positive thoughts for her would be appreciated. I just realized if all goes well, I won’t have to drive her to tennis practice later this week!
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Post by angel97701 on Jul 21, 2020 22:16:37 GMT
Well, we finally heard our school plans so my kids are sorted out. I’m a preschool aide in their district so I should be the same, but our preschool is run by the county within our districts building so there are always little quirks. What will be will be and I need to let it go. DD takes her driving test tomorrow so any positive thoughts for her would be appreciated. I just realized if all goes well, I won’t have to drive her to tennis practice later this week! There is nothing quite like the little taste of mom taxi freedom! I hope she does well. Plus as she gets the privelege to drive, then she also has the obligation to drive to little errands and such . . . just saying that is how it worked at our house!
So an update: DS14 has been home 6 nights and so far no major surprises. The FAS diagnosis really does help understand more of his behaviors, and reminds both DH and I that his quirks and late emotional development and being easily targeted by his brother who is 6.5 year older to take the fall all fits. Legos are expensive, and right now we have room to store the completed creations. He loves them. The mentor (fellow wrestler team mate) helped move huge rhododendron bushes from Grandma's garden to our property. They've also jumped on the tramp, flew the 2.5 meter kits, played remote controlled tanks, and today the whole family (but me) went fishing.
My first choice for his continued therapy has accepted his case and he will start tomorrow. I have a phone consult with him this afternoon. I first spoke with his wife back in June, and they decided he would be a better fit for my DS.
DS is sleeping on the fold-out futon in our room by his choice . . . the dogs can get up and there is room for them to sleep with him for as long as they will stay. As GSDs they get too warm and want to lay on the tile. I also think that he is just comforted by being the same room with us. Not the long term plan but, I am just so thankful to have him home. We can work with the FAS diagnosis and get a IEP that really fits his needs. I went back through my records, and in my VERY FIRST REQUEST FOR IEP TESTING I do mention he may be on the FAS spectrum. Ugh! The district is going to have to do some hard work to fit his needs, no matter what the school year looks like!
We do have a GoFundMe set up, but I've not gotten admin approval to post a link . . . so, I will wait. DH and I raided our retirement funds when it was about 30 cents on the dollar in March, and have used up our personal savings. Being 60 years old and DH is a contract employee, we really don't want to incur tons of debt. So far we are about $80K into treatment. I am really glad we didn't follow the therapist's recommendation to send him to Therapeutic Boarding School at $12K-$16K per month. He really wanted to come home, and was actually angry that she suggested that as his next step. We are taking it one day at a time. Will seek the services that are appropriate, and help him become independent when he is ready . . . it might be age 25, but so be it.
Thanks for all you support and prayers, at some point I will have some time to really craft a bit again, but right now, DS is the focus!
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Post by angel97701 on Jul 26, 2020 22:59:31 GMT
I'm not sure where everyone is, but living real life and making memories I hope!
DS14 is doing well, and DH and I have a much better understanding of his behaviors and how to parent with the FAS diagnosis, and the training we received while he was away at Wilderness Therapy. He's had two sessions with his therapist and the therapist has dug right in to some key issues. Makes us happy he's not "trying to build a relationship" before digging in the issues we've already spoken about. DS14 is doing well and is very happy to be home. His mentor friend has been over several days, and they've started on clearing the sprinkler heads on our ballfield in ground sprinklers. They've also been building on legos and on RC trucks modifications. Another day on the river was in there too on sister's party floatie.
I will tell you what kicked my creative mojo back into gear . . . I needed to make 17 (yes seventeen) sympathy cards. DSD24's maternal grandfather (79) passed away two weeks ago with congestive heart failure, DH's aunt (87) passed away Friday morning from a massive stroke, and my uncle (79) is hospitalized and not expected to recover. He has Parkinson's and developed shingles in his right eye and across his forehead that went into his brain causing encephalitis. He has not come back to consciousness and they are doing only comfort care. Between these three and another of DH's uncle's by marriage, I needed to create cards.
It took me several hours about 7 or 8 I think, and all are clean and simple. But I am pleased with the results. I did 7 different designs, so people in the same family did will not get a card that is the same in the family.
So next week I may be going to Tacoma to keep the ILs from driving. They are Okay to drive around town, but 6 hours then to try to negotiate Seattle area traffic we just don't feel safe letting them go on their own. We can also take DS14 up to see his sister's house (he really wants to do that). We will have a masks along!
Also next week, my flooring will be demolished on Monday, and then replaced on Wednesday. My greenhouse (which was order months ago, even before DS14 went to WT) is supposed to be delivered and put up. On Thursday the plumbers came and installed the replacement water heater, so all my bathrooms have hot water now. The pack out crew from our construction company came and packed my China cabinet and moved all the big furniture out of the dining room. It's pretty empty in there right now.
I might will need to find a house sitter to do the watering, the cat, and possibly the dogs too. But we don't know when the service for DH's aunt will be. Even if we aren't allowed to attend, we will still probably make the drive for reasons listed above.
That's all for me now.
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Post by grammadee on Jul 27, 2020 0:02:15 GMT
Sounds like things are falling into place for you angel97701. Having hot water and finished flooring will be SOOO good! Can they finish the flooring while you are on your road trip? So sorry about all of your family's losses. Sympathy cards are tough to make when you need them. Glad you felt creative making them, though. Would love to see the different designs. I finished 7 pages and 7 cards this last week, and then another 2 pages yesterday. Have all but the last LO counted up for points. Have another LO on my scrap counter, but no matter how I switch things around, nothing is working for me. I think it is a matter of the photos being really good, and somehow I want to make the pages really special. What I should be doing is simplifying, and just letting the photos speak for themselves... Also need to make a card for a neighbour who turns 90 tomorrow...
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Post by kitbop on Jul 27, 2020 22:58:22 GMT
Hi ladies! Sorry I've been quiet - we had a busy week/weekend here, nicely busy, but certainly took all my attention. DD takes her driving test tomorrow so any positive thoughts for her would be appreciated How did it go??? My DD has her learners permit, but we can't let her take the next test because it will put our car insurance up about $75/month. She is working now, and if work continues to go well (in the fall, when she would have to juggle school, dance and work) she'd be able to pay the difference herself and yes, it would be nice to have another driver in the house! We don't have final plans AT ALL for school. They have listed 3 options...and each are SO DIFFERENT from the other it's impossible to draw conclusions. Will seek the services that are appropriate, and help him become independent when he is ready . . . it might be age 25, but so be it That's kinda how life is with my boys too. I know they will fly away but for the moment they still want/need a solid established home. And we are happy to have them. My 20 year old is on the autism spectrum and may do best close to home for a long time yet. I'm glad DS14 is doing well with you! Sounds like you have your own "service/therapy" dogs on site for him I pray that this therapist will continue to work well with him and you! And I'm so happy to hear that your home/garden is coming together - although it's exhausting when it all happens at once! I too have been making cards the past couple of months - sympathy and graduation and thinking of you - since they aren't in my "comfort zone" they take me longer than I'd like, but any crafting is good therapy for me. grammadee - I don't know how you juggle your home/farm life with your productivity in the craft room! You rock!
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schroema
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Jun 24, 2019 14:58:49 GMT
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Post by schroema on Jul 28, 2020 11:49:12 GMT
I’m still here! My daughter did pass her test last week! It was easy peasy for her; she’s practiced the maneuverability section so many times! Unfortunately, after waiting an hour and a half in the bmv line, their system went down - we were only 3-4 people from the front! So that was frustrating but we left and got lunch and then later called and they were back up so we flew there! Since we had waited earlier we got to the front of the line which some people who had been waiting 45 min(only!!) were upset about, but the manager handled the situation. Whew!
Sadly I’ve not had much chance to scrapbook this month. I’ve gotten a lot of housework done though. I think I’ve just been stressed in general and that’s making it hard to be creative.
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Post by grammadee on Jul 31, 2020 14:32:13 GMT
Congrats to your dd, schroema! Hope you get to make a page about it. One of my dgd's passed her Learners' test last week and texted to tell me. I texted back asking for photos, but none have yet popped onto my phone . Don't forget to sign up for August teams today, Diva's. Hard to believe we got to the end of July already, but we have. I need to quickly put together a LO using the photos of the Peas. And add points for the pages I completed this past ten days. WHY don't I don that when I post them?
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kitbop
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Post by kitbop on Aug 1, 2020 1:29:34 GMT
That was a terribly fast month, yes? Flew by, whoosh, I'm not sure I really registered it! I know other peas feel the same way just because the board is so quiet! schroema, I don't create well when I'm stressed either! Guess we have to start talking totals now - let me know here or PM me - or just let me know to look you up in the official "track your numbers" thread that I personally never use
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