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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Nov 4, 2014 11:58:10 GMT
@mrsleftyfixit -- I'm sorry about your husband's stroke. I hope you still have a lovely holiday together. Is he doing okay?
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Post by mtscrapper on Nov 4, 2014 12:39:19 GMT
I'm actually cooking it myself this year. For the first time in 28 years, we are staying home. (Well actually I stayed home when I was pregnant with 1st DD only because she was a week away from due date and I couldn't go anywhere, but I didn't cook. We went out to a restaurant). My 1st DD will be bringing home a boyfriend and my son will be coming from college and we just didn't want to go elsewhere. So, I'm cooking for just 7 of us. I will miss being with other family this year and I'm not sure I'm going to love the cooking part.
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Post by tiffanytwisted on Nov 4, 2014 13:02:02 GMT
Are restaurants open on thanksgiving? There are some that are, because that's what we're doing! For years, my sisters & I have felt that we don't really get to enjoy the holiday because we're running around getting everything on the table. We've kidded about going to a restaurant so that we have time to just visit. No prep, no serving and no cleanup! This year it's my turn to host and my kitchen will be in upheaval due to our mini remodel, so we decided to give our restaurant idea a whirl. We'll see what happens! To all of you w/loved ones in the hospital, here's hoping for a speedy recovery!
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Post by pjynx on Nov 4, 2014 13:36:59 GMT
We are flying to FL on Thanksgiving Day and will arrive at our hotel around 7pm. So dinner will be anywhere near the hotel that is still open (being a very touristy town - Clearwater Beach - I'm sure there will be something open since they rely on their travelers for business).
Pam
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Post by farmdpea on Nov 4, 2014 13:40:47 GMT
Wouldn't they invite you to go there also? I would hope so. No one should be alone on a holiday! No they wouldn't and I'd be terribly uncomfortable if they did. They barely tolerate my DD and aren't very fond of my grandsons. I'd much rather be alone. That stinks and makes me so sad for your DD and grands! We have both sides of my family together for all holidays since I'm down to just one grandparent. That's what the holidays are about....sharing, loving, and eating too much food. Heck, one year I brought a homeless woman to Thanksgiving at my aunt's house! (She was a missionary and an acquaintance of a friend....not a complete stranger. ) Kathy, come to Alabama for Turkey Day! I'll buy the ingredients for your secret caramels, and the boys can come and do whatever little boys do...we have 4 wheelers and horses and access to hunting. 
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Post by lbp on Nov 4, 2014 14:14:15 GMT
I would be drawn and quartered if I tried as many different things as I would like to on Thanksgiving. I always host and my sister and I make all the dishes. We will have turkey, dressing, gravy, mashed potatoes, macaroni and cheese, and green beans and green bean casserole (yuck), and the traditional pumpkin pie. We can usually get by with making a couple of different sides dishes or desserts, but mostly stick to tradition.
After our meal everyone will fall into an over eating stupor and collapse on the couch and recliners and watch Christmas movies or read all the sale papers! About an hour later, everyone will want dessert and coffee.
Same thing every year but I love it!
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Post by giatocj on Nov 4, 2014 16:13:39 GMT
We've been invited to my daughter's in-laws this year. This is usually the one holiday we don't see DD and SIL so the invite is very much appreciated.
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Nov 4, 2014 16:18:37 GMT
We're spending Thanksgiving in Death Valley. So yea, no turkey. 
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Post by darkangel090260 on Nov 4, 2014 16:23:58 GMT
Due to budget We are not doing Thanksgiving this year. Since DH and his family loves Christmas so much I made them pick Christmas or Thanksgiving. We dont have a extra 200.00 to do both big meals. Christmas and Thanksgiving normally runs around a 100.00 per holiday. I do cook to different meal on both holidays.
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Post by calgal08 on Nov 4, 2014 18:04:37 GMT
In the last few years we've spent the day with friends, traditional meal, etc. This year they're out of town and we'd planned to go away for the weekend. But, I left it too late to book a hotel and all the dog friendly ones we're either fully booked or crazy expensive. So, this year we're going to a Brazilian steak restaurant for dinner.
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Post by SweetieBsMom on Nov 4, 2014 18:12:25 GMT
DH is having surgery on the 12th, will probably be home the 19th. So we'll be home for Thanksgiving. We usually go to my MIL's but I am perfectly fine staying home. DH is trying to get me to go to my Aunt's, as my cousin, and her kids, will be up from NJ, but I'm not leaving him alone on Thanksgiving. If anything I'll cook and maybe shoot over to my Aunt's for dessert. We'll see. I need to get my MIL's stuffing recipe though.
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Post by just PEAchy on Nov 4, 2014 18:27:46 GMT
This year it's just going to be me and my 3 kids. There have been many years when it's just been the 4 of us due to DH working or being deployed or we've been too far from family to travel, but I've always cooked a full meal. This year I've decided we are just going to go out, I'll let the kids decide if it's a traditional Thanksgiving buffet or just a regular meal. Maybe we'll do Chinese 
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Post by beachhappy22 on Nov 4, 2014 18:38:33 GMT
Not working any part of it! Can not wait!
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Post by lovemy4js on Nov 4, 2014 21:09:45 GMT
I'm definitely a "traditions" girl when it comes to the holidays. We are hosting dinner this year (after having to take a year off last year while we were renovating our kitchen) and I couldn't be happier to have it back! We brine a turkey (Alton Brown's recipe) and make a lot of the traditional sides. Yum. We prepare the finishing touches while half-watching the Macy's parade...
I would love to get a whole bunch of board games out this year to play after everyone has eaten. That would be a fun new tradition to start and would be something different for us.
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Post by eebud on Nov 4, 2014 23:25:50 GMT
We will have Thanksgiving on the Saturday after Thanksgiving. That is not unusual because we try to plan it so that DH's mom and stepfather can come. He has to work Thanksgiving. What will be different this year is that we are expecting DH's ex and her DS to join us. This is DSS's mother and her DS (12) from another marriage. DSS didn't have a good relationship with his mother for a number of years but in the last few years, it has gotten better although still not great. By inviting her (and her mother and DS) to join us, it will give her more time with DSS (her DS) that she might otherwise not get. Of course, DSS is fine with this too. If we thought he would not want her here, then we would not have invited her.
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Nov 4, 2014 23:44:44 GMT
We are going out to dinner this year. We have a wonderful restaurant close to us and we are going there. With only 3 of us (me, DH and MIL) and DS who hardly eats, we don't want to deal with a day of cooking. I worry we will miss the leftovers but we will see how it goes. You can always cook a small turkey breast to have on hand for those yummy leftover turkey sandwiches!!
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Nov 4, 2014 23:48:54 GMT
. The adventure will be transporting the food and cooking gear there, then cooking in a space less than a fifth as large as I'm used to while dealing with more family than I normally see all year. Lol. I expect this to be our last big family gathering with Granny, though, so I'm going to do this gratefully, happy she made it this far and is here to share the day with us. Marcy I love your positive attitude! I hope to keep one myself! 
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Post by gorgeouskid on Nov 5, 2014 0:22:10 GMT
We won't do turkey. DS is allergic (?!?! Right? Who is allergic to turkey?) So some sort of Tri tip or filet mignon is in order. And associated meal. Potatoes and roasted Brussels sprouts.
We will get a cooked breast to satisfy sandwich cravings.
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Post by scrappinmom3 on Nov 5, 2014 0:35:29 GMT
We will all be in Orlando, most likely at The Magic Kingdom.
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Post by kelbel827 on Nov 5, 2014 0:49:23 GMT
I'm going to spread the word that I'm making a turkey. If anyone wants sides, they can bring them themselves. I repeatedly ask for my siblings to bring things and they don't. I do it all. EVERY YEAR. They will be in for a huge surprise when they get there and there is just a turkey!
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Post by Tamhugh on Nov 5, 2014 0:57:03 GMT
We rotate Thanksgiving between my parents and my in-laws. This year we are with the in-laws and MIL has finally realized it is too much work for her anymore. So, approximately 20 of us will be at my SIL and BIL's house. They are doing desserts and the turkey and the rest of us are filling in the sides and appetizers. My dad has been in poor health for the past few months, so I may volunteer to cook the traditional meal for them later in the weekend (they were invited to my SIL's but it is over a 3 hour drive for them and he isn't up to it).
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Post by cherrie on Nov 5, 2014 1:08:47 GMT
I always go to my daughter's for Thanksgiving but this year she is having surgery a few day before. My son in law had planned to order from a grocery store that does the turkey and sides but I offered to make it all. My grandchildren are each making a side but that may be too many cooks in the kitchen!
Jen, I hope you and your family get through this "first" and that you will be blessed with a nice day. Your husband would be proud of how you are making it through for your kids.
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Post by Dixie Lou on Nov 5, 2014 1:36:17 GMT
Thanksgiving hasn't been the same for a while. Normally we get together with my brother, his family and my mom. Last year was the first Thanksgiving after our mom passed. We got together at my brother's house and had dinner in the evening. My dad and his wife came by for dessert. It was the first Thanksgiving we've had with my dad for more years than I can remember. He has always gone to his in-laws and we spent it with my mom. The year before my mom was very sick from her chemo so she didn't come to Thanksgiving. My brother and his family came here. My brother and I ended up at her place for most of the day because she was so sick. This year DH and all of our DD's are flying into Vegas (where his family lives) to spend Thanksgiving with his family. I have no idea what to expect as the last time we were there for Thanksgiving was over 20 years ago. His mom is too elderly and ill to cook. I guess it's going to fall on his sister's shoulders. There'll be lots of people to help her. I will plan on doing what I'm told. 
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Post by akathy on Nov 5, 2014 1:38:27 GMT
Hubby suffered a pretty bad stroke 2 months ago, so I will be cooking the day before so I can bring him a Thanksgiving supper in the hospital. I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll keep you both in my prayers.
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Post by akathy on Nov 5, 2014 1:45:46 GMT
No they wouldn't and I'd be terribly uncomfortable if they did. They barely tolerate my DD and aren't very fond of my grandsons. I'd much rather be alone. That stinks and makes me so sad for your DD and grands! We have both sides of my family together for all holidays since I'm down to just one grandparent. That's what the holidays are about....sharing, loving, and eating too much food. Heck, one year I brought a homeless woman to Thanksgiving at my aunt's house! (She was a missionary and an acquaintance of a friend....not a complete stranger. ) Kathy, come to Alabama for Turkey Day! I'll buy the ingredients for your secret caramels, and the boys can come and do whatever little boys do...we have 4 wheelers and horses and access to hunting.  What a kind invitation  If I lived closer I'd take you up on it and my boys would be as happy as hogs in slop to be able to hang at your house! Thank you!
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Post by jlynnbarth on Nov 5, 2014 2:23:45 GMT
This will be the first year in 21 years that my ds won't be with us for Thanksgiving. He joined the Airforce, so he will be at his base. My Mom and stepdad have come to visit for the last 13 years at Thanksgiving, but she is losing her job Nov 16, so they have decided to stay home this year. It will just be dh, dd and I and dd might end up having to work. It's really going to be an odd, sad year for me. I am not looking forward to it, but hopefully I will get a better attitude about it in the next couple of weeks.
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Post by huskergal on Nov 5, 2014 3:27:12 GMT
Not host it!
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Post by Eddie-n-Harley on Nov 5, 2014 4:04:52 GMT
If I can find some of the mix, I'll make Chi's- Chi's corn pudding for my twin nephews. If you're comfortable sending me your address, I'll send you a pack next week, after grocery shopping on Saturday. (You're on your own for the can of creamed corn and butter, LOL.) Assuming, of course, that they're not out of stock now that I offered.
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Post by fairycat on Nov 5, 2014 4:09:24 GMT
I am going to cause the downfall of western civilization by refusing to travel and instead going to Starbucks in the morning and Denny's for dinner, thereby forcing all those people to go to work ON THANKSGIVING.  This - but switch Golden Corral for Denny's. And then we'll go shopping or at least go get in line somewhere later that night.
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Post by fairycat on Nov 5, 2014 4:10:30 GMT
If I can find some of the mix, I'll make Chi's- Chi's corn pudding for my twin nephews. If you're comfortable sending me your address, I'll send you a pack next week, after grocery shopping on Saturday. (You're on your own for the can of creamed corn and butter, LOL.) Assuming, of course, that they're not out of stock now that I offered. It they're out of stock - check Amazon. That's where I've been getting it since my local stores stopped carrying it.
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