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Post by smalltowngirlie on Nov 3, 2020 19:04:17 GMT
I just cannot believe you have the balls to talk shit about me in emails AND include me in the emails. I am getting madder by the minute and just want to effing scream at this b****. You are not as important as you think you are. You do not need access to everything effing thing. Do your effing job and don't worry about others. Believe it or not, I am above you and can make decisions without checking with you. You have been given way to much power and control because you make other's life miserable if they don't cater to you.
I am thinking I need to let my boss know I am stepping away and exactly why I am. She as also part of the emails so would understand why. It is going to take a lot for me to refocus in my job.
I can't scream this anyplace else, so I need to do it here. Thank you.
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bethany102399
Pearl Clutcher
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Oct 11, 2014 3:17:29 GMT
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Post by bethany102399 on Nov 3, 2020 19:08:18 GMT
she's talking shit about you and you're above her? negative ghost rider, I'd be cc'ing your boss and hers!
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Post by femalebusiness on Nov 3, 2020 19:08:52 GMT
That sucks! So sorry you were subjected to that.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Nov 3, 2020 19:09:50 GMT
she's talking shit about you and you're above her? negative ghost rider, I'd be cc'ing your boss and hers! They were also part of the email so they know exactly what she did and said.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Nov 3, 2020 20:10:43 GMT
That sucks. Definitely step away. I like to think these type of people get what’s coming to them eventually and I try to live my life with integrity and not let myself go to their level, but the truth is some people get away with stuff like this their entire lives. It’s very frustrating.
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Post by workingclassdog on Nov 3, 2020 20:18:43 GMT
I get ya.... scream all you want.
I once told a co-worker (who I thought was my friend) something very very private and she then got ahold of my MIL to tell her my private conversation because she thought my husband needed to know. (It wasn't anything bad, like cheating or something like that.. I honestly can't even remember what it was) but at the time I was SO furious.
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Post by 16joy on Nov 3, 2020 20:54:43 GMT
I’d probably confront the little twit. Does she realize she included you?
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smcast
Drama Llama
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Location: MN
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Post by smcast on Nov 3, 2020 21:00:27 GMT
I'd have a conversation with her and make it real clear you don't appreciate x, y, and z and that behavior better end.
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Post by jubejubes on Nov 3, 2020 21:13:48 GMT
smalltowngirlie I would step away today. You are bigger than this and don't have to stoop to their level.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Nov 3, 2020 21:19:51 GMT
I’d probably confront the little twit. Does she realize she included you? She absolutely knew she included me.
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Post by smalltowngirlie on Nov 3, 2020 21:21:47 GMT
smalltowngirlie I would step away today. You are bigger than this and don't have to stoop to their level. My supervisor called me for something else and did apologize for the email. I said I did not and will not respond because I don't need to make work for her in having to then discipline me for being unprofessional. I have a great deal of respect for my boss and will not make waves for her. I know it is being handled the proper way.
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Post by beaglemom on Nov 3, 2020 21:36:43 GMT
Hugs!!
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Dalai Mama
Drama Llama
La Pea Boheme
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Jun 26, 2014 0:31:31 GMT
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Post by Dalai Mama on Nov 3, 2020 23:07:20 GMT
Want me to hold your earrings?
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Post by 16joy on Nov 4, 2020 2:21:55 GMT
I’m glad your boss has your back.
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Post by lancermom on Nov 4, 2020 3:51:07 GMT
Ha! I had something similar today. I just called her out on it. She backed down fast. I was kind, just a hey, why didn’t you talk to me?
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