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Post by busy on Jan 9, 2021 22:19:00 GMT
Tiny bakery/coffee shop. One customer group allowed inside at a time. Line outside of about 10 parties (masked and distanced). A couple has been in line for a while... and when they are three groups from going in, five more people walk up and join their party (they weren’t waiting in a car, they walked there from home and just arrived - could hear them saying that).
When is saving places in line ok and when isn’t it?
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Post by craftykitten on Jan 9, 2021 22:20:53 GMT
One person joining someone is ok, five people is taking the piss really but I probably wouldn't say anything. UNLESS the person in front of me took the last of whichever pastry I wanted
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Post by cmpeter on Jan 9, 2021 22:22:31 GMT
I agree...holding for one ok. For that large, not ok.
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Post by QueenoftheSloths on Jan 9, 2021 22:25:12 GMT
In your scenario, I assume the late arrivals were considered part of the same customer group and went in at the same time. In that case I wouldn't really care. The additional people wouldn't significantly increase the wait for the people behind. Of course, if what I wanted was sold out when my turn arrived, I would blame it on them!
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Post by ~summer~ on Jan 9, 2021 22:28:32 GMT
Not ok.
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Post by 1girlygirl on Jan 9, 2021 22:28:41 GMT
That wouldn’t bother me, since one person could’ve easily ordered drinks for ten people even if they weren’t in line with them.
Edited to add: I’d only be bothered if the waiting was for something limited, like concert tickets or general admission seating to something where those extra people are gaining an advantage that could adversely affect me (or someone who had been waiting in line the entire time)
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Post by quinmm14 on Jan 9, 2021 22:30:40 GMT
I don't think I would do it myself, but I wouldn't be that bothered by it either.
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Post by purplebee on Jan 9, 2021 22:33:45 GMT
I’d be annoyed, but would likely just let it go.
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Post by nlwilkins on Jan 9, 2021 22:36:58 GMT
That wouldn’t bother me, since one person could’ve easily ordered drinks for ten people even if they weren’t in line with them So why didn't they. Probably because each person had to pay separately. Which means a longer wait. Many times you make up your mind whether to get in line by looking at how long the wait will be. If it is not moving or is too long, you decide to give it a pass. It is kind of rude.
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Post by Belle on Jan 9, 2021 22:37:01 GMT
First come, first serve...not okay to hold spots.
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Post by compeateropeator on Jan 9, 2021 22:42:38 GMT
I am not totally pro holding or anti holding. I don’t have a standard answer because it depends on specific factors.
In the scenario you provided I would be okay with it because they were one group going in together. IMO it is not much different than people arriving at different times at a restaurant but are all being seated at the same table.
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Post by Loydene on Jan 9, 2021 22:45:10 GMT
A similar situation occurred to me -- many years ago at the end of a scrapbook convention - airports were crowded - it was before 9/11. We were flying out of Chicago - I think. My scrapbook group was separated due to car return, etc., but were meeting very shortly for flight. A could of us joined the line - fully intending to hold place for everyone. None the less, we, politely in my opinion, permitted one person to go ahead of us as we were holding for 4 others to arrive. We were joined by the rest of our group - then the one person was joined by the rest of her VERY LARGE group - over double the total of our group. She could easily have said thank you and refused since she, too, was holding for a group.
They were representatives from a well known scrapbook company - one that exists today. I still don't patronize them!
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Post by 1girlygirl on Jan 9, 2021 22:46:14 GMT
That wouldn’t bother me, since one person could’ve easily ordered drinks for ten people even if they weren’t in line with them So why didn't they. Probably because each person had to pay separately. Which means a longer wait. Many times you make up your mind whether to get in line by looking at how long the wait will be. If it is not moving or is too long, you decide to give it a pass. It is kind of rude. I guess my point is you never know if the single person in front of you is ordering for themselves or the entire office, so in this situation it still wouldn’t bother me. Most coffee shops have pretty quick service anyway
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Post by busy on Jan 9, 2021 22:48:06 GMT
I didn’t say anything, but they paid as four different orders, so it for sure took longer. I was right behind them and was irritated by it but not a big deal. It just felt rude for that many people to “cut.” One or two - wouldn’t give it a second thought.
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Post by QueenoftheSloths on Jan 9, 2021 22:51:45 GMT
That wouldn’t bother me, since one person could’ve easily ordered drinks for ten people even if they weren’t in line with them So why didn't they. Probably because each person had to pay separately. Which means a longer wait. Many times you make up your mind whether to get in line by looking at how long the wait will be. If it is not moving or is too long, you decide to give it a pass. It is kind of rude. Or maybe everyone wanted to see the choices in the pastry case instead of telling the early arrivals "I want a bear claw. But if they don't have that, then get me bran muffin. But not if the bran muffins have raisins, then get me a cake donut." and so on.
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Post by Bitchy Rich on Jan 9, 2021 22:55:57 GMT
I despise line cutters. If there is a line, obviously it is first come, first served. I'm not standing here for fun. You want to get in, stand in the damn line like everyone else.
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Post by MissBianca on Jan 9, 2021 22:58:35 GMT
That would irritate me. We were in line for rapid Covid tests last weekend and I made all the kids stand outside with me even though it was cold. I was like nope, you are not letting all the people behind me Think there’s just me and dad, and then 3 more people show up. The only one that went in with me was DD because she is a minor, everyone else had to check in individually. For our second test yesterday, I was able to make appts at the end of the day since they weren’t rapid. They took us in 2 groups girls and boys. But we were the very last appts of the day.
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Post by shamrockpea on Jan 10, 2021 0:12:18 GMT
Most the times ok for 1 person to join two or more. Never at Disneyworld. I was with a group of 4 and we got in line together for rides. We waited for two hours in line and repeatedly people in groups would walk up to the front to join a single family member. It was really gross!
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Post by Gravity on Jan 10, 2021 0:17:14 GMT
If you are in line and want to be with your group that just arrived, get in the back of the line with them.
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Post by shamrockpea on Jan 10, 2021 0:25:31 GMT
If you are in line and want to be with your group that just arrived, get in the back of the line with them. 100% agree! I actually said thst to a “Karen” after about the 10th time someone did it. She was wallking ong saying excuse me - my daughter is up rhere (literally at the front of a 2 hour line). I can’t believe no one at Disney watches the lines. I also think I will get a shirt made that says “don’t even think about cutting in front if us in line”
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Post by Deleted on Jan 10, 2021 1:20:24 GMT
I would have pulled out my cell phone, called the store manager and then explained why I was leaving after waiting outside in line for 30+ minutes. Maybe this would entice the store to set up a numbering policy to prevent this kind of crap.
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Post by busy on Jan 10, 2021 1:38:51 GMT
I would have pulled out my cell phone, called the store manager and then explained why I was leaving after waiting outside in line for 30+ minutes. Maybe this would entice the store to set up a numbering policy to prevent this kind of crap. Never in a million years. I'm an adult. If I choose to say something to people who are being jerks in lines, I can. I don't need to throw a fit and take my business from a delightful small business that's doing their damnedest to survive covid.
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Post by auntkelly on Jan 10, 2021 1:47:47 GMT
It's definitely a close call.
I'm sure I'd be irritated if I was standing behind the party that went from 2 to 7 .
However, looking at it from the other side, it's kind of like one person getting in line to tell the person doing the seating he needs a table for a party of 6. I really don't have a problem w/ one person standing in line as opposed to all six people (assuming they are all someplace nearby and ready to be seated when a table becomes available).
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jan 10, 2021 3:04:54 GMT
Not okay: One or more showing up last minute, to join one person towards the front of the line person. I complain every time I see it. I am tired of entitled people. I paid my dues and waited in the line for however long it took, it's not right for line cutters to join at the last minute(or last 10-15 minutes). I was the victim of this a couple years ago during black Friday. I started as #16 or so...waiting 2.5 hours in the line. I ended up being #70something, because people were holding the spot and carloads got dropped off in the last 10-15 minutes. Myself and many other were pissed, and I complained to the store manager, and was given a $25 gift card. Evidently security was supposed to be there watching and preventing last minute drop off line cutters. The next year, they had security out there and last minute drop offs were not allowed to go under the yellow caution tape/roped off line, and were told to go to the back of the line.
In the past I witnessed this more than once....happening with lottery ticket line when the total is really high. One person stands in line for 2-3 hours, then at the last 10-15 minutes, one or more people show up to join them(with the intention of making their own ticket purchases, which delays the wait for those behind them). Thankfully of those of us that witness(like WTF?) that happen, one person will go get security and inform them of the line cutters and they were made to leave the line. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Okay: If party of 2-4-8-10 is already on the wait list, and the others are waiting nearby, in the car, etc...
One person holding the spot, while an elderly or handicap sit on bench or in car.
Holding someone in your party or line neighbors spot, while they go and use the restroom. They are permitted to come back and join the line where they were at.
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Post by padresfan619 on Jan 10, 2021 3:12:53 GMT
I’d be annoyed but not enough to say anything.
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Post by pierkiss on Jan 10, 2021 3:29:36 GMT
I’m not a fan. For any amount of people.
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Post by Merge on Jan 10, 2021 3:32:35 GMT
Asshole move, but I'm not going to ruin my day over it. Unless they all order foofy drinks that are more milk and sugar than coffee (and which also take much longer to prepare). Then I'm going to make passive-aggressive comments about how if you want that kind of thing, Starbucks is down the street ...
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Post by anniebygaslight on Jan 10, 2021 18:49:34 GMT
I’m not a fan. For any amount of people. Same here.
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Post by busy on Jan 10, 2021 18:53:59 GMT
![](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/thumbnailer/dxFUbek0ARQcfnEacENK.png) But I got this (among other things) so it was definitely worth the wait ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/Q_m8lDOvc_3Le3r1GKdf.jpg)
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Post by craftykitten on Jan 10, 2021 18:58:10 GMT
View AttachmentBut I got this (among other things) so it was definitely worth the wait ![;)](//storage.proboards.com/5645536/images/nLEEDztHkWCycXMmLHmo.jpg) goodness me, what IS that?!
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