grammanisi
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Post by grammanisi on Jan 26, 2021 1:15:42 GMT
I've lived here for more than 63 years.
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Post by bothmykidsrbrats on Jan 26, 2021 1:25:43 GMT
I moved to the city I currently live in, when I was 15 ('81) and consider it my home town. The city I lived in from birth-15 is a suburb of Detroit, and not a very safe place anymore. There is no amount of money that could talk me into living in MI, or anywhere it snows; I'm a desert rat that's freezing when it's 70 degrees.
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Post by fiddlesticks on Jan 26, 2021 1:34:55 GMT
No chance in hell.
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Post by smokeynspike on Jan 26, 2021 1:40:13 GMT
Nope, never. Maybe nearby, but not directly in my little, tiny rural town where there isn't even a grocery store and everybody knows your business. Left 3 months after graduation and never looked back, except to visit a couple times of year from out of state.
Melissa
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Post by Deleted on Jan 26, 2021 1:59:18 GMT
If it was what it was when I lived there, and I could afford it, yes. As it is today, no.
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Post by karinec on Jan 26, 2021 2:02:41 GMT
Hell no. Small minds and overpriced housing (SoCal).
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Post by freecharlie on Jan 26, 2021 2:03:25 GMT
Yes I would. It has too many people now, but is still a great town
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Post by auntkelly on Jan 26, 2021 2:15:22 GMT
Realistically,I wouldn’t move back to my hometown. If we left the suburb where we are currently living, we’d go live at our lake house.
I love my hometown and still visit there. I keep in touch with lots of friends who live there. I could never get my husband to chose my hometown over the lake, and I think I’d prefer the lake as well.
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Post by beaglemom on Jan 26, 2021 2:16:52 GMT
I'm not sure how to answer. I live in the same area I grew up in, but a different town. But it is the Bay Area/Silicon Valley in California and everything is close together. We live about 20 miles from where I grew up and 5 miles from where dh grew up. We wanted a bit more land that the .1 acre lots that most of the valley has, so we are on the hillside and have 5 acres.
There are very few people that I grew up with still in the area. It has just gotten so expensive and most have had to move elsewhere.
That said we love where we live and even though we talk about moving somewhere less expensive we can't come up with anywhere that we would want to live more that where we are. Also it helps that both of our parents are still in the houses that we grew up in. So with 4 kids we can't imagine moving away from both sets of grandparents.
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FurryP
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Post by FurryP on Jan 26, 2021 2:19:33 GMT
OPRAH!!!
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Post by VanC on Jan 26, 2021 2:23:31 GMT
I'm not sure what the "Oprah" choice means, but if an opportunity arose that made if feasible to move back and earn a decent living, I would. It seems to be an old joke around here - "Oprah" for answers that don't fit within the parameters. We'll have to use it for "yes" in this circumstance since I am a dingus and forgot to add "yes". I added "Oprah" because usually that's the first post - "where's the Oprah option?". It's an old joke that I don't really get, but I'm easy and like to play along. I took the Oprah option to mean "I already have more than one house, why not one more?" but no way would I move back. They built a state prison but didn't add any new business to support it. There is no proper grocery store with in 30 miles and the 2 options that were there whilst I was growing up are closed and abandoned. /font]
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Post by mom on Jan 26, 2021 2:26:05 GMT
I don’t have a home town...but if you’re talking about where I graduated from, then nope. No desire, whatsoever.
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used2scrap
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Post by used2scrap on Jan 26, 2021 2:34:47 GMT
I’d love to but there are personal reasons that ensure I never will sadly.
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kate
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Post by kate on Jan 26, 2021 2:36:03 GMT
I would have said, "No way," but I'm old enough to know to never say never. LOL
Seriously, though, I disliked my home town for a long time, but now I see its charm. I just don't want to have to drive, and I sure don't want to shovel snow. Also, my kids are more likely to stay near NY than halfway across the country.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jan 26, 2021 2:50:17 GMT
It is a beautiful place, but an awful place to grow up. I would never live there. NEVER!
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Post by hopemax on Jan 26, 2021 2:54:49 GMT
No option for, "I did, but then left again."
I like lots of things about my home town. Except that it's close to the Canadian border in WA, which means I hate the weather and it's not close to places I want to go. Winters were hard for me, travel was hard. When I graduated college I never planned to go back, but DH got laid off and the only job he could find was one with my Dad's company. So back home we went. We were there for just under 4 years and while it was fine, I was ecstatic when after another layoff my DH found a job in AZ.
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psiluvu
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Post by psiluvu on Jan 26, 2021 2:58:56 GMT
I might, I grew up in a small town in southern Ontario. It is becoming a bedroom community to Toronto so I probably couldn't afford it.
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Post by mimima on Jan 26, 2021 3:02:03 GMT
As much as I wish I were closer to family, between Facebook and a Pea who lives where I grew up and her posts remind me that it is an area that I would not fit in (though maybe someday we'll meet, I don't think she loves the vibe either) so no way.
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Post by FrozenPea on Jan 26, 2021 3:04:45 GMT
Being a military brat, no "hometown" so to speak.
I move to Alaska at 14 left at 18 to Central NY moved back at almost 20 on my own to live with my now husband. Been in Ak ever since. Been in this house since 1994.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Jan 26, 2021 3:26:12 GMT
I consider where I currently live to be my hometown. I've lived here since I was 14. We moved out west, shortly after my 14th Birthday. 41 years, I've been here. It's "home" to me.
I spent my childhood on the East Coast. I consider that to be the place where I spent my childhood. It's not home to me. 12-ish years in one state, 1 year in another state. I've only been back twice, for a week each time. 1984 and 1993 to see my Grandparents, who are no longer living. With the exception of sightseeing the tourist and historical stuff in the form of vacation, I have no desire to go back to see people (meaning distant relatives that I don't really know, other than by name....wouldn't know them, if the walked right in front of me).
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on Jan 26, 2021 3:29:24 GMT
I would move back because it’s a great area but there’s no way I could ever afford to live in the Bay Area on a teachers salary. And the traffic is horrid.
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Post by librarylady on Jan 26, 2021 3:33:34 GMT
You forgot the option of "Yes, if I needed to." I voted Oprah, given the choices on the poll.
At a retiree age, having health care readily available is important. If I moved back into my mother's home, I could be in the Houston Medical Center in 30 to 45 minutes. Family is there so it COULD be an option.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jan 26, 2021 10:29:18 GMT
I actually did move to my home town for a little bit. My parents divorced when I was 25. Mom moved out and dad was left with the house. He wasn't quite ready to part with it and neither was I. So I bought it from him. I raised my children there for 8 years until we lost the house in the recession. It was heartbreaking for me.
But I like where I live now. That was a very small town. My neighborhood now is urban. We have everything we need here. My kids have more opportunity. My city isn't super big. And I like that.
I've always lived in the Midwest. But I've lived everywhere from a small farm town to a medium sized city to Chicago and Indianapolis. And I still prefer Lansing.
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Post by maryannscraps on Jan 26, 2021 10:49:50 GMT
I loved where I grew up -- just outside Rochester, NY. I would go back, but my husband's business is in MA, and not a chance of it moving. I love where I am now, but I miss my sister who lives back in Rochester. My other sister is planning on moving to MA in the next year, so YAY!
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Post by greendragonlady on Jan 26, 2021 12:50:48 GMT
Nope. I grew up in the woods (it's nice and quiet, but that's the only positive). There's nothing there. I love where we live now. It feels like country and it's mostly quiet, but we're 5 minutes from just about everything.
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Post by carhoch on Jan 26, 2021 14:28:44 GMT
We came to the USA from Switzerland in 1994 my kids , grandkids and frankly my life is here . I love to go home see my family and all my friends for 2 or 3 weeks every year but I am always happy to come back here .
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Post by workingclassdog on Jan 26, 2021 14:59:23 GMT
Is there a yes option?
I would. Living in Colorado is so dang expensive. Moving back IF I had a job that paid the same or more. My husband would in a heartbeat.
BUT on the other hand my two oldest kids live here and really we would stay put. There could be grandkids in the future and I don't want to be away from that if I didn't have to.
So yes and no. lol
And meaning my hometown.. I moved over 30 times.. I consider where I graduated from high school and where my best friend lives as my hometown.. It's Kansas City.. so I would still be in the city with everything available.
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Post by luckyjune on Jan 26, 2021 15:31:08 GMT
I grew up in a spot where the "outskirts" of three small towns merge. Currently, I live 30 minutes from where I grew up.
I'd go back to live in the country, but not to live in any of the three towns. The town we frequented most (and where I went to school) was a great place to grow up, but it has changed in big ways. Even the teachers I had in high school said that when we was growing up in the late 70s/early 80s, our town was in its golden years. Now, not so much.
So, long story short, I wouldn't go back.
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Post by Anita on Jan 26, 2021 15:32:12 GMT
We actually did after DH retired from the military. We even bought a house a mile from my grandma. But jobs took us away again and I'm so glad. I just didn't fit in there any longer and it's so depressing to visit now. Other than it being a bastion of Republican ideology, it's not a bad little town. It's just too far from anything like airports and cultural sites.
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Post by smartypants71 on Jan 26, 2021 15:33:48 GMT
No. I'm from New Orleans. It's a great place to visit, but I have no desire to live there.
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