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Post by mcjunkin on Feb 19, 2021 20:53:46 GMT
Ahhhhh.....sweet confirmation. Thanks to those who posted screenshots before I got back to the thread. Yes, there were more in the highlights over the last couple days. Oddly enough, never saw anything relating to what OP posted, but in full disclosure, I did not look very hard. TH things were at the forefront.
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Post by FurryP on Feb 19, 2021 22:46:01 GMT
Buttons is back. Hi Buttons!
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Post by Deleted on Feb 20, 2021 10:36:44 GMT
Buttons is back. Hi Buttons! Hi furryp. I had bad COVID and was in the hospital for months and still suffering.
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FurryP
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Post by FurryP on Feb 20, 2021 19:53:09 GMT
I'm sorry for that Buttons. Hope you continue to improve.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 21, 2021 4:53:22 GMT
Buttons is back. Hi Buttons! Hi furryp. I had bad COVID and was in the hospital for months and still suffering. Sorry. Hope you recover quickly.
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jediannie
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Post by jediannie on Feb 21, 2021 20:33:04 GMT
I had bad COVID and was in the hospital for months and still suffering. Hope you continue to heal. That's rough.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 16:54:10 GMT
Hi there - someone alerted me to this website and this thread. It's very creepy to see. But I'm an open book and if you'd like to ask me anything specific I will absolutely answer to the best of my knowledge. Open dialogue is important and I'm always willing to admit when I've made a mistake.
As for OP: I have no idea what this person is talking about. I would need their order # etc to figure it out.
-Lara
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:34:49 GMT
I have not had that experience but am not surprised in the least. I’m sorry this happened to you. Have you heard of it happening to others? I asked for my money back and she sent her "roadies" to attack me on instagram and facebook. I have never experienced this kind of venom from a retailer before. I have NEVER sent anyone to attack anyone else. If you were attacked by someone associated with me, it just takes a simple email so we can figure it out. I would be very disappointed in my customers if they attacked anyone on my behalf and would put a stop to it. We aren’t that type of group.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:35:19 GMT
Yeah I think she’s shown her crazy a few times. I hope you can get your money back. She sounds completely unhinged. Please describe how I’m unhinged. Thanks!
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:36:23 GMT
Yeah I think she’s shown her crazy a few times. I hope you can get your money back. She sounds completely unhinged. Thank you. I hope so too. I saved hard for it and feel like I have been robbed. ... robbed? What? This is just wild to read. Please let me know an order number or name so I can figure out what’s going on.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:37:16 GMT
Have you talked to your card company to let them know about non-delivery of your purchase? I don’t know if there is a time frame, the card company might be able to get you a refund. It also might be wise to get screen shots of your inquiry and her reactions. Paying for product that you never received is absolutely unacceptable. You have been robbed. If she had any sort of issue, she was most likely refunded. I’ve never had anyone file a chargeback in the history of my shop.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:38:06 GMT
Have you talked to your card company to let them know about non-delivery of your purchase? I don’t know if there is a time frame, the card company might be able to get you a refund. It also might be wise to get screen shots of your inquiry and her reactions. Paying for product that you never received is absolutely unacceptable. You have been robbed. Yes I did and unfortunately my card does not cover non-delivery. It was a good thought thank you. Because you were most likely refunded immediately if you had an issue. I’d need more information to speak specifically but that would have followed my policy.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:39:21 GMT
Yeah I think she’s shown her crazy a few times. I hope you can get your money back. She sounds completely unhinged. I'm not sure what you can do if your credit card company won't back you up. Her reputation is already garbage, so appealing to any sense of decency on social media won't get you anywhere. Likewise, trashing her on social media won't mean anything to her either. She should at least offer you a tracking number, if she actually shipped your order. My reputation is garbage? That’s news to me. I am well aware people don’t like that I don’t allow customers to speak to me rudely. That is not a policy I’ll be changing though.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:40:15 GMT
Are you able to post screenshots of your interactions with the business owner on your/her social media accounts? Maybe then her followers' support will swing your way once they see proof the owner is in the wrong... and hopefully make things right for you. Anyone is more than welcome to do this.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:42:35 GMT
I used to be a semi-frequent IR customer, but I haven't bought anything in over a year (not so much a fan of her behavior). However, I never unsubscribed from her email newsletter and every time I get one (usually 2-3 times a week), there is a huge explanation about which items are backordered/preordered and how she's not going to do preorders anymore but will make an exception just for this one new stamp set because it's so cool...it honestly makes my head hurt. It seems that she tends to design currently-relevant stamps (like one with Bernie Sanders/the mittens released the day after the inauguration) and sell them as preorders without actually having the item on hand. (I think this business model can work for some industries/situations, but it doesn't seem to be terribly organized on her end.) However, this is no excuse for the owner's behavior or even the 4 month(!!) waiting period, and she should be extra polite to customers who have questions/concerns about their orders, given how confusing her system is. It is really challenging running on a preorder system. It’s a challenging business model for sure. I’m a new business in the industry and I’m learning as I go. COVID and most recently the ice in Texas has disrupted things to a level no small business could have ever planned for. 4 months delay: please address this. No one has had a 4 month delay on their entire order.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:43:14 GMT
I used to be a semi-frequent IR customer, but I haven't bought anything in over a year (not so much a fan of her behavior). However, I never unsubscribed from her email newsletter and every time I get one (usually 2-3 times a week), there is a huge explanation about which items are backordered/preordered and how she's not going to do preorders anymore but will make an exception just for this one new stamp set because it's so cool...it honestly makes my head hurt. It seems that she tends to design currently-relevant stamps (like one with Bernie Sanders/the mittens released the day after the inauguration) and sell them as preorders without actually having the item on hand. (I think this business model can work for some industries/situations, but it doesn't seem to be terribly organized on her end.) However, this is no excuse for the owner's behavior or even the 4 month(!!) waiting period, and she should be extra polite to customers who have questions/concerns about their orders, given how confusing her system is. I agree with everything you've written. I like some of her designs, but the recent email about leaning into the cheeky (aka R rated) side of her business has me feeling like I need to unsubscribe. I know some people love the cursing and whatnot, but I have no use for a happy f@ing birthday stamp Totally fair! I know my products aren’t for everyone.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:43:40 GMT
I like some of her designs, but the recent email about leaning into the cheeky (aka R rated) side of her business has me feeling like I need to unsubscribe. I know some people love the cursing and whatnot, but I have no use for a happy f@ing birthday stamp And after you have seen one, the rest are just kind of obnoxious to look at. Yikes. Then don’t look. 😂
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:44:23 GMT
Oh wow. I heard she was a bit unhinged and has no respect for other people's intellectual property but I haven't heard anything like this before. If you never got a shipping notice your credit card company should allow you to dispute the charge. Was it a pre-order? When was the stuff supposed to ship? I'm a bit confused by how this all went from "inquiring about my order that never shipped" to "you're part of the TH cult attacking me"... Did she claim she had shipped your order? These are great questions.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:46:02 GMT
Oh wow. I heard she was a bit unhinged and has no respect for other people's intellectual property but I haven't heard anything like this before. If you never got a shipping notice your credit card company should allow you to dispute the charge. Was it a pre-order? When was the stuff supposed to ship? I'm a bit confused by how this all went from "inquiring about my order that never shipped" to "you're part of the TH cult attacking me"... Did she claim she had shipped your order? I agree. I really think you should go back to your card company and let them know the items were never shipped. That’s not an issue with post office or other delivery service, so it doesn’t qualify as “non-delivery.” If she took your money and never even sent what you ordered, then it is a form of theft. Last I heard, most card companies can reverse the charge and get the money back under those circumstances. If the customer service rep for your card company still insists it’s “non-delivery” then ask to talk to their supervisor. There is no excuse for this, and your card company is supposed to go after companies that take the money but do not ship what was ordered. I’m waiting for OP to confirm her information, but if someone has an issue or confronts me in a rude way, they are immediately refunded and I think that happened here. No money was taken without goods delivered OR a refund processed based on the issue.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 17:47:00 GMT
Is she? What about now? I don't have FB if that's where the brouhaha is. Screen grabs from IG. I have no clue what she posted on FB. This is so creepy. 😂
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Post by julie5 on Feb 22, 2021 17:58:02 GMT
Yeah I think she’s shown her crazy a few times. I hope you can get your money back. She sounds completely unhinged. Please describe how I’m unhinged. Thanks! I think you’ve illustrated it perfectly on this thread.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 18:19:18 GMT
Please describe how I’m unhinged. Thanks! I think you’ve illustrated it perfectly on this thread. And yet... you can’t actually explain. 🥴
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Post by QueSeraSera on Feb 22, 2021 18:46:39 GMT
Please describe how I’m unhinged. Thanks! I think you’ve illustrated it perfectly on this thread. Lara on this message board (and beyond) hundreds, possibly thousands, of people watched aghast as you attacked Tim Holtz. Then played the victim. You looked like a complete lunatic. Yes we all saw all of your Facebook, Instagram, and Tik Tok posts. Many were shared here. You might have moved on from your public meltdown, but people haven’t forgotten how you chose to conduct yourself. Frankly “unhinged” is fairly accurate for what many people think when they hear your name. Many people also think that you post under fake names in support of yourself. Seriously you need to seek professional help.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 18:51:29 GMT
I think you’ve illustrated it perfectly on this thread. Lara on this message board (and beyond) hundreds, possibly thousands, of people watched aghast as you attacked Tim Holtz. Then played the victim. You looked like a complete lunatic. Yes we all saw all of your Facebook, Instagram, and Tik Tok posts. Many were shared here. You might have moved on from your public meltdown, but people haven’t forgotten how you chose to conduct yourself. Frankly “unhinged” is fairly accurate for what many people think when they hear your name. Many people also think that you post under fake names in support of yourself. Seriously you need to seek professional help. Thanks for your perspective. I’ll admit I’m still angry that there are people who use other people to get to major players in the craft community. I’m allowed to be angry about it AND talk about it. The weird thing to me is you guys are the “be kind” group ... unless it’s me. Very strange. I’ve owned up to my mistakes, something Tim nor his team have done. They just delete things and hope you guys forget about it. And you do! It’s a double standard I’ve struggled to get used to in the craft community. You can see my struggles as apparently most of you are watching my personal Instagram. If you choose to judge me based on my struggles, there is nothing I can do about that.
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jediannie
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Post by jediannie on Feb 22, 2021 19:03:59 GMT
The weird thing to me is you guys are the “be kind” group ... unless it’s me. This is not a "be kind" group. Not sure where you got that from. Have you seen the Becky Higgins, studio calico, Tracy whatshername, and the kartcher thread? And we are not all TH fans here. There are a few but I think the majority think he's not great. I certainly don't like him, I've seen him be so rude to some of his fans it really turned me off.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 19:06:28 GMT
The weird thing to me is you guys are the “be kind” group ... unless it’s me. This is not a "be kind" group. Not sure where you got that from. Have you seen the Becky Higgins, studio calico, Tracy whatshername, and the kartcher thread? And we are not all TH fans here. There are a few but I think the majority think he's not great. I certainly don't like him, I've seen him be so rude to some of his fans it really turned me off. I’m new to this whole site! I apologize for lumping you all together. That was premature of me, for sure. I should do some exploring perhaps! 🥴🙈
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Post by QueSeraSera on Feb 22, 2021 19:57:59 GMT
Lara on this message board (and beyond) hundreds, possibly thousands, of people watched aghast as you attacked Tim Holtz. Then played the victim. You looked like a complete lunatic. Yes we all saw all of your Facebook, Instagram, and Tik Tok posts. Many were shared here. You might have moved on from your public meltdown, but people haven’t forgotten how you chose to conduct yourself. Frankly “unhinged” is fairly accurate for what many people think when they hear your name. Many people also think that you post under fake names in support of yourself. Seriously you need to seek professional help. Thanks for your perspective. I’ll admit I’m still angry that there are people who use other people to get to major players in the craft community. I’m allowed to be angry about it AND talk about it. The weird thing to me is you guys are the “be kind” group ... unless it’s me. Very strange. I’ve owned up to my mistakes, something Tim nor his team have done. They just delete things and hope you guys forget about it. And you do! It’s a double standard I’ve struggled to get used to in the craft community. You can see my struggles as apparently most of you are watching my personal Instagram. If you choose to judge me based on my struggles, there is nothing I can do about that. If you think we are the “be kind” or Tim Holtz fans, you are confusing us with Jennifer McGuire and her groupies. Definitely not that group. This is a place for people to share their unfiltered opinions and feedback on everything in the paper crafting world. We have the full gamut of personalities here. You are still trying to play the victim. You won’t take it but I’m going to give you some free life and business advice. How you treat people is a reflection on YOU, not them. There is not a justification in the world that would make your very public actions and behavior acceptable. Your behavior was/is/will always be judged. We watched you implode and it wasn’t a good look. Neither is this. You keep doing you and we’ll keep doing us. That includes commenting from the sidelines if we feel like it. That’s how the internet works. Peace out.
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 20:01:27 GMT
Thanks for your perspective. I’ll admit I’m still angry that there are people who use other people to get to major players in the craft community. I’m allowed to be angry about it AND talk about it. The weird thing to me is you guys are the “be kind” group ... unless it’s me. Very strange. I’ve owned up to my mistakes, something Tim nor his team have done. They just delete things and hope you guys forget about it. And you do! It’s a double standard I’ve struggled to get used to in the craft community. You can see my struggles as apparently most of you are watching my personal Instagram. If you choose to judge me based on my struggles, there is nothing I can do about that. If you think we are the “be kind” or Tim Holtz fans, you are confusing us with Jennifer McGuire and her groupies. Definitely not that group. This is a place for people to share their unfiltered opinions and feedback on everything in the paper crafting world. We have the full gamut of personalities here. You are still trying to play the victim. You won’t take it but I’m going to give you some free life and business advice. How you treat people is a reflection on YOU, not them. There is not a justification in the world that would make your very public actions and behavior acceptable. Your behavior was/is/will always be judged. We watched you implode and it wasn’t a good look. Neither is this. You keep doing you and we’ll keep doing us. That includes commenting from the sidelines if we feel like it. That’s how the internet works. Peace out. Tim’s lawyer literally told me I was a victim of his stalkers. But go ahead and keep victim blaming if it makes you feel good? You’ve reached the part of the internet where business owners stand up for themselves. Sorry it upsets you so much. ... and I’ll keep commenting on your comments. That’s how the internet works. Peace out.
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msliz
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Post by msliz on Feb 22, 2021 20:26:08 GMT
I’m new to this whole site! I apologize for lumping you all together. That was premature of me, for sure. I should do some exploring perhaps! 🥴🙈 Why don't you start with this thread? It'll help bring you up to speed. Tim holtz the ink road (Lara) drama
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Post by inkroadstamps on Feb 22, 2021 20:42:33 GMT
I’m new to this whole site! I apologize for lumping you all together. That was premature of me, for sure. I should do some exploring perhaps! 🥴🙈 Why don't you start with this thread? It'll help bring you up to speed. Tim holtz the ink road (Lara) dramaI’m going to skip it, I read some of it that someone had sent me last year and the “breakdown” I dared to show the internet was right after. If anyone has questions/opinions for me regarding the topic I’m open to them. I just don’t want to go back in that particular thread.
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