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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2021 18:49:45 GMT
Oh my goodness, you have such a lot to deal with. I'm glad your DD is recovering but how frightening for you though. I can't do much other than offer you a big hug and don't forget to take care of yourself through all of this ((((hugs))))
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2021 18:50:51 GMT
I wish I could hug you properly, that's all way too much to deal with. I'm glad your daughter is ok but that must have been scary.
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Jili
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Post by Jili on Feb 26, 2021 18:52:50 GMT
Oh my gosh, I'm so sorry. You are right-- it's just too much. This is the best place to vent and get it out.
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Post by cakediva on Feb 26, 2021 19:31:53 GMT
Hugs...that is so much to deal with for any one person!!
I'm surprised that as a caregiver you are not higher on the list. But it is different everywhere.
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Post by craftykitten on Feb 26, 2021 19:31:57 GMT
Oh my gosh! How scary for you, and what a lot you’re dealing with. Sending big hugs.
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Post by craftykitten on Feb 26, 2021 19:32:11 GMT
Oh my gosh! How scary for you, and what a lot you’re dealing with. Sending big hugs.
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Post by Baseballmom23 on Feb 26, 2021 19:34:36 GMT
(((hugs))) I am glad your DD is okay and I am sending love & prayers
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Post by smcast on Feb 26, 2021 19:36:28 GMT
That is so scary. I'm glad she went in and is receiving treatment. Prayers . Things are very stressful. You don't ever get a break being a caregiver. Do something special just for you.
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Post by NanaKate on Feb 26, 2021 19:36:34 GMT
I am so sorry for all you are dealing with. And glad to hear your daughter is ok. Scary! HUGS
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Post by crazy4scraps on Feb 26, 2021 19:50:37 GMT
Glad your DD will be okay, that had to be so scary for you! With your DH having the kinds of medical issues he has, I would be really surprised if you aren’t eligible to get the vaccine sooner. I could have sworn I read somewhere that if you are caring for someone with one of the underlying conditions you could get bumped up on the list. I tried searching again and couldn’t find it. Hugs, I’m so sorry things are piling up like that on you!
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Post by librarylady on Feb 26, 2021 19:53:47 GMT
That is a lot to endure. Hug of support to you.
I can only offer what my mother said to me: When you find yourself at the end of your rope, tie a knot and hang on!
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Post by Lori McMud on Feb 26, 2021 19:53:49 GMT
I just want my vaccine, but I will be in the last group to get it here. I am not 65 and have no health issues. I haven't seen my grandchildren in almost a year.Thanks for listening, my friends. Have you checked to see if you can get it as a primary caregiver for your DH? Or any of your parents/inlaws? I am in Minnesota too. My dad is in a memory care facility and my mom was offered it because she is considered his primary caregiver, but she declined it at that time. ETA I see others have asked this question as well, but it is worth checking into. |
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Post by bc2ca on Feb 26, 2021 19:56:32 GMT
Sending hugs, mikklynn. That is just too much to deal with. Is your DD nearby? I'm another surprised that you aren't in a caregiver category for the vaccine and wonder if you should talk to your PCP about it. |
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Post by Basket1lady on Feb 26, 2021 20:03:55 GMT
How frightening!
You are so strong and have such a positive attitude. You deserve to break a little. And you deserve a break. I’m so sorry that you have to deal with this. I’m finding that the closer I get to getting the vaccine, the more impatient I’m becoming. It’s like that glimpse of the old life is so real and compelling.
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The Birdhouse Lady
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Post by The Birdhouse Lady on Feb 26, 2021 20:12:05 GMT
Jeepers, that is just too much. Glad your daughter knew her body and recognized that something was seriously wrong. Wrapping your family in prayer.
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Post by RedSquirrelUK on Feb 26, 2021 20:31:52 GMT
Damn. I'm so sorry. There is never a good time for anything like this, but right now is pushing the envelope. It does sound as though she's going to be fine, so cling to that. Hugs to you my friend. You need them! x
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2021 20:47:29 GMT
Oh my!! Prayers to you and to your sweet DD!!!!!!!!!! Actually, I had a very good friend with MINOCA. She used to take a lot of precautions for many medical things. I pray that your DD will be healthy and fine!
Sounds like you have SO much on your plate. I had no idea. Gosh. I hope that you have some backup, or that you could at least have a way to get time on your own. That's a lot!!
You surprise me with the fact that your husband's quality of life is "good". That's INCREDIBLE!! I can't imagine the feeding tube. Do you have to assist with it? Is he at home? Is he aware of his mom's health status? I'm sorry. Hospice during the pandemic has been very tough to navigate.
You need a break. Just unplug, breathe, get out for a little drive (?), try to take your mind off of things. Thank God your DD is okay and she knows what is wrong.
You have all of us here to vent to or talk to!! Try to take care of yourself if you can. xoxo
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Feb 26, 2021 21:13:52 GMT
(((Hugs)))
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TXMary
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Post by TXMary on Feb 26, 2021 21:25:07 GMT
Oh my gosh...I am so sorry. I'm glad she's going to be okay but you are dealing with so much. Big hugs and prayers for you.
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2021 21:28:09 GMT
I am thinking of you all. I am so sorry. Hug.
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Post by Lexica on Feb 26, 2021 21:34:00 GMT
I just want my vaccine, but I will be in the last group to get it here. I am not 65 and have no health issues. I haven't seen my grandchildren in almost a year. Thanks for listening, my friends. I am so sorry you have so much on your plate! And now this with your daughter. It must all feel so overwhelming. But I have to say, from your comments and how you conduct yourself on here, you are handling it all with total grace. I know life isn't fair, but damn girl, you deserve a break! And if I could give you my spot for the vaccine, I would do so in a heartbeat. |
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Post by floridagirl on Feb 26, 2021 21:34:40 GMT
too much on your plate....sending good thoughts your way...i hope you get the vaccine sooner rather than later.
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Post by AussieMeg on Feb 26, 2021 21:44:54 GMT
Oh gosh, how terrifying! I’m glad your daughter is okay. I’m sorry that you’re having to cope with so much right now. xx
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Post by Deleted on Feb 26, 2021 21:53:13 GMT
Just wanted to say sorry that you are going through so much , and hope for some respite for you.
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Post by gillyp on Feb 26, 2021 21:55:02 GMT
All that is just too much. Too scary, too stressful, too unrelenting. I’m glad your DD is doing ok. You need to try and do ok yourself, too. I do hope you find you are able to be vaccinated earlier than you think.
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Post by lucyg on Feb 26, 2021 21:59:54 GMT
How scary! I am so sorry, but glad she’ll be okay. And hugs to you. I know your life has been difficult for a long time now. A young woman I’ve known since she was a baby also had a heart attack last year at age 39. She’s doing well, too, but it was a horrible scare for her and her family. Be well, all of you.  |
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Post by PLurker on Feb 26, 2021 22:05:49 GMT
That's too much!
It's hard watching those we care about going through stuff, even "just" one. And then add in the pandemic. Yikes! (Hugs)
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Post by MDscrapaholic on Feb 26, 2021 23:05:43 GMT
Holy cow! Big ((hugs)) for you. Take care of yourself!
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Post by maryland on Feb 26, 2021 23:09:20 GMT
That's a lot to go through. I'm glad your daughter is okay! I hope things start to improve for you and your family. Thinking of you.
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Post by auntkelly on Feb 26, 2021 23:58:18 GMT
I’m so sorry you are going through so much.
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