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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 7, 2021 15:32:03 GMT
Happy new week. Today I'll have my shots and then come home to rest. Dinner is Tuscan bean stew that I made yesterday in preparation for tonight's dinner. This is non-issue procedure given after the happy meds are infused, but it's a reminder that this is just one of a few things that need to be done this summer. I'm going to try to distract myself w/more enjoyable things. I'm going to focus on the stuff that brings happiness. Tmw I have a consultation for a device problem that cropped up and today I'm just giving life the raspberry. I wish I could have white chocolate raspberry something. That's the good kind of raspberry.
What's on your menu?
Please enjoy your week and give yourselves as many kind things as you can this week. What are you doing for fun? I am so grateful for my tribe.
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Post by austnscrapaddict on Jun 7, 2021 15:43:37 GMT
Happy Monday diner friends!
I survived the weekend with little to no energy.Saturday I had to get out of the house, so I took a drive, came home and took a2 hour nap. Yesterday I managed to do a grocery pick up and sort a couple of dresser drawer along with cutting out a quilt. I'm starting to wonder what I have. I keep having weak icky spells, touchy tummy and headaches. I have an eye apt later today and hope I can manage to get thru it. I've lost almost 20 lbs now in 6 weeks and wonder if I need to add something in to boost my energy, does anyone have any ideas? I'm watching carbs and just eating healthy and until satisfied.
DH is still at the ranch, so I will heat up a can of soup or make a frittata for dinner.
Off to read the weekend threads. Wishing everyone a great day!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 7, 2021 15:45:18 GMT
I am leaving here shortly to pick up Esther. I learned yesterday that they were discharging her today. I'm a bit bummed it was so short a stay for her. I wish it was longer. But she sounds good so I am hopeful.
I took the remainder of the afternoon off. I just knew with her getting out, I was going to be stressed out. I just don't feel my best today. I have that massage scheduled for this evening and I can't wait.
Tonight's dinner will be a Philly steak and cheese calzone I picked up at the grocery store. It's fresh so it should be good.
I don't know if you saw my other thread but I'm thinking of trying out Freshly and just giving myself a break for the next few weeks from cooking. Jeremy asked me via text yesterday if I was feeling any better. I told him I think I just need some time where the kids are operating smoothly. It's going to take time. So in that time, I'm thinking of making things as easy as I possibly can on myself.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 7, 2021 15:46:45 GMT
I'm starting to wonder what I have. I keep having weak icky spells, touchy tummy and headaches. I have an eye apt later today and hope I can manage to get thru it. I've lost almost 20 lbs now in 6 weeks and wonder if I need to add something in to boost my energy, does anyone have any ideas? What is your stress level like? I know I can have these same things when my worry meter is over the top.
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Post by leannec on Jun 7, 2021 15:46:57 GMT
Today is crawling by ... at least it's not so hot outside and so is not so hot in my classroom. My smoke alarm battery started beeping this morning because it needed to be changed ... I didn't have one to put in it so I'll buy one on the way home ... the beeping sound is probably driving my cats crazy right now. Dinner tonight will be rechauffe Chinese food ... easy peasy!
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Post by sueg on Jun 7, 2021 15:50:34 GMT
After a really horrible weekend weatherwise, today has been lovely and sunny again. I went out early for a walk, then surprised myself by deciding to walk to the grocery store - it’s only about 15 minutes, and totally flat, so I should do it more often when the weather is kind. I am not silly though - I caught the train back home! Dinner here tonight will be bratwurst, potato salad and grilled corn. Maybe salad, but I don’t think we really need it as well as the other things.
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Post by cadoodlebug on Jun 7, 2021 15:58:02 GMT
We're finally going to have a beautiful week weatherwise. I'm making Sloppy Joe's with the usual sides for dinner. 
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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 7, 2021 16:01:50 GMT
austnscrapaddict, perhaps it's time to call the doctor. It could be stress or you could be sick w/something minor, but getting checked can help you find a way to make it better. ((((HUGS)))). jeremysgirl, I think your idea about using Freshly is a great idea. You have so much on your plate. Taking time for massage and other things that help you to remain calm and feel soothed are essential for you. Esther is coming home w/an entirely new perspective and now she can be her authentic self. That makes a big difference. Wishing you both healing and happiness.
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Post by PolarGreen12 on Jun 7, 2021 16:09:56 GMT
scrapmaven hoping all goes smoothly and I'll help you in giving the sucky parts of life a big ol juicy raspberry! jeremysgirl hoping all goes well with picking up Esther today and it puts your mind at ease. Getting a meal delivery for a bit sounds like a good idea. Anything that can lighten your load is good. austnscrapaddict I second a doc appt. That could just be so many things. Another stormy day here. But thank goodness we are about at the end of this. From Wednesday on it looks like much better weather. Actual sunshine!!! I am so ready for some much needed pool time and margs at my friends. Dinner tonight is an Asian Napa cabbage salad and panko teriyaki chicken.
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Post by hutchfan on Jun 7, 2021 16:13:54 GMT
Steak, sweet potato and macaroni salad are on tap for tonight. Have a marvelous Monday everyone!
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Post by tuesdaysgone on Jun 7, 2021 16:38:04 GMT
Sending lots of good thoughts to scrapmaven and austnscrapaddict. Being sick all the time SUCKS!! Big day for you and Esther jeremysgirl. Although a bit stressful, let's hope this is the first step toward a more balanced and peaceful life for everyone. It was raining this morning, so I walked on the treadmill, not nearly as satisfying as walking outside. Then I ran a couple quick errands and dropped off two bedspreads at a wash/fold place. I like my new, plain-Jane, washer but it's not big enough to handle heavy loads like large bedspreads. I'm mopping the floor, puttering, and reading before I head out to the recycle center and to pick up my bedspreads. Dinner for DH will likely be chicken and rice and a veggie side. I'm really, really trying to be done eating by about 4 or 5. I tend to graze a lot of empty calories in the evenings if I'm not careful.
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Post by scrappert on Jun 7, 2021 17:21:51 GMT
I don't want to cook. I will suggest Chinese take out.
We had a graduation party on Saturday and it was sooooo hot. But I stayed in the garage with a fan blowing on me, so that really helped.
Sending prayers, happy thoughts and relaxation to all.
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Post by lucyg on Jun 7, 2021 19:29:25 GMT
I really don’t have any plans for dinner. I’m bored with thinking about meals. I just want the food to appear when I want it, but I don’t even know what I want. Chips and chocolate, three meals a day, probably. End of whine. Oh wait, maybe I’ll have wine for dinner! austnscrapaddict, have you lost 20# in six weeks because you’re trying to lose weight, or did it just come off on its own? If the latter, please get to the doctor ASAP! Otherwise, maybe you need more protein or more fiber or something? Also, congrats on the successful diet.  I hope you start feeling better soon; otherwise, see sentence #2. jeremysgirl, good luck to Esther as she embarks on this new stage of life. And to you. I think getting Freshly is a great idea. scrapmaven, hope tomorrow’s procedure is quick and easy. I’m sorry you have this sucky summer coming up.
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Post by bc2ca on Jun 7, 2021 19:41:43 GMT
Dinner is Tuscan bean stew that I made yesterday in preparation for tonight's dinner. And just like that I've decided cannellini bean soup is for dinner. I think there is sourdough bread in the freezer to go with it. I'm also craving tuna melts for some weird reason, so might add those, too. It is raining here right now to our shock and surprise so soup and sandwiches sound perfect for dinner. jeremysgirl, is Esther coming home with you or has she been able to hang onto her apartment? I do think getting meals delivered is a great self-care option for you right now.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 7, 2021 19:45:14 GMT
bc2ca Esther went back to her apartment. She has three roommates. The lease is up in August. And my other DD is living here with me. They want to get a 2 bedroom apartment together. I'm going to try my best to help them do so. I think it will help Esther to live with Chloe. They are very close. And she can help with Chloe's little dog Finn too. He's fun to have around. Neither of them wants to live with me. Ha!
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Post by freecharlie on Jun 7, 2021 19:50:25 GMT
We are going to have enchiladas. I'm making both chicken and ground beef. Some will be with a green sauce and some with red.
I'm thinking about defrosting some corn on the cob and making Mexican street corn as well.
We fly out on Thursday morning. My dad will come and stay with the dog, so I need to make sure the fridge is cleaned as well as stocked for him
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jun 7, 2021 19:57:01 GMT
Going to try the steak fajita again - ran out of gas last night and just threw together some pasta.
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Post by destined2bmom on Jun 7, 2021 20:09:38 GMT
Hi Everyone, scrapmaven I hope that your shots work and the procedure goes very well and smoothly for you. austnscrapaddict I am another one who thinks that you need to get an appointment with your doctor, just to make sure everything is okay with your health. jeremysgirl I think getting Freshly will help. cadoodlebug That meme is so true. What a wonderful world we would have if everyone could follow this philosophy. YDS did an amazing job at the graduation on Saturday. He was the cameraman for the podium. We had Philly Cheesesteaks Saturday night and on Sunday, everyone forged for food and fended for themselves. Tonight we are having hamburgers with caramelized onions and salad. It is stinking hot here today. Thank heaven for air conditioning. It is supposed to get hotter as the week continues.
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Post by scrapmaven on Jun 7, 2021 21:38:32 GMT
jeremysgirl, I think having Chloe and Esther living together is a great idea. They are close and they get the ups and downs of their disease. So, they can look out for eachother. Man, are you ever an awesome mama. The shot was super easy, but I had to have extra sedation. I'm home and awake, but loopy. Thank you for the nice thoughts. Now it's time to watch stupid tv and doze.
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Post by hop2 on Jun 7, 2021 21:41:39 GMT
I had a really late lunch and I’m nowhere near hungry yet. Also DD is not home so I might just have some lettuce wraps to use up some of the lettuce from my farm box.
Or maybe a hard cider & avocado toast who knows.
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Post by christine58 on Jun 7, 2021 21:49:12 GMT
Too hot to cook here so I made a salad with some left over chicken etc
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Post by brandy327 on Jun 7, 2021 21:51:12 GMT
Hi friends! Long time, no chat. ❤ I've missed all of you so much. I'm so probably not going to be around for a bit but I thought I'd give a quick update. It seems that some of you are still struggling in one way or another and I have managed to read the thread a few times here and there but got distracted before I could actually post. So I've been thinking of you all regularly and sending lots of good vibes out there for you.
Me? I'm healing very well. My graft is all healed and I've stopped putting aquaphor on it. That in itself makes it so much easier. My chest on the other hand? I can't remember if I updated but I had a pinhole size spot in the donor site scar open up the week after the stitches were removed. It leaked fluid for almost 2 weeks and then seemed to close over. Only it was temporary as one day I got out of the shower and it opened back up and was filled with fluid again. Clear fluid this time... but the brownish,gross stuff from earlier. And so that seems to be the cycle. It closes for a bit until the large pocket behind the incision fills completely and then opens back up, drains, and then closes back over. Since there's absolutely nothing that concerns me(pus, lots of pain, etc), I imagine this is kind of par for the course. I have my checkup July 1st.
The bigger issue right now is my dd#1. A few weeks ago, she was fine one day and the next day at dinner she was having a lot of pain in her lower esophagus. For the first several days, we chalked it up to something scraping her throat but it just got worse and worse. She insisted that it wasn't acid reflux as she's had that before and this felt completely different. I ended up taking her to the pediatricians office but they couldn't do much but recommend seeing ped gi. They prescribed 40mg nexium daily. She's been in intense, debilitating pain since that day. We ended up in the ER last weekend where they ruled a bunch of stuff out but couldn't give us any answers. I was on the phone first thing Tues morning with ped gi and they fit her in last Thursday. The APRN we saw was wonderful, really listened dd especially regarding her pain. We told her that the ER didn't really take her pain level seriously. In like the girl has migraines plus she broke her ankle and walked around on it for a week... she knows the pain scale and she doesn't exaggerate. So we went over everything, took 45 mins. Basically she said dd needs a barium swallow, an endoscopy, and a colonoscopy. She was really pushing for it to be crohns or celiac but neither myself or dd believed it could be either of those. She has NO lower gi issues. It's ONLY her middle and lower esophagus and around the sphincter. She ran a bunch of blood work, made her do a stool sample... everything came back great. Negative for celiac bloodwork. No heightened inflammation markers. My guess is severe stricture - but from what? They originally scheduled her endoscopy and colonoscopy for June 30th, which they were booking into August so they did us a favor. But while they were there, they realized that in 2 weeks time, she'd basically lost 10 lbs which put her bmi below 1% and she's now considered malnourished. So that was Thursday... Thursday evening, Friday, over the weekend I kept sending messages. I'm like look, my almost 17yo daughter is crying several times a day in excruciating pain. There HAS to be something you can do sooner. They had prescribed the magic mouthwash for her to swallow to basically numb her esophagus but she said it didn't help with the pain at all and it made it where she couldn't taste anything. They also prescribed cyproheptadine to help "reset her gut". And with all of my pushing, and probably more because of her malnourished status, they moved her scopes to this week. She's having a barium swallow on Wed and both scopes on Thursday. And if course, ds graduates high school on Friday and I'm going to miss stuff like the senior walk through the schools, and probably the car parade(which he's looking forward to the most)... but I absolutely cannot put these things off. She's crying so much... can barely function enough to go to school, work, and soccer(although I've already told her no soccer this week since she's not consuming enough to sustain her body at rest, let alone for a sport.
I have a close friend I went to high school with that has a son with a very rare syndrome and paired with that is major esophagus issues. She's basically a dr of the esophagus at this point. So she's helped me wherever she can with soft food/smoothie suggestions and what meds do what. She's been a lifesaver.
But omg,I cry right along with her. It's heartbreaking to watch my happiest, most easy going child, my child that loves to eat meat and fruit, not be able to eat or drink and just wither away. Her twin went to prom on Saturday with a friend and dd#1 went with us to do photos and I took a selfie of her and I- she put on a smile but it was forced...as were the pics of her and her twin. She hasn't really smiled at all in almost 3 weeks. I'm not the praying kind at all... but I'm praying that she can hold on until Wed for these tests... and that she can get some answers and some relief from the pain.
Since ds has his senior things this week, I'm on my own taking her to these tests. Dh will be starting behind to go to ds's things and take pics and video so me and dd can see what we missed.
Dinner tonight is leftover chicken meatballs and pasta for everyone but dd#1. She probably won't eat anything.
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Post by christine58 on Jun 7, 2021 21:54:58 GMT
brandy327 Oh my your poor DD. I hope it all gets figured out for her. Please let us know how she is.
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Post by papersilly on Jun 7, 2021 22:11:17 GMT
homemade smoke salmon corn chowder for me. taco salad and spanish rice for DH.
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Post by leannec on Jun 7, 2021 22:11:38 GMT
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Post by destined2bmom on Jun 7, 2021 22:16:41 GMT
brandy327 I am so sorry for your poor DD. I am keeping both you and her and the rest of your family in my thoughts and prayers. I hope that they get this figured out and it is easily treatable. Know that I am here for you; as well as the rest of our tribe.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jun 7, 2021 22:39:25 GMT
Oh brandy327 I'm so so sorry for all your daughter is going through. As you continue to explore different options - please keep extreme stress/anxiety layered with concern for you on your radar. This year has been a freaking nightmare for our family and I never realized how much extreme anxiety can manifest itself in GI issues. It is not discounting her issues - that's the very first thing I want to emphasize - way, way too often there's an extreme prejudice that mental health issues can't manifest in physical symptoms and it's a biproduct of believing that they're not "real" - they're real. They're very, very real and just because the source of the issue is anxiety vs acid reflux doesn't make the pain or physical symptoms any less real. Huge hugs to you!
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Post by lucyg on Jun 7, 2021 22:48:32 GMT
brandy327, how awful for your DD. I hope it gets resolved quickly.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 7, 2021 23:23:57 GMT
brandy327 I'm so sorry she's going through that. My Jeremy has a mystery esophagus problem. I know how hard these things are. Smoothies were a great suggestion from your friend. Sending all my hugs.
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Post by AussieMeg on Jun 7, 2021 23:31:18 GMT
I tried a new dish that I had saved to Pinterest years ago: Marry Me Chicken. I made enough to take over to MIL's house for her and FIL. It was quite good, but I wouldn't bang on about it like the bloggers do. I added bacon and mushrooms to mine because I was worried it was going to be too plain. And for all of you lucky northern hemisphere people enjoying lovely hot weather, I will let you know it is raining and miserable here today. It's only going to get to 12 C which is 53 F. It's the coldest day of the year so far. I downloaded a new weather app yesterday, called WTForecast, thanks to refugeepea . This is what it says about today: 
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