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Post by Megan on Jul 31, 2021 23:37:06 GMT
I am so so sorry.
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ModChick
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Post by ModChick on Jul 31, 2021 23:43:58 GMT
Hugs and love 💗
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Post by quinlove on Jul 31, 2021 23:46:32 GMT
Sending love to all the peas who are missing loved ones. I am truly sorry for your pain.
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teddyw
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Post by teddyw on Aug 1, 2021 1:12:28 GMT
I’m so sorry this today. Thinking of you and your son.
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rodeomom
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Post by rodeomom on Aug 1, 2021 1:39:57 GMT
I am so sorry. Hugs to your son and you and all who loved her. It's so hard. My sister died in February of 2020 and it's like as hard as last year was this year is almost harder. It's like the reality is setting in. I am so, so sorry for the pain of your loss. OP…I’m so sorry for the pain your family has to face. I know how unbearable it can be. My husband died in October of 2019. I was still in a huge fog when the pandemic started. Somehow I thought things would get better when things went back to “normal”. Unfortunately, my normal is still without him and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him and how much I miss him. The hole in my life is humongous. I'm so sorry for the passing of your husband. I know we are never going to be the same. I just hope for some kind of life for my son. |
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Post by TXMary on Aug 1, 2021 4:08:12 GMT
I am so sorry. Hugs to your son and you and all who loved her. It's so hard. My sister died in February of 2020 and it's like as hard as last year was this year is almost harder. It's like the reality is setting in. I am so, so sorry for the pain of your loss. OP…I’m so sorry for the pain your family has to face. I know how unbearable it can be. My husband died in October of 2019. I was still in a huge fog when the pandemic started. Somehow I thought things would get better when things went back to “normal”. Unfortunately, my normal is still without him and not a day goes by that I don’t think about him and how much I miss him. The hole in my life is humongous. I am so sorry. Big hugs for you. |
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Post by hookturnian on Aug 1, 2021 4:12:54 GMT
I am so sorry. Big hugs to all who need it.
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Post by pixiechick on Aug 1, 2021 5:26:27 GMT
I'm so sorry. It just really sucks to lose someone you love. I'm just sorry.
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Post by Deleted on Aug 1, 2021 6:14:46 GMT
Thinking of you and the others who have lost loved ones too.
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Post by AussieMeg on Aug 1, 2021 8:46:05 GMT
So sad. I'm wishing all of you peace.
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Post by mikklynn on Aug 1, 2021 12:10:44 GMT
I am still so sorry for your loss. Gentle hugs from a Pea friend.
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Post by gramasue on Aug 1, 2021 13:31:45 GMT
Sending hugs. I know how hard these anniversaries can be.
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Post by katlaw on Aug 1, 2021 13:50:10 GMT
Sending lots of love your way today. Anniversaries are so hard, like you don't know what you are supposed to do. The grief is still there but memories like a special hug have a way of fading.
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Post by katlaw on Aug 1, 2021 13:56:56 GMT
I am so sorry. Hugs to your son and you and all who loved her. It's so hard. My sister died in February of 2020 and it's like as hard as last year was this year is almost harder. It's like the reality is setting in. I am so, so sorry for the pain of your loss. This is so true. My brother died in December 2007 and the first year was just a blur. We had to get through Christmas and New Years. Then all of the holidays and birthdays, it just feels like there is always something missing. After the one year anniversary it just really hit me that I had to do it all again. Celebrate all of those special days without him. There are no rules to how long you grieve for, even now 13+ years later I think of him and miss him. |
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Post by TankTop on Aug 1, 2021 13:58:11 GMT
I can only imagine how hard the last year has been. Especially with him being away.
I am so sorry for your loss.
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Post by AmeliaBloomer on Aug 1, 2021 15:39:31 GMT
I’m so sorry. I’m glad you’re going to see your son soon.
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Post by ddly on Aug 1, 2021 19:05:28 GMT
Thinking of you and your family!
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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Aug 1, 2021 21:24:31 GMT
Big (((Hugs)))
What a hard anniversary.
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Post by pudgygroundhog on Aug 1, 2021 22:51:23 GMT
I'm sorry. ((hugs))
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Post by jenjie on Aug 2, 2021 0:23:17 GMT
I’m so sorry these anniversaries are so hard. A year in is so much more real than when it first happened bc the numbness has worn off.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Aug 2, 2021 1:28:22 GMT
Thinking of you as you experience a very difficult anniversary day.
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Post by essiejean on Aug 2, 2021 21:40:18 GMT
rodeomom I just wanted to send a virtual hug your way. My family also just hit the one year mark of the death of my future SIL (water craft accident that my DD was also involved in) - it happened 1 month before their wedding. We are coming up on the "wedding" date in just a couple of weeks.
It has been a roller coaster of a year for my DD and we were right beside her on that horrific ride. She was involved in a very bad car accident just the other night. The car she was driving was t-boned and it was a hit and run. She had a few of her friends in the car so the PTSD triggered. Thankfully she has a wonderful grief counselor that helps her through these episodes.
She is finally settled into her new home. Sold the house she owned while they were together and settled into a smaller townhome. She lived with us for 8 months and then with a high school friend for 3 months until she bought the townhome. She was ready to be on her own again and seems to be adjusting well.
I'm glad to hear your son is among friends and is planning a trip. My DD took a trip with her room mate to Alaska the week after the accident anniversary. It was very good for her to get away from it all. She came home refreshed and ready to settle into her new home.
Anyway....from one mom to another - hugs and stay strong. We never grow too old to worry about them that is for sure.
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rodeomom
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Post by rodeomom on Aug 3, 2021 3:31:38 GMT
rodeomom I just wanted to send a virtual hug your way. My family also just hit the one year mark of the death of my future SIL (water craft accident that my DD was also involved in) - it happened 1 month before their wedding. We are coming up on the "wedding" date in just a couple of weeks. It has been a roller coaster of a year for my DD and we were right beside her on that horrific ride. She was involved in a very bad car accident just the other night. The car she was driving was t-boned and it was a hit and run. She had a few of her friends in the car so the PTSD triggered. Thankfully she has a wonderful grief counselor that helps her through these episodes. She is finally settled into her new home. Sold the house she owned while they were together and settled into a smaller townhome. She lived with us for 8 months and then with a high school friend for 3 months until she bought the townhome. She was ready to be on her own again and seems to be adjusting well. I'm glad to hear your son is among friends and is planning a trip. My DD took a trip with her room mate to Alaska the week after the accident anniversary. It was very good for her to get away from it all. She came home refreshed and ready to settle into her new home. Anyway....from one mom to another - hugs and stay strong. We never grow too old to worry about them that is for sure. Wow how awful for all of you. I'm so sorry. |
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