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Post by LavenderLayoutLady on Dec 22, 2021 10:40:20 GMT
Maybe it is that I'm approaching middle aged, but I've been thinking about the generations that came before me more often.
I really don't know much about my great grandparents. More on my maternal side than my paternal side.
I've written down all I knew about my own grandparents. Well, maybe there's more I can think of.
I guess perhaps I don't want them forgotten. Maybe because with the passing of my mother, I don't want her forgotten by generations past my children.
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Post by mikklynn on Dec 22, 2021 13:18:00 GMT
I think of my maternal grandmother and her siblings. We were all very close. I wish my own children had known them.
I have been sorting some photos and things like their funeral cards or letters to scrapbook. I plan to do a heritage book telling their stories. It will just be a 1-2 page layout for each.
I have my two great uncles' letters and photos from WWII in a scrapbook one of them made. They were brothers and neither one ever married. I should tell DD to see if the historical society might want that after I am gone.
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Post by boymom5 on Dec 22, 2021 13:27:54 GMT
Not much to be honest although I love hearing the stories when my aunt tells them. The last time she was here my kids and I soaked it all up. And I’m thankful for their hard work that became our family today.
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Post by sleepingbooty on Dec 22, 2021 13:31:51 GMT
Not often, to be honest. I did grow up without my paternal family and my maternal family is a little broken so my case does not reflect the average family sphere. I didn't spend much time with my maternal grandparents before they passed either. It's all a bit of a mystery to me but I do enjoy hearing the occasional anecdote about them or my mother's childhood when the subject is brought up.
I don't waste time on my ancestors as I have very little possibility to find much more out. WW2 left some pretty deep rifts and deaths in my mother's family that had a ripple effect still felt in my generation. I won't be having children so it ends with me for this part of the line. I have no stories to leave for legacy purposes. My grandparents were both cremated and their ashes were scattered (per their wishes). My aunt wants the same. My mother, too. I descend from a people who are ok being forgotten which makes my scrapbooking a little ironic, I know. But oh well, I still enjoy it and get a lot from it while I'm alive. 🤷
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Post by lynn0117 on Dec 22, 2021 14:16:24 GMT
Maybe I should but I just don’t. I had a partner who was very okay and understanding regarding death. Here’s the thing, at some point, unless you do something really good or really bad, no one will remember you or your loved ones. You may be a name in a lineage but that’s it. And it’s okay.
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Post by Linda on Dec 22, 2021 14:41:28 GMT
I've been a family historian for coming up on 40 years (since I was 12) so I actually spend more time thinking about, learning about, and documenting my ancestors than most, I think. I'm also the keeper of the family archives for both my family and DH's - meaning photos and documents.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 22, 2021 14:45:40 GMT
get a lot from it while I'm alive Same here. Documenting the only 80 or so (I hope) years I'll ever have in the billions and billions of years of the universe's existence. That's enough for me per the op question - sometimes I think about my grandmother, but both my paternal grandparents were dead before I was born and my maternal grandparents died when I was quite young. I have hazy memories of my maternal grandmother. I'm not sure my memories will mean much even to my grandchildren (should I have any). I'm not sure they will be able to connect even further back than that - even if I could give them those stories. We do have lots of pix of DH's grandparents and great-grandparents. It's lovely to have them, but no real connection other than to be thankful that through them there is DH.
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Post by anniefb on Dec 22, 2021 18:47:20 GMT
I'm really into genealogy and think about my ancestors a lot! I started researching the family when my Mum was still alive about 12 or 13 years ago and have found quite a bit of information dating back to 1600 for some of Mum's family and to the mid 1700s for a couple of branches of Dad's family - depending on where they came from in Europe in present day Austria, Ukraine, Hungary, Slovakia and the Czech Republic. I'm just glad that I started looking into things when Mum was alive. Have met new relatives and discovered a lot about the family that Mum and her siblings (and Dad as well) just didn't know.
I hope my niece is going to be interested in at least some of my research one day but even if she isn't, I've got a lot of enjoyment through the process.
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Post by Ryann on Dec 22, 2021 19:33:17 GMT
Not even a little. I've never had paternal family and am an only child with no children of my own. I don't have a relationship with my mother, by choice. My spouse is adopted. Her parents and sibling are deceased. She has an adult child from her first marriage that (still) lives in our house... Family just isn't something I think about; past or present. I love to scrapbook but it's more about playing with pretty paper than documenting stories. My scrapbooks will end up in the garbage and I'm perfectly okay with that.
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Post by scrapcat on Dec 22, 2021 21:35:41 GMT
A lot - also very into genealogy and consider myself the archivist for the family. Both sides of family came from very humble beginnings, so I like to think about their stories in context of history (great immigration of 1890s/early 1900s, WW1, suffrage, depression, WW2, etc) Only 1 grandparent was alive during my lifetime, so I think it made me more curious about all the stuff that happened before me. I had an Uncle who was very into photography and family history, I sort of continue some of these things in his honor.
I've been working on an ancestry digital scrapbook for years now. I've started individually printing layouts when I complete to compile, but eventually want to streamline it into a printed book.
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Post by refugeepea on Dec 22, 2021 21:55:23 GMT
Not often, to be honest. I did grow up without my paternal family and my maternal family is a little broken so my case does not reflect the average family sphere. Yeah, the way we were raised and family dynamics seem to really make our viewpoints different. I was raised in a home where at times I honestly thought too much time was spent on the dead than the living. I have an aunt and sister that have done extensive genealogy research. While, I find it interesting, I don't feel a connection unless I knew my ancestors personally. I feel like there is maybe a little too much hero worship? As I've got older, I've realized there's probably a lot of hidden history we will never know.
My dad had a total of 15 siblings and 3 half siblings. My mom had one. There were definite weird family dynamics in my dad's family and I love my maternal aunt and we share the same name. Anyway, I don't feel a need to spend much time on people I didn't ever know or were total jackasses. If my dad were alive, he'd agree.
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Post by myboysnme on Dec 22, 2021 22:08:46 GMT
I think about them all the time. For my DIL's upcoming baby shower I did up a display of women ancestors baby pictures. Have almost 6 generations of some branches.
I decided to throw together a collage of 6 generations for my SIL for her Christmas present. She actually knew all of those pictured.
We are constantly in my family talking about inherited traits etc. My ancestors are often part of my thoughts.
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Post by joblackford on Dec 23, 2021 0:53:25 GMT
Often! I have relatives who did genealogy research that was only of passing interest to me when I was younger, but like you I have developed more interest as I get older. My parents are getting old, my great aunts and uncles are almost all gone, my grandparents and some great grandparents were around when I was younger but have all passed away now. I love history and stories and love old photos. It doesn't matter to me that my brother and I will both die without leaving descendants, my cousins have been very fruitful and I've been able to connect with distant cousins too who are interested in piecing together more stories.
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Post by Deleted on Dec 23, 2021 1:24:23 GMT
pretty much not at all. Why would I want to spend time thinking about people who believed in bigoted, oppressive things? My grandparents were racist, they don't cross my mind much.
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Post by Chinagirl828 on Dec 23, 2021 1:30:11 GMT
I don't know that I spend a great deal of time thinking about my ancestors, but I do think of them. I had all four of my grandparents until I was 19, and even my youngest sibling remembers them all, so when we get together it's not uncommon for the discussion to pass over them; this weekend it was a particular trait my maternal grandfather had that my Mum seems to have picked up, and laughing over a habit of my paternal grandmother when we saw a particular photo in a slideshow put together for my sister's birthday. I love hearing stories about my great grandparents as well, as Dad remembers one set of his grandparents reasonably well and both Mum and Dad recall family stories of their other grandparents. I think it makes a big difference that I'm in the fourth generation of our family to live in the house I grew up in, so we were very used to hearing stories as it was part of the fabric of our home.
I don't know as many stories about the ancestors in earlier generations, but I really wish I did, as there are enough clues to suggest there are some very interesting people in my family tree.
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Post by FurryP on Dec 23, 2021 7:25:29 GMT
Honestly, I don't really think farther back then my parents. I did not grow up with my grandparents, nor any of my dad's siblings. In my brain, my family consists of my parents, sibling, my aunt and uncle, my cousins, and their kids because I mostly grew up with my cousin's kids. I am not too interested about anyone further back.
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Post by mikklynn on Dec 23, 2021 13:29:51 GMT
Ryann I come from a large family and have 2 kids, plus 2 grands. I still expect my scrapbooks to end up in a dumpster and I'm ok with it. I do it for me.
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Post by breetheflea on Dec 23, 2021 14:33:35 GMT
I'm into genealogy, so all the time... even when I'm not actively working on my family tree certain words trigger my ancestry radar (coal mining, certain city names, hearing a last name that is close to one on my family tree etc.) I don't scrap about it much because I don't have very many photos
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Post by clio on Dec 25, 2021 14:10:03 GMT
Actually yes - we grew up in a small town & my family was full of characters & eccentrics so there were lots of stories. My mother’s mother died when I was 3 and she was determined that my younger sister and I would “know” her. (other relatives have actually asked us about her because their families didn’t talk about her or tell stories) My sister and I still laugh about all of it. We are also lucky to garden in a space where our mother, grandmother & great-grandmother did as well-it’s a different kind of generational connection, but a lovely feeling as their flowers still bloom and we add our own selections.
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Post by Skellinton on Dec 26, 2021 6:04:58 GMT
I think about my grandparents a lot, but they were all very involved in my life and were good wonderful people who loved me and who I loved. My grandpa passed away when I was 16, my other grandparents passed away when I was in my mid to late 20's, so I have lots of memories of them. I know stories of my great grandparents from my mom (she new my dad's grandparents very well) but I don't think about the ones earlier then that.
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Post by Texas Scrap on Dec 26, 2021 14:54:53 GMT
This is an interesting question. I am not really into ancestry activities, but I do find as a book and memoir lover that as I age, I am more curious about the lives and stories of those that lived before me in my family of origin. More about what experiences they had at times in history than who I am in the context of who they were - if that makes sense.
My uncle is a little obsessed with it and my brother is pretty focused on it - but he is more about living in the past and wanting to connect with people, which is probably why I have some what stayed away from it because I don't want to go down that rabbit hole.
So, we did give both of my in laws Storyworth for gifts this past year and it will be interesting to see what comes from their stories. I want to have my mom also do it, but she lives a no-internet/no-mobile phone life so I will need to figure out how to send her a physical book of questions. She always has interesting stories when I ask.
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Post by whipea on Dec 26, 2021 15:18:09 GMT
Not much. My family were Russian immigrants and many were wiped out during the Bolshevik Revolution. As I understand, some escaped to Eastern Europe and many were exterminated during the Holocaust. Both sets of grandparents were married in the "old country" and immigrated to the United States.
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Post by songbird on Dec 26, 2021 21:37:18 GMT
Truly just about every day, but genealogy is another hobby of mine.
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Post by grammadee on Dec 26, 2021 22:23:47 GMT
In 2000, my brother created a book about our mother's side of the family, and in 2006, he put one together about our dad's side. I am happy with knowing as much or as little detail as he had discovered.
As to "thinking about my ancestors", I think of the two sides of my family more in the general terms of personality traits and outlook on the world that I have observed in the generations I have come in contact with and have read about when reading about cultures from my families' places of origin.
Studying history, I have often imagined the experiences people went through, and the way they coped with what they had to deal with, whether they were "my" ancestors or not.
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