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Post by Deleted on Jan 21, 2022 23:47:32 GMT
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"The Rutan-Rams in early 2021 were excited to begin the process of fostering to adopt a child from Florida. They were told they needed to complete Tennessee-mandated foster-parent training and a home-study certification. The Rutan-Rams contacted the only agency in their area that was willing to provide those services for out-of-state placements – Holston United Methodist Home for Children, a state-funded agency that provides foster care placement, training, and other services on behalf of the Tennessee Department of Children’s Services.
Holston initially told the Rutan-Rams that it would provide them with the services they needed. But the day that the Rutan-Rams were scheduled to start Holston’s training class, Holston told the couple it wouldn’t serve them because they are Jewish. Holston said it “only provide adoption services to prospective adoptive families that share our [Christian] belief system.” Because there was no other agency in the Knox County area that would provide the foster-parent training and certification for the adoption of an out-of-state child, the Rutan-Rams were unable to adopt the boy from Florida.
“I felt like I’d been punched in the gut,” said Liz Rutan-Ram. “It was the first time I felt discriminated against because I am Jewish. It was very shocking. And it was very hurtful that the agency seemed to think that a child would be better off in state custody than with a loving family like us.”
“It’s infuriating to learn our tax dollars are funding discrimination against us,” said Gabe Rutan-Ram. “If an agency is getting tax money to provide a service, then everyone should be served – it shouldn’t matter whether you’re Jewish, Catholic or an atheist. We’re all citizens of Tennessee, regardless of our religion.”...
“The Tennessee Constitution, like the U.S. Constitution, promises religious freedom and equality for everyone. Tennessee is reneging on that promise by allowing a taxpayer-funded agency to discriminate against Liz and Gabe Rutan-Ram because they are Jews,” said Alex J. Luchenitser, associate vice president and associate legal director at Americans United. “Laws like House Bill 836 must not stand when they allow religion to be used to harm vulnerable kids and people like Liz and Gabe who want to provide those children with safe and loving homes.”
I don't care what kind of bs beliefs you have in your shriveled little "Christian" heart, but when you get taxpayer money, YOU DON'T DISCRIMINATE. You want to discriminate, do it on your own!
I am grateful to AU for taking these difficult cases.
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Post by lucyg on Jan 21, 2022 23:54:47 GMT
Before I comment, what’s the deal with the crossed-out paragraphs? @zima
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2022 0:55:47 GMT
Before I comment, what’s the deal with the crossed-out paragraphs? @zima No idea. I'll go edit that. I must have hit strikeout? Or maybe the copied text had a strikeout character?
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Post by lucyg on Jan 22, 2022 1:54:31 GMT
OK, thanks. I just wanted to make sure there weren’t retractions or unsubstantiated claims or something. Do you want me to delete that post now?
So in that case, it seems completely illegal to me. But I’m just a pinko commie from California. Who doesn’t much understand how things work in the South.
Can they really get away with doing that?
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Post by mollycoddle on Jan 22, 2022 2:07:06 GMT
How on earth is this legal?
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Post by papercrafteradvocate on Jan 22, 2022 2:09:23 GMT
Typical Christ-like behavior, right?
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Post by lizacreates on Jan 22, 2022 2:09:34 GMT
OK, thanks. I just wanted to make sure there weren’t retractions or unsubstantiated claims or something. Do you want me to delete that post now? So in that case, it seems completely illegal to me. But I’m just a pinko commie from California. Who doesn’t much understand how things work in the South. Can they really get away with doing that? Yes. Protected by the First Amendment. Sad, but true. Do you remember the Philadelphia case in the SC last year? The city stopped using a Catholic agency because the agency refused to cater to LGBTQ couples because of their religion. The agency prevailed. Unanimous decision by SC.
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Post by mollycoddle on Jan 22, 2022 2:14:21 GMT
WaPo-I left out a few paragraphs, but these are the important bits. I can’t link the article because my subscriber info is on the link.
“ On Wednesday, the Rutan-Rams, along with six others, sued the Department of Children’s Services and its commissioner, Jennifer Nichols, claiming it violated the couple’s rights to religious freedom and equal protection in the Tennessee Constitution by using state funds to support agencies that discriminate based on religious beliefs. “It’s infuriating to learn our tax dollars are funding discrimination against us,” Gabriel Rutan-Ram said in a news release from the Tennessee chapter of Americans United for Separation of Church and State. “If an agency is getting tax money to provide a service, then everyone should be served — it shouldn’t matter whether you’re Jewish, Catholic or an atheist. We’re all citizens of Tennessee, regardless of our religion.” The Tennessee Department of Children’s Services and the Alliance Defending Freedom, which is representing Holston, did not immediately respond to The Washington Post’s request for comment late Thursday. Holston is not named as a defendant in the suit.
Brad Williams, the president and chief executive of Holston, said in a statement to The Post that his agency wants to make sure that “vulnerable children” do not “lose access to Christian families.” “Holston Home places children with families that agree with our statement of faith, and forcing Holston Home to violate our beliefs and place children in homes that do not share our faith is wrong and contrary to a free society,” Williams added. The lawsuit comes two years after the state’s Republican governor, Bill Lee, signed a bill providing legal protections to taxpayer-funded foster care and adoption agencies that deny services to people based on their sexual orientation or religion. Other states that have passed similar laws include Texas, Alabama, Oklahoma, Mississippi, Virginia, South Dakota and North Dakota.
In November, a lawyer representing the couple sent a letter to the commissioner and general counsel of the Tennessee Department of Children’s Services and to Williams, Holston’s president and chief executive, explaining that the agency violated the Tennessee Constitution and requesting the department sever contracts with Holston. The lawyer never received a response, according to the lawsuit. A month later, Holston sued the Biden administration, “challenging a federal regulation that prohibits discrimination on the basis of age, disability, sex, race, color, national origin, religion, gender identity, and sexual orientation in programs funded by the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services,” the Rutan-Rams’ lawsuit says. In its lawsuit, the agency said that it refuses services to “prospective foster or adoptive parents who do not subscribe to Holston’s understanding of Christianity.”
In their lawsuit, the Rutan-Rams are joined by six other Tennessee taxpayers — four Christian leaders, one psychologist who works with foster parents and children, and the treasurer for the Tennessee chapter of Americans United for Separation of Church and State. All said they disagree with religious discrimination by state-funded agencies. Their goal in filing the case is so others “do not again suffer the humiliation and loss of opportunity that Holston’s discrimination inflicted on” the Rutan-Rams, court documents say, “and so that their tax payments do not fund similar discrimination against anyone else in the future.”
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Post by mollycoddle on Jan 22, 2022 2:16:55 GMT
OK, thanks. I just wanted to make sure there weren’t retractions or unsubstantiated claims or something. Do you want me to delete that post now? So in that case, it seems completely illegal to me. But I’m just a pinko commie from California. Who doesn’t much understand how things work in the South. Can they really get away with doing that? Yes. Protected by the First Amendment. Sad, but true. Do you remember the Philadelphia case in the SC last year? The city stopped using a Catholic agency because the agency refused to cater to LGBTQ couples because of their religion. The agency prevailed. Unanimous decision by SC. Here’s where I get confused. Why are they then entitled to taxpayer money? If they discriminate, that seems all kinds of wrong.
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Post by lizacreates on Jan 22, 2022 2:34:41 GMT
Yes. Protected by the First Amendment. Sad, but true. Do you remember the Philadelphia case in the SC last year? The city stopped using a Catholic agency because the agency refused to cater to LGBTQ couples because of their religion. The agency prevailed. Unanimous decision by SC. Here’s where I get confused. Why are they then entitled to taxpayer money? If they discriminate, that seems all kinds of wrong. Because Congress hasn’t done anything about it. I’m not even certain they can because it implicates the First Amendment. As far as I know, equal treatment of prospective parents cannot supersede the free exercise of religion. But, we'll see what happens with this case. What I've observed with such is it's usually narrowly decided, meaning it's applicable only to that specific case. It was the same with the Philadelphia one--in fact, lucyg was the one who said on that thread it was a narrow decision so its import was extremely limited.
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Post by lucyg on Jan 22, 2022 5:53:25 GMT
Here’s where I get confused. Why are they then entitled to taxpayer money? If they discriminate, that seems all kinds of wrong. Because Congress hasn’t done anything about it. I’m not even certain they can because it implicates the First Amendment. As far as I know, equal treatment of prospective parents cannot supersede the free exercise of religion. But, we'll see what happens with this case. What I've observed with such is it's usually narrowly decided, meaning it's applicable only to that specific case. It was the same with the Philadelphia one--in fact, lucyg was the one who said on that thread it was a narrow decision so its import was extremely limited. meh. I’m old and I don’t remember that. Thanks for explaining it to us. I am still stunned. I mean, I understand that their church-affiliated service can run their business the way they want … but how can the state possibly be required to fund that kind of discrimination? Withdrawing taxpayer money doesn’t muzzle them, it just means the rest of us don’t have to pay for it.
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Post by Deleted on Jan 22, 2022 14:36:44 GMT
Can they really get away with doing that? In good ole boy Tennessee, they can! How on earth is this legal? A law passed in 2020 says faith-based, taxpayer-funded licensing agencies don't have to do anything “that would violate the agency’s written religious or moral convictions.” So, a Christian company can get money from the state for placing children with prospective parents… while also refusing to work with non-Christian families, or even other Christian families that don’t share their "loving" conservative Christian views. Here’s where I get confused. Why are they then entitled to taxpayer money? If they discriminate, that seems all kinds of wrong. See above The ADL tried to warn us, but people don't give a f#($* at least not in good ole boy, Tennessee. atlanta.adl.org/news/adl-deeply-troubled-by-passage-of-discriminatory-tennessee-adoption-bill/PS - If you're sick of this sh(#$*3 please donate to groups like AU or FFRF, so we don't all have to live under the same brand of "loving" Christianity as Tennessee. www.au.org/get-involved/donate/formffrf.org/donate
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Post by mollycoddle on Jan 22, 2022 14:41:21 GMT
Can they really get away with doing that? In good ole boy Tennessee, they can! How on earth is this legal? A law passed in 2020 says faith-based, taxpayer-funded licensing agencies don't have to do anything “that would violate the agency’s written religious or moral convictions.” So, a Christian company can get money from the state for placing children with prospective parents… while also refusing to work with non-Christian families, or even other Christian families that don’t share their "loving" conservative Christian views. Here’s where I get confused. Why are they then entitled to taxpayer money? If they discriminate, that seems all kinds of wrong. See above The ADL tried to warn us, but people don't give a f#($* at least not in good ole boy, Tennessee. atlanta.adl.org/news/adl-deeply-troubled-by-passage-of-discriminatory-tennessee-adoption-bill/PS - If you're sick of this sh(#$*3 please donate to groups like AU or FFRF, so we don't all have to live under the same brand of "loving" Christianity as Tennessee. www.au.org/get-involved/donate/formffrf.org/donateI had no idea, and frankly, the idea of taxpayer dollars going to these pinheads makes me furious. I respect religion, but I have to wonder why examples keep popping up of people who profess to be very religious using their religion like a club.
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Post by elaine on Jan 22, 2022 15:08:58 GMT
If they were a privately funded organization, they apparently can serve who they please (even though I don’t agree with it - it IS discrimination of a protected class).
I strongly disagree with having taxpayer dollars - including JEWISH taxpayer dollars - going to fund that. I simply don’t understand how potentially Jewish money is good enough for them to take and spend, but that Jewish parents aren’t good enough to adopt children.
It horrifies me that the agency has somehow twisted what Christian values are into supporting keeping a child in foster care rather than allowing a loving couple - who clearly WANT TO GIVE HIM A FAMILY - to adopt him. If Christ were alive and walking the earth, I’m fairly confident that wouldn’t be a stance that he would support - having been raised in a Jewish family himself. I guess that Joseph and Mary - Jews - wouldn’t be allowed to adopt from that agency either, because they wouldn’t be good enough.
As a Jew, I want to take the Old Testament back from Christians. It was ours first - we wrote it, and since many “Christians” don’t understand that and that Judaism is based on it, just give it back to us, stop claiming it as yours, and stop using it.
I’m sick of the anti-Semitism that is growing more and more blatant in the US right now.
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Post by Skellinton on Jan 22, 2022 16:07:57 GMT
If they were a privately funded organization, they apparently can serve who they please (even though I don’t agree with it - it IS discrimination of a protected class). I strongly disagree with having taxpayer dollars - including JEWISH taxpayer dollars - going to fund that. I simply don’t understand how potentially Jewish money is good enough for them to take and spend, but that Jewish parents aren’t good enough to adopt children. It horrifies me that the agency has somehow twisted what Christian values are into supporting keeping a child in foster care rather than allowing a loving couple - who clearly WANT TO GIVE HIM A FAMILY - to adopt him. If Christ were alive and walking the earth, I’m fairly confident that wouldn’t be a stance that he would support - having been raised in a Jewish family himself. I guess that Joseph and Mary - Jews - wouldn’t be allowed to adopt from that agency either, because they wouldn’t be good enough. As a Jew, I want to take the Old Testament back from Christians. It was ours first - we wrote it, and since many “Christians” don’t understand that and that Judaism is based on it, just give it back to us, stop claiming it as yours, and stop using it. I’m sick of the anti-Semitism that is growing more and more blatant in the US right now. I completely agree with you, and as a Christian I hate what people are doing in the name of Christianity. The things happening are 100% against what I was raised Christianity is and not at all what Jesus believed or taught. I am positive thar Jesus wants all children to have a loving home where they are cared for and he does not care what religion the parents are.
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Post by RosieKat on Jan 22, 2022 16:20:50 GMT
Well, don't you all remember that chapter in Matthew where Jesus said "I don't care if a kid has to live in the streets, make sure they don't live with someone of a different religion! That's far and above the most important thing, way more important than making a kid feel safe and loved. Why on EARTH would you think I would support crap like that?"
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Post by ckeene on Jan 22, 2022 16:26:08 GMT
Wait until they hear that Jesus was Jewish…
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Post by pinklady on Jan 22, 2022 16:41:04 GMT
Religion, the root of all that is evil in the world.
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Post by MalleyCat on Jan 22, 2022 16:47:45 GMT
So, unless you say that you are Christian, they won't work with you? I wonder if you marked "none" under religion, would they accept you and then try to get you to be Christian?
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Post by MalleyCat on Jan 22, 2022 16:50:10 GMT
Well, don't you all remember that chapter in Matthew where Jesus said "I don't care if a kid has to live in the streets, make sure they don't live with someone of a different religion! That's far and above the most important thing, way more important than making a kid feel safe and loved. Why on EARTH would you think I would support crap like that?" Yikes! Makes me happy that I never read the Bible! 😬
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Post by lizacreates on Jan 22, 2022 17:48:03 GMT
Because Congress hasn’t done anything about it. I’m not even certain they can because it implicates the First Amendment. As far as I know, equal treatment of prospective parents cannot supersede the free exercise of religion. But, we'll see what happens with this case. What I've observed with such is it's usually narrowly decided, meaning it's applicable only to that specific case. It was the same with the Philadelphia one--in fact, lucyg was the one who said on that thread it was a narrow decision so its import was extremely limited. meh. I’m old and I don’t remember that. Thanks for explaining it to us. I am still stunned. I mean, I understand that their church-affiliated service can run their business the way they want … but how can the state possibly be required to fund that kind of discrimination? Withdrawing taxpayer money doesn’t muzzle them, it just means the rest of us don’t have to pay for it. Yes, of course it’s fundamentally unfair. And it only succeeds in reducing the pool of prospects. One would think the goal would be to broaden the pool so more children could be adopted. Now I’m going to say something that will undoubtedly rile. It’s not such a black-and-white issue as some think it is. A state is sometimes hampered by lack of adoption agencies, and many such agencies are faith-based. When a state or city refuses to work with an agency that rejects prospective parents due to religion, it’s not really the agency that ends up hurting; it’s the children. An agency can just close down and move elsewhere, or eliminate fostering and adoption from its roster of services. To illustrate this, I’ll use my state as an example. About a decade or so ago, Illinois passed a law that agencies cannot receive state funds if they discriminate against same-sex couples in fostering or adopting. Catholic Charities (which is huge here) opted to shut down those services instead of complying. We lost thousands of foster and adoptive homes, and thousands of children ended up being displaced. This scenario, btw, is not unique to Illinois. One could say the solution is to have more secular organizations, but where are these organizations? So, yes, it’s outrageous that tax dollars are funding agencies with discriminatory practices. But what’s the alternative when what’s at stake is the welfare of thousands of children? I have no answers.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jan 22, 2022 18:03:56 GMT
My recollection of the Philadelphia case was part of the decision was based on multiple agencies being available and funded. So to exclude one agencies that is faith based was deemed to be contrary to the first amendment and there was no compelling need for the state to not grant them an exemption. If there are no other agencies available in that area, I would think that the lack of a compelling need portion wouldn't be applicable. But I guess I should go dig out the old case to remind myself.
And as a total aside, considering the state of our foster care system, I am appalled and disgusted that anyone would justify discriminating against parents wanting to adopt for religious reasons - it's disgusting.
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Post by elaine on Jan 22, 2022 18:23:38 GMT
meh. I’m old and I don’t remember that. Thanks for explaining it to us. I am still stunned. I mean, I understand that their church-affiliated service can run their business the way they want … but how can the state possibly be required to fund that kind of discrimination? Withdrawing taxpayer money doesn’t muzzle them, it just means the rest of us don’t have to pay for it. Yes, of course it’s fundamentally unfair. And it only succeeds in reducing the pool of prospects. One would think the goal would be to broaden the pool so more children could be adopted. Now I’m going to say something that will undoubtedly rile. It’s not such a black-and-white issue as some think it is. A state is sometimes hampered by lack of adoption agencies, and many such agencies are faith-based. When a state or city refuses to work with an agency that rejects prospective parents due to religion, it’s not really the agency that ends up hurting; it’s the children. An agency can just close down and move elsewhere, or eliminate fostering and adoption from its roster of services. To illustrate this, I’ll use my state as an example. About a decade or so ago, Illinois passed a law that agencies cannot receive state funds if they discriminate against same-sex couples in fostering or adopting. Catholic Charities (which is huge here) opted to shut down those services instead of complying. We lost thousands of foster and adoptive homes, and thousands of children ended up being displaced. This scenario, btw, is not unique to Illinois. One could say the solution is to have more secular organizations, but where are these organizations? So, yes, it’s outrageous that tax dollars are funding agencies with discriminatory practices. But what’s the alternative when what’s at stake is the welfare of thousands of children? I have no answers. I ask this in all sincerity: would you feel the same way if the agency chose not to place children with Black parents? Because they interpreted the Bible to say that Black people weren’t as good as White people? Would you be okay with racial discrimination simply because agencies threatened to close if they were forced to place children with parents of color if they wanted to use your (and other POC’s) taxpayer dollars?
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Post by lizacreates on Jan 22, 2022 18:34:17 GMT
Yes, of course it’s fundamentally unfair. And it only succeeds in reducing the pool of prospects. One would think the goal would be to broaden the pool so more children could be adopted. Now I’m going to say something that will undoubtedly rile. It’s not such a black-and-white issue as some think it is. A state is sometimes hampered by lack of adoption agencies, and many such agencies are faith-based. When a state or city refuses to work with an agency that rejects prospective parents due to religion, it’s not really the agency that ends up hurting; it’s the children. An agency can just close down and move elsewhere, or eliminate fostering and adoption from its roster of services. To illustrate this, I’ll use my state as an example. About a decade or so ago, Illinois passed a law that agencies cannot receive state funds if they discriminate against same-sex couples in fostering or adopting. Catholic Charities (which is huge here) opted to shut down those services instead of complying. We lost thousands of foster and adoptive homes, and thousands of children ended up being displaced. This scenario, btw, is not unique to Illinois. One could say the solution is to have more secular organizations, but where are these organizations? So, yes, it’s outrageous that tax dollars are funding agencies with discriminatory practices. But what’s the alternative when what’s at stake is the welfare of thousands of children? I have no answers. I ask this in all sincerity: would you feel the same way if the agency chose not to place children with Black parents? Because they interpreted the Bible to say that Black people weren’t as good as White people? Would you be okay with racial discrimination simply because agencies threatened to close if they were forced to place children with parents of color if they wanted to use your (and other POC’s) taxpayer dollars? What made you conclude I was okay with all this?
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Post by aj2hall on Jan 22, 2022 18:52:58 GMT
meh. I’m old and I don’t remember that. Thanks for explaining it to us. I am still stunned. I mean, I understand that their church-affiliated service can run their business the way they want … but how can the state possibly be required to fund that kind of discrimination? Withdrawing taxpayer money doesn’t muzzle them, it just means the rest of us don’t have to pay for it. Yes, of course it’s fundamentally unfair. And it only succeeds in reducing the pool of prospects. One would think the goal would be to broaden the pool so more children could be adopted. Now I’m going to say something that will undoubtedly rile. It’s not such a black-and-white issue as some think it is. A state is sometimes hampered by lack of adoption agencies, and many such agencies are faith-based. When a state or city refuses to work with an agency that rejects prospective parents due to religion, it’s not really the agency that ends up hurting; it’s the children. An agency can just close down and move elsewhere, or eliminate fostering and adoption from its roster of services. To illustrate this, I’ll use my state as an example. About a decade or so ago, Illinois passed a law that agencies cannot receive state funds if they discriminate against same-sex couples in fostering or adopting. Catholic Charities (which is huge here) opted to shut down those services instead of complying. We lost thousands of foster and adoptive homes, and thousands of children ended up being displaced. This scenario, btw, is not unique to Illinois. One could say the solution is to have more secular organizations, but where are these organizations? So, yes, it’s outrageous that tax dollars are funding agencies with discriminatory practices. But what’s the alternative when what’s at stake is the welfare of thousands of children? I have no answers. The discrimination in the Philadelphia case and in Tennessee are absolutely not OK. Congress needs to pass laws to stop that from happening. At the same time, we need more safe foster homes, not fewer. As someone who works in special education, I have seen some of the horrors of the foster care system. Regrettably, I don't have any solutions either.
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Post by elaine on Jan 22, 2022 18:59:13 GMT
I ask this in all sincerity: would you feel the same way if the agency chose not to place children with Black parents? Because they interpreted the Bible to say that Black people weren’t as good as White people? Would you be okay with racial discrimination simply because agencies threatened to close if they were forced to place children with parents of color if they wanted to use your (and other POC’s) taxpayer dollars? What made you conclude I was okay with all this? You seem to defend them on one level - at least appear to be conflicted. That may be me misinterpreting your words. Would you feel the same way if they discriminated against Black couples? For me, it is cut & dry in this case. I wonder if it would be more so for you if you were being discriminated against? Maybe not. I’m somewhat sensitive to antisemitism right now and am having a hard time defending allowing them to continue this practice on any level, including that it is better for the children to allow it.
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Post by lizacreates on Jan 22, 2022 19:14:36 GMT
What made you conclude I was okay with all this? You seem to defend them on one level - at least appear to be conflicted. That may be me misinterpreting your words. Would you feel the same way if they discriminated against Black couples? For me, it is cut & dry in this case. I wonder if it would be more so for you if you were being discriminated against? Maybe not. I’m somewhat sensitive to antisemitism right now and am having a hard time defending allowing them to continue this practice on any level, including that it is better for the children to allow it. You would be mistaken in your impressions: Yes. Protected by the First Amendment. Sad, but true. Yes, of course it’s fundamentally unfair. And it only succeeds in reducing the pool of prospects. One would think the goal would be to broaden the pool so more children could be adopted. So, yes, it’s outrageous that tax dollars are funding agencies with discriminatory practices. "Discriminatory" would include race. Is there anything at all in my history here that would indicate to you that I'm an anti-Semite? If it's cut & dry with you, I have no quarrel with that because that's how you feel. I differ because it's not such with me as I've seen the results in my state. I asked a question as to what’s the alternative given the reality I illustrated. The reality being that it’s not the agencies that end up being punished; it’s the thousands of children. I have no answers. Does anyone on this thread have any?
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Post by mollycoddle on Jan 22, 2022 19:27:30 GMT
What made you conclude I was okay with all this? You seem to defend them on one level - at least appear to be conflicted. That may be me misinterpreting your words. Would you feel the same way if they discriminated against Black couples? For me, it is cut & dry in this case. I wonder if it would be more so for you if you were being discriminated against? Maybe not. I’m somewhat sensitive to antisemitism right now and am having a hard time defending allowing them to continue this practice on any level, including that it is better for the children to allow it. Elaine, not that she needs any explanation from me; she can stick up for herself-but I did not interpret her words that way. My interpretation was that at the present time, there does not seem to be any effective way of fighting these agencies. When given an ultimatum, they fold their tents and leave town. If we ever get a decent SC, maybe something could be done about this reprehensible practice. You are two of my favorite Peas, and I hope that the above does not offend either of you.
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Post by MissBianca on Jan 22, 2022 19:27:54 GMT
Wait until they hear that Jesus was Jewish… Oh they know but they spin the story. I’m reading a book based during WWII and the conversation between a resistance fighter and a German commander comes to mind. He talks about how Jesus overcame his “disability” of being Jewish and that it was the lords work. I was like holy crap that’s exactly what so make Catholics I know believe. They actually think that Judaism or any other religion is a disability or some obstacle to overcome. So I’m not surprised a Catholic or Christian charity would think they are above everyone else. My daughter asked the religion teacher why they didn’t learn about other religions and you would have thought my DD had slapped the teacher across the face. There is no other religion according to her teacher.
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Post by mollycoddle on Jan 22, 2022 19:31:20 GMT
What made you conclude I was okay with all this? You seem to defend them on one level - at least appear to be conflicted. That may be me misinterpreting your words. Would you feel the same way if they discriminated against Black couples? For me, it is cut & dry in this case. I wonder if it would be more so for you if you were being discriminated against? Maybe not. I’m somewhat sensitive to antisemitism right now and am having a hard time defending allowing them to continue this practice on any level, including that it is better for the children to allow it. Elaine, not that she needs any explanation from me; she can stick up for herself-but I did not interpret her words that way. My interpretation was that at the present time, there does not seem to be any effective way of fighting these agencies. When given an ultimatum, they fold their tents and leave town. If we ever get a decent SC, maybe something could be done about this reprehensible practice. You are two of my favorite Peas, and I hope that the above does not offend either of you.
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