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Post by kluski on May 10, 2022 0:59:26 GMT
Why would a grown woman (30s, mom of two) still wear clothing with her sorority’s name on it? Like all.the.time. Sweaters, scarves, shirts, etc Admittedly, I was not part of a sorority. I didn’t have the funds or time for extras. I just didn’t think it lasted beyond college and the occasional get togethers.
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Post by Deleted on May 10, 2022 1:14:16 GMT
Because she wants to? Because she had a fun time? Because she is proud of her sorority and what they did? Because she still has ties to them and helps out or attends events?
It is the same as someone wearing college gear or football gear or baseball gear all the time.
To each their own.
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Post by Deleted on May 10, 2022 1:15:23 GMT
Or Star Wars gear or HP or DC comic stuff.
We all have our own style.
I have a dear friend who is still VERY involved in his frat. And he is 46 yrs old. He travels to Florida for lots of events and to help out.
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Post by caangel on May 10, 2022 1:20:34 GMT
Because she is still a member (the one that I know of are lifetime commitments), have good memories and may still be involved.
I'm in my 40s and have been a volunteer since 4 yrs after I graduated. I currently hold an advisor position for a local chapter and an Fraternity-wide position (we are a women's fraternity because we we started before the word sorority was coined).
I do occasionally wear/have things with my sorority name on them, have a sticker on my car, water bottle and laptop. And I have several tote bags that I use frequently for different tasks.
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Post by myshelly on May 10, 2022 1:34:57 GMT
Because she’s still a member.
The point of joining a sorority is to have life long connections. Even after college graduation, you can be active in your sorority. They perform many charity functions, social functions, etc.
No different than continuing to support your college after you graduate.
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Post by lindas on May 10, 2022 1:49:23 GMT
Because she’s a grown woman and can wear what she damn well wants to wear.
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on May 10, 2022 1:56:57 GMT
Because she wants to? Because she had a fun time? Because she is proud of her sorority and what they did? Because she still has ties to them and helps out or attends events? It is the same as someone wearing college gear or football gear or baseball gear all the time. To each their own. I agree with this. I'll add same reason why people wear band/singer t-shirts. I wish I still had some of my old concert tour/band t-shirts. I tossed them when they got too small.
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Post by luckyjune on May 10, 2022 2:00:14 GMT
Not a sorority type person, but I still wear gear from the summer camp I went to as a kid. I just ordered the newest sweatshirt yesterday! It's an important place for me, even as an adult. The girls I met there when I was a kid are still my friends, even though we are scattered around the world. The sorority person you described might feel that same connection with her experience.
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Post by ~summer~ on May 10, 2022 2:33:52 GMT
Well I’ll agree with you - I was in a sorority and have never worn my letters after graduation- and even in college people didn’t really wear their letters other than the t-shirts you got from mixers etc. but maybe I’m the odd one. Eta - I feel like every member in my family (sister, mom, cousins) were in sororities and no one would wear their letters.
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Post by cecilia on May 10, 2022 2:36:26 GMT
Because she’s still a member. The point of joining a sorority is to have life long connections. Even after college graduation, you can be active in your sorority. They perform many charity functions, social functions, etc. No different than continuing to support your college after you graduate. This. I sold a frat tie to a lady. She was buying it for her Dad as a gift. Assuming he wore it to frat functions because she was very picky about stains, etc.
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Post by auntkelly on May 10, 2022 3:18:17 GMT
The woman is free to wear whatever she wants, but I think it’s a little odd for a woman in her thirties to be wearing clothes with the sorority name or Greek letters on it. I was in a sorority and I haven’t owned any clothing with the sorority name or Greek letters on it since college. I’m fairly active in my alumni group and a few members wear their pins to alumni meetings, but I don’t know anyone who regularly wears clothing w/ the sorority name or Greek letters on it.
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Post by jeremysgirl on May 10, 2022 10:02:57 GMT
I agree with myshelly and @sunnycamom that this is no different than wearing your college gear after college. I have a T-shirt that was MSU alumni. I also have one that says MSU political science, my major there. This post is very timely as I just saw a pic of one of my sorority sisters wearing her letters and I honestly thought to myself that I ought to buy a new shirt. I have no idea what happened to all my letter shirts. I had no idea people would think it's weird to wear them.
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Post by peaname on May 10, 2022 10:50:14 GMT
It would not be typical in my experience I’m well over 30 but I don’t remember ever seeing a woman wearing Greek letters. We all seek to be in community with others though so perhaps that’s her motivation.
Why don’t you like her?
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Post by J u l e e on May 10, 2022 11:06:18 GMT
Maybe it’s the “all the time” thing that makes it odd. I know a guy in his 50s who wears Ohio State clothes almost every day. Team jerseys, hats, shirts, sweatshirts. I doubt it would even be noticeable otherwise because lots of people wear OSU items, but he truly wears something almost daily. (Regular disclaimers that he can wear whatever he wants, I am not judging him, he is a nice person, etc.)
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Post by artbabe on May 10, 2022 11:23:59 GMT
Maybe it’s the “all the time” thing that makes it odd. I know a guy in his 50s who wears Ohio State clothes almost every day. Team jerseys, hats, shirts, sweatshirts. I doubt it would even be noticeable otherwise because lots of people wear OSU items, but he truly wears something almost daily. (Regular disclaimers that he can wear whatever he wants, I am not judging him, he is a nice person, etc.) I received my bachelor degrees from Ohio University. I've heard this saying: I got my OU shirt because I went to Ohio University. You got your Ohio State shirt because you went to Walmart. I actually have my master's degree from "The" Ohio State University but I guarantee that a large percentage of the people wearing Ohio State shirts never went there. The Ohio State worship is nuts around here (Columbus). And on topic- I think wearing sorority letters is a bit weird but I think being in a sorority is pretty weird. I've just never been a fan. But everyone can wear what they want. If that is important to you, go for it.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on May 10, 2022 12:02:04 GMT
I wasn’t in a sorority but I think it is a little strange to be frequently wearing sorority letters or clothing well after college. But I also don’t wear school gear (hardly even did that in college). Heck I have a ton of our high school sports gear since my kids are in sports, but I only wear it to games. I also would not ever dress up in Star Wars, Harry Potter or other costumes unless my life depended on it. To each their own, but it seems a little strange to me and like the woman is stuck in her college days.
ETA that I don’t see a problem with buying a college or pro team shirt at Walmart or any other store. It’s not like it’s an exclusive gift that you get when you graduate and someone is faking that. They have sports teams that people support. All of that support is beneficial for the school (whether directly or indirectly).
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Post by peabay on May 10, 2022 12:19:00 GMT
I was a very happy member of a sorority but I haven't worn gear since college. My guess is maybe she still works/volunteers for them in some capacity?
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Post by Megan on May 10, 2022 12:19:48 GMT
Maybe it’s the “all the time” thing that makes it odd. I know a guy in his 50s who wears Ohio State clothes almost every day. Team jerseys, hats, shirts, sweatshirts. I doubt it would even be noticeable otherwise because lots of people wear OSU items, but he truly wears something almost daily. (Regular disclaimers that he can wear whatever he wants, I am not judging him, he is a nice person, etc.) I received my bachelor degrees from Ohio University. I've heard this saying: I got my OU shirt because I went to Ohio University. You got your Ohio State shirt because you went to Walmart. I actually have my master's degree from "The" Ohio State University but I guarantee that a large percentage of the people wearing Ohio State shirts never went there. The Ohio State worship is nuts around here (Columbus). And on topic- I think wearing sorority letters is a bit weird but I think being in a sorority is pretty weird. I've just never been a fan. But everyone can wear what they want. If that is important to you, go for it. People here will say "Walmart Wolverine" but 🤷♀️ I got in to Michigan but couldn't afford it (and I'm glad now to have not spent the money 🤣). Even if people didn't apply/get accepted I can't imagine caring that much about someone else's clothing choice.
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Post by Laurie on May 10, 2022 14:04:21 GMT
I wasn't in to sorority's when I went to college. DD started her first year of college this year and the second semester she decided to join one. She knew I didn't think much of sorority's so she was reluctant to talk to me about it. I told her my feelings about them but I would support her if she wanted to join one. Honestly, it ended up being the best thing for her. There have been significant changes in her these last few months that are attributed to her joining. I regret not having a more open discussion with her at the beginning of the year rather than projecting my feelings on to her. It was a lesson learned for me that my feelings and opinions don't need to be hers as well.
All that to say that I now have a shirt with their sorority name on it because of one of their fundraisers. Maybe some of them are like that or does she have a daughter in that sorority currently.
I guess I don't analyze what people are wearing enough to notice. Now that I think about it though there are a few people I know that wear there alma mater all the time but it doesn't bother me. I think this is the same.
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Post by maryland on May 10, 2022 14:29:55 GMT
I received my bachelor degrees from Ohio University. I've heard this saying: I got my OU shirt because I went to Ohio University. You got your Ohio State shirt because you went to Walmart. I actually have my master's degree from "The" Ohio State University but I guarantee that a large percentage of the people wearing Ohio State shirts never went there. The Ohio State worship is nuts around here (Columbus). And on topic- I think wearing sorority letters is a bit weird but I think being in a sorority is pretty weird. I've just never been a fan. But everyone can wear what they want. If that is important to you, go for it. People here will say "Walmart Wolverine" but 🤷♀️ I got in to Michigan but couldn't afford it (and I'm glad now to have not spent the money 🤣). Even if people didn't apply/get accepted I can't imagine caring that much about someone else's clothing choice. I agree! I love to see people wear gear from my university! I don't care if they went there or not. We love our fans. I don't live in the state where I went to college. If I see someone wearing something with my university name, I sometimes go over and talk to them.
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Post by JustCallMeMommy on May 10, 2022 15:10:36 GMT
Honestly, a good 75% of my t-shirts are still sorority t-shirts. I don't often wear them out of the house, but we do have a symbol that is used very commonly in clothing and decor, and I won't hesitate to wear that.
I've been involved - actually involved, not just a member - since 1991. I've been in a collegiate chapter; three advisory chapter roles, including a long-term chapter advisor position; alumnae chapter member and officer; local Panhellenic delegate, and I am involved at a national level. Since I know so many members of my sorority (and others), I also know the ones who live and breathe the organization and consider it part of their identity - the organization's biggest cheerleaders. Every group has them, from political groups to civic organizations, to sororities. I always say, you get out of anything what you put into it, and no matter how we express it, those of us who put a lot in get a lot out..
Also, this time of year, if their group still does recommendations, they may be trying to make sure senior girls and moms know she can write them a letter, and it is a good recruiting tool for new alumnae members for your alumnae chapter, because people constantly approach you when you wear something so obvious.
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Post by Deleted on May 10, 2022 15:12:54 GMT
I received my bachelor degrees from Ohio University. I've heard this saying: I got my OU shirt because I went to Ohio University. You got your Ohio State shirt because you went to Walmart. I actually have my master's degree from "The" Ohio State University but I guarantee that a large percentage of the people wearing Ohio State shirts never went there. The Ohio State worship is nuts around here (Columbus). And on topic- I think wearing sorority letters is a bit weird but I think being in a sorority is pretty weird. I've just never been a fan. But everyone can wear what they want. If that is important to you, go for it. People here will say "Walmart Wolverine" but 🤷♀️ I got in to Michigan but couldn't afford it (and I'm glad now to have not spent the money 🤣). Even if people didn't apply/get accepted I can't imagine caring that much about someone else's clothing choice. I got in too and also could not afford to attend. They are my college football team and I proudly wear gear. Same with the KC Chiefs and LA Angels. During football season the majority of what I wear is football logo gear.
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Post by disneypal on May 10, 2022 15:17:03 GMT
Because she’s still a member. The point of joining a sorority is to have life long connections. Even after college graduation, you can be active in your sorority. They perform many charity functions, social functions, etc. Agree - this is what I was going to say as well. I wasn't in a sorority but have some co-workers that still are VERY actively involved with their sorority, even though they graduated more than 20 years ago.
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Post by lisacharlotte on May 10, 2022 17:02:25 GMT
Regarding “can I wear a shirt if I’m not a graduate”? I wear a UNL Husker shirt most Saturdays during cooler weather (it’s long sleeved). I did not go to UNL, but it’s pretty much a religion here and I’m happy to support our team. I don’t think it’s weird, people may or may not think I went there, it’s a common piece of clothing in Nebraska.
I also wear a zip up hoodie from DS’ high school. I bought it during his freshman orientation to support the booster club. I also don’t feel weird or like I’m trying to claim I went there because I wear it. It’s in support of our local high school.
I guess I’m not getting the defensiveness of wearing a shirt bought at the university as a student or at the local Walmart.
I also have a Wisconsin shirt that I bought in Madison because my friend was embarrassed that was walking around wearing a Nebraska shirt. I like red tshirts. 😂
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Post by ~summer~ on May 10, 2022 17:05:38 GMT
Regarding “can I wear a shirt if I’m not a graduate”? I wear a UNL Husker shirt most Saturdays during cooler weather (it’s long sleeved). I did not go to UNL, but it’s pretty much a religion here and I’m happy to support our team. I don’t think it’s weird, people may or may not think I went there, it’s a common piece of clothing in Nebraska. I also wear a zip up hoodie from DS’ high school. I bought it during his freshman orientation to support the booster club. I also don’t feel weird or like I’m trying to claim I went there because I wear it. It’s in support of our local high school. I guess I’m not getting the defensiveness of wearing a shirt bought at the university as a student or at the local Walmart. I also have a Wisconsin shirt that I bought in Madison because my friend was embarrassed that was walking around wearing a Nebraska shirt. I like red tshirts. 😂 my favorite long sleeved t shirt for working out and lounging is a University of Minnesota t shirt. I also have various Wisconsin gear from visiting (and my brother went there - my kids decided the Midwest was too far and too cold lol) Today I ran in a university of Oregon visor. I rarely if ever wear anything from my alma mater.
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Post by tuva42 on May 10, 2022 19:13:43 GMT
Here's the thing, some women are more active in their sorority alumni groups than they even were as a collegiate member. I recently held a private painting class for ladies from a sorority. They were all in their 30's-50's and they all had the shirts, the purses, the jewelry, everything representing their sorority. This sorority was their social life. They also worked very hard on philanthropy with the alumni group, raising money for scholarships and supporting the collegiate members. They were so fun to work with.
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Post by janeliz on May 10, 2022 20:14:43 GMT
My assumption would be that she’s still actively involved in the national organization in some way.
I don’t think it’s odd that you noticed and wonder about it.
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