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Post by elaine on May 17, 2022 23:58:53 GMT
Wait...on the old board, did Ashley work as a researcher? Yes.
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Post by Skellinton on May 18, 2022 0:01:38 GMT
I have an Ashley adjacent question, on those threads River posted about possibly needing a restraining order on her ex. Shortly after those posts she posted about eloping (not her ex- just for clarity) and never posted again. Does anyone have any contact with her?
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Post by chaosisapony on May 18, 2022 1:37:36 GMT
Is our Ashley the same person as Biochemipea on the old Two Peas? I've been thinking about some of the peas that never really became active here lately. Biochemipea, Burning Feather, it's been a while since we've heard from Free Bird. I know there are others that I can't remember the user names too. I feel like we lost a lot of unique voices.
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pinklady
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Post by pinklady on May 18, 2022 2:12:43 GMT
Is our Ashley the same person as Biochemipea on the old Two Peas? I've been thinking about some of the peas that never really became active here lately. Biochemipea, Burning Feather, it's been a while since we've heard from Free Bird. I know there are others that I can't remember the user names too. I feel like we lost a lot of unique voices. The right wing voices who left could dish it out but couldn’t take it.
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on May 18, 2022 2:21:44 GMT
Is our Ashley the same person as Biochemipea on the old Two Peas? I've been thinking about some of the peas that never really became active here lately. Biochemipea, Burning Feather, it's been a while since we've heard from Free Bird. I know there are others that I can't remember the user names too. I feel like we lost a lot of unique voices. The right wing voices who left could dish it out but couldn’t take it. Dang. I’m gonna call you out right now for being “nasty” to people. Chill out.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on May 18, 2022 2:26:52 GMT
Is our Ashley the same person as Biochemipea on the old Two Peas? I've been thinking about some of the peas that never really became active here lately. Biochemipea, Burning Feather, it's been a while since we've heard from Free Bird. I know there are others that I can't remember the user names too. I feel like we lost a lot of unique voices. I’m pretty sure Ashley was biochempea.
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Post by Delta Dawn on May 18, 2022 2:55:49 GMT
I talk to her maybe 5x week. We are pretty good friends. I just wish we lived closer. wow 5 times per week? I don’t talk to anyone on the phone even once a week. Yeah about men and cannabis and life. I will probably talk to her tomorrow.
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pinklady
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Post by pinklady on May 18, 2022 3:02:49 GMT
The right wing voices who left could dish it out but couldn’t take it. Dang. I’m gonna call you out right now for being “nasty” to people. Chill out. 🤣😂🤣 touched a nerve. Go hand slap someone else.
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on May 18, 2022 4:46:46 GMT
Dang. I’m gonna call you out right now for being “nasty” to people. Chill out. 🤣😂🤣 touched a nerve. Go hand slap someone else. I’ve been around long enough to know you are not nice quite a bit of the time. No hand slap given. Just calling out BS when I see it. Try being nice. It’s awesome.
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Post by mcjunkin on May 18, 2022 12:34:29 GMT
I have an Ashley adjacent question, on those threads River posted about possibly needing a restraining order on her ex. Shortly after those posts she posted about eloping (not her ex- just for clarity) and never posted again. Does anyone have any contact with her? Is she the one who asked about quick weight loss to fit into her dress? I thought she had posted some after she eloped. Maybe I have her confused?? ETA: Nope. Last post was about elopement. However, her profile shows her online March 24, 2022, if that is accurate anymore.
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maryannscraps
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Post by maryannscraps on May 18, 2022 12:43:26 GMT
I have an Ashley adjacent question, on those threads River posted about possibly needing a restraining order on her ex. Shortly after those posts she posted about eloping (not her ex- just for clarity) and never posted again. Does anyone have any contact with her? Is she the one who asked about quick weight loss to fit into her dress? I thought she had posted some after she eloped. Maybe I have her confused?? ETA: Nope. Last post was about elopement. However, her profile shows her online March 24, 2022, if that is accurate anymore. Oh yeah! She looked so gorgeous in that dress -- absolutely stunning. I hope she's doing well.
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Post by Skellinton on May 18, 2022 12:46:58 GMT
I have an Ashley adjacent question, on those threads River posted about possibly needing a restraining order on her ex. Shortly after those posts she posted about eloping (not her ex- just for clarity) and never posted again. Does anyone have any contact with her? Is she the one who asked about quick weight loss to fit into her dress? I thought she had posted some after she eloped. Maybe I have her confused?? ETA: Nope. Last post was about elopement. However, her profile shows her online March 24, 2022, if that is accurate anymore.
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Post by Skellinton on May 18, 2022 12:48:46 GMT
I have an Ashley adjacent question, on those threads River posted about possibly needing a restraining order on her ex. Shortly after those posts she posted about eloping (not her ex- just for clarity) and never posted again. Does anyone have any contact with her? Is she the one who asked about quick weight loss to fit into her dress? I thought she had posted some after she eloped. Maybe I have her confused?? ETA: Nope. Last post was about elopement. However, her profile shows her online March 24, 2022, if that is accurate anymore. I don't know how accurate that is. That is what kind of worries me. It is weird. She had posted about needing a restraining order and then posted that she eloped. No one ever heard from her again. I hope she's just off living her best life and is happy as she can be.
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luckyexwife
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Post by luckyexwife on May 18, 2022 15:34:50 GMT
Is she the one who asked about quick weight loss to fit into her dress? I thought she had posted some after she eloped. Maybe I have her confused?? ETA: Nope. Last post was about elopement. However, her profile shows her online March 24, 2022, if that is accurate anymore. I don't know how accurate that is. That is what kind of worries me. It is weird. She had posted about needing a restraining order and then posted that she eloped. No one ever heard from her again. I hope she's just off living her best life and is happy as she can be. I have thought about @river often, and I hope she is doing well. I miss ashley here as well. What happened to her on the single ladies thread was terrible. I didn't post much, but I found support in those threads, and I was upset that a few people ruined it. After the way Ashley was treated, the posts slowed way down.
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Post by MichyM on May 18, 2022 16:22:29 GMT
I popped into the single ladies thread once or twice and realized it wasn’t for me. Ashley and i do follow each other on IG.
Out of curiosity I looked at probably a dozen single ladies threads last night and didn’t see anything in them that even resembled giving Ashley a hard time. Just a bunch of chatting. Was the thread(s) removed?
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Post by Skellinton on May 18, 2022 16:28:18 GMT
I popped into the single ladies thread once or twice and realized it wasn’t for me. Ashley and i do follow each other on IG. Out of curiosity I looked at probably a dozen single ladies threads last night and didn’t see anything in them that even resembled giving Ashley a hard time. Just a bunch of chatting. Was the thread(s) removed? It is still there, Ashley posted for well over a year after that thread were she was "bullied". I was one of the peas who was arguing with her and from my perspective she gave as good as she got. I don't think I was bullying her, just pointing out that everyone was struggling and her situation was not unique or worse then anyone else's. The funny thing was that she was generally really super cautious about COVID, so I am not sure why she got so worked up at that point. In any event, I have to get back to work, but I don't think that thread was either all that bad and she posted for a good year after that, so to say she was bullied off the board for that one thread seems a bit extreme.
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Post by MichyM on May 18, 2022 16:36:55 GMT
I popped into the single ladies thread once or twice and realized it wasn’t for me. Ashley and i do follow each other on IG. Out of curiosity I looked at probably a dozen single ladies threads last night and didn’t see anything in them that even resembled giving Ashley a hard time. Just a bunch of chatting. Was the thread(s) removed? It is still there, Ashley posted for well over a year after that thread were she was "bullied". I was one of the peas who was arguing with her and from my perspective she gave as good as she got. I don't think I was bullying her, just pointing out that everyone was struggling and her situation was not unique or worse then anyone else's. The funny thing was that she was generally really super cautious about COVID, so I am not sure why she got so worked up at that point. In any event, I have to get back to work, but I don't think that thread was either all that bad and she posted for a good year after that, so to say she was bullied off the board for that one thread seems a bit extreme. Thank you. I don’t think I’m interested in investing the energy into finding it if it’s that far back.
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Post by Deleted on May 18, 2022 17:27:04 GMT
I'm glad to hear that Ashley is doing well. I do remember a thread she posted about going to a sex club that had some Peas clutching their pearls so hard they must have choked! The judgement on that thread was something to behold, I'm sure she continued posting for a long time after that though but I can fully understand why she felt the need to have a break. I've been accused of being a bully on the board a few times, it seems to be thrown around a lot and I think it's one of the reasons the board is now so slow.
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Post by flanz on May 18, 2022 18:12:02 GMT
I certainly cant speak for Ashley... but i dont think she has a problem with thin skin... and she wasnt bullied by all the peas on the board... But she did share sensitive information on the single thread that she may have regretted sharing... personal information that another pea did follow her around and post about it on other threads... Im sure she got tired of having her every situation questioned... especially during covid when a lot of us were not at our best with peaple who didn't act exactly as we individually wanted thrm too.... So i would say yes pinklady she may not have bern "bullied" but she was definitely harrassed... even after putting the other pea on block I'm sorry that happened to ashley. She is one of my fave peas.
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anaterra
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Post by anaterra on May 18, 2022 18:59:04 GMT
We just were not bringing her joy anymore..
So she just quietly disappeared... no big hair flip... or air port departure...
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Post by 950nancy on May 18, 2022 19:39:18 GMT
I remember reading the thread and thinking that while it might not have been a pile on, things certainly could have been said better. Each of us have our way of communicating and yes, we need to acknowledge that, but some people also see it as their way or the highway and cannot see things any other way. Then it sometimes escalates into saying very hateful things. I like it when people acknowledge that they agree to disagree here.
I guess I have enough people in my life who think differently then I do and while I certainly don't agree with what they think, I do know that they are allowed to think the way they do. I am certainly not right about everything that comes out of my mouth.
I hope that Ashley is happy and living her life to the fullest. I don't smoke pot or go to sex parties, but I have no issues with others that do these things and hopefully they are careful. Best of luck to her!
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Post by Lexica on May 18, 2022 23:21:45 GMT
This was all some time ago and of course, several people did talk to her at the time but she’s made her choice 🙂 Well, it wouldn't hurt to remind her that we are thinking about her and miss her being here. If she doesn't want to return, she doesn't want to return. I would just appreciate it if those that speak to her, like Delta Dawn, you say you do, can you let her know that many of us miss her here and would be happy to see her come back?
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Post by lisacharlotte on May 21, 2022 3:21:42 GMT
I'm glad to hear that Ashley is doing well. I do remember a thread she posted about going to a sex club that had some Peas clutching their pearls so hard they must have choked! The judgement on that thread was something to behold, I'm sure she continued posting for a long time after that though but I can fully understand why she felt the need to have a break. I've been accused of being a bully on the board a few times, it seems to be thrown around a lot and I think it's one of the reasons the board is now so slow. Who deleted?
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Post by Skellinton on May 21, 2022 3:38:16 GMT
I'm glad to hear that Ashley is doing well. I do remember a thread she posted about going to a sex club that had some Peas clutching their pearls so hard they must have choked! The judgement on that thread was something to behold, I'm sure she continued posting for a long time after that though but I can fully understand why she felt the need to have a break. I've been accused of being a bully on the board a few times, it seems to be thrown around a lot and I think it's one of the reasons the board is now so slow. Who deleted? I think it might be lainey.
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seaexplore
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Post by seaexplore on May 21, 2022 14:43:13 GMT
I think it might be lainey. I seasrched "lainey" and there's a new member with her name and letters after. Maybe she deleted and came back?
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Post by artbabe on May 21, 2022 14:46:54 GMT
I remember those threads and they were super mean to Ashley. I was appalled at the time. She posted stuff on the Single Ladies threads and some peas kept bringing up stuff about it in other threads. I liked the Single Ladies thread. Some people shared a lot more than I did but I liked the different lifestyles and perspectives. I hated it that some people were weaponizing what peas said in that thread.
Some peas always seem to be on the attack here.
It is the nature of this place. I don't think people are too thin-skinned. I just think some people enjoy being assholes. Fortunately there are enough kind people to offset it or I wouldn't still be here.
Fortunately I'm friends with Ashley on Instagram so I still get to see her ideas and perspective. I always have liked her.
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Post by Skellinton on May 21, 2022 14:58:38 GMT
I think it might be lainey. I seasrched "lainey" and there's a new member with her name and letters after. Maybe she deleted and came back? I have no idea. I just know she started the redactle thread and that thread shows her as deleted.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on May 21, 2022 15:30:40 GMT
Lainey’s gone? That’s weird. I would certainly miss her.
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Post by Darcy Collins on May 21, 2022 16:27:14 GMT
Well for the 50th time since the board has been so glitchy. I wasn't a regular on the singles thread as I'm happily married - but when multiple references were popping up on other threads I wandered in. I don't give a damn if you label it bullying - but people were nasty as hell for absolutely no reason on a thread to support women recovering from fucked up relationships and trying to venture out. It was easily one of the most disgusting examples of the bad of 2peas I've experienced. I hope Ashley has gone on to more supportive environments. But anyone who thinks the issue was thin skin can fuck right off. People in their sad unhappy marriages were ugly and vindictive to her as she tried to move on with her life - I have no doubt we'll continue to hear the ugly of those who have so little to be happy about in their life - they're the very first to pass off their ugliness to - oh they are so thin skinned instead of acknowledging they're just raging assholes.
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