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Post by destined2bmom on Jun 28, 2022 16:43:23 GMT
Congratulations! I know that you will be a fabulous grandmother! I have a cousin who is Mimi, a friend who is Oma, another friend who’s mother is Mommom and my dad’s mother was Nana. Gigi is cute!
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Post by grammadee on Jun 28, 2022 16:44:39 GMT
I had a "Gramma H____", (her last name) and "Grandma" who lived with us. We had to pronounce all the letters correctly for Grandma.
My mother passed away when I was a child, and my dad when I was a young adult, so no grandparents on my side for my kids. For my brother's kids, our father was "Granddad". For our kids, Dh's Baba became "Great Baba" and his mom became "Baba". His dad became Gido (Ukrainian terms)
My brother had grandkids before me. His dgk's called him "Grampa Charlie" to distinguish him from the grandfather on the other side. I liked the idea of using my first name, rather than the family name. And I liked spelling "Gramma" the way it sounds. Dh was happy with not being called "Gido" as his dad was. So we became Gramma Dee and Grampa Al.
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Post by The Great Carpezio on Jun 28, 2022 16:48:40 GMT
My mom is Grandma and my dad was Bumpa and that’s because the boys started calling him that.
Other side is Grandma Barb and Grandpa Bruce. My MIL tried changing it to grams but by the time my kids rolled around, she has been called Grandma Barb for over 20 years. So, I think that started with her first couple grandchildren trying to distinguish between grandmas who were pretty young at the time.
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Post by Darcy Collins on Jun 28, 2022 16:54:10 GMT
Congratulations! Most seem to pick their own name and sometimes the oldest grandkid doesn't cooperate and they're renamed - at least that's what happened to my mom who planned to be Grandma and the mangled version my nephew came up with stuck.
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Post by kluski on Jun 28, 2022 16:56:41 GMT
My dd was my parents’ first grandchild. My dad went with polish grandfather but my mom said it made her think of her grandmother and went with Grammy.
My brother changed it when he had a child four years later!! My mother tried to get them to use the name she chose but they refused. God bless my mother that it wasn’t a battle worth losing her son’s family over but she tells me how it hurts her to this day, 17 yrs later. It still plucks my nerves but wasn’t my battle to fight either.
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Post by scrappinwithoutpeas on Jun 28, 2022 17:00:24 GMT
Aww, congratulations on your impending grandmotherhood, jeremysgirl ! Maybe your Mom could be "Triple G" or "Great GG" and you could be "GiGi". You should get to be called a name of your choice, IMHO. We are planning for my one and only (so far) grandchild (almost 1 month old now) to call me "Nonny". I also considered GiGi and Mimi. My mom was Grammy, so christened by my oldest DD (the one who just had the baby), as she was the first grandchild and just started calling her Grammy. Well, my mom passed ~20 years ago, and that name was sentimental and special so all of our family tacitly agrees that no one else could be called Grammy. My MIL is Oma to her grandchildren - not sure yet what she'll be to her great-grandchildren. My grandchild is her 5th great grandchild, but I'm actually not sure what my great-nephews call her - possibly still Oma.
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Post by peabay on Jun 28, 2022 17:02:38 GMT
Congratulations - babies are such a blessing. That's wonderful!
My grandparents were Grandma and Pop-Pop. My mom was Granny (her choice) and her husband was Grand-dad. My dad was Pa (my oldest dd couldn't say Grandpa and shortened it to Pa and it stuck) and his wife just goes by her first name.
My husband's grandparents were Grandma S. and Grandma P. One was Sicilian (Grandma S. stood for Grandma Spaghetti) and one was Irish (Grandma P stood for Grandma Potatoes.) My mil was Nana.
So, eventually I'd like something different from all of them - probably DeeDee, something like that. I have quite a while to wait though....
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Post by paget on Jun 28, 2022 17:02:43 GMT
Congratulations! I think GIgi sounds adorable and makes extra sense with your reasoning. Snag that Gigi title! 😂
I’m not a grandma yet but dds and I have talked about it and that I can choose whatever I want. Lol currently undecided.
Dh’s mom is just grandma. My mom is nana. I also thought that sounded cute so I suggested and she loved it.
Dh’s dad is grandpa and my dad wasn’t involved - so my kids never had a reason to call him anything. If it came up in conversation he “your dad.” (Mine)
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Post by amom23 on Jun 28, 2022 17:02:52 GMT
I'm just Grandma.
We know a young couple who have certain names for their kids grandparents that are different for each side and honestly it's so confusing to remember what all the grandparents are called as the kids are too young to understand what the traditional Granda and Grandpa names mean.
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 28, 2022 17:10:34 GMT
I was a grandmother at 40. I wasn't thrilled at first but looking back it was really amazing and I wouldn't change it for anything. Jeremy's daughter has just finished her first year of college so this was a little unexpected. But to tell the truth, I am just so looking forward to it. I bought 26 skeins of yarn this morning for blankets and hats for the little sweet pea! If you have a name in mind, pick it and go, I say! It'll all shake out in the end. I just don't want to step on anyone's toes. Everyone is going to be excited about this baby and I want everyone to have a name that they love. So one day on the phone, we tried to get DD to say all different words/names. She was finally able to say Meme (prounounced Maymay), which was in response to my mom's name. My mom jumped on it, and Meme she remains! This is cute. Sometimes it is the kid that does the picking. I am Oma, which is the German name for grandmas. I am almost 100% German and Oma is one I wouldn't mind being called either. And then there’s my Aunt. She felt she was way too young for that “mom” and “grandma” nonsense. All of her kids and grandkids called her by her first name until her death. This kind of makes me sad. I look at the mom and the grandma names as endearing. My FIL was very insistent on his chosen name and refused to answer and ignored my little nephew when he called him something nephew made up. It was very odd. This is just not nice. Just not nice.
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Post by iamkristinl16 on Jun 28, 2022 17:11:28 GMT
Congrats! You will be an awesome grandparent (whichever title you choose).
Everyone in my family is just Grandma and Grandpa. I had no idea it was so common to have other names. I don't hear that very often. I'm not into nicknames or cutesy names, so will be proud to be a grandma when the time comes.
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Post by Delta Dawn on Jun 28, 2022 17:13:12 GMT
The grandmas that I know chose theirs. We have a Pawmaw, a Mamoo... we had a Gigi. I had a great grandma we called "o-granny"-- slang for OLD GRANNY. Not very flattering... I kind of want to be GiGi. Because I'm technically Grandma G-last name. So I think this might be fun. My mother insists that she be called GiGi when great grandchildren are born. I feel like she already had her turn and has her name and now it's my turn. I am a Gigi! To their dog! I love the name Gigi!
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 28, 2022 17:21:01 GMT
My brother changed it when he had a child four years later!! My mother tried to get them to use the name she chose but they refused. God bless my mother that it wasn’t a battle worth losing her son’s family over but she tells me how it hurts her to this day, 17 yrs later. It still plucks my nerves but wasn’t my battle to fight either. This is harsh. I'm sure that was upsetting. I am a Gigi! To their dog! I love the name Gigi! Hahaha! I love that they have a name for the doggie grandma!
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Post by finsup on Jun 28, 2022 17:21:28 GMT
I’m Nana. I didn’t think I would be because my mom was Nana and it didn’t feel like anyone could fill her Nana shoes when she died three years ago. My son had his baby 3 months ago and I spent the whole pregnancy trying on different grandmother names but nothing seemed to fit. When she was born Nana just felt right and my stepdad said my mom would have wanted it that way, so that’s what I am. I hope I can do even half the job she did. 🥰
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Post by fredfreddy44 on Jun 28, 2022 17:21:29 GMT
I choose Nana. My mom, her mom and her mom were all Nana as well and I like it.
But Joey has many grandmothers so I am specifically Nana Alana, which I quite like (along with my husband Grampa Joe, his namesake).
As for being an unexpected grandparents...congrats! It will all work out. We were very unexpected grandparents at 43 and my reaction was less than stellar. But Joey is a sweetie and we have him over now every 6th to 8th weekend.
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Post by finsup on Jun 28, 2022 17:25:05 GMT
I choose Nana. My mom, her mom and her mom were all Nana as well and I like it. But Joey has many grandmothers so I am specifically Nana Alana, which I quite like (along with my husband Grampa Joe, his namesake). As for being an unexpected grandparents...congrats! It will all work out. We were very unexpected grandparents at 43 and my react was less than stellar. But Joey is a sweetie and we have him over now every 6th to 8th weekend. I love Nana Alana! I also have a friend whose name I love. Her name is Colleen so her grandma name is Coco
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Post by carhoch on Jun 28, 2022 17:27:59 GMT
I wanted to be Grandma but my daughter in law didn’t like it so google grandma in Foreign language and choose Baba from Babouchka my husband didn’t bulge he is grandpa but we both grew up in Switzerland where we don’t give cute names to grandparents.
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Post by Spongemom Scrappants on Jun 28, 2022 17:29:32 GMT
Another pea-baby! How wonderful.
I am Gabby which was suggested/chosen by my girlfriends. My only grandchild so far is just over two years old and mostly just gets the Ga(h) part of it out for now. I have two more grandchildren coming this summer so the coming years will determine if Gabby sticks or I become something else!
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Post by Linda on Jun 28, 2022 17:33:30 GMT
congratulations jeremysgirl - how exciting! no grandchildren here but I think would like to be Grammy or Gramma when/if the time comes. my grandparents were Granny/Grandpa and Gran/Gramps my mum choose Granny when my oldest was born. My MIL was Grammy long before I had kids (DH was 18m when his first nephew was born) and her mum was Grandmom to several generations. My SILs choose Nana, Mimi, and Nanny.
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Post by pixiechick on Jun 28, 2022 17:33:48 GMT
Congratulations! I think it's some combination of the three. We all chatted about our Grandma, Grandpa names - the whole family. It was so fun to bat around the names. Then we used those names with the grandbabies. They couldn't always pronounce them right away, but eventually began to use them and they stuck.
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Post by 950nancy on Jun 28, 2022 17:36:19 GMT
congrats on the impending grandchild, jeremysgirl !! I thought this was going to be one of those things like 'your stripper name = your childhood street name + your first pet' or something like that, lol, and I was curious how they could come up with 'your grandma name' lol. Me too! Congrats to all of you. How exciting! My kids got a pup and they tried pulling the name that my husband's mom went by. I shot that down right away! It was triggering for me. My sons used to call me Nanner for years when they were in elementary school and junior high. I loved it. My son's wife calls me that usually too. Wouldn't mind if that stuck.
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Post by 950nancy on Jun 28, 2022 17:38:06 GMT
My mom is Grandma and my dad was Bumpa and that’s because the boys started calling him that. Other side is Grandma Barb and Grandpa Bruce. My MIL tried changing it to grams but by the time my kids rolled around, she has been called Grandma Barb for over 20 years. So, I think that started with her first couple grandchildren trying to distinguish between grandmas who were pretty young at the time. My friend's son calls his gpa this. It always surprises me to hear a 20 year old call his gpa that. It cracks me up.
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Post by malibou on Jun 28, 2022 17:44:37 GMT
Congratulations! I think I would be surprised if you weren't a Gigi, it suits you perfectly!
I come from a long line of Nanas on my maternal side. My own Nana died when I was 14. In my 30s my mom remarried and her husband's mother was still alive. His kids called her Nana, and their kids called her NanaGrand. My son called her NanaMax. She loved it and insisted that the people at the assisted living place call her that. She died on Christmas just before covid. She was 103. She had my stepdad at 16, was married before she got pregnant.
I plan on being Nana, but if the littles pick something else, I'm good with it. My Dh keeps saying he wants to be Granny, he's weird. Ds swears he will have his kids calling him Grumpers.
Ds21 had a nanny for several years and he calls her MarMar, which is what we picked, He calls her husband Pappy. Ds calls all of his friends grandparents by whatever his friends call them, and any parents that go by anything other than common versions of mom and dad are called by that name, and otherwise their first name. He has one friend who calls his dad Baba, and my Ds calls him that, and his mom is Linda. Another friend calls his mom Mimi and Ds does too. Turns out his whole friend group is this way. Well, except for me. Several of his friends go way back to preschool, and they used to call me Mrs. Henry's Mom, and that is what all of my kids friends call me to this day. 😜 They are 21 years old.
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Post by tamiq on Jun 28, 2022 17:49:42 GMT
I have 3 grandchildren. When the first was born I became Grammy because Gram,Grandma,Nonni,Grandmom were all taken haha
My youngest grandchild calls me Mammy lol He often shortens it to Mam. A lady said to me "You make him call you Ma'am?" all snotty. I had to laugh because he thinks he so cool when he shortens it.
Just yesterday he's started saying Grammy. It kind of makes me sad.
ETA: you are going to be a wonderful Grandma!
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Post by tommygirl on Jun 28, 2022 17:50:43 GMT
My grandparents wanted to be Grandpop and Nana. My brother (the first grandchild) kept calling our grandfather PopPop. So it stuck. As we got older it morphed into Pops. Now my brother has chosen his grandfather name to be PopPop!
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Post by grammadee on Jun 28, 2022 17:56:03 GMT
We are planning for my one and only (so far) grandchild (almost 1 month old now) to call me "Nonny". Is that a traditional ethnic name? My oldest dgs called both his grandmothers "Nono" for awhile. My ddil looked it up and said it was actually a common Italian (?) term for grandmother.
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Post by Deleted on Jun 28, 2022 18:04:32 GMT
My grandparents were always just Grandma and Grandpa last name.
My parents were known as Papa and Bama by dd and dn. Dear nephew had problems pronouncing Grandma and it came out Bama. DD soon started using that too. I think my dad just referred to himself as papa so the kids used that.
Dh's parents were not much involved with dd and/or died young, they were just known as Grandma and Grandpa last name.
No grandchildren here and with just one kid who has health issues and doesn't want kids/think she can handle being a parent, we probably won't have any. It is what it is. I hope you enjoy being a grandma!
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Post by momto4kiddos on Jun 28, 2022 18:19:12 GMT
The grandmas that I know chose theirs. We have a Pawmaw, a Mamoo... we had a Gigi. I had a great grandma we called "o-granny"-- slang for OLD GRANNY. Not very flattering... I kind of want to be GiGi. Because I'm technically Grandma G-last name. So I think this might be fun. My mother insists that she be called GiGi when great grandchildren are born. I feel like she already had her turn and has her name and now it's my turn. I like it! I also think it's certainly your turn. It's hard to change a name anyway, dh's grandmother was Nana and want to be G.G Name (great grandma with her name added to it.) Her grandchildren called her Nana so the great grandchildren also called her Nana.
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Post by christine58 on Jun 28, 2022 18:28:28 GMT
I kind of want to be GiGi. Because I'm technically Grandma G-last name. So I think this might be fun. My mother insists that she be called GiGi when great grandchildren are born The GiGi's I know are great grandmothers. My grandmothers were all grandma
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Post by jeremysgirl on Jun 28, 2022 18:41:05 GMT
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