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Post by hop2 on Jul 8, 2022 16:11:57 GMT
Being blunt about a topic that isn’t any of your business is still being rude.
Those are inside thoughts - inside thoughts that you keep inside your head.
Sigh
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Post by lizacreates on Jul 8, 2022 16:47:29 GMT
I have been catching up with this thread each time I dropped into 2Peas. I was still mulling over what to contribute at that point. But this morning, I had a LOT of catching up to do. And I really don’t want to be a part of this. It’s reminiscent of DarkAngel for those who remember her. It’s not a fair fight when someone has one hand tied behind their back. The OP isn’t the only one being rude and harshly judging here. I’m bothered by it, too, but littleblueberry has been a member for a long time. She must have known how these sorts of threads usually pan out. If she was already convinced her actions are justified, then why create the thread to begin with? I just don’t see the point.
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Post by pilcas on Jul 8, 2022 16:58:12 GMT
I am deeply sorry for my ignorance but what does this allusion to French teenagers mean?
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Post by mellyw on Jul 8, 2022 17:26:13 GMT
I am deeply sorry for my ignorance but what does this allusion to French teenagers mean? Well this has been something😳😳 The French teenagers, from what my memory can conjure. A longtime Pea who lived in France suddenly went off the rails in some postings, weirdly out of character. Her excuse was someone was visiting, and these French teenagers thought it’d be hilarious to troll 2Peas pretending to be her. About what I remember, that was so long ago it’s making me feel old 🤣
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Post by pantsonfire on Jul 8, 2022 17:48:12 GMT
Why is there a need to bring up what could have possibly happened with her? Why the need to dig up old stuff? That is just wrong, more so to even assume.
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Post by elaine on Jul 8, 2022 17:53:56 GMT
I am deeply sorry for my ignorance but what does this allusion to French teenagers mean? Well this has been something😳😳 The French teenagers, from what my memory can conjure. A longtime Pea who lived in France suddenly went off the rails in some postings, weirdly out of character. Her excuse was someone was visiting, and these French teenagers thought it’d be hilarious to troll 2Peas pretending to be her. About what I remember, that was so long ago it’s making me feel old 🤣 Yes, it was back in the day when 2Peas NSBR was a lively place after hours. A longtime pea suddenly started posting bizarre stuff one night. The next day, she came on and blamed it on visiting French teenagers. People were never sure whether said French teenagers ever really existed or if the pea was actually PUI. Therefore, whenever we get these bizarre postings connected to someone, French teenagers are brought up. I’m still unconvinced that the new poster is a college-aged child, I think it is either the teenager or blueberry herself. The writing style is too bizarre. And I have a hard time imagining a college student doing anything but rolling their eyes so hard that they got a headache if their mom tried to involve them in a thread to defend her on a board full of middle-aged ex-scrapbooking women. And, well, the first-hand report of the supposed fireworks incident.
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Post by Laurie on Jul 8, 2022 17:54:02 GMT
I am deeply sorry for my ignorance but what does this allusion to French teenagers mean? Well this has been something😳😳 The French teenagers, from what my memory can conjure. A longtime Pea who lived in France suddenly went off the rails in some postings, weirdly out of character. Her excuse was someone was visiting, and these French teenagers thought it’d be hilarious to troll 2Peas pretending to be her. About what I remember, that was so long ago it’s making me feel old 🤣 Was this PDR? I seem to recall her daughter was a pea as well. Leigh something, maybe? I can remember her avatar...curly hair and blue eyes. I definitely remember the thread but now the specific names are escaping me.
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Post by elaine on Jul 8, 2022 17:57:12 GMT
Well this has been something😳😳 The French teenagers, from what my memory can conjure. A longtime Pea who lived in France suddenly went off the rails in some postings, weirdly out of character. Her excuse was someone was visiting, and these French teenagers thought it’d be hilarious to troll 2Peas pretending to be her. About what I remember, that was so long ago it’s making me feel old 🤣 Was this PDR? I seem to recall her daughter was a pea as well. Leigh something, maybe? I can remember her avatar...curly hair and blue eyes. I definitely remember the thread but now the specific names are escaping me. PDR was separate from Leigh and not involved in the French teenagers incident. PDR did/does have a beautiful daughter (and son) with blond hair and blue eyes. But, yes, I think Leigh was the daughter of the France-residing pea (whose name escapes me).
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Post by Laurie on Jul 8, 2022 18:04:29 GMT
Was this PDR? I seem to recall her daughter was a pea as well. Leigh something, maybe? I can remember her avatar...curly hair and blue eyes. I definitely remember the thread but now the specific names are escaping me. PDR was separate from Leigh and not involved in the French teenagers incident. PDR did/does have a beautiful daughter (and son) with blond hair and blue eyes. But, yes, I think Leigh was the daughter of the France-residing pea (whose name escapes me). I hope someone remembers because this is going to bother me. LOL
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Post by paulao on Jul 8, 2022 18:08:23 GMT
I stopped reading at page 5, but here are my thoughts. It’s none of your business. And that is how you should have answered your children’s question. It’s none of our business. How did you raise your children that they would even ask such a question?
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Post by Skellinton on Jul 8, 2022 18:09:59 GMT
I stopped reading at page 5, but here are my thoughts. It’s none of your business. And that is how you should have answered your children’s question. It’s none of our business. How did you raise your children that they would even ask such a question? You need to keep reading! Seriously, you made it to page 5, don't give up now!
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Post by librarylady on Jul 8, 2022 18:12:50 GMT
Now I remember the French teenagers incident.
FWIW, I think the OP needs to call whichever Kentucky agency would monitor contaminated drinking water and have things checked out. In Texas the septic runoff must be away, very away from a well that provides drinking water. I know I would not want any possibility of it contaminating MY drinking water. I would want verification that my water is safe.
After the safety of the water is verified, then, OP needs to worry about her own self and leave the neighbors alone.
And, yes, this thread will become part of the "pea lore."
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Post by SockMonkey on Jul 8, 2022 18:19:37 GMT
Is it time? I feel like it's time... 
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Post by Laurie on Jul 8, 2022 18:20:39 GMT
Is it time? I feel like it's time...  I think this is a thread that we may need to bring out the Hoff. Strike that...THEE Hoff.
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Post by mom on Jul 8, 2022 18:21:22 GMT
Why is there a need to bring up what could have possibly happened with her? Why the need to dig up old stuff? That is just wrong, more so to even assume. I deleted it. My only thought was that it could be why she didn’t want others involved.
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Post by Bridget in MD on Jul 8, 2022 18:26:27 GMT
Isn't there a thread or a subredit or something called "Am I the Asshole?" - curious if she posted her original tale if they would have come to the same (2peas) conclusion....?
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Post by uksue on Jul 8, 2022 18:28:03 GMT
I'm confused- the mom is defending their choice to live like that- indicating they can afford to live differently if they choose- but then wants to take advantage of a neighbor's AC? Sounds a bit hypocritical.
I'm sure you could have dealt with this differently however. It's rare that anyone really wants to hear the truth in these situations, and I'm not sure why you discussed your children's friends living standards with them. Do kids really care about that sort of thing? ( Mine never did!)
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Post by CardBoxer on Jul 8, 2022 18:30:06 GMT
Oh this is brilliant! I’m so glad I was here for this thread. I knew ferrets are not rodents, but they definitely stink. Can’t imagine 20 of them! YES!!! Ferrets smell. I mean, really smell. Even when their anal glands are removed. I can’t stand to be in a house that has them living in it for long. I dated a guy with two of them for a short while, and I couldn’t stand to hang out with him at his place. Most ferret owners go nose blind to it, but it is real. I cannot for the life of me imagine the stench of living with 10+. Almost as bad as poop-in-a-bucket smells. www.thesprucepets.com/why-do-ferrets-stink-5191296If they smelled bad they weren’t cared for properly. Bathing ferrets just stimulates oil glands. Instead, what eliminates smell is laundering their bedding—hammocks, sleep sacks, blankets—at least weekly. We had rescue ferrets for a time and I helped provide on-line info, and helped our veterinarian distribute info on the web. He had come up with some treatment protocols and I’d write user friendly info sheets for owners or handouts for their vets. More than twenty years later I still get an occasional request from an owner or a vet. A friend wrote a definitive book about care. Most people don’t care for ferrets very well though they think they love them. Ferrets aren’t pocket pets; they need exercise and safe areas to play—and to avoid being smelly, frequent bedding washing. And never any type of wood shavings. Some dogs have a stronger odor than ferrets. I’m not posting these days and won’t be back for a while—nothing to do with weasels—so won’t see responses but I was emailed a link and wanted to set the ferret record straight. www.kindnessmattersferretrescue.com/docs/Ferret_Manual.pdf“Bathing We are often asked “What can I do to keep the odor under control? We bathe him every week.” Even altered ferrets will have a slight musky odor. Frequent bathing, however, is not recommended and will actually stimulate the production of a strong musky scent. We rarely bathe ours - unless they have gotten into something (again) and a bath is the only way to get them clean. We once were surprised to find ourselves the proud owners of a Red-Eyed Black ferret - our albino had gotten into the fireplace ashes. Our first “Black-Eyed White” was a former silver mitt who had gotten in the powdered sugar. Sometimes young kits will require more frequent bathing then older ferrets, until their body learns to regulate itself. Changing the bedding on a regular basis (at least once a week) will do more to cut down on ferret “body odor” than just about anything else.” P.S. I love dogs.
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Post by johnnysmom on Jul 8, 2022 18:35:20 GMT
Isn't there a thread or a subredit or something called "Am I the Asshole?" - curious if she posted her original tale if they would have come to the same (2peas) conclusion....? I read the AITA subreddit occasionally and wonder what kind of response the OP (aka thread starter) would get over there where there’s 4 million people ready to “tell it like it is” 🤔
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Post by LiLi on Jul 8, 2022 18:41:51 GMT
PDR was separate from Leigh and not involved in the French teenagers incident. PDR did/does have a beautiful daughter (and son) with blond hair and blue eyes. But, yes, I think Leigh was the daughter of the France-residing pea (whose name escapes me). I hope someone remembers because this is going to bother me. LOL It was Fleur
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Post by Laurie on Jul 8, 2022 18:43:09 GMT
I hope someone remembers because this is going to bother me. LOL It was Fleur YES!! Thank you!!
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Post by elaine on Jul 8, 2022 18:48:21 GMT
I hope someone remembers because this is going to bother me. LOL It was Fleur ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ You are the best, LiLi!
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Post by quinlove on Jul 8, 2022 18:49:26 GMT
I’m so excited. I think this might be my first post on a *gate* thread. And, hopefully, I’m on the same page as the jello.
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Post by picotjo on Jul 8, 2022 19:15:22 GMT
This reeks of French teenagers. And 20 ferrets!
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Post by hop2 on Jul 8, 2022 19:38:42 GMT
I can't decide if I want to nominate "Kin-gate" or "Poor-gate" as the classification, for when this thread gets added to the two-2 peas Hall Of Fame. Unless, someone else has a better nomination. AITA gate?
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Post by hop2 on Jul 8, 2022 19:42:05 GMT
20 ferrets in a hotel room?
Did y’all used to live in NJ or is there 2 such families in this world?
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Post by chlerbie on Jul 8, 2022 19:54:02 GMT
Just thinking about how this thread could have gone down differently if, when the OP was asking the Peas if she was an asshole and was met with universal comments that she was, indeed, an asshole, had just read the comments and reflected on them. This was a PVM post masquerading as an AITA post and when she wasn't validated, she instead double downed and even involved a family member, bringing her post into the realms of Pea Lore.
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Post by Lexica on Jul 8, 2022 19:54:12 GMT
Oh my. samhain34 , thank you for the entertainment! I haven’t laughed like this in ages. There is so much to comment on, but I don’t have that kind of time today. I would just like to suggest that if you come to a board like this with the intent to “school” us in the errors of our ways, at least spend a few minutes and proofread what you wrote. I was itching to get out my red pen like several other peas have commented. Was this a veiled attempt to call the neighbor fat? “She claims her family has enough money to do as they please and that they “enjoy” this life. By all means who are we to judge someone when they say these things? However, if someone says they “enjoy” being 300lbs and feel free but it is rather clear that they are miserable in every action that they take, even the most blind simpleton could put two and two together and see that something is not adding up properly.”
Here is a link to the proper use of semi colons. www.sussex.ac.uk/informatics/punctuation/colonandsemi/semiI won’t list all of the errors in your missive, but I won’t be able to sleep tonight if I don’t let you know that there is no hyphen in the word misunderstood. And the word you were looking for is nitpick, not knit pick. I’m leaning toward “Poorasskin Gate” exercising the pea prerogative of making up a new word as needed. Or we could pepper it with hyphens “Poor-Ass-Kin Gate” which would also be appropriate for this one.
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Post by Lexica on Jul 8, 2022 20:11:31 GMT
Oh, and I strongly suggest you contact the health department regarding the disposing of untreated human waste on the soil surface. If I was dependent on well water right next to a property that was pouring human waste on the soil surface to where it would eventually leech into the groundwater and taint the very well water that my family was using, I would be calling every possible authority to put a stop to that practice. I don’t know what the risk of pig/chicken/rabbit/dog excrement is to my water, but I would be finding that out too. The health department would have more pull regarding children living like this. You can’t be blamed if the health department, while carrying out an investigation of improper disposal of human waste, also contacts the necessary department to have the children removed. And in the meantime, buy bottled water!
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Post by crazy4scraps on Jul 8, 2022 20:22:52 GMT
This thread certainly took a turn into the realm of Gate-dom last night!  Definitely one for the record books. ETA: It’s only missing one thing. 
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