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Post by librarylady on Jul 16, 2022 2:34:15 GMT
Tell us about making sandwiches at your house. Inspired by this quote:
I NEVER, NEVER put butter on a sandwich. I Always use whole wheat bread. I never purchase white bread as sold in the US.
Roast beef sandwich: mayo, lettuce, meat and bread Ham sandwich: mustard, lettuce, ham, bread Peanut butter sandwich: Bread, Peanut butter, little Splenda over the PB (never, never jelly for me with PB) DH and DS will use jelly.
A treat "sandwich" --butter on bread, sprinkle sugar and cinnamon (makes a fake cinnamon roll )
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Post by ntsf on Jul 16, 2022 2:41:11 GMT
well. in nz you can get mayo on french fries...
my dad ate sandwiches every day for lunch. often brown goats cheese from norway or other cheese, or roast beast. could not eat mayo so had butter on sandwiches. on homemade wheat bread.
he was a serious climber/skier/backpacker.. he always put butter on a peanut butter sandwich.. and his theory was that the butter gave you the extra strength to make it up the trail. he may have been correct.. lived to 95.
I like neither butter or mayo on a sandwich.. maybe a hit of mustard. but never ate sandwiches til I was an adult.. I despised pb and j and my mom did not make them.
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Post by Skellinton on Jul 16, 2022 2:55:12 GMT
well. in nz you can get mayo on french fries... my dad ate sandwiches every day for lunch. often brown goats cheese from norway or other cheese, or roast beast. could not eat mayo so had butter on sandwiches. on homemade wheat bread. he was a serious climber/skier/backpacker.. he always put butter on a peanut butter sandwich.. and his theory was that the butter gave you the extra strength to make it up the trail. he may have been correct.. lived to 95. I like neither butter or mayo on a sandwich.. maybe a hit of mustard. but never ate sandwiches til I was an adult.. I despised pb and j and my mom did not make them. I love that brown cheese, we call it pb cheese, but I am the only one in my family that likes it. My grandpa put butter on all the sandwiches he made, I ate them, but never do that myself. Mayo on turkey sandwiches with ground pepper on the Mayo. I eat any kind of bread, just depends on what strikes my fancy when I am at the grocery store. Treat sandwich is crunchy pb with a sprinkle of mini chocolate chips. No jelly on PB. Honey or just PB, but only chunky PB.
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Post by grammadee on Jul 16, 2022 2:56:52 GMT
First thing to go into a sandwich for me is the butter! And please make it fresh white bread or dinner bun.
I went through all my lunch packing school days with peanut butter sandwiches. No jelly or jam. Just butter and pb.
Most of the sandwiches I ate while at work were egg or salmon salad with lettuce. I took the ingredients and made them just before I ate them.
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Post by pixiechick on Jul 16, 2022 2:59:56 GMT
Tell us about making sandwiches at your house. Inspired by this quote:
I NEVER, NEVER put butter on a sandwich. I Always use whole wheat bread. I never purchase white bread as sold in the US.
Roast beef sandwich: mayo, lettuce, meat and bread Ham sandwich: mustard, lettuce, ham, bread Peanut butter sandwich: Bread, Peanut butter, little Splenda over the PB (never, never jelly for me with PB) DH and DS will use jelly.
A treat "sandwich" --butter on bread, sprinkle sugar and cinnamon (makes a fake cinnamon roll )
My mother in law did that! Thought it was weird until I tried it on a ham sandwich - no mustard, just the butter. . It was so good that i did it for a while way back when. Haven't done it in decades, but earlier this year we paid tribute to her and had our ham sandwiches with butter for a few weeks.
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Post by pixiechick on Jul 16, 2022 3:06:35 GMT
and his theory was that the butter gave you the extra strength to make it up the trail. he may have been correct.. lived to 95. 95. Can't argue with that.
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Post by epeanymous on Jul 16, 2022 3:21:16 GMT
I only make two sandwiches.
One, a BLT, on sourdough, tons of crispy bacon, mayo on both sides of toasted bread, a thin slice of tomato, lettuce.
Two, an open-faced avocado melt, again on sourdough, with a little russian dressing or mayo, a pile of sliced avocado, and a slice of melted Swiss cheese.
That's it. I'm not really a sandwich person. I love chicken salad, eg, but I'll just eat a scoop of it plain.
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Post by elaine on Jul 16, 2022 3:40:39 GMT
Tell us about making sandwiches at your house. Inspired by this quote:
I NEVER, NEVER put butter on a sandwich. I Always use whole wheat bread. I never purchase white bread as sold in the US.
Roast beef sandwich: mayo, lettuce, meat and bread Ham sandwich: mustard, lettuce, ham, bread Peanut butter sandwich: Bread, Peanut butter, little Splenda over the PB (never, never jelly for me with PB) DH and DS will use jelly.
A treat "sandwich" --butter on bread, sprinkle sugar and cinnamon (makes a fake cinnamon roll )
The only difference between butter and mayo is where the fat comes from. Both are intended to add fat to bread in a sandwich, which would otherwise be very dry to eat with meat as the main protein. Butter - fat comes dairy/milk. Mayonnaise - fat comes from oil + egg yolks. If you put mayo on a sandwich, you shouldn't be shocked/surprised by butter on a sandwich - both condiments serve the exact same purpose. Butter, because it doesn't include egg yolks, is actually safer from a food safety standpoint. Eta: conversely, mayo spread on the outside facing faces of bread when making grilled cheese sandwiches makes for a much more evenly browned grilled cheese and tastes identical to buttering bread for grilled cheese before grilling/frying it.
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Post by cmpeter on Jul 16, 2022 3:50:32 GMT
Butter on a sandwich = yuck. Mayo on French fries = yum!
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Post by Skellinton on Jul 16, 2022 3:56:46 GMT
Tell us about making sandwiches at your house. Inspired by this quote:
I NEVER, NEVER put butter on a sandwich. I Always use whole wheat bread. I never purchase white bread as sold in the US.
Roast beef sandwich: mayo, lettuce, meat and bread Ham sandwich: mustard, lettuce, ham, bread Peanut butter sandwich: Bread, Peanut butter, little Splenda over the PB (never, never jelly for me with PB) DH and DS will use jelly.
A treat "sandwich" --butter on bread, sprinkle sugar and cinnamon (makes a fake cinnamon roll )
The only difference between butter and mayo is where the fat comes from. Both are intended to add fat to bread in a sandwich, which would otherwise be very dry to eat with meat as the main protein. Butter - fat comes dairy/milk. Mayonnaise - fat comes from oil + egg yolks. If you put mayo on a sandwich, you shouldn't be shocked/surprised by butter on a sandwich - both condiments serve the exact same purpose. Butter, because it doesn't include egg yolks, is actually safer from a food safety standpoint. I think most of us get why people put butter on a sandwich, but it doesn’t taste the same as Mayo. I mean you could put bacon grease on a sandwich to introduce fat, but yuck. Butter may be safer, but it doesn’t taste as good on a turkey sandwich to me.
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Post by Zee on Jul 16, 2022 4:01:22 GMT
I haven't made a sandwich in years, idk why but I got out of the habit of eating bread. Occasionally we do get Jersey Mike's and I eat my ham sandwich with lettuce, tomato, provolone, and oregano and vinegar (no oil).
My mom used to butter my jelly sandwiches, I wouldn't eat peanut butter when I was a kid. She probably still does butter her sandwiches. She's a big fan of butter, cream, whole milk and mayo but she's thin as a rail.
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Post by katlady on Jul 16, 2022 4:03:03 GMT
I don’t think I’ve ever put butter on a cold sandwich. Not something that is commonly done here. It is usually mayo. Now, melted butter on a hot sandwich bread is yummy! Like when they spread melted butter on a hamburger or hotdog bun before they put it on the grill.
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Post by elaine on Jul 16, 2022 4:03:39 GMT
The only difference between butter and mayo is where the fat comes from. Both are intended to add fat to bread in a sandwich, which would otherwise be very dry to eat with meat as the main protein. Butter - fat comes dairy/milk. Mayonnaise - fat comes from oil + egg yolks. If you put mayo on a sandwich, you shouldn't be shocked/surprised by butter on a sandwich - both condiments serve the exact same purpose. Butter, because it doesn't include egg yolks, is actually safer from a food safety standpoint. I think most of us get why people put butter on a sandwich, but it doesn’t taste the same as Mayo. I mean you could put bacon grease on a sandwich to introduce fat, but yuck. Butter may be safer, but it doesn’t taste as good on a turkey sandwich to me. I avoid mayo when I can because I don't think it tastes better than butter. 🤷♀️ I also prefer to make my own macaroni and potato salads because too much mayo makes me gag and makes many “salads” inedible. It is hard to have too much fresh butter on a slice of bread, IMO, however. Call me weird. When making a turkey sandwich, I will put avocado or brie on it - if possible - to avoid mayonaise.
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Post by AussieMeg on Jul 16, 2022 4:04:48 GMT
Wait, there are people in the world who don't put butter on a sandwich?! Aussies and Kiwis obviously think the same, because butter always goes on the bread in a sandwich. Always. I just assumed everyone put butter on a sandwich. The only time I wouldn't put butter on the bread is if I was on a strict diet. I would still need some kind of condiment so that it's not dry, so depending on the filling I would use a low fat / low sugar mayonnaise, or a thin scraping of lite cream cheese.
Aussie kids grow up eating Vegemite sandwiches, and you absolutely MUST use butter on a Vegemite sandwich. Likewise, one of our favourite kids party foods is Fairy Bread - an open sandwich using white bread, butter, and hundred & thousands (sprinkles).
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Post by christinec68 on Jul 16, 2022 5:00:19 GMT
I put butter on turkey sandwiches. I eat ham & cheese sandwiches without a condiment.
When I was a kid it was white bread, now it's whole wheat bread or a kaiser roll.
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Post by snyder on Jul 16, 2022 5:13:57 GMT
I had never heard of butter on sandwich bread until I got married. My mother-in law-did it. She said it prevented the bread from becoming soggy with the condiments. She said by the time a child eats their sandwich at school, the bread would be soggy. Said tuna and egg salad, jelly, honey, all made bread soggy, so she used the butter as a barrier. Thought that was interesting. I never did it for my husband. But he didn't eat many sandwiches that were delay in eating.
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Post by pjaye on Jul 16, 2022 5:21:05 GMT
Wait, there are people in the world who don't put butter on a sandwich?! Yes - me! I stopped buttering bread in my 20s. I just didn't see the point, and I never ate enough butter to leave it out but then it was always rock hard from the fridge and you couldn't spread it anyway, so I just stopped using it. I can go months without buying any butter. I generally don't buy bread either, so if I want a sandwich, then it's a planned shopping trip, and then I'll often buy an avocado and use that as the base. I also don't like vegemite therefore no butter needed for that. Occasionally I'll have PB, honey, cinnamon and sliced banana, but there's plenty of fat from the PB so you don't need butter as well. The only time I butter bread is if I am eating it plain or if it's a roll to go with soup. While I don't think butter is necessary, I'm happy to eat it if someone else makes me a sandwich with butter on it.
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Post by Gennifer on Jul 16, 2022 5:28:04 GMT
This girl from the States has never put butter on a sandwich unless I’m grilling it. And, after reading this thread, I’m pretty sure I never will.
(Also, I couldn’t use mayo for a grilled cheese. The buttery flavor is just as important as the crispness, and one can’t get that without actual butter.)
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Post by used2scrap on Jul 16, 2022 5:58:12 GMT
I add a smidge of Dijon mustard to the mayo on a BLT (sourdough); it really elevates it for me.
I only use butter on a grilled cheese or tuna melt (outside of bread) or the very rare piece of breakfast toast.
I will do cream cheese with diced dried cranberries and fresh rosemary on ciabatta rolls with roast turkey and provolone cheese.
Growing up my mother used mayo for grilled cheese and I never cared for it.
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jul 16, 2022 6:05:30 GMT
In general butter on sandwiches. NEVER mayo. I don't eat sandwiches that often any more! Sometimes I might order a turkey club when out. I specifically request butter, otherwise they put mayo on it!
Must have butter with peanut butter on fresh soft white bread.
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Post by gillyp on Jul 16, 2022 7:03:05 GMT
I think most of us get why people put butter on a sandwich, but it doesn’t taste the same as Mayo. I mean you could put bacon grease on a sandwich to introduce fat, but yuck. Butter may be safer, but it doesn’t taste as good on a turkey sandwich to me. I avoid mayo when I can because I don't think it tastes better than butter. 🤷♀️ I also prefer to make my own macaroni and potato salads because too much mayo makes me gag and makes many “salads” inedible. It is hard to have too much fresh butter on a slice of bread, IMO, however. Call me weird. When making a turkey sandwich, I will put avocado or brie on it - if possible - to avoid mayonaise. Wait, there are people in the world who don't put butter on a sandwich?! Aussies and Kiwis obviously think the same, because butter always goes on the bread in a sandwich. Always. I just assumed everyone put butter on a sandwich. The only time I wouldn't put butter on the bread is if I was on a strict diet. I would still need some kind of condiment so that it's not dry, so depending on the filling I would use a low fat / low sugar mayonnaise, or a thin scraping of lite cream cheese. Aussie kids grow up eating Vegemite sandwiches, and you absolutely MUST use butter on a Vegemite sandwich. Likewise, one of our favourite kids party foods is Fairy Bread - an open sandwich using white bread, butter, and hundred & thousands (sprinkles). My giddy aunt!!!There are many threads on here that surprise me but I had to read the opening post 4 times before I was willing to accept what was being said. I have been yelling in my head “how can you not know how to make a sandwich?” It’s buttered bread of any kind with a filling which might just include mayo depending on if the sandwich is savoury or sweet. Of course you butter the bread! It helps stop the bread going soggy and adds to the flavour. My eyes were open in horror and I was opened mouthed until I read elaine’s and AussieMeg’s posts. Hurrah. The voices of reason and elaine even went as far as to talk about too much mayo on macaroni or potatoes. Yes! This exactly. I need to go and lie down. Oh, and just for the record, when I was a child a bacon grease sandwich was a thing. Oh, again, a sandwich is known as a buttie for a reason!
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Post by moodyblue on Jul 16, 2022 7:44:26 GMT
I didn’t grow up with butter on sandwiches, and to this day, the only time I use butter on a sandwich is if it’s going to be grilled. I honestly can’t imagine butter on a peanut butter sandwich. I like peanut butter with jelly or jam, which keeps it from being too dry. On sandwiches with meat of any kind, I would normally use mayo, or Miracle Whip, or mustard, or something like those.
I will do just butter on toast, depending on what kind of bread, or on a roll eaten with a meal. Freshly baked bread is also good with just butter.
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Post by gar on Jul 16, 2022 9:11:56 GMT
Well I was going to go on a bit of a rant but gillyp and AussieMeg covered it for me Butter is as obvious as the bread! But yes, mayo or salad cream/ketchup/pickle or whatever are often welcome additions too. The bread needs to be decent...no white pappy cottonwool stuff, it has to be seeded or sourdough or something interesting and with a bit of bite to it. Having said that I'm not a huge sandwich fan particularly but growing up a standard sandwich would have been ham and mustard or pickle, cheese and tomato, fish paste, Bovril or, if we were staying with my grandparents, a sugar sandwich!!
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Post by anaterra on Jul 16, 2022 9:52:23 GMT
No butter unless its grilled cheeese... i also can not imagine mayo on a grilled cheese... even if they are both fats... they do not taste the same...
I also enjoy mayo in my potato or chicken salad...
Also just me... but i do not like sourdough... i went to San Francisco and my friend was like you have to try the sourdough... i do not like the flavor and i dont like how chewy it is... i feel like i hurt my jaw chewing up a piece of sourdough... lol of course my friend was shocked... but not a fan
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Post by Deleted on Jul 16, 2022 10:22:38 GMT
This is a bit of an eye opener and has helped make sense of something that happened some years back.
My sister in law is American, and years ago when she was visiting here in the UK she ordered a sandwich when we were out and was horrified that it arrived with butter on the bread. She took the sandwich apart and her expression was one of shock and distaste . Her eyes were wide open and she seemed that it was unexpected . She shouted out this has DAIRY in a loud voice and looked around the room at us, the staff and other customers.
I did not say anything but just sat there quietly wondering why she was so surprised and why she would have expected a sandwich without butter because that would not be normal. Anyway, the staff remade her another sandwich without butter upon request. Her husband is English so it would have made sense for him to let her know in advance if he anticipated a problem knowing different sandwich making practices.
I did not realise that unbuttered sandwich eating is a thing in the US , I just thought her reaction was down to personal preference but reading this thread I have learned otherwise.
Guess the difference is cultural.
PS. I love buttered sandwiches ! But still respect those who don’t
I forgot to add sandwich filling details - I still like fillings that I grew up with like cheddar cheese and cucumber slices or boiled egg mashed with Heinz salad cream. Other fillings I also enjoy are cheese and roasted courgettes ( zuchini ) peppers and onion. Another one is cottage cheese and dates and lastly another filling grated raw carrot , sultanas and cheese.
My favourite Marks and Spencer sandwich is Wensleydale cheese with carrot chutney .
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Post by revirdsuba99 on Jul 16, 2022 10:45:23 GMT
garCalled 'dirty bread' or 'Spec'. Often by a fire but yes, drizzled from a frying in pan too.
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Post by littlemama on Jul 16, 2022 10:55:22 GMT
I remember my mom putting butter on sandwiches when I was young (so in the mid-70s). I think it was very common among the generation before the Baby Boomers and gradually fell out of favor.
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Post by gar on Jul 16, 2022 10:59:28 GMT
gar Called 'dirty bread' or 'Spec'. Often by a fire but yes, drizzled from a frying in pan too. gillyp - this is for you
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Post by scraplette on Jul 16, 2022 12:06:43 GMT
Butter no, no, no. My mother in law put butter on peanut and jelly sandwiches. My husband tried to feed this to our kids, until I stopped it. Calling them double fat sandwiches did the trick.
We rarely used mayonnaise, until we discovered Dukes.
I grew up on peanut butter and honey sandwiches more often than jelly. My mother liked to give us local honey going tp help with allergies and irritants.
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Post by scraplette on Jul 16, 2022 12:10:21 GMT
...no white pappy cottonwool stuff Great description!
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