Dalai Mama
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Post by Dalai Mama on Aug 8, 2022 14:06:30 GMT
I never said I didn't have compassion for both parties. I said for the safety of both parties, a more controlled environment might be a good idea. That is all I said. Now feel free to keep twisting my comments into whatever shape you like. Well I hadn't responded to any of your posts before so I don't know what you are talking about "twisting your comments." I am taking you at face value. But now I'm irritated. Yeah, sure, a more controlled environment would be a good idea. It would probably be a great idea. I'm sure no one has thought of that before. Super helpful observation. I again point you to the shitty laws and lack of access in this country. And so much stigma.
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Dalai Mama
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Post by Dalai Mama on Aug 8, 2022 14:10:49 GMT
And if she was that out of touch with reality, how exactly would you have liked her to make that very rational decision not to drive? You too are rationalizing her crime. By your logic, every criminal who drove drunk, murdered someone or raped children can claim that they were having a psychotic episode so their crime should be excused. I think that is horrific logic. In general, I find it's best not to comment on things you obviously have no knowledge of. It tends to make you look like a fucking moron. Especially when you do it so vehemently.
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Post by sasha on Aug 8, 2022 14:11:30 GMT
If she was drunk, then I have no sympathy for her. If she was having psychosis, then I’m appalled at the lack of understanding from some people here who should know better. People experiencing psychosis don’t “make choices” the way people normally do. Some attitudes here certainly show why there is still such stigma around mental health issues in this country, and thus unwillingness to acknowledge and treat them. Either way, I have sympathy for the person whose house was destroyed. What if she was having pyschosis AND was drunk?
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Post by artbabe on Aug 8, 2022 14:18:29 GMT
As someone with a diagnosed mental illness that has been dealing with it since I was a child, some of the comments here scare me.
This isn't even about Anne to me. This is about the attitudes a few people on here have about mental illness. I appreciate Pjaye and Merge's contributions to this thread. Both have an informed, compassionate take on mental illness. Psychosis is a real thing- it isn't made up. Some people have diabetes, some people have heart issues, and some people have psychosis. It is a medical condition.
I get really concerned when people start talking about a "controlled environment". It is difficult to commit an adult, as it should be. The thought of someone else deciding I need to be in a controlled environment and I have no say in it scares the crap out of me.
I don't think I would put rapists in the same category as mental illness. There are bad people in the world and I don't think a lot of those people are mentally ill. We keep looking for reasons that people are how they are, but sometimes the reason is that the person is a bad person. That doesn't mean they are all mentally ill. Some may be, but I don't think that is the rule.
What she did was a terrible thing and I feel horrible for the people involved- those that owned the house and also Anne.
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Post by RosieKat on Aug 8, 2022 14:19:22 GMT
And because I feel like it needs to be made clear, while psychosis = mental illness, mental illness =/= psychosis.
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Post by QueenoftheSloths on Aug 8, 2022 14:20:19 GMT
I never said I didn't have compassion for both parties. I said for the safety of both parties, a more controlled environment might be a good idea. That is all I said. Now feel free to keep twisting my comments into whatever shape you like. Well I hadn't responded to any of your posts before so I don't know what you are talking about "twisting your comments." I am taking you at face value. But now I'm irritated. Yeah, sure, a more controlled environment would be a good idea. It would probably be a great idea. I'm sure no one has thought of that before. Super helpful observation. I again point you to the shitty laws and lack of access in this country. By quoting me and talking about "alarming lack of compassion" weren't you implying that I didn't have compassion for her? Sure, not as much twisting as merge turning my remark into "all mentally ill people should kill themselves" but you got your point across. The first thing I said was "to protect herself". I think she needs protection. So uncompassionate of me. Now, in traditional pea style, have a great day.
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Post by pjaye on Aug 8, 2022 15:03:45 GMT
I get really concerned when people start talking about a "controlled environment". It is difficult to commit an adult, as it should be. The thought of someone else deciding I need to be in a controlled environment and I have no say in it scares the crap out of me. I share those concerns. In this particular instance it (so far) seems to be an isolated incidence. Some celebs have a long history of substance abuse and going in & out of rehab...but she isn't one of those. She's had 2 public incidents - 20 years apart and the first time no-one was in any danger. That suggests to me that whatever official diagnosis she has, she actually manages her condition well for long periods of time....and that isn't someone who "needs to be in a controlled environment" She's not Britney Spears who was cycling out of control with seemingly no insight for several years. Yes some people do require long term care for the safety of others, but a person who's had one episode like this in 53years doesn't fit into that category. Will Smith acted out in violence and hurt someone else, are we locking him away in a safe environment? Tiger Woods took drugs and smashed himself up is his car too - is he in jail?
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Post by Merge on Aug 8, 2022 15:08:03 GMT
No, I'm calling you out for broad-brushing mental health issues in with criminal activity, and showing you the possible result of the *choice* to frame your argument that way. Do better. From the first time you quoted me, it was pretty clear that you were on the prowl for someone to attack. You're right, I do need to do better. At blocking you. Good. I don’t need to see any more of your shitty takes, either.
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Post by lizacreates on Aug 8, 2022 16:33:23 GMT
I can't believe the number of people arguing on this woman's behalf. Do you feel the same sympathy towards the 37 year-old nurse who killed six driving at a high speed just days before? Because the only difference it appears to be is one is a white, entitled, pampered celebrity who by the luck of the draw didn't kill people with her erratic, likely drunk driving. My sympathy is with the woman whose life was upended by someone's selfishness. With what’s been reported, I’m leaning more toward this. Just as some are speculating this may have been due to some sort of psychotic break, I suspect this was simply drunk driving. And unless I’m misremembering, the spaceship incident in Fresno in 2000 was because she was high on ecstasy. She previously said she had sobered up, but just last year she’d been videoed leaving Craig’s in W Hollywood seemingly drunk, incoherent and slurring her speech, apart from the recent drunken podcast. I wouldn’t wish the horrible injuries Heche is suffering on my worst enemy and hope she gets the help she seems to sorely need, but I feel terribly sorry for the tenant who lost everything and the landlady whose house has been condemned. In any event, the LAPD have obtained a warrant to test her blood sample.
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Post by oh yvonne on Aug 8, 2022 16:57:48 GMT
I can't believe the number of people arguing on this woman's behalf. Do you feel the same sympathy towards the 37 year-old nurse who killed six driving at a high speed just days before? Because the only difference it appears to be is one is a white, entitled, pampered celebrity who by the luck of the draw didn't kill people with her erratic, likely drunk driving. My sympathy is with the woman whose life was upended by someone's selfishness. With what’s been reported, I’m leaning more toward this. Just as some are speculating this may have been due to some sort of psychotic break, I suspect this was simply drunk driving. And unless I’m misremembering, the spaceship incident in Fresno in 2000 was because she was high on ecstasy. She previously said she had sobered up, but just last year she’d been videoed leaving Craig’s in W Hollywood seemingly drunk, incoherent and slurring her speech, apart from the recent drunken podcast. I wouldn’t wish the horrible injuries Heche is suffering on my worst enemy and hope she gets the help she seems to sorely need, but I feel terribly sorry for the tenant who lost everything and the landlady whose house has been condemned. In any event, the LAPD have obtained a warrant to test her blood sample. Ditto for me.
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Post by Restless Spirit on Aug 8, 2022 17:39:22 GMT
I’m just sorry for everyone involved. I am also of the mindset of “we don’t know, until we know”. It’s all pure speculation at this point.
Case in point - just the other day, my DH was driving back to work from a city about an hour and a half north of us. I got a call from him, asking me to jump on the Internet and turn on the TV to find out what was going on because he had just come upon a terrible accident. People were jumping out of their cars and running over to the two automobiles involved. One bystander threw her hands up to her face and backed away from one of the wrecked cars that she had run up to. People were initially trying to get to the occupants of the other car and they all backed off. My DH feared that everyone was dead. It didn’t take long before the accident made the news. A local congresswoman and 2 others were in a vehicle that was struck head-on by another car. The local police were quick to report that the car with the single occupant had crossed the centerline and hit the congresswoman‘s car head on.
However, the police jumped to the conclusion that it was the other woman’s fault. Once they finally did their due diligence, it was reported that the congresswoman was the occupant of a car that crossed the centerline and hit and killed the other woman. People were so quick to judge the woman who was killed as being the driver at fault. Eye witnesses and camera footage proved that that was false. If I was the family of the deceased solo driver I would be furious that her name was besmirched in such a way since it made the national news. All of the sympathy went to the congresswoman and the other two in her car. Where is the sympathy for the woman they killed?
I caution anyone to know all of the facts and make sure the facts are just that - the true facts before making any judgment.
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Post by mollycoddle on Aug 8, 2022 18:10:17 GMT
I’m just sorry for everyone involved. I am also of the mindset of “we don’t know, until we know”. It’s all pure speculation at this point. Case in point - just the other day, my DH was driving back to work from a city about an hour and a half north of us. I got a call from him, asking me to jump on the Internet and turn on the TV to find out what was going on because he had just come upon a terrible accident. People were jumping out of their cars and running over to the two automobiles involved. One bystander threw her hands up to her face and backed away from one of the wrecked cars that she had run up to. People were initially trying to get to the occupants of the other car and they all backed off. My DH feared that everyone was dead. It didn’t take long before the accident made the news. A local congresswoman and 2 others were in a vehicle that was struck head-on by another car. The local police were quick to report that the car with the single occupant had crossed the centerline and hit the congresswoman‘s car head on. However, the police jumped to the conclusion that it was the other woman’s fault. Once they finally did their due diligence, it was reported that the congresswoman was the occupant of a car that crossed the centerline and hit and killed the other woman. People were so quick to judge the woman who was killed as being the driver at fault. Eye witnesses and camera footage proved that that was false. If I was the family of the deceased solo driver I would be furious that her name was besmirched in such a way since it made the national news. All of the sympathy went to the congresswoman and the other two in her car. Where is the sympathy for the woman they killed? I caution anyone to know all of the facts and make sure the facts are just that - the true facts before making any judgment. I’m of this mindset as well. We’ll know soon enough.
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Post by Merge on Aug 8, 2022 18:15:29 GMT
I can't believe the number of people arguing on this woman's behalf. Do you feel the same sympathy towards the 37 year-old nurse who killed six driving at a high speed just days before? Because the only difference it appears to be is one is a white, entitled, pampered celebrity who by the luck of the draw didn't kill people with her erratic, likely drunk driving. My sympathy is with the woman whose life was upended by someone's selfishness. With what’s been reported, I’m leaning more toward this. Just as some are speculating this may have been due to some sort of psychotic break, I suspect this was simply drunk driving. And unless I’m misremembering, the spaceship incident in Fresno in 2000 was because she was high on ecstasy. She previously said she had sobered up, but just last year she’d been videoed leaving Craig’s in W Hollywood seemingly drunk, incoherent and slurring her speech, apart from the recent drunken podcast. I wouldn’t wish the horrible injuries Heche is suffering on my worst enemy and hope she gets the help she seems to sorely need, but I feel terribly sorry for the tenant who lost everything and the landlady whose house has been condemned. In any event, the LAPD have obtained a warrant to test her blood sample. If indeed she was drunk or high, then I agree with you (though I’d like to see our justice system focus as much on rehabilitation as punishment in those cases). I just want to clarify that I don’t follow celebrity drama and have no opinion as to whether she was under the influence or experiencing a mental health crisis. I just wanted to respond to the opinions that seemed to lump the actions of a person experiencing a psychotic episode in with those who made a choice to drink or use drugs and then drive. Yes, psychosis is real, and no, someone experiencing it is not capable of making appropriate choices. These people often end up in prison even for minor offenses because our system doesn’t have another path for them. In my opinion, part of the reason we don’t have another path is because too many people (and legislators) still believe that mental illness is a character flaw and a choice. My only purpose here is to combat that line of thinking. I really don’t give a damn whether this particular person was drinking or psychotic or what, and I have no interest in “justifying” what she did.
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Post by lizacreates on Aug 8, 2022 18:26:48 GMT
With what’s been reported, I’m leaning more toward this. Just as some are speculating this may have been due to some sort of psychotic break, I suspect this was simply drunk driving. And unless I’m misremembering, the spaceship incident in Fresno in 2000 was because she was high on ecstasy. She previously said she had sobered up, but just last year she’d been videoed leaving Craig’s in W Hollywood seemingly drunk, incoherent and slurring her speech, apart from the recent drunken podcast. I wouldn’t wish the horrible injuries Heche is suffering on my worst enemy and hope she gets the help she seems to sorely need, but I feel terribly sorry for the tenant who lost everything and the landlady whose house has been condemned. In any event, the LAPD have obtained a warrant to test her blood sample. If indeed she was drunk or high, then I agree with you (though I’d like to see our justice system focus as much on rehabilitation as punishment in those cases). I just want to clarify that I don’t follow celebrity drama and have no opinion as to whether she was under the influence or experiencing a mental health crisis. I just wanted to respond to the opinions that seemed to lump the actions of a person experiencing a psychotic episode in with those who made a choice to drink or use drugs and then drive. Yes, psychosis is real, and no, someone experiencing it is not capable of making appropriate choices. These people often end up in prison even for minor offenses because our system doesn’t have another path for them. In my opinion, part of the reason we don’t have another path is because too many people (and legislators) still believe that mental illness is a character flaw and a choice. My only purpose here is to combat that line of thinking. I really don’t give a damn whether this particular person was drinking or psychotic or what, and I have no interest in “justifying” what she did. Okay. Why are you telling me all this? Was I criticizing your posts in some way? I just wrote about my own suspicion.
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Post by Merge on Aug 8, 2022 19:35:15 GMT
If indeed she was drunk or high, then I agree with you (though I’d like to see our justice system focus as much on rehabilitation as punishment in those cases). I just want to clarify that I don’t follow celebrity drama and have no opinion as to whether she was under the influence or experiencing a mental health crisis. I just wanted to respond to the opinions that seemed to lump the actions of a person experiencing a psychotic episode in with those who made a choice to drink or use drugs and then drive. Yes, psychosis is real, and no, someone experiencing it is not capable of making appropriate choices. These people often end up in prison even for minor offenses because our system doesn’t have another path for them. In my opinion, part of the reason we don’t have another path is because too many people (and legislators) still believe that mental illness is a character flaw and a choice. My only purpose here is to combat that line of thinking. I really don’t give a damn whether this particular person was drinking or psychotic or what, and I have no interest in “justifying” what she did. Okay. Why are you telling me all this? Was I criticizing your posts in some way? I just wrote about my own suspicion. No, just tagging on and clarifying earlier position. Sorry if it seemed directed at you.
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Post by lizacreates on Aug 8, 2022 20:29:05 GMT
Yep. I saw that, too, on another site. It was just sheer luck. Had that pedestrian crossed a few seconds later, she would have been mowed down. Lucky, too, that the house's tenant was in the backyard. I also read she hit a vehicle: "Officials with the LAPD West Traffic Division also confirmed that Heche hit another vehicle before taking off again and hitting the house."
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Post by maryannscraps on Aug 8, 2022 20:55:35 GMT
With what’s been reported, I’m leaning more toward this. Just as some are speculating this may have been due to some sort of psychotic break, I suspect this was simply drunk driving. And unless I’m misremembering, the spaceship incident in Fresno in 2000 was because she was high on ecstasy. She previously said she had sobered up, but just last year she’d been videoed leaving Craig’s in W Hollywood seemingly drunk, incoherent and slurring her speech, apart from the recent drunken podcast. I wouldn’t wish the horrible injuries Heche is suffering on my worst enemy and hope she gets the help she seems to sorely need, but I feel terribly sorry for the tenant who lost everything and the landlady whose house has been condemned. In any event, the LAPD have obtained a warrant to test her blood sample. If indeed she was drunk or high, then I agree with you (though I’d like to see our justice system focus as much on rehabilitation as punishment in those cases). I just want to clarify that I don’t follow celebrity drama and have no opinion as to whether she was under the influence or experiencing a mental health crisis. I just wanted to respond to the opinions that seemed to lump the actions of a person experiencing a psychotic episode in with those who made a choice to drink or use drugs and then drive. Yes, psychosis is real, and no, someone experiencing it is not capable of making appropriate choices. These people often end up in prison even for minor offenses because our system doesn’t have another path for them. In my opinion, part of the reason we don’t have another path is because too many people (and legislators) still believe that mental illness is a character flaw and a choice. My only purpose here is to combat that line of thinking. I really don’t give a damn whether this particular person was drinking or psychotic or what, and I have no interest in “justifying” what she did. I'm with you, Merge. I really don't know anything about Ann Heche, other than someone mentioned she had a previous mental health crisis. I do not really have an opinion on her specific case, not to mention we have no ideas of the details other than what TMZ published. I'm just sad and angry that mental illness is treated so criminally in our society. Most mentally ill people are not violent, not any more so than non-mentally ill people. I've had a family member that had a psychotic break a few years ago, and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. It was horrible and traumatic for them. It was truly awful and difficult to get the treatment they needed, and there was almost no chance of getting them committed to a hospital without their consent. Thankfully they agreed to treatment. Their brain chemistry got out of whack after decades of their meds keeping it in balance. They're doing well now, thankfully. If you met them when their medications work, you would never in a million years believe what they had gone through.
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Post by kibblesandbits on Aug 9, 2022 14:14:38 GMT
www.latimes.com/california/story/2022-08-08/mercedes-driver-charged-with-murder-in-windsor-hills-crashIf you have sympathy for Heche because of her mental health issues, what are your views on this woman? Her attorney said she has a "profound" history of mental illness. Should she be held responsible and charged with murder? There's no proof she was drunk driving. Was she rational? I would bet most people have zero sympathy or have even asked the question about the mental health of a non-celebrity whose erratic driving caused the deaths of 6. Yo. Comparing this whole thread to the Tiger Woods shitshow thread . . . yeah. Everyone is sooooo concerned about mental health.
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Post by sasha on Aug 9, 2022 14:22:42 GMT
www.latimes.com/california/story/2022-08-08/mercedes-driver-charged-with-murder-in-windsor-hills-crashIf you have sympathy for Heche because of her mental health issues, what are your views on this woman? Her attorney said she has a "profound" history of mental illness. Should she be held responsible and charged with murder? There's no proof she was drunk driving. Was she rational? I would bet most people have zero sympathy or have even asked the question about the mental health of a non-celebrity whose erratic driving caused the deaths of 6. Yo. Comparing this whole thread to the Tiger Woods shitshow thread . . . yeah. Everyone is sooooo concerned about mental health. I just think it's interesting. If you think Heche was incapable of rational thought and therefore not responsible for driving erratically, where does the line get drawn? When people die? If Heche was incapable, was the woman who killed six capable? Or are we only giving our sympathy/empathy for white celebrities drive recklessly? What about other drunk drivers? Couldn't it be argued they are self-soothing and drinking drunk may have been caused by their mental illness?
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Post by Merge on Aug 9, 2022 15:32:36 GMT
Yo. Comparing this whole thread to the Tiger Woods shitshow thread . . . yeah. Everyone is sooooo concerned about mental health. I just think it's interesting. If you think Heche was incapable of rational thought and therefore not responsible for driving erratically, where does the line get drawn? When people die? If Heche was incapable, was the woman who killed six capable? Or are we only giving our sympathy/empathy for white celebrities drive recklessly? What about other drunk drivers? Couldn't it be argued they are self-soothing and drinking drunk may have been caused by their mental illness? My parents were both killed by a (white male) drunk boater 15 years ago, so no, I’m not sympathetic to that. He only served 7 years and I do not feel justice was done. As I said above, I don’t follow celebrity drama. I also don’t tend to follow high profile criminal cases, so I’m not familiar with the the one you mention and can’t comment on it. Again, my only intention here is to draw attention to the way people with mental illness are treated by our society and justice system. Any other inferences you’re drawing are in your own head. I’m not going to share the details of why I’m very familiar with the behavior of someone experiencing psychosis, because that’s none of your business. What I can tell you is that psychosis is not just “mental health problems.” It’s a severely altered mental state that comes on through no fault of the person affected. Is prison the best place for that person if they kill someone in their altered state? Remember we’re drawing a line between psychotic behavior and mental health problems like depression. Remember also that our prisons do not generally treat mental illness.
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Post by maryannscraps on Aug 9, 2022 15:33:11 GMT
Yo. Comparing this whole thread to the Tiger Woods shitshow thread . . . yeah. Everyone is sooooo concerned about mental health. I just think it's interesting. If you think Heche was incapable of rational thought and therefore not responsible for driving erratically, where does the line get drawn? When people die? If Heche was incapable, was the woman who killed six capable? Or are we only giving our sympathy/empathy for white celebrities drive recklessly? What about other drunk drivers? Couldn't it be argued they are self-soothing and drinking drunk may have been caused by their mental illness? Most people who are mentally ill are not having a psychotic break from reality. I would hope that a mentally ill person who commits a crime could get treatment, but that doesn't preclude them from facing their crime. Unless they have no idea they committed a crime because they were under psychosis and incapable of rational thought, and then treatment for the psychosis is appropriate. Most drunk drivers are perfectly capable of knowing that it is illegal and they shouldn't be doing it. They should serve time for their crimes, even if they have a mental illness. In a perfect world, they'd also get treatment at the same time. I can have empathy for a great variety of people. I don't really know anything about Ann Heche, so I'll reserve judgement until more valid information comes out.
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Post by Dalai Mama on Aug 9, 2022 15:55:25 GMT
www.latimes.com/california/story/2022-08-08/mercedes-driver-charged-with-murder-in-windsor-hills-crashIf you have sympathy for Heche because of her mental health issues, what are your views on this woman? Her attorney said she has a "profound" history of mental illness. Should she be held responsible and charged with murder? There's no proof she was drunk driving. Was she rational? I would bet most people have zero sympathy or have even asked the question about the mental health of a non-celebrity whose erratic driving caused the deaths of 6. Yes, she should be charged. Anne Heche should be charged. Any decreased mental capacity argument will be made at trial. And I'll take that bet, because the two positions are not mutually exclusive.
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Post by pjaye on Aug 9, 2022 16:54:47 GMT
and eye witness accounts that she seemed to be under the influence. I doubt the average person would be able to tell the difference between someone drunk and someone psychotic. As a nurse I have seen numerous times people with various illnesses being put down to substance abuse, when it was in fact a legitimate medical condition instead. If she was on a psychotic break it's not a vacation, no-one is "on a psychotic break" - people experience or have psychotic breaks. There seems to be far more evidence that she was likely drunk A bottle with a red lid and someone claiming she seemed out of it is suddenly "evidence"? A friend of mine was having a party one Saturday, she went and picked up supplies late Friday evening including alcohol. It was raining really heavily and she doesn't remember exactly what happened but she skidded, hit a barrier and rolled her car. Witnesses called the police and the ambulance. She was lucky and only had minor injuries, also lucky she didn't it anyone else. She'd bought alcohol for the party, it all smashed in the car - both her and the car stank of alcohol and she was a bit out of it and didn't understand what had happened at first & she said the police and ambulance officers treated her quite badly - until they breathalyzed her at the scene...and got a zero reading, then suddenly they treated her with a little more compassion. She went to hospital and also had a formal police blood alcohol level take, that also came back as zero. Things aren't always as obvious as they may seem at first. Also no-one has claimed she shouldn't be held accountable, or that she shouldn't face criminal charges. However knowing that she's has a past history of abuse and mental illness, some of just aren't jumping on the "she's drunk - throw the book at her!" bandwagon without some actual facts. Didn't you once claim you'd stopped being a dick and had learned not to judge others too harshly or quickly? How's that working out for you?
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Post by Merge on Aug 9, 2022 17:15:08 GMT
My parents were both killed by a (white male) drunk boater 15 years ago, so no, I’m not sympathetic to that. He only served 7 years and I do not feel justice was done. As I said above, I don’t follow celebrity drama. I also don’t tend to follow high profile criminal cases, so I’m not familiar with the the one you mention and can’t comment on it. Again, my only intention here is to draw attention to the way people with mental illness are treated by our society and justice system. Any other inferences you’re drawing are in your own head. I’m not going to share the details of why I’m very familiar with the behavior of someone experiencing psychosis, because that’s none of your business. What I can tell you is that psychosis is not just “mental health problems.” It’s a severely altered mental state that comes on through no fault of the person affected. Is prison the best place for that person if they kill someone in their altered state? Remember we’re drawing a line between psychotic behavior and mental health problems like depression. Remember also that our prisons do not generally treat mental illness. You haven't followed Anne Heche drama, but you're commenting on this thread just like the rest of us. I'm sure most of us aren't familiar with every Anne Heche drama there is, but some here are suggesting without any proof that she had a psychotic break and that she isn't at fault for her actions. The topic of mental illness (not just psychosis) has been sprinkled throughout this post with people acknowledging her struggles with mental health and having sympathy for her. There seems to be far more evidence that she was likely drunk, with what appeared to be a vodka bottle in the cup holder, erratic driving, and eye witness accounts that she seemed to be under the influence. I'm sure we'll find out more unless this is another edition of celebrity justice/white privilege. I agree that prison is not the best place for people with mental health issues/psychosis. But there has to be some accountability for someone who is a danger to herself and others. If she was on a psychotic break, maybe she doesn't have the right to operate a car and should be in a long-term treatment facility. I just find it interesting there is a rush to explain a celebrity's actions as being the result of mental illness or psychotic break but I doubt anyone would ever give anyone else that same luxury if they almost killed others. Take the celebrity aspect out of it and imagine that you have a friend or loved one who has experienced a psychotic episode. Does that change anything for you? Does someone with a heart condition need “accountability” if they have a heart attack while driving and someone dies? Or do they just need treatment for their heart condition?
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Post by sasha on Aug 9, 2022 18:25:09 GMT
You haven't followed Anne Heche drama, but you're commenting on this thread just like the rest of us. I'm sure most of us aren't familiar with every Anne Heche drama there is, but some here are suggesting without any proof that she had a psychotic break and that she isn't at fault for her actions. The topic of mental illness (not just psychosis) has been sprinkled throughout this post with people acknowledging her struggles with mental health and having sympathy for her. There seems to be far more evidence that she was likely drunk, with what appeared to be a vodka bottle in the cup holder, erratic driving, and eye witness accounts that she seemed to be under the influence. I'm sure we'll find out more unless this is another edition of celebrity justice/white privilege. I agree that prison is not the best place for people with mental health issues/psychosis. But there has to be some accountability for someone who is a danger to herself and others. If she was on a psychotic break, maybe she doesn't have the right to operate a car and should be in a long-term treatment facility. I just find it interesting there is a rush to explain a celebrity's actions as being the result of mental illness or psychotic break but I doubt anyone would ever give anyone else that same luxury if they almost killed others. Take the celebrity aspect out of it and imagine that you have a friend or loved one who has experienced a psychotic episode. Does that change anything for you? Does someone with a heart condition need “accountability” if they have a heart attack while driving and someone dies? Or do they just need treatment for their heart condition? First of all, we don't know that she had a psychotic episode at all. That's pure speculation here. There's as much if not more credence to the speculation that she was driving drunk. Does that change anything for you? Second of all, accountability to me = keeping her safe and others safe. I never ever said prison sentence. I do think they need a long-term treatment program if they are fleeing the scene of accident #1, nearly killing a pedestrian, and then driving into a house. You don't? What's your solution to this? Let's say she wasn't driving drunk and it was psychosis and she pulls through.Do you think she should be allowed to operate a motor vehicle? She's clearly a danger to herself and others in that state. At what point does her driving rights trump the safety of others? On your health analogy, if a person with a heart condition kills someone, I certainly hope there would be restrictions on driving until their heart condition is treated. My daughter is epileptic. When she was diagnosed after her first seizure (non driving), she had to be seizure free before getting behind the wheel for three months. Guess who drove her to work? Me. We're in a non-reporting state so she could've gotten into her car and drove, but she did the right thing. In fact, we even added to the 3 month seizure free guideline and she didn't drive for six months. She knows what the seizure triggers is and when she feels the slightest bit off, she will not drive. Edit: Also, thank you for your viewpoints. I know you have been through so much and I admire your strength and compassion.
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Post by sasha on Aug 9, 2022 18:48:13 GMT
and eye witness accounts that she seemed to be under the influence. I doubt the average person would be able to tell the difference between someone drunk and someone psychotic. As a nurse I have seen numerous times people with various illnesses being put down to substance abuse, when it was in fact a legitimate medical condition instead. If she was on a psychotic break it's not a vacation, no-one is "on a psychotic break" - people experience or have psychotic breaks. There seems to be far more evidence that she was likely drunk A bottle with a red lid and someone claiming she seemed out of it is suddenly "evidence"? A friend of mine was having a party one Saturday, she went and picked up supplies late Friday evening including alcohol. It was raining really heavily and she doesn't remember exactly what happened but she skidded, hit a barrier and rolled her car. Witnesses called the police and the ambulance. She was lucky and only had minor injuries, also lucky she didn't hit anyone else. She'd bought alcohol for the party, it all smashed in the car - both her and the car stank of alcohol and she was a bit out of hit and didn't understand what had happened at first & she said the police and ambulance officers treated her quite badly - until they breathalyzed her at the scene...and got a zero reading, then suddenly they treated her with a little more compassion. She went to hospital and also had a formal police blood alcohol level take, that also came back as zero. Things aren't always as obvious as they may seem at first. Also no-one has claimed she shouldn't be held accountable, or that she shouldn't face criminal charges. However knowing that she's has a past history of abuse and mental illness, some of just aren't jumping on the "she's drunk - throw the book at her!" bandwagon without some actual facts. Didn't you once claim you'd stopped being a dick and had learned not to judge others too harshly or quickly? How's that working out for you?I didn't realize that this meant I could no longer express an opinion about a major news event that affected multiple lives. Thank you for the warm welcome back.
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Post by scrappinmama on Aug 9, 2022 19:22:56 GMT
www.latimes.com/california/story/2022-08-08/mercedes-driver-charged-with-murder-in-windsor-hills-crashIf you have sympathy for Heche because of her mental health issues, what are your views on this woman? Her attorney said she has a "profound" history of mental illness. Should she be held responsible and charged with murder? There's no proof she was drunk driving. Was she rational? I would bet most people have zero sympathy or have even asked the question about the mental health of a non-celebrity whose erratic driving caused the deaths of 6. Valid point. I was thinking the same thing about the young men who have killed multiple children in school shootings more recently. It's a valid question to ask. Are we more likely to have sympathy for wealthy, famous white women? Are we more likely to have sympathy when the crime does not involve children? There definitely is bias, whether we want to admit it or not. I think peas are showing sympathy because this hits too close to home. They or someone they love suffers from mental health problems, so they have compassion for her struggles. When it's something that directly impacts you, it's real hard not to be biased.
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Post by sasha on Aug 9, 2022 19:27:19 GMT
www.latimes.com/california/story/2022-08-08/mercedes-driver-charged-with-murder-in-windsor-hills-crashIf you have sympathy for Heche because of her mental health issues, what are your views on this woman? Her attorney said she has a "profound" history of mental illness. Should she be held responsible and charged with murder? There's no proof she was drunk driving. Was she rational? I would bet most people have zero sympathy or have even asked the question about the mental health of a non-celebrity whose erratic driving caused the deaths of 6. Valid point. I was thinking the same thing about the young men who have killed multiple children in school shootings more recently. It's a valid question to ask. Are we more likely to have sympathy for wealthy, famous white women? Are we more likely to have sympathy when the crime does not involve children? There definitely is bias, whether we want to admit it or not. I think peas are showing sympathy because this hits too close to home. They or someone they love suffers from mental health problems, so they have compassion for her struggles. When it's something that directly impacts you, it's real hard not to be biased. I totally understand that element. I know we have a long, long way to go as a country with regard to mental health treatment and the stigma attached to it. That said, no matter what, it's a very sad thing and I can't imagine how hellish her injuries are and not even sure if she will be able to survive this.
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Post by mom on Aug 11, 2022 20:31:33 GMT
Page Six is reporting Anne had concaine + possibly fentanyl in her system at time of wreck. Anne Heche was allegedly under the influence of cocaine and possibly fentanyl at the time of her horrific car crash last Friday. Los Angeles Police Department sources told TMZ Thursday that the actress’ blood test results came up positive for both substances. However, the law enforcement insiders cautioned that fentanyl may have been administered to Heche at the hospital to help manage her pain after the accident, so they will do more testing to determine whether the fentanyl was in her system when she crashed. The actress, 53, was not under the influence of alcohol, reports TMZ, despite a photo taken shortly before the accident that showed a red-capped bottle in her car’s cupholder. pagesix.com/2022/08/11/anne-heche-under-influence-of-cocaine-at-time-of-crash-report/
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Post by disneypal on Aug 11, 2022 20:44:36 GMT
Page Six is reporting Anne had cocaine + possibly fentanyl in her system at time of wreck. I'm am a bit surprised that she didn't have alcohol in her system but I wonder, also, when they did the BAC test (how much later after the accident). I suppose the fentanyl could be from the hospital. She obviously was either under the influence of something or was attempting to die by suicide (or both).
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