lcomfy
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Post by lcomfy on Aug 7, 2022 14:06:15 GMT
I for many years used to crave scrapbooking with others...crops,,and group gatherings,,were hot on my list to attend.....then recently online crops..were something I'd look for and tried too... I now feel that although at the time I thought they were fun...but come to realize that its wasn;t as much....I am easily distracted....esp when in a setting with noise...
For me..its now the alone time in my scrappy room with all my goodies and tv around me that is my bliss....So am I now anti social? lol..any others are of the same camp?
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Post by kimba on Aug 7, 2022 14:09:23 GMT
I've only been scrapping for a few years. I've never been to a RL crop or even tried a Zoom crop. I think they would be very distracting, I would be looking at everyone's else stuff and asking questions. I can scrap with a YT video on, I like that because I can pause or stop a section.
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paget
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Post by paget on Aug 7, 2022 14:30:20 GMT
I don’t enjoy scrapping with others. Back in the day, like 25 years ago, I’d occasionally go to some evening crops with my bff and that was ok but honestly, I prefer scrapping alone at home.
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Post by amp on Aug 7, 2022 15:15:29 GMT
I don’t enjoy scrapping with others. Back in the day, like 25 years ago, I’d occasionally go to some evening crops with my bff and that was ok but honestly, I prefer scrapping alone at home. Same. And with as little time that I have now to scrap, I need to make the most of it. Also, I think I'm more creative when I'm alone with my thoughts.
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Elsabelle
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Post by Elsabelle on Aug 7, 2022 15:16:14 GMT
I feel the exact same way. I do much better and feel so much more comfortable at home.
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basketdiva
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Post by basketdiva on Aug 7, 2022 15:19:20 GMT
I enjoy cardmaking/scrapping with 1 or 2 people-so long as I have lots of room. My friend will set up 3 tables in her basement so we can each spread out. One table is for cutting machine,etc. Works for me a few times a year.
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Post by Linda on Aug 7, 2022 15:23:58 GMT
I like the kind of online crops where challenges are posted and chat is on FB or a thread here. I've done some virtual online crops here that are live - they're fun but a bit draining. I do find I get quite a bit done because I'm not distracted.
But in general, yes - quiet alone time at my scrapbook desk is my thing
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leeny
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Post by leeny on Aug 7, 2022 15:32:45 GMT
I've come to like cropping by myself at home or in a hotel or cabin while dh goes fishing. No pressure or distractions.
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Post by cmpeter on Aug 7, 2022 16:37:47 GMT
I like a mix of both. Really, any excuse or opportunity to get creative is great in my book. :-)
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Post by ScrapbookMyLife on Aug 7, 2022 16:47:25 GMT
I prefer scrapbooking alone. I get more done. My work style and method is "back and forth", meaning I work on it for a bit, then I don't, repeat back and forth.
25-ish years ago, when I first started, I attended a few crops....
At someone home, which was always fun and social, but I spent more time eating appetizers and desserts (everyone brought a contribution) and admiring the others scrapbook layouts.
At a store, not as fun. I went to a few. It was cliquey. On one occasion, I arrived first and the owner said sit wherever you want, no assigned seating. I sat at table. Didn't know it was a a cliques favorite table. When the clique arrived they acted like bitches carry on about someone took their table, and made passive aggressive comments all evening. It was like being in 7th grade. If they would have asked nicely, I would have moved because it didn't matter to me where I sat as long as I had a spot. But from the start they were rude and acting like "how dare I sit in THEIR spot". If someone acts like that, no way am I voluntarily moving. I remember it like it was yesterday, because it is one of my "defining moments" in life of how to not act and behave. In a group setting try to include those around me, especially those who are by themselves. Simple courtesy and kindness goes a long way. I haven't been to a crop since that night.
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jediannie
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Post by jediannie on Aug 7, 2022 17:31:37 GMT
I like a mix of both. Really, any excuse or opportunity to get creative is great in my book. :-) This is how I feel. Since I haven't cropped with friends or at an organized crop in over 3 years I really miss being in a room with a bunch of like-minded people doing what we love to do. Maybe someday I'll feel comfortable enough to go to an in-person crop again. When the clique arrived they acted like bitches carry on about someone took their table, and made passive aggressive comments all evening. This is why I stopped cropping at my LSS. There was a group that went every Friday and if you didn't know that was their table, they would aggressively ask you to move. I told the owner of the store at the time (it has since changed owners thank goodness) that she should make that table reserved for them because then those ladies wouldn't cause angst amongst the croppers and she said "you're adults, you all figure it out" (which is true but she could have just made the table reserved and stopped the complaining). The new owner did a reserved table for those people but the pandemic stopped indoor crops and I heard 2 of them moved away so I don't think they do a reserved table anymore for them. In person crops I get a lot more done because I usually am way more organized and have pages planned out and stuff whereas at home I get distracted by all my stuff so I get less done. I know there are things I could do (make page kits, preplan, etc) but I haven't done that.
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Post by Citygirl on Aug 7, 2022 19:36:18 GMT
I don’t mind scrapping alone and get so much more done. I only had a couple local friends that scrapbooked and we would go to retreats. They have since abandoned the hobby. Sometimes I miss that but I just don’t have the time or energy to seek out and find new scrappy friends.
I scrapbooked at home for several years but with two small kids it became too difficult. I go to crops as a single and now there are so many more people who do this. Sometimes they stick all the singles together sometimes they don’t. I find those people just want to get to work like myself so it works out. Having an uninterrupted weekend is like medicine….I really miss it in the summertime.
I’m not sure if it’s my job or the pandemic or this exhausting stage of my life but I do feel more anti-social than in years past 😂
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Post by Embri on Aug 7, 2022 22:37:18 GMT
You're not antisocial. Perhaps, asocial - wanting to be alone. Antisocial is most often a personality disorder that includes blatant disregard for others / not caring about violating social norms. That said crafting alone is far more productive for most folks. This is why I stopped cropping at my LSS. There was a group that went every Friday and if you didn't know that was their table, they would aggressively ask you to move. What are they, twelve? Thought people grew out of such petty behaviour after grade school. Yuck. Now that's antisocial!
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Post by frenchie on Aug 7, 2022 23:55:16 GMT
lcomfy, I am so with you. Sometimes it's just nice to shut the rest of the world out and do something I really enjoy.
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PaperAngel
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Post by PaperAngel on Aug 8, 2022 1:17:38 GMT
I've never attended a crop, retreat, convention, CM/SU/other craft company party, etc. due to a lack of interest. Perhaps because I'm an introvert, I prefer to scrap alone at home in the comfort, convenience, & privacy of my dedicated room. Your experiences confirm my decision!
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Post by Deleted on Aug 8, 2022 1:27:11 GMT
I don't think you are anti-social, most likely you know what's most productive for you.
I go to 3 weekend crops a year now and that is about perfect to get my social time in. Fortunately, I have known a couple of the gals for many years, so I look forward to catching up with them and we mostly know each other's routines and they kind of expect that I may spend a few hours a day with my AirPods in watching something on my ipad. And I do enjoy meeting new people that still scrapbook at these events. I also find I get distracted in different ways at home (endlessly organizing my craft crap!) that I avoid at a crop.
Generally, though, I much prefer being at home to the very noisy, crowded crops I attended early on. Although, I don't do anything that has that "girl's weekend" feel anymore, compared to back then either.
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Post by 950nancy on Aug 8, 2022 2:02:14 GMT
I like a mix of both. Really, any excuse or opportunity to get creative is great in my book. :-) Sitting here with you. I'm fine in groups or by myself. I do like a crop because I know I'll see my friends.
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Post by scrapnnana on Aug 8, 2022 14:28:49 GMT
I prefer scrapbooking alone. I get more done. My work style and method is "back and forth", meaning I work on it for a bit, then I don't, repeat back and forth. 25-ish years ago, when I first started, I attended a few crops.... At someone home, which was always fun and social, but I spent more time eating appetizers and desserts (everyone brought a contribution) and admiring the others scrapbook layouts. At a store, not as fun. I went to a few. It was cliquey. Same here. And like the OP, I am easily distracted. I get far more done in my craft room, all alone. I can’t even play music, let alone videos. I was helping my DD make HTV t-shirts on Saturday. Since we were making Disney shirts for her upcoming trip, she put on Disney songs. I had to ask her to do without the music. It was too distracting, and I was afraid of making mistakes. I need quiet. Even the online crops here are too distracting for me.
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Post by joyfulnana on Aug 8, 2022 14:46:48 GMT
If I'm going to crop with others I prefer video so I have access to all of my supplies. I find in person crops, I have always forgotten things, or decide to go a different direction with a page and don't have those supplies, so I don't get very much done.
I DO enjoy scrapping with others very much, I just prefer to do it at home lol. A virtual crop keeps me in my seat, whereas if I'm alone I get distracted by things that could be done around here instead.
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Post by kmage on Aug 8, 2022 15:03:01 GMT
I am going to be the lone socialite I guess, lol!! (That is a huge joke, with the exception of scrapbooking I am totally introverted) That said, I miss the Archiver's (and another store called Binding Memories) crops so much. Maybe it was just our Archiver's, but every weekend it was like a scrapbook party, everyone was welcome and we all had so much fun. These were back in the days before I had a scrap room and literally bought supplies on the fly to make my pages right in front of me. I felt like I was extra creative because of all the creative energy around me and people were so supportive. Sometimes I sit in my scrapbook room feeling like I have all this cool stuff and no one to share it with. (re reading this and it sounds pretty depressive lol...I did not mean it that way. I just wish more people I knew IRL liked scrapbooking! )
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Post by cannmom on Aug 8, 2022 15:05:37 GMT
I’m in the liking both camp. Usually I scrap alone at home, but a friend and I go to a 3 day crop twice a year and have a blast. I like the energy of being around other people who enjoy this hobby as much as I do. It’s fun to see what other scrappers do and I like having a weekend away with no obligations other than to have fun. We shop, eat, and enjoy a few adult beverages and get some scrapping done also.
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Post by mbanda on Aug 8, 2022 16:16:07 GMT
I’m in the liking both camp. Usually I scrap alone at home, but a friend and I go to a 3 day crop twice a year and have a blast. I like the energy of being around other people who enjoy this hobby as much as I do. It’s fun to see what other scrappers do and I like having a weekend away with no obligations other than to have fun. We shop, eat, and enjoy a few adult beverages and get some scrapping done also. Same for me! I have a dedicated scraproom but I really get so much done when I attend the 5-day retreat I go to twice a year even with all the socializing. I just went to one two weeks ago & I got 65 pages done! I find that I am very productive when I am away from the distractions of home. I've never tried an online crop. Not sure if I would like that.... I haven't been to a day crop in a few years but I used to enjoy going and working on a smallish project.
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Post by mayceesgranny on Aug 8, 2022 16:45:33 GMT
I agree totally with the OP. I've been enjoying solo scrapping since the beginning of the pandemic. I turn on youtube for the white noise and love having all my stuff available at my finger tips. I still get the same amount of layouts done because I'm still cooking and taking care of my household duties.
Haven't been to a weekend crop in over two years - that used to be my only opportunity to crop and I did enjoy the social aspect but hated the packing and planning. I also hated sharing table space and dealing with obnoxious people. I did enjoy the fun with friends and the meals being prepared for us. I will probably get back to a crop or two in the future, but for now scrapping at home is great.
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Post by papersilly on Aug 8, 2022 17:17:08 GMT
me! i craft alone and i love it. the only other person i have crafted with is my cousin. i really enjoyed those times. we were very productive but it was also fun to have someone to chat with. i don't think i could craft with more than one other person though. too much chaos and i don't think i would be as productive.
i like crafting alone because i have a dedicated room with all of my supplies. i have a tv and can do little house chores here and there while i'm waiting for glue to dry or if i need a craft break.
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Post by gizzy on Aug 8, 2022 18:26:12 GMT
I am going to be the lone socialite I guess, lol!! (That is a huge joke, with the exception of scrapbooking I am totally introverted) That said, I miss the Archiver's (and another store called Binding Memories) crops so much. Maybe it was just our Archiver's, but every weekend it was like a scrapbook party, everyone was welcome and we all had so much fun. These were back in the days before I had a scrap room and literally bought supplies on the fly to make my pages right in front of me. I felt like I was extra creative because of all the creative energy around me and people were so supportive. Sometimes I sit in my scrapbook room feeling like I have all this cool stuff and no one to share it with. (re reading this and it sounds pretty depressive lol...I did not mean it that way. I just wish more people I knew IRL liked scrapbooking! ) Archiver's crops is what I thought of, too, when reading this thread. I used to love going to those. Now that all my scrapping stuff doesn't fit into one xxl cropper wheelie bag, I find it much harder to scrap outside my home. I'm terrible at pre planning. I'm constantly thinking of some random thing I have to put on the page. So I crave the company but need my supplies.
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Post by coloradocropper on Aug 10, 2022 16:50:06 GMT
I definitely enjoy doing both, however, I thrive when creating with others who love this hobby just as much. My favorite is scrapping with my two scrappy pals. Next month we have a girls trip to Missouri where we will scrap with 300 others at the We Create event that Scrapbook Generation is putting on. I can hardly wait!
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Post by istamp247 on Aug 10, 2022 18:56:24 GMT
I enjoy both cropping at home in my own little space and away at crops with friends. Prior to my lss closing we would go every other Friday evening and then one Saturday a month. Now, we go away for two weekends a year to a retreat house and the occasional charity day crop. I have grown to dislike packing for a "shorter" (less than 12 hours) crop. It is just too much work. We do go once a month to a friend's church's crafting evening. I usually take something small to work on there (I do crochet and embroidery). It's mostly about catching up with others who used to crop at the lss.
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Post by Chinagirl828 on Aug 12, 2022 11:25:47 GMT
I have never been to a crop, and other than the obligatory CM parties in the very early days, or making Christmas cards with my sister I've never scrapped with other people. I'm definitely an introvert, which plays into it, but I also like having my entire stash and the flexibility to jump between projects as the inspiration strikes me.
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Post by anniefb on Aug 12, 2022 23:29:08 GMT
You're not alone! I used to scrap occasionally with a small group of friends but they've moved away or given up crafting so I now craft by myself. I have a nice craft room, am an introvert and and enjoy my own company so I'm quite happy to spend time just creating by myself as the mood takes me.
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Post by cannmom on Aug 12, 2022 23:45:34 GMT
I definitely enjoy doing both, however, I thrive when creating with others who love this hobby just as much. My favorite is scrapping with my two scrappy pals. Next month we have a girls trip to Missouri where we will scrap with 300 others at the We Create event that Scrapbook Generation is putting on. I can hardly wait! I’m sure that will be a great event! Have a blast and make sure to tell us how it went so we can live vicariously through you.
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