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Post by Lexica on Sept 23, 2022 18:40:34 GMT
My mom always left something for the people that bought the various houses we had lived in. She made sure it was spotless when we left and then we always made up a basket with packaged snacks, a bottle of sparkling cider, wine glasses and a candle with a note welcoming them to their new house and wishing them years of happiness. We also set up the fireplace with kindling and wood ready for their first fire. All they had to do was light it with one of the long matches from the box Mom left.
I thought I would continue this tradition in Mom's memory. Have you ever done anything for the people who bought your home, or conversely, have the people selling their home to you done something to make your moving in special in some way?
I am making them a card to welcome them to their new house and will include a short note telling them how happy we had been here for the past 44 years, wishing them the same happiness that we experienced. I had originally planned on making them a basket of my little scented fire starters since my family loved those things so much, but the movers packed the fat wood from the garage. Plus, it is just too darned hot to think of starting a fire right now. I can always add a little basket of them to the package I will be shipping them with the remotes for the fans that the movers packed up.
I also have the original brochures from when the house was brand new 45 years ago. You know, the brochures that you pick up when you go through model homes? It is interesting since it has the dimensions of all the rooms which might be helpful and the tract map shows what the original street names were supposed to be - Simon, Garfunkel, Emerson, and Palmer. The street Emerson still remains, but the other streets were renamed with tree sounding names instead and the tract was renamed "Woodleaf" instead. This tract was built in the later 70s, so the rock band names were fun.
I will also include any important information that they will need such as the receipt for the PEX plumbing installation since it has a lifetime warranty and anything else I think they will need when I unpack and can access my file on this house. Things like the roof are still under warranty and they will need the paperwork and name of the company that installed it. I will also include the cards of the contractors that I liked from the recent work done on the house (things that have a warranty) They might need to contact them regarding something that was just done or since I know they are planning to redo the kitchen, they might be interested to have contact info.
I also bought a bottle of the luxury vinyl floor cleaner that the floor installers had recommended and a microfiber mop setup to use with it. I don't know if they are familiar with how to clean this type of floor (I wasn't) so I thought I would buy them the components and leave a note telling them the floor installers recommended only using this and where they can buy it when the bottle I leave runs out. And I've learned a trick to get scuff marks off the floor. After all the people that attended the open house trampled through here, there were tons of scuff marks that wouldn't come up with the recommended cleaning. I tried soaking them with the spray cleaner for several minutes before using the microfiber mop, but they still didn't come off. I finally tried doing a light scrub with a net-covered sponge, using it like an eraser. That finally worked. I bought a package of those for them too.
If you did anything for your buyers, or if your sellers did anything for you, can you post about it to give me some ideas? I will be making up a generic food basket like Mom used to leave (think Hickory Farms type things and a nonalcoholic beverage) and will leave the floor products in the kitchen so they don't look like part of a welcome gift.
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Post by 950nancy on Sept 23, 2022 18:44:13 GMT
When we got ready to move, I put a binder together of all of the home improvements, the owner's manuals, etc. It was a three inch three ringed binder full of everything they'd need for the house. We also made sure that we left toilet paper. We didn't leave a gift though. I left that up to their realtor.
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Post by lindas on Sept 23, 2022 18:56:53 GMT
I did the binder with all important info along. I also left a fresh roll of toilet paper in each bathroom along with a roll of paper towels, hand soap and a $50 Visa gift card with a stack of carry-out menus.
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Post by amom23 on Sept 23, 2022 19:02:17 GMT
I didn't leave anything for the new buyer of my mom's townhome. Is this a thing now?
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Post by MorningPerson on Sept 23, 2022 19:21:14 GMT
When we sold our last house I made a card wishing the new owners happiness in their new home, and I left a folder with all the owners manuals and related information that we had.
Conversely, when we moved into our current home the previous owners left nothing, and I do mean not a single owners manual or piece of information. Soon after we moved we had a plumber come to replace some items in a bathroom and 3 of us spent quite a bit of time looking for the main water shutoff. We finally found it in the basement behind the paneling, totally blended in with the wall. Thankfully it wasn’t a broken pipe issue because we would have been in a lot of trouble. The shutoff location would have been helpful information to be given when we moved in.
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Post by calgaryscrapper on Sept 23, 2022 19:22:03 GMT
Are the warranties transferable to the new owners? Maybe include some take out menus for pizza etc that you like.
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Post by busy on Sept 23, 2022 19:28:39 GMT
It’s not something I would do. I don’t know them. It’s a business transaction. They’re adults. I’d leave any relevant manuals/warranties for things in the house but that’s really it.
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Post by Lexica on Sept 23, 2022 19:46:28 GMT
I didn't leave anything for the new buyer of my mom's townhome. Is this a thing now? I don't think it is a "thing" now. My mom just always wanted people to feel welcome and since she wouldn't be in the house to welcome them personally, she make up the basket of snacks and got the fireplace ready. My mom was a super caring person. Her thing was usually to bake cookies, but she didn't think people would want homemade cookies from someone they had never met so she went with packaged snacks in the basket. I just thought it would be nice to honor my mom by following the tradition she started.
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Post by Lexica on Sept 23, 2022 19:49:41 GMT
Are the warranties transferable to the new owners? Maybe include some take out menus for pizza etc that you like. Yes, the warranties on the roof and the new PEX plumbing are transferable. I asked that question before having the plumbing done several weeks ago. Especially since they offered a lifetime warranty on it. I will be digging through my file to see what I have that is applicable and sending them to the buyers with the remotes. Their good friends live down the street from me (I never met them) so I'm sure they will fill them in on all the local places.
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Post by Lexica on Sept 23, 2022 19:52:32 GMT
It’s not something I would do. I don’t know them. It’s a business transaction. They’re adults. I’d leave any relevant manuals/warranties for things in the house but that’s really it. I am doing this more for my memories of my mom than for the buyers. I know that if she were still living with me, she would start putting together a basket herself as she had done numerous times during my childhood. She was just so darned nice and I've tried to emulate her when I can. It makes me feel close to her and I like to pretend she is aware of what I am doing and that it makes her proud.
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Post by amp on Sept 23, 2022 20:01:02 GMT
I have never done it or had someone do it for me. BUT...if someone did, I would be really touched. I think it is a nice thing to do.
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Post by **GypsyGirl** on Sept 23, 2022 20:01:26 GMT
Never left a gift for anyone, and never had anyone leave a gift for us. We've moved 18 times since we've been married. My family moved several times when I was growing up and this was never done then either. It's a business transaction plain and simple. Other than all the manuals and warranties, as well as a list of companies who have worked on the house/appliances, I see no need to leave anything.
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Post by Zee on Sept 23, 2022 20:09:29 GMT
I loved my old farmhouse in Iowa so much. I left the new owners an original map of the town that I had framed, showing our house on it, along with the original 1920 deed and that sort of thing plus a nice note and a bottle of wine wishing them much happiness there.
I didn't leave anything behind in PA but I think it's a nice gesture.
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Post by librarylady on Sept 23, 2022 20:11:26 GMT
When we left our previous home, I left a note about the plumbers and electricians we found to be reliable. I also left some toilet paper and paper towels and a note saying we had been happy living there. I probably left the papers about the AC we put in, but it was so long ago, I can not remember.
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Post by anaterra on Sept 23, 2022 20:25:34 GMT
I think its a nice gesture in memory of your mom...
but i think you are kinda going overboard... you are already leaving flooring, cleaning supplies, paperwork and extra appliances... and then mailing them a box of more stuff...
Thats great... plenty!!! More then done.. its fine... you can walk away from your home... it is now someone elses house...
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Post by lisae on Sept 23, 2022 20:37:44 GMT
I wish I had left the new owners of my MOther's house a list of people to call for various things - electrician, HVAC, plumber. She eventually called me for some of these but I could have easily left a list. It was just all so hurried in the end, I forgot. I did gift her the dining table. She had planned to come to the sale specifically to buy it and we just left it out of the sale stuff and gave it to them. They didn't ask us to repair or redo a single thing so we felt it was the right thing to do.
I had written up a history of the house and given to the realtor. The new owner did mention that and really loved hearing about who had built the house and the renovations over time since up until then it had been a one-owner.
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Post by Prenticekid on Sept 23, 2022 20:49:16 GMT
I left the place clean, toilet paper and any appliance manuals that I had. Honestly, I think you are overthinking it, probably because you are conflating your feelings of the place and memories of your mom. That's okay. But, it's okay to let it go too. Leave house info and call it a day.
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Post by airforcemomof1 on Sept 23, 2022 21:12:45 GMT
When my next door neighbor moved I gave her realtor (I worked at the real estate office) pizza gift cards to give to her and the people buying the house. They got them at the closing.
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Post by arielsmom on Sept 23, 2022 21:23:04 GMT
We sold my parents home after they both passed. I left all the manuals we found. Mom had extensive gardens. I took photos of them in bloom over the year we were prepping the house for sale. I then labeled the plants for the new owner. DH thought I was nuts. Realtor said the new owner was a gardener and appreciated my notes. Drove by a month ago, and she kept all the gardens and flowering trees!
Mom had a ceramic business. The last year of her life, she was making a new fountain for the yard, featuring an angel. She got sick and passed before it was finished, and the angel sat in her workshop. I couldn't part with it, in the estate sale, so I tucked her up in the attic, by a rafter, with a letter and a prayer, about blessing the new family. I hope she is still there.
The new owner decorates for every holiday, just like my mom did. I would like to think it makes my mom smile to see that.
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Post by littlemama on Sept 23, 2022 21:27:40 GMT
We did not receive anything when we bought our home other than leftover cans of paint for touchups. I didnt expect anything though.
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Post by MorningPerson on Sept 23, 2022 22:14:54 GMT
Mom had a ceramic business. The last year of her life, she was making a new fountain for the yard, featuring an angel. She got sick and passed before it was finished, and the angel sat in her workshop. I couldn't part with it, in the estate sale, so I tucked her up in the attic, by a rafter, with a letter and a prayer, about blessing the new family. I hope she is still there. I love that you left the angel in the attic with the letter and prayer. Such a meaningful gesture. 💕
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Post by Basket1lady on Sept 23, 2022 22:19:18 GMT
We e lived in 17 houses and never left much beyond a binder and take out menus. I’ve left a few notes over the years regarding the quirks of the house, but not much else. Don’t worry about telling them how to clean the floors—they will figure it out and it’s not an unusual product. (And I use a tennis ball to remove scuff marks. It takes seconds.)
I love that you have the original brochure—that’s a nice thing to leave. Maintenance numbers are a big bonus, as are manuals to the furnace and anything else that is permanent to the house. If you must leave snacks, make them all prepackaged. That’s something that a realtor usually does, so don’t go overboard or you may steal their thunder if your food basket is larger than where they leave.
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Post by luckyjune on Sept 23, 2022 22:22:22 GMT
We left a bottle of wine and the original binder from the builder, the info booklets for the appliances, heat pump, furnace, etc., and a list of phone numbers they might need. We left paint leftovers (the inside of the house was completely repainted, so that was easy) plus extra LVP planks, tiles for the bathrooms, and vinyl for the laundry room, should they need to make repairs. We also left a letter about how much we loved raising our family in the house and hoped they'd have as many wonderful years as we did. We included how much we love our old neighbors and how we hoped the new family would feel comfortable enough to participate in cul de sac traditions.
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Post by cmpeter on Sept 23, 2022 22:23:13 GMT
No, I've never left a gift. We do leave a binder or list of warranties, some helpful numbers and favorite restaurant recommendations. Our relator has always given us a gift right after we move in. A gift basket with TP, paper towels, other essentials or a gift card to a local restaurant.
We've always hired a cleaning crew to come in the day after we move out to clean the house before the new folks move in.
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Post by greendragonlady on Sept 23, 2022 22:35:29 GMT
I've never sold a house. This is my first house I've bought. No gift or note from previous owner (it was a young-ish guy and he had been moved out for a little while) and no gift (or even a card) from our realtor. She didn't even say thank you, congrats, good luck, nothing at the closing.
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Post by Really Red on Sept 23, 2022 22:35:36 GMT
It is a super sweet thing to do. I have left information about the house, but nothing so sweet.
My neighbors left flowers and cookies and my new neighbors were SO touched.
How can it ever be a bad idea? People like to know about their home and like to feel it was loved.
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Post by Crack-a-lackin on Sept 23, 2022 23:27:06 GMT
I didn't leave anything for the new buyer of my mom's townhome. Is this a thing now? I don't think it is a "thing" now. Â My mom just always wanted people to feel welcome and since she wouldn't be in the house to welcome them personally, she make up the basket of snacks and got the fireplace ready. Â My mom was a super caring person. Â Her thing was usually to bake cookies, but she didn't think people would want homemade cookies from someone they had never met so she went with packaged snacks in the basket. Â I just thought it would be nice to honor my mom by following the tradition she started. I love that you are honoring your mom. A note letting the owners know how happy you were there is very sweet, and I would love brochures and details about the house. I have left info others mentioned, like paint colors and home details, and once I left contact info for all the utilities because it was in an unincorporated area and I had a heck of a time finding that when I moved in.
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Post by busy on Sept 23, 2022 23:37:43 GMT
How can it ever be a bad idea? People like to know about their home and like to feel it was loved. It's not a *bad* idea, I just think a lot of people wouldn't care and whatever is left could go to waste. Based on past pea posts, I'd bet a lot of people wouldn't eat food left by strangers, even if prepackaged. People may not like the restaurants gift cards are from or have dietary restrictions. I don't personally care about the history of a house (unless I've chosen to buy an actual historic home) or people's feelings about it. Maybe that sounds heartless, but I'm buying a house for our life there, not someone else's. I care the house has been maintained properly not emotionally loved - which do not necessarily go hand in hand. I look at buying and selling a house as a business transaction and adding emotion into it doesn't appeal to me. I'm also one who thinks it's weird when people write emotional appeals for the seller to pick their bid.
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Post by quinlove on Sept 24, 2022 0:04:34 GMT
Mom had a ceramic business. The last year of her life, she was making a new fountain for the yard, featuring an angel. She got sick and passed before it was finished, and the angel sat in her workshop. I couldn't part with it, in the estate sale, so I tucked her up in the attic, by a rafter, with a letter and a prayer, about blessing the new family. I hope she is still there. I love that you left the angel in the attic with the letter and prayer. Such a meaningful gesture. 💕 Oh my goodness. I love your angel story so much. Such a sweet and loving thing that you did.
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Post by Anita on Sept 24, 2022 0:37:57 GMT
The buyers of the house we sold last year had a little girl, and we left a doll for her. We had to drop off some things to them after the sale that should have gone to them, and they thanked us. She carries the doll everywhere.
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