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Post by aj2hall on Nov 18, 2022 16:29:09 GMT
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Post by creativegirl on Nov 18, 2022 16:47:01 GMT
I know there are some teachers on this board-- as a parent, how can I help? We are in California, so some of the issues in this video have been a little less here but we had 8 teachers leave our relatively small school last year so obviously all is not peachy. There is nothing public about any issues going on, the teachers SEEM happy but obviously I don't know what's going on behind the scenes. I talk about our great school and teachers as much as I can, back up my kids teachers and do my best to raise respectful kids, donate, volunteer, etc. but it doesn't seem like enough for all they are doing.
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Post by Merge on Nov 18, 2022 16:58:40 GMT
I know there are some teachers on this board-- as a parent, how can I help? We are in California, so some of the issues in this video have been a little less here but we had 8 teachers leave our relatively small school last year so obviously all is not peachy. There is nothing public about any issues going on, the teachers SEEM happy but obviously I don't know what's going on behind the scenes. I talk about our great school and teachers as much as I can, back up my kids teachers and do my best to raise respectful kids, donate, volunteer, etc. but it doesn't seem like enough for all they are doing. You are kind to care. I don't mean to be a downer, but I really feel it's too late in most places. Even in schools like mine, where we are treated well and have good parent support, the burden of large classes, increasing expectations (all the duty before and after school, so much paperwork, so many meetings), and extreme student needs means that many are burning out. I cut back to part time this year and it is just manageable. We lost 3-4 teachers last year and 6 the year before that - not to other schools. They left the profession entirely. And let me reiterate - I teach in a very good school. What many would consider a destination school. I can't even imagine the struggle in other parts of my urban district. I would say also that even the best, most respectful kids are mostly not raised in 2022 to sit quietly, manage their own business, endure any amount of boredom, or pay attention for more than a few minutes at a time. No criticism of anyone - parenting has simply changed, and schools have not changed to reflect that. We need much smaller classes, much more recess, much less emphasis on test scores, and a completely different way of looking at school. Some private and charter operators would like us to believe that they have found the key to educating today's students, but mostly they're just doing the same thing we do for longer hours, flogging teachers into burnout in even less time than the public schools do. And it's terrible for kids. Dumping public money into those options is not going to help anyone. I could write a whole book about everything we're doing wrong, but seriously ... I don't see a way to turn the ship around at this point.
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Post by luckyjune on Nov 18, 2022 17:42:15 GMT
No offense, but *yawn*
There are thousands, if not millions of videos, articles, websites, meetings, out there decrying how teachers are being shit on. Nothing changes.
I quit teaching after 31 years in middle school ELA. If you were to scroll through my Facebook, you'd see a constant stream of posts about what happened in my class, how much I adore my students, and how much I love my job. I was exhausted, and putting my physical health in danger, but I was happy because I knew the work was important. Every four years we'd laugh about how politicians would drag out education to beat the dead horse for their campaigns. Just as soon as the election was over, education disappeared for another four years. Why change it? Teachers willingly work more hours than what they are paid for and they single-handedly fund the interior of classrooms (decorations, books, supplies, tissues, cleaner, food and clothes for kids). From a government standpoint, I'm sure it was, "If it ain't broke, don't fix it."
Worse than anything? Nobody listened. From building admin to the president of the country, teachers are completely disregarded. They are infantized with lesson plan turn-ins that no one reads, having to pay money to wear jeans on Friday, having to sit through the worst, most ridiculous, professional development in all the land. In some places they were given scripts for their instructions, thereby "teacher-proofing" learning. A mini candy bar with a cutesy message as a holiday gift from admin. Little pats on the head with reminders that you are simply not doing enough.
All those districts that told you their teachers got unbelievable support for materials, training, and equipment during Covid...they were lying. We figured it out on our own and in about a week. We used our own computers for online learning because the ones schools managed to scrape up for us were cheap pieces of crap that didn't work. Lighting, microphones, on-line resources to make learning organized and enjoyable? All paid for by teachers. There was no training on how to structure, how to teach virtually. Hell, my district didn't even figure out how to guard against Zoom bombers until countless children were exposed to all kinds of hate and ugliness.
I didn't leave because it had been 31 years. In fact, just a year earlier, I was joking around, asking, "Can someone teach until they are 80?" because I could.not.see.myself.doing.anything.else. I did not stop teaching because of Covid. Even though it was less than ideal, I still formed relationships with my classes, I still connected and kids still learned. I loved my job until I didn't. I loved it until I realized that no matter what I said or did, it was not going to get any better. Once I quit, I had the overwhelming sense of relief, like one might after leaving an abusive relationship. It's been just over a year and I'm finally starting to feel okay. I work in education, but not in schools. The first few months, I felt guilty because I didn't think I was working enough, fast enough, hard enough. DH, who is also a former educator now working outside of education told me, "No, this is just how the rest of the world works."
So, yeah, make videos with the intent of spreading the word. But realize teachers have seen and heard it all before. Sadly, I think the system is beyond repair. I think if I ever have grandkids who live near me, I'll volunteer to homeschool them. As much as i ADORE the teachers who still show up, day after day, and finish their shift by crying in their cars, I can't claim that schools are a healthy place for people anymore and I don't see a way out.
Honestly, we should have just called off during an entire year of Covid and we should have taken education down to the studs. However, in looking back, I'm not even sure that is possible anymore.
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Post by flanz on Nov 18, 2022 17:50:36 GMT
This is a dangerous and horrifying state of affairs. Huge hugs and lots of love to you, @merge and luckyjune and to all teachers who have been working so hard to teach our nation's kids!!! Your sharing here is heartbreaking and I know you're two voices representing probably the majority of teachers everywhere. THANK YOU FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE AND CONTINUE TO DO. Understatement.  I think of you as heroes, think what has happened in education is abominable, and I, too, wish I knew a way to really help. Our kids are in their early 30s now, but I still care very much about what happens in our schools. Education is key to everything, as we know. I could never understand the mentality of some of our older neighbors who said, my kids are out of school, I'm not going to vote for a school bond measure. So dumb and short-sighted. I volunteered probably at least 1,000 hours in my kids classrooms and loved it. Had a front row seat to how very hard almost all of them work, how much they care, and the challenges they face. I know those challenges have grown exponentially.
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Post by flanz on Nov 18, 2022 17:51:21 GMT
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Post by epeanymous on Nov 18, 2022 18:19:47 GMT
I interact with a lot of professionals in my life, and, with six kids who have attended public schools over (so far) a 16-year period of time, it amazes me how many teachers are truly great. and that almost all of their teachers have been very good. One of my good friends is a former math teacher who runs the online resources/trainings for a large school district now, and it is really awful to see how -- while things have always been a struggle for K-12 educators -- they have gotten worse in recent years in every conceivable respect.
I teach adults and I've watched the mental health/substance use disorder/trauma spike in my students over the past few years. It's a lot, and even as a private university, we don't have the resources to deal with all of it. We need a national commitment to education and support for educators and students -- it's much more important to have that commitment at the K-12 level, but it's become more of a struggle at all levels.
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Post by huskergal on Nov 18, 2022 18:35:36 GMT
I am with Merge. The whole idea of how we educate needs to start from the ground up. I started teaching in 1987 so I have been around a long time.
I teach in a suburban middle class school. I teach computer science, used to be computer applications, to 6th, 7th and 8th graders. My classes are not required and they last for 6 weeks. I can't imagine how huge the problems are in large urban schools. We have lost so many teachers the last couple of years. Some moved districts. Some changed careers.
Big changes I have seen in students is lack of persistence. They want quick answers immediately. So many have no sense of curiosity. I teach middle school. By 8th grade it is pulling teeth to get students to challenge themselves. They rush through work in hopes that they can play games on their computers.
We keep getting told that these kids are digital natives. They grew up with phones and the internet. However, while they can use a phone to text, play games, take pictures and videos, and use social networking apps, they don't actually have an understanding of computers. Our district has been 1:1 with technology for about 5 years now. Our elementary students use iPads. They come to middle school barely having used a computer. Teaching them to use a mouse is crazy They don't know how to make folders, save and name files. They don't understand extensions. They don't understand how to navigate around a computer.
What I get through in my curriculum with my 8th graders in my 6 week class now vs 8-10 years ago is probably about 2/3 of the material. I have some extremely smart kids who advance quickly. Most of them are lagging behind.
We have so many students on IEPs.
We need smaller class sizes and more bodies in the classroom. Paras are gold. We don't have enough. Get kids off of computers and phones. I think going back to paper is a great idea. We have a lot of teachers who have done that. I watch these kids do Dream Box on their computers. It is a math program. I couldn't do math problems on a computer. I need paper. I think teaching handwriting is still essential even cursive. It builds up pathways between your hands and your brain. Rote memorization of multiplication tables. I think rote memorization is good for some things. It builds up memory in your brain and makes pathways.
High school needs vocational education paths for students. I know many are doing this. Not everyone is going to a 4 year college. Throw away standardized testing.
I can't quit. I am too old to find another job. Ageism! I have 5 1/2 years left. Every year is getting harder.
As someone else said, the waste of time on useless professional development needs to be thrown out. Either make it useful or give teachers work time. Our district also has a distinction between sick days and personal days. We get 2 personal days a school year. So we have to lie if we need to get off work for something. I just have a doctor's appointment. You trust us with children, but you don't trust us with days off.
The extreme far right conservatives getting on school boards and making noise are a scary bunch. also want to see what happens when tax money starts going to religious schools. I I don't know else to add. I am rambling.
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Post by refugeepea on Nov 18, 2022 19:25:32 GMT
Lots of teachers are leaving my state to get better pay or get a different job.
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Post by sean&marysmommy on Nov 18, 2022 20:21:36 GMT
I'm a former teacher and teacher assistant, and I read most of the teacher/education threads on here, but rarely weigh in. Sometimes I feel a little guilty to add my input, even though I'm still passionate about education, because I feel like I've kind of opted out of the whole thing. I left teaching, and I homeschool my 3rd grader, and have since she was in Kindergarten. (I also have a son, who was in public school the whole way, and in college now.)
Teachers were the BEST thing about the schools I've had experiences with. I found most of them to be more than competent, and a great number to be excellent, really. I came across some fantastic admin as well.
But so much of the education system feels broken, and even the best of teachers are stuck working in that system. Living in the south, people hear that I homeschool and think we do it for religious reasons, or because schools are "too woke", which had nothing at all to do with it. I wanted my daughter to learn REAL history, not the watered down, or sometimes completely inaccurate, version I grew up with. I wanted her to do hands on learning and less seatwork and, frankly, busy work. I wanted more art, more play, more creative projects. I wanted her to be able to follow her own interests as much as possible, and speed up when she was ready to, and take more time on things where she needed it. I wanted field trips to be the norm, not a two-a-year-if-we're-lucky kind of thing. And I definitely wanted less focus on testing.
I don't know what the solution is for public schools. I never thought I'd be here, honestly. I agree with those of you who think the whole things needs revamping from the ground up. Ask a teacher, and they will have dozens of ideas on how to improve things...but the powers that be never seem to listen, and things just get worse.
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Post by TankTop on Nov 18, 2022 23:45:43 GMT
I am tired. I am overwhelmed. I do not feel valued.
I teach in the burbs. My district is highly respected.
However, families have changed. As a second grade teacher I can tell you there is this new attitude towards schooling. School is now “optional.” Kids don’t show up. Extended vacations. Make-up work never returned but always requested (this take a lot of time and effort to get together).
I honestly think the only way to fix it is to let it fail miserably. It is going to have to fall apart completely before society decides to solve it.
I love that the Peas live teachers, but that is not our daily reality. Parents do not show respect like they used to. I have been given more support from this board in the last 5 years than the families in my community.
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Post by 950nancy on Nov 19, 2022 2:22:13 GMT
Retired teacher who went back to work with low readers for the morning. I love what I do now. I don't deal with parents, grading, or take a thing home. I walk in, teach 7-8 groups, and I walk out. I do see stressed teachers. I also see teachers who have a better work life balance than others. For me, I had a job I loved when I worked full time. I was very good at it and administration at the school and district level left me alone. I bought 4 years, so I could retire with 32 years of service and collect my retirement at age 50. It was worth it. I am not sure I could do 32 years in the current climate.
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Post by Katiepotatie on Nov 19, 2022 2:48:33 GMT
I know the stress. I know the problems. I’ve been that teacher crying after school. I know amazing educators who give everything for their classes. I did that too. And I burnt out. But I know the joy too.
I left teaching five years ago because I needed balance in my life. I gave everything I had to teaching—and I loved it. But it wasn’t healthy or sustainable. I’ve been tutoring reading online since 2020 and I LOVE it! I’m in charge of my hours, students, curriculum, and pay. I never thought I’d be doing this (and loving it), but I am! I also started creating teaching resources to sell on Teachers Pay Teachers. And I love it for the creative outlet it provides.
But I do feel some guilt for being one who left.
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Post by annie on Nov 19, 2022 3:02:43 GMT
Been in the trenches a very long time. I am highly skilled at my job. Not sure how much more I can do. Too tired to even elaborate.
Looking ahead: District has to cut our school budget by 1/3 each year for the next 3 years. (How is this even possible.) They are going to close some of our district schools and cut even more teachers. We are told no more student computers and no more interactive whiteboards within a couple of years. (Back to teaching in the dark ages.) Our copier works maybe 1/4 of the time. We are being physically abused daily by students and our students are experiencing daily trauma by the out of control behaviors. And don't even get me started on the parents.
Not sure what I am supposed to do. I physically and emotionally cannot do this much longer.
I have said this before, but underfunding our schools is being done on purpose so we fail and they can further privatize education.
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Post by Embri on Nov 19, 2022 3:24:35 GMT
The solution is dead simple, and always has been. Pay teachers a high end salary/benefits/class budget, put curriculum/testing back in their hands, and cut class sizes to something like 1:12. Most of the problems would go away overnight.
But it's not going to happen because no government is going to throw that kind of money at education. Not when an easily manipulated, naive and ignorant voter base is more easily exploited by them and the corporations that bribe/lobby for how the laws should be.
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Post by stargazer on Nov 19, 2022 11:15:07 GMT
It’s not any better in the UK 😞 Our government have just thrown some more money at education which may take funding per student back to a level it was at 12 years ago but with energy costs and everything else going on schools are down to cutting staff as the only way to try and stay afloat.
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Post by mollycoddle on Nov 19, 2022 12:49:14 GMT
As a retired speech pathologist who went back, I see a lot of teachers struggling. I work in a low income urban district and I see a lot of kids struggling. My district has programs to help, but some of these kids just have issues that are too big. It is heartbreaking. The teachers I work with are very good,and they work hard. But they are tired. Endless paperwork, discipline problems, etc.
There are teacher shortages too. We cannot find preschool teachers or Sped teachers. It’s concerning.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 19, 2022 13:31:03 GMT
It’s not just politicians who don’t care.
I worked in a very high net worth income district. Residents wanted their tax rates low and weren’t interested in paying teachers a fair wage, so we had one of the lowest pay scales in my state. Parents and principals expected the children to have high test scores, no homework (they needed time for extracurriculars, after all!) and straight As. The principal would imply - without stating - that we should do anything necessary to get a kid to score well on a test. Interpret that as you will, but we had teachers pre teaching answers once they saw the standardized test, walking around the classroom during exams and pointing to incorrect answers so students would rework the problem or question. The stress on teachers was palpable.
We received $50 each September and were expected to buy copy paper and other supplies from that amount. I regularly spent many thousands of dollars out of pocket on supplies and teaching materials.
After 8 years in that district, I left and began tutoring independently and eventually started my own business. The only good thing about teaching in my state is if you can hold on long enough to retire, the state pension is good: 5,000/month. Much as I loved teaching I wouldn’t recommend it to any young person today.
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Post by elaine on Nov 19, 2022 13:32:52 GMT
I am teaching in a school that was lucky to be fully staffed at the beginning of the year. The district started out down at least 200 teachers.
There are 2 of us who are new teaching 3rd grade (out of 6 classrooms of 3rd grade). The other teacher is all of 24 y.o. and just out of college. The behavior issues are so bad this year (all the 10+ year teachers at our school are saying it), and she is unable to control her class. She has 3 severe behavior kids who make it literally impossible to teach. Sometimes, I have to go to her room and deal with one boy in particular because there is a shift in how you talk with kids once you have been a parent and are older. I simply won’t tolerate his behavior and he listens to me. Admin, rather than stepping in and actually doing something, just keeps sending people in to observe her and then give her a long list of things that she should try. She is overwhelmed and has said that she dreads getting out of bed in the morning. I’m willing to bet that as soon as she gets engaged/married, that she will stop teaching.
I have my own behavior kids in addition to having the ESOL kids and very little support (15-30 minute pull out 3 days per week). I have some kids who will probably go into the honors track next year, and some that literally cannot read English beyond a kindergarten/PreK level. Trying to develop lessons that work for all my students is exhausting. I get to school at 7:45, kids arrive at 9 and leave at 4:15, and I don't leave until 5:30. And I’m still struggling to keep up. Just communicating with the parents of my behavior kids takes 30 minutes per day. I literally have only 1 hour 3 times per week during school for lesson planning and the rest of it is all outside of school hours when I supposedly am off the clock. I literally am working 65-70 hours per week to stay on top of teaching a brand-new-to-me grade.
The students are struggling - 2 years of distance learning where they determined their schedules, for the most part, and ran their households has lead to students unable to listen and follow directions. I have students say - out loud - “well, I’m not interested in learning geography. I want to draw. Why can’t I just draw?”, etc. Their expectations are so out-of-whack that it is really challenging to teach them because if there is something they’d prefer to do - drawing, talking, reading - they expect that they should be allowed to do that, rather than learn. I spend so. much. time. redirecting off-task behavior and talking about classroom expectations. We are 3 full months into the school year and this is a daily battle.
I am exhausted.
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Post by purplebee on Nov 19, 2022 14:27:33 GMT
I am a lunch lady in a semi-rural District, this is my 23rd year. I work at Primary School. I do the cashier job 3x a week. I cannot imagine how teachers do this all day long, day in, day out. I encounter children every day who have obviously never had any form of discipline at home. The level of entitlement in even the very youngest is mind-boggling. I am so thankful for the teachers who continue teaching in spite of the obstacles, especially now with the right wing agenda looming ahead.
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Post by worrywart on Nov 19, 2022 14:35:03 GMT
It's bad. I've noticed since Covid, students are much more likely to talk to adults as if they were on their level. Many of them are not afraid to confront an adult when asked to do something. "Move to the seat up front" "Why? I wasn't even doing anything, I will just stay here or just downright arguing and talking back.
It is really not fair for the students who actually worked when they were 'at home' a couple years ago. They are sitting in classes with students who spent at least a year doing nothing.
I hate that these issues take time away from the amazing students who come to school every day and try to do their best.
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Post by luckyjune on Nov 19, 2022 15:50:03 GMT
I know the stress. I know the problems. I’ve been that teacher crying after school. I know amazing educators who give everything for their classes. I did that too. And I burnt out. But I know the joy too. I left teaching five years ago because I needed balance in my life. I gave everything I had to teaching—and I loved it. But it wasn’t healthy or sustainable. I’ve been tutoring reading online since 2020 and I LOVE it! I’m in charge of my hours, students, curriculum, and pay. I never thought I’d be doing this (and loving it), but I am! I also started creating teaching resources to sell on Teachers Pay Teachers. And I love it for the creative outlet it provides. But I do feel some guilt for being one who left. This is real.
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Post by Merge on Nov 19, 2022 15:59:05 GMT
The students are struggling - 2 years of distance learning where they determined their schedules, for the most part, and ran their households has lead to students unable to listen and follow directions. I have students say - out loud - “well, I’m not interested in learning geography. I want to draw. Why can’t I just draw?”, etc. Their expectations are so out-of-whack that it is really challenging to teach them because if there is something they’d prefer to do - drawing, talking, reading - they expect that they should be allowed to do that, rather than learn. I spend so. much. time. redirecting off-task behavior and talking about classroom expectations. We are 3 full months into the school year and this is a daily battle. I am exhausted. So funny story - I've recently had two groups of 4th graders who have become sullen and apathetic in class. I generally get along very well with that age group and we've been doing guitar, which is high-interest for them, so I was perplexed. It came out that they were "missing recess" to attend music and they believed that I had scheduled their music class during recess and just didn't care that they were missing it. Well, turns out what actually happened is that the 4th grade teachers had been giving their kids extra/extended recess, and when we had to make a change to the music schedule, it coincided with the extra recess the kids felt was theirs. In talking privately with one of the teachers, she mentioned that they were trying to give the kids more outside time on the down-low because they are so out of control this year, and it helps make their afternoons more productive. (Oh and 4th grade classes are enormous this year because we lost a teacher, so there are 29-30 kids in each class.) Recess times and amounts are strictly controlled in these times of extreme accountability, so of course they hadn't told anyone or added it to the master schedule, and thus music got scheduled over the top of their extra time. So then of course I felt like I had thrown these teachers - who are simply trying to get through their day the best they can - under the bus. Terrible feeling! And they realized the outcome of the extra recess was to sabotage my teaching because two classes felt like they were missing their legitimate recess for music. Many explanations had to be made. Such nonsense all the way around. But the way it came out was that a nine year old child announced out loud in class, "We didn't want to come to music today. Why do we have to do music?" and some of his classmates grumbled in agreement. I've never heard that kind of blatant disrespect voiced so openly as if it was the kid's right to confront the teacher. I mean, I've heard all kinds of disrespect from kids who are angry and have dealt with serious behavior issues and all that, but to have a kid just calmly indicate that I was infringing on his time like it was no big deal to say that to a teacher? That was a new one.
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Post by luckyjune on Nov 19, 2022 16:30:08 GMT
The students are struggling - 2 years of distance learning where they determined their schedules, for the most part, and ran their households has lead to students unable to listen and follow directions. I have students say - out loud - “well, I’m not interested in learning geography. I want to draw. Why can’t I just draw?”, etc. Their expectations are so out-of-whack that it is really challenging to teach them because if there is something they’d prefer to do - drawing, talking, reading - they expect that they should be allowed to do that, rather than learn. I spend so. much. time. redirecting off-task behavior and talking about classroom expectations. We are 3 full months into the school year and this is a daily battle. I am exhausted. So funny story - I've recently had two groups of 4th graders who have become sullen and apathetic in class. I generally get along very well with that age group and we've been doing guitar, which is high-interest for them, so I was perplexed. It came out that they were "missing recess" to attend music and they believed that I had scheduled their music class during recess and just didn't care that they were missing it. Well, turns out what actually happened is that the 4th grade teachers had been giving their kids extra/extended recess, and when we had to make a change to the music schedule, it coincided with the extra recess the kids felt was theirs. In talking privately with one of the teachers, she mentioned that they were trying to give the kids more outside time on the down-low because they are so out of control this year, and it helps make their afternoons more productive. (Oh and 4th grade classes are enormous this year because we lost a teacher, so there are 29-30 kids in each class.) Recess times and amounts are strictly controlled in these times of extreme accountability, so of course they hadn't told anyone or added it to the master schedule, and thus music got scheduled over the top of their extra time. So then of course I felt like I had thrown these teachers - who are simply trying to get through their day the best they can - under the bus. Terrible feeling! And they realized the outcome of the extra recess was to sabotage my teaching because two classes felt like they were missing their legitimate recess for music. Many explanations had to be made. Such nonsense all the way around. But the way it came out was that a nine year old child announced out loud in class, "We didn't want to come to music today. Why do we have to do music?" and some of his classmates grumbled in agreement. I've never heard that kind of blatant disrespect voiced so openly as if it was the kid's right to confront the teacher. I mean, I've heard all kinds of disrespect from kids who are angry and have dealt with serious behavior issues and all that, but to have a kid just calmly indicate that I was infringing on his time like it was no big deal to say that to a teacher? That was a new one. And none of this would have been an issue if teachers were allowed the professional leeway to make decisions that best benefit their students. Who cares if a group of 4th graders needs an extra 15 minutes of recess? Mercy me, we've arrived in a barren place.
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Post by elaine on Nov 19, 2022 18:27:57 GMT
The students are struggling - 2 years of distance learning where they determined their schedules, for the most part, and ran their households has lead to students unable to listen and follow directions. I have students say - out loud - “well, I’m not interested in learning geography. I want to draw. Why can’t I just draw?”, etc. Their expectations are so out-of-whack that it is really challenging to teach them because if there is something they’d prefer to do - drawing, talking, reading - they expect that they should be allowed to do that, rather than learn. I spend so. much. time. redirecting off-task behavior and talking about classroom expectations. We are 3 full months into the school year and this is a daily battle. I am exhausted. So funny story - I've recently had two groups of 4th graders who have become sullen and apathetic in class. I generally get along very well with that age group and we've been doing guitar, which is high-interest for them, so I was perplexed. It came out that they were "missing recess" to attend music and they believed that I had scheduled their music class during recess and just didn't care that they were missing it. Well, turns out what actually happened is that the 4th grade teachers had been giving their kids extra/extended recess, and when we had to make a change to the music schedule, it coincided with the extra recess the kids felt was theirs. In talking privately with one of the teachers, she mentioned that they were trying to give the kids more outside time on the down-low because they are so out of control this year, and it helps make their afternoons more productive. (Oh and 4th grade classes are enormous this year because we lost a teacher, so there are 29-30 kids in each class.) Recess times and amounts are strictly controlled in these times of extreme accountability, so of course they hadn't told anyone or added it to the master schedule, and thus music got scheduled over the top of their extra time. So then of course I felt like I had thrown these teachers - who are simply trying to get through their day the best they can - under the bus. Terrible feeling! And they realized the outcome of the extra recess was to sabotage my teaching because two classes felt like they were missing their legitimate recess for music. Many explanations had to be made. Such nonsense all the way around. But the way it came out was that a nine year old child announced out loud in class, "We didn't want to come to music today. Why do we have to do music?" and some of his classmates grumbled in agreement. I've never heard that kind of blatant disrespect voiced so openly as if it was the kid's right to confront the teacher. I mean, I've heard all kinds of disrespect from kids who are angry and have dealt with serious behavior issues and all that, but to have a kid just calmly indicate that I was infringing on his time like it was no big deal to say that to a teacher? That was a new one. We ALL at my school have talked about this very thing. The levels of disrespect are jaw-dropping. I sincerely think that they ran their houses for 2 years - and their parents were just trying to get through and did their best to minimize conflict at home- and now they have absolutely no qualms about thinking they should be able to dictate what they do at school and expressing those thoughts out loud to teachers and staff. Unless things drastically change, this generation is going to have severe challenges in succeeding in the world of work. “I am not interested in doing X, Y, or Z” isn’t going to fly with their supervisors/bosses. And it won’t necessarily be because bosses have unrealistic expectations or have placed unrealistic demands on them.
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Post by Embri on Nov 19, 2022 19:47:02 GMT
"We didn't want to come to music today. Why do we have to do music?" and some of his classmates grumbled in agreement. So I'm going to be the voice of dissension here, but this doesn't sound like disrespect to me. It sounds a lot like an inexperienced human being expressing their needs poorly, and asking for an explanation. And I realize that isn't always something that can be offered to children, but it's been my experience as a child that I was happier when I knew the reasons for why something had to change. The better question here is why are teachers not being allowed to give their students exercise / free time as needed to improve their overall outcomes.
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Post by Merge on Nov 19, 2022 19:55:38 GMT
"We didn't want to come to music today. Why do we have to do music?" and some of his classmates grumbled in agreement. So I'm going to be the voice of dissension here, but this doesn't sound like disrespect to me. It sounds a lot like an inexperienced human being expressing their needs poorly, and asking for an explanation. And I realize that isn't always something that can be offered to children, but it's been my experience as a child that I was happier when I knew the reasons for why something had to change. The better question here is why are teachers not being allowed to give their students exercise / free time as needed to improve their overall outcomes. Yeah, sorry, blurting that out unprovoked and unasked as I'm trying to start class is most definitely disrespectful. Really, anything he'd said to disrupt the start of class at that time would have been disrespectful. He's not a kindergartener, nor does he have developmental concerns.
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Post by Merge on Nov 19, 2022 19:59:51 GMT
So funny story - I've recently had two groups of 4th graders who have become sullen and apathetic in class. I generally get along very well with that age group and we've been doing guitar, which is high-interest for them, so I was perplexed. It came out that they were "missing recess" to attend music and they believed that I had scheduled their music class during recess and just didn't care that they were missing it. Well, turns out what actually happened is that the 4th grade teachers had been giving their kids extra/extended recess, and when we had to make a change to the music schedule, it coincided with the extra recess the kids felt was theirs. In talking privately with one of the teachers, she mentioned that they were trying to give the kids more outside time on the down-low because they are so out of control this year, and it helps make their afternoons more productive. (Oh and 4th grade classes are enormous this year because we lost a teacher, so there are 29-30 kids in each class.) Recess times and amounts are strictly controlled in these times of extreme accountability, so of course they hadn't told anyone or added it to the master schedule, and thus music got scheduled over the top of their extra time. So then of course I felt like I had thrown these teachers - who are simply trying to get through their day the best they can - under the bus. Terrible feeling! And they realized the outcome of the extra recess was to sabotage my teaching because two classes felt like they were missing their legitimate recess for music. Many explanations had to be made. Such nonsense all the way around. But the way it came out was that a nine year old child announced out loud in class, "We didn't want to come to music today. Why do we have to do music?" and some of his classmates grumbled in agreement. I've never heard that kind of blatant disrespect voiced so openly as if it was the kid's right to confront the teacher. I mean, I've heard all kinds of disrespect from kids who are angry and have dealt with serious behavior issues and all that, but to have a kid just calmly indicate that I was infringing on his time like it was no big deal to say that to a teacher? That was a new one. We ALL at my school have talked about this very thing. The levels of disrespect are jaw-dropping. I sincerely think that they ran their houses for 2 years - and their parents were just trying to get through and did their best to minimize conflict at home- and now they have absolutely no qualms about thinking they should be able to dictate what they do at school and expressing those thoughts out loud to teachers and staff. Unless things drastically change, this generation is going to have severe challenges in succeeding in the world of work. “I am not interested in doing X, Y, or Z” isn’t going to fly with their supervisors/bosses. And it won’t necessarily be because bosses have unrealistic expectations or have placed unrealistic demands on them. Just to be clear - most of our kids, including this one, were out of school for only half of March, April, and May 2020, and then August and September of the same year. We went back in person October 9, 2020 and taught both in person and online for the rest of the year. There is no one in my district who was out for two years. But we have the same behavior issues as the rest of the country, and the same "learning loss." It's a head-scratcher for sure.
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Post by Embri on Nov 19, 2022 20:05:12 GMT
Yeah, sorry, blurting that out unprovoked and unasked as I'm trying to start class is most definitely disrespectful. Really, anything he'd said to disrupt the start of class at that time would have been disrespectful. He's not a kindergartener, nor does he have developmental concerns. Fair enough, I did say it was expressed poorly. When/how would you have preferred this student raise their concerns?
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Post by elaine on Nov 19, 2022 20:11:33 GMT
We ALL at my school have talked about this very thing. The levels of disrespect are jaw-dropping. I sincerely think that they ran their houses for 2 years - and their parents were just trying to get through and did their best to minimize conflict at home- and now they have absolutely no qualms about thinking they should be able to dictate what they do at school and expressing those thoughts out loud to teachers and staff. Unless things drastically change, this generation is going to have severe challenges in succeeding in the world of work. “I am not interested in doing X, Y, or Z” isn’t going to fly with their supervisors/bosses. And it won’t necessarily be because bosses have unrealistic expectations or have placed unrealistic demands on them. Just to be clear - most of our kids, including this one, were out of school for only half of March, April, and May 2020, and then August and September of the same year. We went back in person October 9, 2020 and taught both in person and online for the rest of the year. There is no one in my district who was out for two years. But we have the same behavior issues as the rest of the country, and the same "learning loss." It's a head-scratcher for sure. I sometimes forget that Texas went back so soon. Our kids were out almost 2 years. I have nothing for why then. I was being generous to parents struggling with unplanned at-home time. I also agree that is was disrespectful and 4th graders are old enough to know when it is okay to ask questions - WITH THEIR HANDS RAISED. Blurting out, when the teacher is talking and trying to start class: not okay/disrespectful.
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